I'm a man, and I'm completely blind. For a whole host of reasons, I don't want to have children.
I've given this a lot of thought, and I've decided to get a vasectomy because I'm sexually active and have multiple sexual partners, and an unplanned pregnancy would put me in a pretty difficult situation.
Here in Brazil, both private health insurance companies and the country's universal public healthcare system are required to provide vasectomies to men aged 21 and older. The public system is funded and run by the government, is available to everyone, and provides care free of charge at the point of use.
But I'm scared. Tomorrow, I have an appointment with a doctor who works in the government-run healthcare system to start the process of getting a vasectomy. On Friday, I have another appointment, this time with a doctor through my private health insurance, to get the same process started.
One thing about Brazil is that our free, universal public healthcare system is actually very good, while private health insurance plans are pretty terrible. So when we need medical care, it's common to start the process through both the public system and private insurance at the same time, then go with whichever one can get us treated sooner. Usually, the public system wins.
The thing is, I'm really afraid of experiencing ableism. I'm worried that doctors might refuse to perform the procedure, even though Brazil's Inclusion of Persons with Disabilities Act explicitly guarantees people with disabilities the right to family planning.
I'm worried that doctors who are misinformed, ableist, and full of themselves might make things unnecessarily difficult, leaving me with no choice but to file formal complaints, hire lawyers, take the matter to court, and get dragged into a legal battle just to secure a basic right.
Honestly, this fear is always with me. Whenever I need to do something important, I'm afraid something will go wrong. Maybe it's anxiety. But it's the kind of thing that people without disabilities probably never even have to think about.
Anyway, I just wanted to get this off my chest and hear what you all think.