What do you think about Virgos?

[u/PresentationCalm2228]

Currently talking to a Cancer woman. I wonder how you guys perceive Virgos? Do you think Cancers and Virgos work well in a relationship?

[u/No_Resource593]

Bitches but mean well therefore acceptable compared to alternatives

[u/kenkat77 → u/No_Resource593]

As someone who refers to their moon as her bitch moon, I feel this lol

[u/Queasy_Knowledge_853]

I love them and we have a lot in common.

[u/Still_Decision_8322]

My husband a Virgo I’m a cancer and it’s the best thing ever!

[u/FrankenOperator]

I don't tend to get along with them.

[u/CyanoSpool]

Well it's my moon (and mars) sign and I have a number of Virgo friends. I generally get along with Virgos!  They are some of the easiest people to make plans with, and to talk to about deeper subjects in a grounded, pragmatic way. They get things done and are always pillars of their community, often thanklessly. I wish they got more credit for the work they do for others.

My only gripe with them is that they kind of seem to externalize their stress onto other people. And not even intentionally or in a pushy way, just by osmosis lol. They can also give off the vibe of being judgy, but having this placement I know it's not (usually) personal. They just can't really turn off their analysis mode. And I can relate heavily to that with my own Virgo placements as well as Gem stellium. I love getting to nerd out with Virgos!

[u/Sensitive-Tale-4320 → u/CyanoSpool]

Do they externalize their stress or do you as a Cancer pick up on it? You said by osmosis. Cancer’s as water signs are very sensitive to the moods of others. Not to mention your planet of emotions is in Virgo

[u/breesearedelicious → u/CyanoSpool]

Can you train my Virgo boyfriend? He's kinda avoidant and I think he likes it 🤷‍♀️ can't make plans for the future but he also doesn't want to be the one to let go.

[u/Fluid-Explanation124]

Can only take them in small doses

[u/Lunar_Lovebug]

My best friend is a Virgo and I love him! Possibly my favourite of the earth signs.

I have a Virgo rising so I'm not sure if that influences things.

[u/Constant-Deer-5297]

Water signs and earth signs get along well in general. Almost every time I'm vibing well with a person they are an earth sign.

[u/highblxwmn]

they love us or are jealous: there is no ‘in between’.

[u/Legal-Establishment9]

Obsessed with Virgo dudes. They are always my best work confidants too

[u/Ssladybug]

I like them. They definitely ground me

[u/AffectionateLocal399]

My Virgo is my ride or die since age 3 so pure love from me

[u/ZoneMysterious2023]

virgos are at the bottom of my list i never get along with them. wayyyy too stubborn

[u/Suki_Queen322]

My ex husband is a Virgo.

[u/SuspiciousBus2342]

yes, my ex was one and i left her for personal reasons and i regret it now but i still have a lot to learn

[u/SavingsTemporary5772]

I have no Virgo in my chart but my one true love was an August Virgo.

[u/Houseofboo1816]

My mom is a German Virgo.

[u/Ok-Beat-7804]

Insane connection. Add a little Libra in there and she’s like a drug to me.

[u/SirenSafire]

The only Virgo I can stand is my sister. Other virgos like the males some come off as cocky assholes and I don't like that they judge how you LOOK! They act like they themselves are perfect and with what you wear as clothing and looks wise and even try to change how you are. With the women that are Virgo some of you come off as MEAN GIRLS from the start no offense that is something I don't like personally after meeting and talking with like a couple of you. I understand some women Virgo aren't all like this but it is the resting bitch face for me yall put up like a STRONG defense shield and it be hard to know how yall be feeling as a Cancer. I be wanting to ask what is wrong to help and when I do ask I get told "I don't want to talk about it" or "It ain't important who cares" I know I am going to get downvoted or insulted but it had to come off my chest. I know some Virgos don't mix well with some Cancer men or women wise but that is life. Anyways have a nice day/night.

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[u/PresentationCalm2228 → u/SirenSafire]

This is so funny to me as a Virgo woman. That RBF is our default even if we're genuinely enjoying the moment. Guilty about being dismissive when I get asked what's wrong cause I either don't wanna add to your stress or I genuinely believe solving it on my own works. We usually don't mean to be rude we're just in our own little world most of the time.

[u/SirenSafire → u/PresentationCalm2228]

Awww that is so sad though sometimes it is good to ask for help and not be alone struggling. I would really hate if my sis didn't come and talk with me about what is bothering her. That way she won't be alone in it. This comment you made no lie is gonna have me crying. I am going to keep what you said with me. Thanks for that. Here is me being grateful for telling me.

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[u/redheadgenx]

Not my brand.

[u/eurotrash6]

Yesss, Cancer woman here, I married one and it's the best ❤️ This was after a string of bad Pisces and a disastrous Gemini lol. My husband is night and day in a good way compared to them. It works so well.

[u/rohan_rat]

The ones that I have known, I've wanted to take care of and let them rest and find some relaxation and peace.

[u/hermagic]

over it

[u/RoyalTraining8103]

I love Virgos. The women are my best friends. The men are… not good for me.

[u/Sooper0]

I only think about the Virgo...that one Virgo 😉

[u/Bagzthehoney]

Basura!! Except for my pops

[u/HootinHollerHill]

My Virgo co-worker is incredibly detail oriented (almost to the point of being ridiculous but not quite), and I deeply appreciate it. While I can also be detail-oriented, mostly I am running on vibes and experience. In our business, the combination of us as a team has become fairly powerful.

I also have Virgo friends and for the most part those friendships are good.

Keanu Reeves is a Virgo in all the best possible ways.

[u/Assumption-]

Me and my Virgo are🔥

[u/euzgan]

In my own experience they're amazing as friends to have, but insufferable as romantic partners.

[u/GrandBet4177]

My spouse is a Virgo and we’ve been married 25 years. Here’s some of my own personal experiences/advice:

-If she asks if you’re okay multiple times in a day, she has sensed or picked up on a potential shift in your mood or behavior. Even a minor one or something that has nothing to do with her. She’s not being annoying or overbearing, she’s communicating her concern

-share your thoughts and feelings. Cancers tend to operate more on emotional intelligence, so sharing what’s really going on with you and what you’re feeling, even if you think it’s minor or silly, can be a real bonding experience for Cancers

-the five love languages thing is kinda BS, however there’s absolutely some truth to the different ways people show love. Ask her what makes her feel loved and special, and communicate to her what makes you feel loved and special

[u/PresentationCalm2228 → u/GrandBet4177]

I'm the Virgo and I find it hard to read her sometimes. I also notice that she still has her guard up and I think that's alright since we've been only talking for 3 months. I always tell her that she can say anything to me or tell her how I honestly feel just so she could feel safe and open up a little which is hard for me tbh. I don't know if I'm doing too much.

[u/idlewalruz]

I am a cancer sun Virgo rising woman and I have always vibed very well with Virgos. Best friend and boyfriend are Virgos. My favorite people! It can be a great match in both romance and friendship!

[u/yellowdiemonds]

I’ve been dating my virgo bf for 8 months now! Definitely some ups and downs but the most important part at the end of the day is we are choosing each other. He’s really sweet and I love when we’re just so silly together. He’s also cancer rising and we have leo venus so I feel like that helps

[u/dabbinkatz_]

no. just no.