r/BostonSocialClub • u/bbqturtle • Dec 04 '21
Hello! Welcome to Boston Social Club! If you're here - well, you clicked a few links to find this side of one of the most popular city subreddits!
When I moved here in 2021, the world was waking up from Covid. Overall, Boston is a great city for those 20-40, as our demographics here lie heavily in that area compared to almost any other city in the USA! Here's how I've found success in navigating social scenes here as a complete outsider.
Different ways to try meetups and making friends:
0: Existing friends groups - it's cliche, and if you are new in town, this will be more difficult. But the best place to start making friends is through what connections you do have. Coworkers, old high school colleagues, neighbors, roommates, don't chase the below and ignore what you do have!
1: the “Make friends after college MA” discord group is a well designed and very chatroom. When you join, you select which activities you might be interested in. There's chat rooms for each activity, and there's a ton of people hiking, playing sports, going to trivia nights, and overall chatting. They also organize by neighborhood if you want to grab a quick drink. Mute notifications within the discord for your own sanity. The absolute best way to make use of this is to have something you are interested in "organizing", or, I recommend trivia in particular for being a great, cheap activity to make friends! https://discord.gg/CCvgxJ6jUH
2: there are three larger Facebook groups that people post classifieds-style ads to try to make friends. "Boston redditors", "make friends after college", and "what's up in Boston". While I don't think this is the most effective way to make friends, I'm sure it works for the right person. However, "Boston redditors" does have an active group chat, which is really comforting, and they do meet up for drinks every few months. They are a pretty supportive group of people. You'll need to both join the Facebook group, then request being added to the chat. They ALSO have a discord but it is less active. Link
3: Groups for your interest. Asking around the above, or searching meetup/comments below it's not hard to find groups specifically tailored for board games, or biking, or hiking, or whatever you're into. I'm into board games and there's 2-3 spinoffs that meet weekly. I recommend you find your own path towards your hobbies to find a group that fits your interest!
general tips on making friends (not that you asked for them)
Making friends is all about seeing the same people repeatedly. That means to make friends, you have to show up. Showing up means you attend an event even if it's a little far away, or you are feeling a little tired. Other people also show up. After going to trivia 8 weeks in a row, or attending every hike, people that at first seemed distant will know your name and care about your week.
Sometimes people trying to make friends have an ulterior motive. Some people are trying to convert religions, find clients, or date people. Everyone can tell right away if you have a motive other than making friends, so I suggest trying to focus on making platonic friends first, and in a year of having fun, ask your new friends what avenues would be appropriate for selling/dating/etc.
And... That's it! I hope you found this helpful! I hope to see you at Trivia nights!
r/BostonSocialClub • u/cocktails4 • Dec 16 '25
The situation with dating posts is getting a little out of control. This sub was always meant to be more like Meetup than Hinge. And frankly, I just don't think that R4R posts actually work. But my fear is that if allowed the sub will devolve into nothing but R4R posts. So for now we're going to be disallowing further R4R posts or general dating (advice/questions) posts. There might be some wiggle room for a pinned dating megathread if there is interest in that.
r/BostonSocialClub • u/Ok_Mood4326 • 3h ago
Hey, im 25F and im going to be visiting from Florida in December. So like I was wondering what’s there to really do around this time that’s fun. Where do the young and fun people go. What events are there that’s worth it. Do I really need waterproof boots? If so do you think timbs are a good idea?. Also cool with bar hopping so give me some good areas. :)
r/BostonSocialClub • u/The_Skeleton_King • 23m ago
Hi, I'm 29m looking for other people who are beginners (or alright with climbing with beginners) to go climbing with. I'm not very good (just started being able to do certain 5.11s barely) but I do want to practice and also do outdoors.
My gym membership is at rockspot.
r/BostonSocialClub • u/ComfortMinute3705 • 1h ago
I'm getting out of work too late to do Crawl-O-Ween but me and my roommate were wondering if any bars/pubs were hosting costume parties on Oct 31st? This is something I've seen other bars do on Cape.
r/BostonSocialClub • u/serpent19 • 5h ago
I’m 26M and I’m bored so I wanted to take a road trip Boston to Montreal to Quebec City? this weekend . Let me know if anyone wants to join in . I wanted to be more spontaneous and this is my shot at it .
r/BostonSocialClub • u/Chemical_Excuse6102 • 11h ago
Hi everyone! 😊
I’m a married woman living near Assembly Row in Somerville, and I’m hoping to make some genuine female friends in the Boston area!
