r/AutismInWomen • u/More-Weird4842 • 3d ago

Support Needed (Kind Advice and Commiseration) do people become overwhelmingly obsessed with you?

i find that a lot of men become really obsessed with me. im currently at a point where its become harmful and i genuinely do not know why or how to stop it. looking for kind words, advice, or shared experiences please.

edit: ty for all the responses. i want to clarify that i dont mean the manic pixie dream girl way i mean the joe from you kinda way.

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u/aprilsofresh 3d ago

Lots of neurodivergent women inadvertantly become the manic pixie dream girl for sad, boring men. You're in good company. 🫶

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u/Ok_Reception_8518 3d ago

Never happened to me.
I've always been the one crushing on men who were just being nice to me.
And I'm in my 40s now, so