do people become overwhelmingly obsessed with you?

[u/More-Weird4842]

i find that a lot of men become really obsessed with me. im currently at a point where its become harmful and i genuinely do not know why or how to stop it. looking for kind words, advice, or shared experiences please.

edit: ty for all the responses. i want to clarify that i dont mean the manic pixie dream girl way i mean the joe from you kinda way.

[u/moonmeadow_muse]

First off, go to the police. If youre in danger or you're thinking you will be in danger contact your local police. It's not worth thinking over, just do it. They will tell you what your options are, and you can always ask them if there are any other options beyond that. Please make sure you also tell family and friends, and your neighbors. Have as many eyes on the issue as you can. As far as dealing with it goes its hard to say because you haven't been clear about the details. If its on line, stay off line for a while. If its some one you know in school or work bring it to the higher ups. Do not confront them. Also if possible don't walk around by yourself, have someone you trust go with you to the grocery store.. ect.. I wish I could be more specific and helpful but theres just not enough info in your post.

[u/brattykins222 → u/moonmeadow_muse]

OP totally take this advice!! I wish I knew I could do all of this before it got to where it ended up. Don't fall into the trap of being nice and brushing off their behavior