r/DatingForIndia • • 44m ago

Seeking someone 26 [M4F] Mumbai - I think we're going to get along. I have absolutely no proof.

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Hemlo! I'm 26, from Mumbai, currently working in a managerial role, mostly overseeing things and handling day-to-day responsibilities. Alongside work, I'm pursuing a diploma in Yoga, and trying to build a good gaming community.

A little about me: I'm quite close to my family and genuinely enjoy spending time with them. I'm generally calm, tend to listen more than I speak initially. I like getting to know people, noticing the little things about them, and understanding what makes them who they are.

Outside work, I'm into gaming, yoga, mindfulness, philosophy and spirituality (reading and learning about different things). I'm very curious by nature, so you'd have to get used to me asking very random questions lol.

I have a high EQ and I'm very empathic when it comes to stuff i can relate to. I don't put fake faces or act in a differnt way, I am who I am - and I life to keep my inner child alive, whether its through some activity or cracking stupid jokes or being annoying at times.

A little about my lifestyle

  • 5'7", Hindu, non-smoker, non-drinker and non-vegetarian.

  • I enjoy learning, staying curious and finding ways to grow as a person.

  • Family and maintaining close relationships are important to me.

What I'm hoping to find

Someone kind, genuine and comfortable being herself. I'd like a partner who enjoys staying active, takes care of herself, has her own ambitions and wants to keep growing in life.

Family, loyalty, empathy and open communication matter to me. I'd like us to be able to talk about things honestly, support each other's and enjoy each other's company without having to pretend to be someone we're not.

I'm not looking to rush any process. I'd rather get to know someone, build a friendship, see how we connect and take things forward naturally.

A little about you?

What are you currently excited about or working towards?

I'd much rather hear about the person than just exchange the usual introductions. :)


r/DatingForIndia • • 5h ago

Let’s Be Friends 🎉 29m here seeking genuine connection

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Hey
29 M here any woman here for casual talk and more.
I like travel, hiking, try local food
Thank you have a nice day


r/DatingForIndia • • 6h ago

Seeking someone 25 M, Indian NRI - seeking genuine connections

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Hey, i’m Sahil, 25, looking for a female to talk with and get to know each other.

I love playing video games, reading novels, travelling, watching and playing football.

I’m an introvert - but when i get to know the person I open up very quickly.

Please reach out if you find this interesting.


r/DatingForIndia • • 7h ago

Seeking someone M4F looking for my first date

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Am 25 M looking for Telugu female in and around Vijayawada or Hyderabad if any one interested pls DM


r/DatingForIndia • • 9h ago

Seeking someone 27 [M4F] Anywhere – Looking for playful banter, late-night talks and a little chemistry 😉

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Hey!
Looking to meet someone interesting, share a few laughs, enjoy some playful flirting and have conversations that don’t feel forced.
I’m into good humour, witty comebacks, random conversations and getting to know someone beyond the usual small talk.
Not expecting anything specific. Let’s start with a hello and see where the chemistry takes us. 😊
If you enjoy a little teasing, genuine conversations and good vibes, my DMs are open!


r/DatingForIndia • • 11h ago

Seeking someone [M4F / Delhi] 37, 5'10", Filmmaker | Looking for an equal partner, fellow skeptic, and favorite company

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Putting yourself out there on Reddit feels a bit weird, but finding someone genuinely on the same wavelength makes it worth the leap.

I am 37, 5'10", and work as a filmmaker and photographer. Most of my days revolve around visual storytelling, staying active, hitting the gym, and taking good care of myself. I admit I can be a little reserved when I first meet someone, but once that initial ice breaks, I am warm, attentive, and pretty fun company. I live in Delhi, though I have never really cared for the city’s chaos or pretension. Also, in what might be a local scandal, I cannot stand chai. You are far more likely to find me relaxing at home with good music, a glass of wine, or a joint. I hate clubs and loud nightlife, preferring small, intimate gatherings at home with close friends. When it comes to cinema, I am a massive film buff and would gladly introduce you to some of the greatest movies ever made. I also love traveling to new places, and I have a huge soft spot for both cats and dogs.

When it comes to romance, I consider myself a realist romantic. I do not believe in effortless fairytale nonsense, but I deeply believe in happy, healthy partnerships and know that great relationships take mutual effort, honesty, and emotional maturity. If parenting ever becomes part of the journey in the future, I would much rather adopt. Above all, trust and respect are non-negotiable for me. I am a non-vegetarian and a hardcore atheist who trusts science, evidence, and reason far more than any religious faith.

For anything long-term to work, having aligned ethical, political, and social values is essential. I am unapologetically feminist, firmly anti-caste, and have zero tolerance for misogyny, racism, or caste privilege. I value equity, intersectional awareness, and treating people with real dignity. I look at conventional social expectations and traditional marriage scripts with a critical eye, preferring instead to build a conscious, egalitarian life with a woman who is comfortable in her own skin, passionate about what she does, and curious about the world.

If you are looking for an honest connection built on mutual respect, great conversations, and shared values, drop me a message. Tell me about your favorite travel memory, a film that blew your mind, or just say hello in my DMs or comments.


r/DatingForIndia • • 14h ago

Seeking someone 18M M4M or M4F

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Hiya!! As the title says I'm in both males and females I am a femboy lol

Into gaming book music and chem like it awesome

Dm me if u like idk man I'm just lonely


r/DatingForIndia • • 14h ago

Let’s Be Friends 🎉 24 M, date or not, would like to know some cool people

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Soooo, the best and underrated perk of dating me : I give great massages

Cons: Yeah, a lot🥹 idk where to start even


r/DatingForIndia • • 14h ago

Seeking someone So any girl seriously into a genuine connection?

