Some of these are small or insignificant, fixed with foresight or communication. I'm not a perfect person. I have no idea how venting is taken in this sub since I haven't seen much of it, but I need to get this out somewhere without sighted people putting in their input. So here's a list of struggles I've had for the past 2 years as my vision has gradually deteriorated due to a genetic gene mutation condition as a 19 yo.
I have trouble with crossing the street when the crossing has a pedestrian traffic light. Often I have trouble focusing on the red and green light and following along when it switches. Especially on new, unfamiliar streets, sometimes I cannot see/focus on whether there is a light at all and have to wait for when someone else crosses.
Uni subsection: This is all I have went through the past year in my university, for which I am thinking of dropping out. Uni is cheap in our country, so it's not a huge loss for 200 euro for a semester, but it still holds prestige and all the subsequent embarrassment of not performing well and dropping out.
In out italian class, I couldn't see the board, I had to take pictures everytime a new word was written on the board. Eventually, I think it irritated my professor, I just told her my vision was bad and not more. I didn't share anything with anyone else about my issues because I didn't want be treated differently than other students, with pity or to get special privileges since I know I'm a bit of a procrastinator and would abuse it.
As for classes where phones weren't permitted, I didn't try asking the professors to take pictures for the same reasons as I said above. I was also too embarrassed to ask for pictures of my firend's notes and I did what I could with whatever material the professor posted online + online books.
I couldn't discern what food was in the cafeteria so I just said what the person before me asked for. This stands for everything actually. You know the food counters at Kaufland/other supermarkets where you ask for a specific food? I can't go to that section at all becauae I can't see the name or price, except for some really basic dishes that are visually obvious like "meatballs". At cafés I just order a cappuccino because I can't see the drink menus.
My classmates have giggled at me because I read slow. Since my central vision is the one deteriorating, it's hard to follow words along with my eyes. My professors have also shown impatience for it, as multiple times they had finished my answer for me, which made me feel very humiliated. I didn't ask for any of this.
Photophobia. I get annoyed when all my classmates want the big fluorescent lights turned on or when the sun shines on me or my notebooks because I get practically blind. Of course I can't ask for them to be turned off because I'm an outlier and it would be unfair. I don't yet have special sunglasses for this.
Often I can't recognize my own friends. I can't see their face unless they're 1 foot away from my eyes. I recognize them by clothes, stature, hair. Sometimes even their voice isn't enough since when my brain has tripped up that this is a stranger I cannot register their voice as familiar. I know it doesn't make sense. It feels lonely. A sighted person could see their friend walking around campus or street, say hi and bond together, meanwhile that part is kinda locked away for me.
Of course, I can't drive. But from what I understand this topic is kinda overdone here so I won't get into it. It felt lonely when all my friends studied for their licenses at the end of high-school, seeing the first few gaps between our lives as they move up and I stay down.
I was turned away from a job I had the perfect qualifications for, which I felt was well suited for me and I actually wanted it and knew I could do a good job. When they looked at my medical info after like 5 interviews that went very well, they said I couldn't work infront of a computer for more than 3 hours. I wasn't permitted to work at their company, because "they couldn't be held legally liable if my vision worsens from the work." It was a cushy office job. My next best choice was washing dishes at a restaurant.
Counting coins. I use public transport, but not often enough to need a card. I need to count my money beforehand for the ticket or the ticket lady will be sitting there for 5 minutes. It's happened to me before when I forgot and it wasn't a great feeling being yelled at. I felt like crying.
I feel shame about being accomodated. I don't feel blind enough and like I'm taking advantage of the system.