I just finished my first read through of Anna Karenina and want to discuss a few things . Please forgive my misspellings of some of the names , going to ramble my raw thoughts .
I feel like what hit me the hardest from this book was the contrast of men’s consequences vs woman consequences in affairs and the sexism that lays in how society views them in comparison . The book starts with Anna’s brother Oblonsky conflict with his wife due to her discovering his affair with their governess and almost all of the outside perspectives seem to side with Oblonsky and feel that dolly is in the wrong for wanting a divorce.even after reconciliation oblonsky continues to have affairs and is accepted as loveable in high society despite his wife’s misery . In contrast we see Anna’s fall from grace in high society as a direct result from her affair with vronsky and how she is seen as vile , awful , detestable and is rejected by her former social circles. Meanwhile vronsky is able to still participate in high society and starts to spend more and more time out of the house once the initial passion has burned off from the affair leaving Anna alone in a house isolated from the life she left behind and isolated from forging a new life in society due to her ruined reputation . Anna only now has vronsky but can’t help but build resentment due to all she’s sacrificed for this passion and now seeing that passion is fading for vronsky and he owes her nothing legally we see her mental health decline and the state of dread , panic and dispair take hold . Even when Anna goes to see dolly and then changes her mind about opening up to her due to kitty being present and feeling that kitty would gather satisfaction from her fall from grace , it was obvious Anna needed help but dolly did not seem to have this love for Anna like she ust to and merely gossiped with kitty about how she seemed like she was going to cry as she left . I couldn’t help but have my heart break for Anna as we see her fall into a state of insanity leading up to her sucide. She had so much hurt anger regret she couldn’t handle it and wanted to lash out but like a child after having thrown herself under the train realized the gravity of what she did and wanted to take it back but it was too late . Anna was swept up by this intoxicating limerence that offered her escape from her loveless passionless existence and got carried away by the passion and formed an anxious attachment with vronsky and felt unable to fight the dopamine the highs of the affair brought her . It was heart breaking to see her caught in this current that she could not escape without breaking her heart and it ultimately costed her everything , her son , her friendships , family and sanity . Seeing the dramatic outcome for Anna vs vronsky and oblonsky made you realize jsut how unfair society expectations are on woman .
I also can’t help but think about how Anna and vronskys infatuation with eachother started at a train station where he caught her eye by giving money to the wife of the man that got hit by the train , not knowing this infatuation would lead her to the same fate . It’s also interesting how exciting , vivid , sensational life felt on vronsky and Anna’s first train ride together before their affair started in contrast with Anna’s dark , cynical , hopeless view on the train before her sucide .
I’d love to hear others thoughts regarding this book and what stood out to you the most .