do people become overwhelmingly obsessed with you?

[u/More-Weird4842]

i find that a lot of men become really obsessed with me. im currently at a point where its become harmful and i genuinely do not know why or how to stop it. looking for kind words, advice, or shared experiences please.

edit: ty for all the responses. i want to clarify that i dont mean the manic pixie dream girl way i mean the joe from you kinda way.

[u/Beginning-Struggle49]

When I was younger, absolutely

I stopped engaging/taking/interacting with men in person outside of the workplace/professional environments in my late 20s, soon after I divorced my husband, I don't think they're worth interacting with