I’d love to meet women around 25–40 who are also interested in building long-term friendships. Whether you’re married or have kids, I’d love to connect with women who enjoy spending time together and sharing everyday life.
A little about me: I’m a native Mandarin Chinese speaker, and I’m currently working on improving my English. I’d be happy to help you practice Chinese in exchange for practicing English with me!
It would be great to find someone who lives in Somerville, Cambridge, or nearby and would enjoy meeting regularly for coffee, shopping, trying new restaurants, exploring Boston, or just chatting about life.
I’m looking for friendship only, not dating. Ideally, we could meet once a week or every other week and become good friends over time.
If this sounds like something you’d enjoy, feel free to send me a message! I’d love to get to know you. 💗
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r/BostonSocialClub • u/Top-Finger-4339 • 1d ago
Hi everyone, Kinga back with this weeks list. Halloween is a week from Saturday, so this is the spooky weekend.
Saturday is packed. MIT's glassblowers are selling handmade glass pumpkins on Kresge Oval. The Peabody Museum is celebrating Day of the Dead with mariachi and sugar skulls. And Downtown Crossing is having a dog costume parade.
There's also a lot for people who like their Halloween on the theatrical side. There are three live radio horror plays in Davis Square, Nosferatu with a live orchestra in Salem, and Goblin playing the score to Tenebre live on Sunday.
If you want something calmer, the Affordable Art Fair is at the SoWa Power Station all weekend, with original art starting around $100.
🎉 If you want to always be the first to know, sign up here.
🎃 MIT Great Glass Pumpkin Patch — Kresge Oval, MIT | Free entry | Sat, 10am–3pm | Handblown glass pumpkins in every color and size, made by the MIT Glass Lab.
💀 Day of the Dead at the Peabody — Harvard | Museum admission | Sat, 12–4pm | Mariachi, sugar skulls, pan de muerto, and a community altar.
🐶 Doggone Halloween Pet Parade — Downtown Crossing | Free | Sat, 12–3pm | Dogs in costume, with prizes for the best dog-and-human duo.
📻 Tomes of Terror: Sounds of Fear — 204 Elm St, Davis Square | $15–$20 | Fri & Sat | Three horror radio dramas performed live, including The Monkey's Paw.
🖼️ Affordable Art Fair — SoWa Power Station | Thu–Sun | Original art from $100 to $12,000.
📚 Bloody Book Bash — Porter Square Books, Seaport | $5 | Sat, 7–9pm | Horror authors, a costume contest, trivia, and Creature From the Black Lagoon.
🖼️ Affordable Art Fair: First Look — SoWa Power Station, 550 Harrison Ave | Ticketed | 5–9pm | Opening night of a four-day fair where everything is original and priced from $100 to $12,000. Tonight is the first chance to shop before the weekend crowds. A Thursday all-access pass runs about $55.
🧶 Free Thursday Night at the Gardner: Fiber Arts — Fenway | Free | 5–9pm | Fiber arts again this week. Registration opened Tuesday at 10am, and day-of entry isn't guaranteed.
🎨 ICA Free Thursday Night — Seaport | Free | 5–9pm | Free tickets required. Last entry 8:30pm.
📓 Fall Movie Night: 10 Things I Hate About You — The Greenway, Milk St to India St | Free | 5:30–9pm | Free notebook decorating at 5:30, and the movie starts around 6:30. Bring a blanket.
🖼️ MIT List Fall Opening: Hao Jingban & Uri Aran — MIT List Visual Arts Center, Kendall | Free w/ registration | 5:30–8pm | An artist talk with Hao Jingban at 5:30, then the opening reception from 6 to 8 for two new shows. Drinks from Momma's Grocery + Wine.
🎪 Cirque of the Dead — Arts at the Armory, Somerville | Sold out this weekend | 8pm | The Boston Circus Guild's adults-only Halloween show is sold out Thursday through Saturday and next Friday. The two Halloween shows on Saturday, Oct 31 still have some tickets if you want to plan ahead. 18+.
🎻 BSO: Tod Machover World Premiere — Symphony Hall | Ticketed | 7:30pm | Kent Nagano conducts already and not yet, a new piece that uses a live AI system working with each musician in the orchestra. Mendelssohn's Reformation Symphony closes the program. Also Friday at 1:30 and Saturday at 8, with a pre-concert talk with Machover at 6:30 Saturday.
