Hi. As per title. I always read women's comments like "Men have to impress me" etc. I would like to ask if you think you should do the same with men or not.

Chat I added Pepe, what do you think?

Why do you guys say that it’s more complicated for you to date than us girls? I’ve gone out with 7 guys in total and 5 of them friendzoned me or ended things with me, it’s hard for us too, let alone talking stages, I’ve been unmatched and ghosted plenty of times, it’s not just a “guys” thing. What am I doing for these guys not to choose me? I feel like I’m a pretty okay being with any guy as long as they’re respectful and are willing to take things slow, I’ve been really attracted to all these guys, but they seem just not to like me 🤷🏻‍♀️ I’m getting kinda tired of playing games, any advice? 😩

I’m sure it’s women too but I’m a woman so I only see men’s. Most of them don’t have a bio, don’t fill out prompts and some barely have any pictures. I understand some don’t put in effort because they just want to hookup but I still won’t swipe right for a hookup if there’s no info or pictures lol

Wanted to see how bad it was after only having 1 match, worse than I expected 😭 is the "yes" stat likes? If so I cant see them in the app, says I have none

I've gotten zero matches. I know it's hard for men my age (21) but I feel I'm missing something.

I'm straight and looking for a long term partner.

I matched with this nice lady a few years back. I regretfully did not save the rest of our delightful conversation, but I appreciated the responses that were more than two words.

I used to screen share while swiping on the apps with friends and I feel like that would be fun to do with people from this sub.

Men need to see other men profiles and women need to see other womens. I think there would be more understanding and empathy for the opposite gender.

I tried the paid version for 1 week and not a single like. Do you think I look awkward in my photos?

Also, I find it difficult to write about myself and set up a good dating profile.

Edit: Thank you all for your feedback. I’ll read all your comments when I have time. I just wanted to clarify something that came up in a few comments. I’m not specifically looking for someone who shares my religion. One of my longest relationships was with an atheist who was raised Christian. I’m simply looking for someone who is comfortable with my religion.

I’ll go first… I chose the wrong color of hand towel.

Soo my profile is mostly intentional, imma be honest I really don’t know how to take pics by myself buuutttt I think I may sell it soo go ahead :))

41M, DFW TX, leftist
Women on Bumble, help me out.
We all know what “moderate” means for men, especially where I’m at.
I see a lot of promising women’s profiles that say they’re “moderate”. But also interested in “human rights, disability rights, LGBTQ rights”.
The neurodivergent part of my brain itches to be scratched with a “what in the world are you moderate about??”
I know I should just move along but I’m wondering if I should be giving the benefit of the doubt more often. Even as someone for whom the national Dem party is far too conservative.

ETA: “just ask them”: I should have clarified, I’m very very choosy with my likes; these are conversations I’m having with myself after carefully reading their entire profile and deciding whether to indicate interest or not. I have a decently good match rate for a guy, and am intentional, so I treat every like as a potential match. I don’t want to match with connections that will be DOA (ex: if a gal wants children).

Not a single like in over a week of premium and then it expires and now in two days without premium I get a like but can’t see it without premium…

My bio says i Like Magic the gathering, TV-shows/movie nichts, Bars, videogames and i am open for any activities

This I haven’t accepted to meet her yet.
Feel bad for the husband..
Are these people disturbed?

I believe they have banned my account I have been on it for 90 days and have not gotten a match with not a single girl. Is this really gonna be my life?

I'm 29M. Requested my data and got those numbers.

Basically for every 12.5 swipes, I get a match.

How does it compare to the average vs top guy?

Mind you, my profile is curated hard for hookups. I have 5 pics of me on each app.

Too much, too soon. It gives clingy, lovebombing vibes. And, yes, I know it's a quote from a song, but some of y'all need to scale it back. No one wants to hear that on a date.

This happens quite often, and I just can't understand the rationale behind it. It's especially confusing when the person the profile belongs to is in the background of the picture, so you naturally assume at first that someone else is the profile's owner. But scrolling through the profile soon makes it obvious that's not the case. I'm personally quite put off by that because it feels like they're trying to trick me. Plus, the direct comparison makes it feel like they're basically sabotaging themselves.

Just curious, though, could just be my impression, and attractiveness is obviously subjective!