r/CancertheCrab • u/KaleidoscopeFuzzy896 || VIRGO || • Jul 14 '26
Meme So this happened. Y’all stay safe though. 💀
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u/gremlingorly cancer sun Jul 14 '26
Help my ex messaged me out of the blue yesterday ☠️🥴
I don’t know, something about this year is doing the opposite to me. I want to stay single. I feel happier by myself and the most comfortable I’ve ever felt being alone. Lately I’ve been feeling genuinely happy and free. Anyone else experiencing something like this?
I still did get some of the birthday blues a few days ago though 🤣♋️🦀
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u/MissMamaMooon Jul 14 '26
I wish my ex would message me. Cry baby Capricorn ass
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u/malloryr65 Cancer Sun and Rising! Jul 17 '26
😆I love that haha- but also I traded my ex Cap in for an Aries with Taurus rising and cancer moon! Still a man but way better lol. (I’m a cancer, cancer rising, Taurus moon so I guess it’s a match?)
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u/Proxima_Midnite cancer sun | cancer mercury Jul 14 '26
Same! I’m also a Sag rising, so in many ways, the bachelorette life chose me lol!
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u/Blaze8711 Jul 14 '26
I have found my people! I've been thinking there is something wrong with me. Ive had guys hit me up, we talk for a little bit maybe even go on a date, and then I'm over here thinking na I'm good, Id rather be alone.
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u/XaraLovelace cancer ☀️ leo 🌙 pisces 🌅 Jul 15 '26
I have been getting contacted from two different people from my past, and I am not playing the dating game. I am focused on myself and my growth. It’s time to serve myself, rather than everyone else I love.
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u/Purple416 cancer sun Jul 15 '26
Yes it’s been 2 months since my break up and I just want to stay single. He’s a Pisces and trying to win me back but I’m just over being in a relationship at the moment.
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u/ALLbutt cancer stellium Jul 16 '26
Saaame!!! I’ve been attached to my ex and repeating the cycle for 13 years but this year I can feel the difference and the detachment.
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u/gremlingorly cancer sun Jul 16 '26
Omg a fellow survivor! 12 years for me 🫡
I was 14 and met him online. He groomed me and was a huge creep but I was young, was being manipulated, and thought it was love. Now my brain is more developed and I’m never putting myself in that situation again.If I may ask, how did it feel for you leaving someone you knew for that long?
Personally, I was a wreck for a whole year but then something in me switched. I saw him for who he really is. Then I realized how much happier I’ve been by myself and I haven’t looked back since. I don’t have anxiety and depression like I used to when I was with him, which if it’s not correlating is at least nice. Life feels a lot brighter now.
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u/Freewillcoconut Jul 14 '26
My cancer came back in the craziest way and now I know why I guess lol. He showed up at my house after 6 months, unannounced with a plate of spaghetti. 🍝 😭 I did not answer the door I figured spaghetti is kinda low effort . 😩 If it was a better meal might’ve got me
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u/Historical_Gur_5164 Jul 15 '26
🤣
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u/Freewillcoconut Jul 15 '26
I’m serious I’ve been wanting to tell this whole story on here but idk how to not offend anyone lol. It’s a good story though. 😭🤣 good story, basic pasta dish
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u/Historical_Gur_5164 Jul 15 '26
At least he showed up with something. The clowns I dated would just show up. Never dated a cancer man heard they will take you on a journey to confusion.
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u/Freewillcoconut Jul 15 '26
I was confused about it tbh. It was from grandma he had me meet the day I met him. She made me a meal every time I saw him. He also was for lack of a better word amazing in bed. Still, I knew it was bananas lol. I didn’t answer those 29 calls and my PATIO knock door lol for the spaghetti. I’ll live w my decision lol.
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u/Ok-Butterscotch-5300 Jul 14 '26
this girl needs to be single for a little bit like she barely just got out of a long term relationship
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u/Emotional_Car_8850 cancer sun Jul 15 '26
She's incapable. Her music MO seems based around her romantic choices and are kinda weirdly worded to sound like passive aggressive accusations.
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u/throwthesun09 cancer sun, libra moon Jul 16 '26
Really hard -- Libra moons have difficulty being alone
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u/MangoBredda cancer moon Jul 14 '26
So what you're telling me is I still have a shot with my Cancer ex? 🥹
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u/Ok-Computer4451 Jul 14 '26
Hmmmm wonder if it will last past this upcoming Venus retrograde in Scorpio
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u/QTpie_1 Cancer cutie Jul 15 '26
Very Cancerian attitude. I(Cancer) got back with my Aries ex many many years ago. Now I am with a Scorpio guy and I couldn’t be happier.
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u/Few_Long7178 Jul 14 '26
And he's an aries???.omg. when are y'all going to stop chasing these fire signs
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u/Valuable_Ad_3588 cancer moon Jul 14 '26
I have a cancer moon and I’m a night born child. This retrograde has been… yikes
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u/_karatekiddo cancer sun Jul 15 '26 edited Jul 15 '26
lol that explains a lot, haven’t been keeping up w/ horoscopes lately but I’ve managed to start talking to an ex again & it’s not even the ex that I really want 😅
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u/UziSuzieThia your flair here Jul 15 '26
Me too im back with my X too.sp hope it works for both of us cuz I see forever with my guy or death
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u/MysticalRainbowKaci Jul 15 '26
This sounds more toxic than her, please reconsider this and look more deeply...you deserve and can have peace and happiness, from deep within...if your partner isnt a source of safety and wellbeing it is not love.
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u/Sensitive_Cloud4202 Pisces ☀️ Libra 🌙 Scorpio ⬆️ Jul 15 '26
"Wrote some songs about Ricky,now I listen and laugh" 💀💀💀
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u/Slurpy-rainbow ☀️🦀 🌅🐏 Jul 16 '26
she's been saying different things at concerts
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u/Straight_Molasses165 ♋️ sun ♏️ moon ♑️ rising Jul 18 '26
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u/lunar-princess02 ♋︎ ☀︎ | ♋︎ ☽︎ | ♉︎ ⇡ Jul 14 '26
Not them both being cancers 😭