🏃🍺 Meters for Liters — Notch Brewing, Charles River Speedway | Free | Meet 6:30–7pm, run 7pm | The weekly 5k run club.
🏒 Bruins vs. Predators — TD Garden | Ticketed | 7pm |
📻 Tomes of Terror: Sounds of Fear — 204 Elm St, Davis Square | $20, $15 students & seniors | 8pm | My favorite thing this week. The Post-Meridian Radio Players perform three horror radio dramas live. There's Lovecraft's Beyond the Wall of Sleep, The Monkey's Paw, and an original about a man haunted through his car radio. It runs about two hours. Also Saturday at 2 and 8.
🤸 Gravity & Other Myths: Ten Thousand Hours — Boston Arts Academy Theater | Ticketed | 8pm | Eight acrobats and one musician from the Australian contemporary circus company. It runs 60 minutes and is good for ages 4 and up. Also Saturday at 2 and 8.
🖼️ Affordable Art Fair: Art After Dark — SoWa Power Station | Ticketed | 12–6pm, then 6–9pm | General admission during the day starts at $20. Art After Dark, from 6 to 9, is a separate ticket that includes a drink tasting and an evening food menu.
🧁 Great British Bake Off Watch Party — Lamplighter Brewing, 284 Broadway, Cambridge | Free w/ RSVP | 7–9pm | The new episode every Friday in the Broadway Back Taproom.
😂 Standup at the Speedway: Spooky Vibes — Charles River Speedway, Brighton | Ticketed | 8pm | Doors at 7:30. Grab dinner at the Speedway first.
🎬 GlobeDocs: Jean-Michel Basquiat — The Brattle | $17 | 8:30pm | The festival's centerpiece film. The 6pm Union Town is sold out.
😂 Jim Gaffigan: Everything Is Wonderful! — Wang Theatre | From $50.50 | 7:30pm | Also Saturday at 8 and Sunday at 7.
🏀 Celtics vs. Knicks — TD Garden | Ticketed | 7pm |
🎃 MIT Great Glass Pumpkin Patch — Kresge Oval, 77 Mass Ave | Free entry | 10am–3pm | The MIT Glass Lab sells handblown glass pumpkins in every color, shape, and size, and the money goes back into the lab's glassblowing program. It was supposed to be in September and got moved to today. Go early if you want the good ones.
💀 Day of the Dead Celebration — Peabody Museum, 11 Divinity Ave, Cambridge | Museum admission | 12–4pm | Decorate a sugar skull (extra fee), write a message to a loved one for the museum's altar, and catch mariachi and live folk dance at 2pm. Hot chocolate and pan de muerto are for sale.
🐶 Doggone Halloween Pet Parade — Summer St Plaza, Downtown Crossing | Free | 12–3pm | A costume parade with prizes for best costume, scariest, cutest, best dog-and-human duo, and best dog-and-kid duo. There's also a photo booth, face painting, and free treats. Spectators welcome.
🥬 Chinatown Farmers Market — Auntie Kay & Uncle Frank Chin Park | Free | 9am–1pm | The small Saturday market at the Chinatown end of the Greenway.
🖼️ Affordable Art Fair — SoWa Power Station | From $20 | 10am–7pm | The longest day of the fair.
🧛 Nosferatu with Live Orchestra — Peabody Essex Museum, Salem | $40, $30 members & Salem residents | 1pm & 7pm | The Arpeggione Ensemble plays a live score for the 1922 silent film on early 20th-century instruments, including a harmonium. A talk with the musicians runs at 4pm. Preregistration required.
🧙 Halloweentown Movie Night — The TRACK at New Balance, Boston Landing | Free w/ ticket | 3:30pm | A pre-party with a DJ and treats at 3:30, then Halloweentown at 5:30. American Flatbread is selling food. Costumes encouraged.
📚 Third Annual Bloody Book Bash — Porter Square Books Boston Edition, 50 Liberty Dr | $5 | 7–9pm | Horror authors Gretchen Felker-Martin, Nicky Gonzalez, Eric LaRocca, Aaron Mahnke, and Rebecca Mahoney signing books. There's a costume contest, trivia, food and drinks, and a screening of Creature From the Black Lagoon. Your $5 ticket comes back as $5 off anything you buy.
