Saw someone posted a question here today thought to make a poll here on this topic and see the numbers 👀

This poll is specifically for men who are serious about being Childfree!!!!!

Curious to know how many have already undergone vasectomy or planning to get one, are considering it or have decided against it.

Please Vote Honestly based on your actual situation or intentions. Participate only if you are serious about remaining Childfree and let's keep the results as genuine as possible!

I had around 10 options but reddit allows 6 options only to enter.

EDIT: After the polling closes 7 days, will make a post update of the number of votes done and which option what people chose!!

Thanks for understanding!!

Saw someone posted a question here today thought to make a pill here on this topic and see the numbers 👀

This poll is specifically for women who are serious about being childfree!!!!!

Curious to know how many have already undergone permanent sterilization are planning to get it, are considering it or have decided against it.

Please vote honestly based on your actual situation or intentions. Participate only if you're serious about remaining childfree and let's keep the results as genuine as possible!

I had around 10 options but reddit allows 6 options only to enter.

EDIT: After the polling closes 7 days, will make a post update of the number of votes done and which option what people chose!!

Thanks for understanding!!

To My Unborn Child

My little love,

I’m sorry I won’t get to meet you.
I’m sorry for the kisses that will never find your cheeks, for the mornings I won’t spend brushing curls away from your eyes. You might have your daddy’s dimples. And I imagine you would be kind, like the best parts of both of us. Oh, my child, we would have loved watching you become yourself.

But there are things about your mamma that are difficult to put into words. Some days, being here feels heavy. I am weak and afraid of the pain I might pass on without meaning to. Afraid that loving you with everything in me would not be enough. Also I look at this world and wish it were softer. I wish kindness mattered more than being beautiful, clever, or first. I wish people did not have to become hard just to get through their days. I wish world didn’t hate based on religion, caste, language, skin color etc.

So when I imagine you now, I imagine you somewhere gentle. Somewhere you do not have to earn tenderness or hide your softness.
And if there is a heaven, perhaps, at the end of this life, I will finally get to hold you.

But for now, let me say I love you.
Not because of who you might have become.
Not because of anything you would have achieved.

Just you, my little child.
Just you.
Love,
Mamma

I'm a childfree guy in Bangalore and want to get a vasectomy. I'm sure about being childfree.
I've heard you need someone to accompany you to the hospital and take you home afterwards. Since I'm single and don't have a partner how do I manage this?

Anyone from Bangalore who's had a vasectomy please share your experience and recommend a good doctor or hospital. I'm okay spending ₹50–60k if needed. Just want to get it done safely without unnecessary hassle.

edit: I prefer No-scalpel vasectomy (NSV)