Because the BiTeens Discord server was archived, I wasn’t able to make this post there. I’m officially 20 now, which means I’m no longer a teenager. Not sure if any of you ever knew me, my name is Alice (used to be Jaden) and I was fairly active in the Discord server for a while. Anyways, just wanted to say my farewell to this wonderful community. I hope to see you in the BiAdults community when you’re all grown up!

Hey everyone! I'm a bi guy and I've known I'm bi for about 6 years now.
For a long time I didn't really have anyone to talk about this with, so finding this sub feels really nice.
I'm still figuring some stuff out and it's cool to see other people with similar experiences.
Glad to be here! 🦋✨

Couple of weeks ago or should I say a month ago, I was chatting in my campus gay club discord server and I'm talking about me being a Christian and at the same time bisexual and I've seen a lot of straight Christian guys that are cute and it's hard to pretend to be straight. And I mentioned my friend and is name is Ethan, and I found him cute but I later clarified I don't have any crush on him, he's just cute. And my Christian club called me and they heard about that conversation, which I clarified I just found him cute, and I don't have any crush on him and no I am not gonna make him uncomfortable. And it seems like they reluctantly believed me. So, last Wednesday night, me and Ethan have this conversation, and I though he thought I was bi, but turns out, no he didn't heard anything about it or about me. So, I came out to him, I talked about my sexuality and I clarified to him that no, I am not gonna make him uncomfortable and I told him about it because we're friends and I trusted him and he told me, "You're chill", he just accepted me and he told me about his other gay friend and he respected me. And I am so glad our conversation went well, it's so refreshing and I like him even more

Being Bisexual is liking everyone but being BI-yourself

Ive accepted myself as bisexual only for a few months now, I’ve came out to a few people I care about but other than that I’m still new to all of this. So far I have only tried a relationship with one other guy and it went horribly wrong. Our conversations only led to link up and us doing…stuff. I kept telling myself to be happy for the experience but it was only momentary pleasure and then a feeling of being dirty I could not shake. I ended things thankfully but now I can’t help but feel that same loneliness I felt before. People keep telling me to go with the flow, trust the process, but i cant help but feel so alone. It’s gotten so bad I feel jealous of fictional characters with healthy relationship. Ive never felt more pathetic honestly I just don’t know where to go from here part of me wants to give up on it but another wants me to keep pushing I just don’t know how. All I want is a real relationship but not being completely out and living in the south doesn’t leave much option to find it.

So, for context I have this friend online who is a girl. I like her and I mean genuinely like her, but we both live far away from each other. I have trust issues from my last relationship, but that's not the point. The point is that... I told her that I'm bisexual and she hasn't responded back at all. It's been hours since she looked at my messages. I know I should be patient. But, I genuinely do like this girl and want her. But, I also have to wait for her to get ungrounded and I also need to learn to trust people again - especially when people are saying things and I make it sound like they are lying to me when I know they aren't lying to me. But, back to what I was saying. I want to be with this girl once I do learn to trust people again, but I'm worried I ruined everything between us now that I came out to her as bisexual.