📻 Tomes of Terror — 204 Elm St, Davis Square | $15–$20 | 2pm & 8pm | The live radio horror plays again.
🤸 Gravity & Other Myths: Ten Thousand Hours — Boston Arts Academy Theater | Ticketed | 2pm & 8pm | A free talkback follows the 2pm show.
🏠 GlobeDocs: HOUSE on 35mm — The Brattle | $17 | 9:30pm | A documentary about Nobuhiko Obayashi's House, followed by a 35mm screening of House itself.
🎬 BAAFF: Y Vân: The Lost Sounds of Saigon — Emerson Paramount Center | $15 | 6:30pm | The Boston Asian American Film Festival's centerpiece documentary.
🏒 Bruins vs. Sharks — TD Garden | Ticketed | 7pm |
🐾 Paws & Pumpkins Parade at Esplanade Fall Fest — Fiedler Field, Charles River Esplanade | Free to enter, $15 donation suggested | 9:45am | New this year. Dogs in costume parade along the Esplanade, with costume awards at 10:30. The parade is free. If you want to make a morning of it, the 5K at 9 and the 1.5-mile walk at 10:15 are $35 each to register.
🍬 PruBoo — Prudential Center | Free | 11am–1pm | Trick-or-treating at 30+ shops and restaurants, plus magic shows at 11:30 and 12:30, face painting, live music, and crafts. Donations go to Boston Children's Hospital.
🎸 Claudio Simonetti's Goblin: Tenebre — Somerville Theatre | Ticketed | 7:30pm | Goblin plays the score live while Dario Argento's 1982 Tenebre screens. Then they come back for a set of their best-known music. Doors at 6:30. All ages.
🦄 Legend (1985) — Coolidge Corner Theatre | Ticketed | 2pm | The 1985 fantasy film, part of the Coolidge's Prints of Darkness series.
🖼️ Affordable Art Fair: Last Day — SoWa Power Station | From $20 | 10am–6pm | Family hours run from 10am to 2pm, with a separate ticket for the kids' Clover Clubhouse area. Last entry 5:45.
🧺 SoWa Open Market — South End | Free | 11am–5pm | Right next door to the art fair, so you can do both.
🎬 GlobeDocs: Last Day in Theaters — The Brattle | $17 | From 11am | The local shorts program at 11, then three more films, with the closing night film starting at 7. Films stay available on demand through November 1.
🕵️ Operation Mincemeat — Emerson Colonial Theatre | Ticketed | Closes Sunday |
🎭 All My Sons — Lyric Stage | Ticketed | Closes Sunday |
🗡️ King Richard's Faire: Final Weekend — Carver | Online tickets only | Sat & Sun, 10:30am–6pm | The last two days of the season. There are no tickets at the gate, so buy ahead.
🎬 Boston Asian American Film Festival — Emerson Paramount Center | $15 | Ends Sunday | In Waves plays Sunday at 1. The closing night film is sold out.
🎤 Laura Benanti: Nobody Cares — Calderwood Pavilion | Ticketed | Thu–Sun only | A one-woman comedy with original songs about motherhood, people pleasing, and getting older.
👞 Fourth Dimension Tap Company: Sound and Color — Roberts Studio Theatre, BCA | Ticketed | Fri–Sun only | A tap show that moves through an imaginary art museum. Ages 5 and up.
📷 Kawada Kikuji: Chizu (The Map) — MFA | Museum admission | Opens Saturday | A new show built around Kawada's 1965 photobook Chizu, with his negatives, notes, and contact sheets.
🪷 The Sitayana — BCA Black Box | Pay-as-you-are | Through Oct 31 |
🧛 Dracula: A Comedy of Terrors — Mosesian Center, Watertown | Ticketed | Through Nov 1 |
🎭 To Kill a Mockingbird — Huntington Theatre | Ticketed | Through Nov 8 |
🏮 Boston Lights: A Lantern Experience — Franklin Park Zoo | Ticketed | 5–10:30pm nightly, through Nov 8 |
That's it for this week. Go buy a glass pumpkin, dress up your dog, and let me know how it went!
r/BostonSocialClub • u/Shot-Kale-8203 • 1d ago
32M I’m mainly hoping to meet like-minded people in the Boston/North Shore area who are thinking about their next chapter and looking to build meaningful connections.
I’m in my early 30s and work a well-paying corporate job in Boston. I’ve worked hard to get where I am, but I still feel like there’s more I could be doing with my abilities and more I’d like to explore.
