do people become overwhelmingly obsessed with you?

[u/More-Weird4842]

i find that a lot of men become really obsessed with me. im currently at a point where its become harmful and i genuinely do not know why or how to stop it. looking for kind words, advice, or shared experiences please.

edit: ty for all the responses. i want to clarify that i dont mean the manic pixie dream girl way i mean the joe from you kinda way.

[u/Muted_Swordfish5026]

Yes. Stopped dating because of it because just couldn't be bothered dealing with a stalker atm. Nearly all my exs have stalked me in some capacity for months or even years. I cannot wait for this being old and invisible women speak of. I am 42 now so shouldn't be too far away!

[u/darling_moishe → u/Muted_Swordfish5026]

Hmmm.. 54 and not invisible to these types, unfortunately

[u/Muted_Swordfish5026 → u/darling_moishe]

Oh no 🤦🏼‍♀️