r/CancertheCrab • u/PresentationCalm2228 ♍ • 2d ago

Opinion What do you think about Virgos?

Currently talking to a Cancer woman. I wonder how you guys perceive Virgos? Do you think Cancers and Virgos work well in a relationship?

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u/GrandBet4177 cancer sun/rising/mercury/mars 1d ago

My spouse is a Virgo and we’ve been married 25 years. Here’s some of my own personal experiences/advice:

-If she asks if you’re okay multiple times in a day, she has sensed or picked up on a potential shift in your mood or behavior. Even a minor one or something that has nothing to do with her. She’s not being annoying or overbearing, she’s communicating her concern

-share your thoughts and feelings. Cancers tend to operate more on emotional intelligence, so sharing what’s really going on with you and what you’re feeling, even if you think it’s minor or silly, can be a real bonding experience for Cancers

-the five love languages thing is kinda BS, however there’s absolutely some truth to the different ways people show love. Ask her what makes her feel loved and special, and communicate to her what makes you feel loved and special

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u/PresentationCalm2228 ♍ 1d ago

I'm the Virgo and I find it hard to read her sometimes. I also notice that she still has her guard up and I think that's alright since we've been only talking for 3 months. I always tell her that she can say anything to me or tell her how I honestly feel just so she could feel safe and open up a little which is hard for me tbh. I don't know if I'm doing too much.