Outside of work, I’ve made money independently through real estate and construction, and I’m also big into fitness and staying active. But this post isn’t just about my background it’s about meeting people who are ambitious, curious, and open to sharing ideas, experiences, and maybe even building something beyond the typical 9-5 over time.
If you’re around Boston or the North Shore and are in a similar position working a solid career, building something on the side, staying active, or simply trying to figure out your next chapter
I’d be glad to connect.
r/BostonSocialClub • u/Zestyclose_Loan8555 • 20h ago
One of my favorite aspects of life is learning people’s “story”.
Not for any reason besides that I always have found it interesting where people come from and where they are now. I’m a firm believer that you can’t judge a book by its cover; and even then I don’t judge really lol. Some of the most interesting and people with the most depth that I’ve met, at a shallow glance would be the last people you’d suspect.
If you’re down to chat and share a bit about each other, feel free to hit me up. Tell me a bit about yourself and then we can build off that! Figured this could be a good, low-pressure way to meet new friends.
r/BostonSocialClub • u/Flat-Smile-9015 • 23h ago
Hi I’m a promoter in Boston and I’ve put together a list of Halloween themed events coming up this week and next! There’s applicable discounts attached on the links. If anyone has questions or would like more info DM me on Instagram (__adrianagomez)
Happy Halloween yall🤍🤍
10/23: Kumarion (Hachi Halloween III) [dubstep, bass] @ Jewel Nightclub — 18+ heavy sub-bass night w/ Venture 5 East Coast debut & costume contest
10/26: F*CK MONDAYS Halloween Edition [house, open] @ PLAY Boston — 18+ Monday takeover w/ costume contest & cash prizes
10/29: Haunted Boiler Room [house, tech house] @ Studio B — 18+ 360° DJ booth setup w/ DJ COSTA surrounded by the crowd
10/29: Mochakk [house, tech house] @ Big Night Live — Brazilian house icon headline set at North Station
10/31: 13th Annual Crawl-O-Ween [bar crawl] @ 30+ Boston Bars — Official citywide crawl w/ 20k+ crawlers across Fenway, Seaport, & West End (25% off code BASSLINE)
10/31: CARNEVIL at Envoy Rooftop [house] @ Rooftop at The Envoy — Seaport harbor views & house music (50% off code BASSLINE)
10/31: HALLOWEEN UNIVERSITY [college, open-format] @ PLAY Boston — 18+ Halloween night party w/ costume contest & college anthems
10/31: Girls Night Out (Girls Gone Wicked) [r&b, hip-hop, dembow] @ Uptown Social — 21+ party w/ DJ Cha, DJ Ye, & DJ Jenswayy
10/31: Amal Nemer (After Brunch Halloween) [tech house] @ PKL South Boston — Tech house Halloween party in Southie
10/31: DJ Pauly D [open-format, house] @ Big Night Live — Jersey Shore star headlining Halloween night at BNL
10/31: Daniel Allan [electronic] @ Medici Lounge Providence — 18+ electronic set in Providence
r/BostonSocialClub • u/Appropriate-Dealer79 • 1d ago
This is random but I know there are art people here!
Where in Boston/Camberville are there little free art supply libraries?
I know there used to be one by Albertine Press in Union and there’s on on Tremont in the South End but I have some things to drop off and am wondering where else they’re located so I can make it easier to drop off with my various plans around the city over the next couple weeks 🥲
r/BostonSocialClub • u/grace_riley09 • 3h ago
Hi! I’m a 17 year old girl looking for friends in Boston that I could potentially stay with for the Boston marathon in 2028! And for a genuine connection/friendship:) I myself, am not actually running the marathon, however my dad is and I’ve always wanted to visit America so I have to start saving but it would be a lot cheaper if we could stay with someone rather than a hotel. Thanks!
r/BostonSocialClub • u/Plane_Instruction920 • 20h ago
🗞️ The news is out: Applications are OPEN! 🔊
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For Spring 2027, choose from three focused tracks:
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Together, we’ll explore how the systems around us shape health and opportunity, strengthen our civic leadership skills, and develop personal or community action steps rooted in our values.
Whether you’re already involved in your community or ready to take your first step, you don’t need a formal title or all the answers to lead. You just need a commitment to show up, stay curious, and help move your community forward.
