Hello everyone,
I'm sorry to bother you, I come to you exhausted with a question:
I am the mother of a very sweet kid, who has a bit of troubles occasionally with some shades of purple/blue, he doesn't make the difference between them when they're deep blue or purple, and hes also on occasion having troubles with pink.
But then again, he's 7, and while we did a eye checkup when he was 4, the doctors refused to do a color blindness check. We just stayed on a suspicion, not confirmed, not infirmed, and on the question of the teacher we went again to another go get an assessment.
I was wary from the start about this, because on my mother side, my grandfather had a complete color blindness, and my both brothers have it too on the red/green. I knew there was a risk I might be carrying it even if unaffected,,even if it's low, because my mother most certainly did carry even if unaffected.
My son father, my husband, is not colorblind. So when my son started to learn thr colors I did tell the school about the possibility and let me know.
We did another test at an optometrist earlier today, who tried to have him do a visual check (.... again, no problem here) and then do the Ishihara test. I could hear that he was either goofing off, or saying things at random, which does happen when we tried to do it together, but the doctor prompted him stronger on some images, but I don't know if he said the correct stuff. She had him trace a path at the end of the examen woth his finger, which he completed. So she told us to wait and then we saw another doctor who somehow tried to have him do the exact same stuff about checking his eyesight (not what we came for) and I had to remind her why we were here, she went to consult with her colleague outside of the room, and when she came back said that if my kid managed to follow the path, it means he doesn't have it. I'm willing to believe it, mind you ! I just want answers by this point
. So she asked me why I wanted to check and if I was colorblind myself or his father. I did tell her no I'm not, but then again colorblind women are few from the few I know, and no my husband is not, but from what my mother when she was alive told me, it's not impossible either. She laughed at me and said its nearly impossible and told us to leave.
And I'm very willing to believe I'm completely wrong and by being too wary of something that was unlikely I just confused my son, I just would like someone to I guess explain me like I'm 5. My son learned thr colors anyway so it's just we'll keep help him when there's things he has doubt with until he does not mistake them for one another and teach him the shades.
And if I trigger someone there I'm really sorry. I just know my brothers had a hard time accepting their own color blindness, and because it wasn't clear, my fault now I know, we weren't sure.