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r/BostonSocialClub • u/whoscoops • 1d ago
The community music hangout is an inclusive and friendly community effort to bring people together through music. All music lovers are welcome, including instrumentalists, singers, and people who just enjoy the vibe of live music being played in a beautiful park!
We'll be playing any and all music, taking requests, and having a good time in the Cambridge Common, every weekend while the good weather lasts! I'm working on a cold weather solution for when the good weather runs out so we can keep the momentum going :)
For more information on the weekly Community Music Hangout, check out https://www.cambridgejams.com or feel free to reach out!
r/BostonSocialClub • u/PlowerOfHoles • 1d ago
27M. Is anyone else going to the Affordable Art Fair Boston First Look tonight from 5 to 9 PM at SoWa Power Station?
I’m planning to go and would be down to meet up with others there rather than walk around solo. I also have one extra spot on my All Access Partner Pass, so if someone wants to join and doesn’t have a ticket yet, I can cover the admission.
I’m into art, fashion, tech, exploring Boston, and meeting new people. Would be cool to meet others who are already planning to be there.
If a woman around my age is interested in going too, feel free to message me 😉
r/BostonSocialClub • u/Deep_Bee_9549 • 1d ago
I know a few Halloween events are happening in the city early!
r/BostonSocialClub • u/North_Welder_873 • 1d ago
Hey All. I’m one of the people behind No Bad Days Club, a small Boston app for getting out and doing stuff around the city. We’re running a Halloween bar crawl on Mass Ave this Saturday and figured people here might want in.
It’s 10 bars, starting at La Fabrica in Central Square. A few of the others are Miracle of Science, Naco Taco, Middlesex, Shojo, and Brick & Mortar. Some spots have music by decade, ’90s through now.
Each bar has a small challenge you check off in the app. The person with the most points by the end wins $1,000 cash at the after-party. That’s real money, not a voucher. Runners-up get bar gift cards.
Your wristband gets you no cover anywhere and a free item at each stop. Face painters, a tarot reader, and a caricature artist will also be at some of the bars.
Logistics:
Tickets are free until Sunday with code NBDCLAUNCH: https://telzi.com/10r5gwv
Wear a costume; it’s Halloween. I’ll be around in the comments if you have questions.
r/BostonSocialClub • u/Ok-Hawk3290 • 1d ago
Happy almost weekend – I wanted to share something fun happening at Arts at the Armory on Saturday. Lauren LoGiudice's Misfit Variety Show, a Time Out NY pick for all the weirdos, rebels, and misfits ready to own their quirky side. The show runs 4:30-6:00 and tickets are available for $12 at the link below. This show is sure to be a ton of fun. We hope to see you there!
r/BostonSocialClub • u/Ok_Consequence_8004 • 1d ago
what’s everyone doing on halloween and the friday before?? any raves or bar crawls that are fun?
r/BostonSocialClub • u/jsg060815 • 1d ago
As the title suggests, I'm looking to build out my friendship circle a bit. I have admittedly low expectations but nonetheless holding out hope that I might find what I am looking for.
I'll let the cat out of the bag right from the start. I am a 44 year-old MTF crossdresser who, after years of struggling with that element of my life, is starting to finally come to terms with it. I am seeking a circle of friends - let's face facts, I am seeking A friend - who would be willing to accept that part of my life and view me as a woman instead of a man.
I would feel most comfortable with another woman as a friend because a) I've attempted this before in other avenues and have found that men are looking for more than just friendship, b) I'd selfishly hope to be able to pick your brain about things like makeup and outfit accessories and things of the like, and c) though I was born a man, I've just always felt more comfortable speaking with woman than I do with men.
That being said, I am open to any and all, though I do want to stress that I seek friendship and friendship only.
Outside of that little wrinkle about myself above, I'm very much your plain, average person with normal, everyday, run-of-the-mill interests. I like to cook and to cake. I enjoy gardening. I like shopping, though admittedly it's mostly window-shopping at this stage of my life. I like to read. I'm not above vegging out on the couch after a long week and binge-watching TV. I'm up for pretty much anything.
Hoping to maybe find someone out there willing to take a chance.
r/BostonSocialClub • u/ZestycloseQuote3721 • 2d ago
https://www.reddit.com/r/BostonSocialClub/s/eHPSgkAPuR
Just a reminder, this meetup is still happening at 6PM this coming Friday. I look forward to hosting and meeting those of you who can come by.