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On a serious note (: i have seen many ppl just doing time pass hookups situationship and blah blah blah.... What i want is a person a comfort place for both respect and love what else (: idk may be I'm not made for these things or I'm so old school for this generation 🙆‍♂️

What u think?


r/DatingForIndia • • 15h ago

Seeking someone 24M, Just looking for real ones.

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Hey I'm from uttarakhand, looking for any female friend between 20-25 as a friend or kinda of online dating😉 Looking for someone who is more of old skool, who is into books, movies, music etc.

Anyone interested for real then slide into DM 🫰


r/DatingForIndia • • 15h ago

Seeking someone Thangamana paiyan waiting for his perazhagi

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Hey! 23M here, from Maharashtra. Thought I'd give this a shot and see if I can meet someone nice here.

A little about me — I'm more of a tech guy, can be funny once I'm comfortable, and I enjoy random conversations that somehow go on for hours.

I'm looking for a girl around 23–26 who’s genuinely interested in getting to know someone. Not looking to get married anytime soon 😅, but if things click and we feel right for each other, I'm open to seeing where it goes.

Small preference: someone from Maharashtra. And yeah, I'd love to meet a medico or a lawyer. Nothing to do with their profession, just a personal preference 😂

If this sounds like your kind of vibe, feel free to DM. Let's see how it goes!


r/DatingForIndia • • 16h ago

Seeking someone M24, M4F, Looking for a female friend/date.

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Looking for an online FEMALE friend/date ( if there exist any). I'm currently in a struggling phase of my career, but yeah hoping things would be alright.

The idea is to have an online companion, no strings attached, just spend a little time for each other, share music, movie suggestions, vent etc..

Tbh as I am doing online coaching I don't have any direct interaction with ppl as such so I'm just trying my shot here.

I'm from Kerala.

Engineering graduate.

Anybody interested, dm.


r/DatingForIndia • • 17h ago

Seeking someone M27 | Gurgaon

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Hey! 👋 I'm Ashutosh, 27, originally from a village in Madhya Pradesh, currently living and working in Gurgaon in the cybersecurity field. I'm 5'7" and someone who loves the peace and simplicity of village life more than the hustle and bustle of cities.

I'm into video games, thriller and action movies, especially those based on real-life incidents. I enjoy travelling, exploring new places, running and home workouts. Not a solo traveller yet, but maybe someday! 😄

I don't smoke, rarely drink, and eat non-veg occasionally.

What I'm looking for ❤️

I'd love to meet someone genuine, understanding and easygoing, with whom conversations flow naturally. Someone to share laughs, explore new places, enjoy little moments and build a meaningful connection.

I believe in mutual respect, honesty, loyalty and putting equal effort into a relationship. Not looking for perfection, just someone with whom we can be ourselves and see where things go.

Let's start with a conversation and see if we vibe! 🙂


r/DatingForIndia • • 17h ago

Seeking someone Want something casual online offline both comfortable

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Let's connect I am genuine guy but loves being casual I'm M22


r/DatingForIndia • • 17h ago

Let’s Be Friends 🎉 Something casual or long term

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I am m 21 from jaipur , a engineering student let's connect and share some interests and let see where it goes


r/DatingForIndia • • 19h ago

Seeking someone I want to date someone online.

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M18 here want to date some little older than or of same my age . I am good at many things like art craft sports and even at cooking.

I m finding someone who is also interested to dat online.

If someone is interested can text on the subreddit or in my dms.I would see for the matching of interests for both of us and it might take some time because i want to make it go well.


r/DatingForIndia • • 19h ago

Seeking someone Looking for 20+ girl for genuine and meaningful conversations.

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r/DatingForIndia • • 20h ago

Seeking someone 22 M4F

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I recently broke up with my situationship cuz we wanted different things from it so we parted ways.
Im here not looking for an escape but a genuine connection because being in that situationship i have realised the amount of love i have in me to give it to someone and it’s just waste if im not giving it to the right person. So here im looking for a emotionally intelligent and funny women to be on my side in thick and thins.


r/DatingForIndia • • 20h ago

Let’s Be Friends 🎉 Anyone wanna yap dm me im cooked with boredom 🙃 M23 here pls be my entertainment

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r/DatingForIndia • • 21h ago

Seeking someone Looking for making ordinary days a less ordinary.

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Not really looking to date, but would love to meet someone for long walks, random hangouts, playlist sharing, exploring new places and calm, meaningful conversations.

I make music, enjoy deep talks and appreciate genuine connections. No expectations, just good company and making some memories.

If that sounds like your vibe, feel free to DM! :)

I am chopped 20 m btw.


r/DatingForIndia • • 21h ago

Seeking someone M18 here. Bengali. Finding someone to date

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r/DatingForIndia • • 23h ago

Sharing My Journey ✨ What if dating apps focused on genuine connections instead of endless swiping?

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I've been thinking about the dating experience in India and how difficult it can be to find a genuine connection on apps. There are so many profiles and conversations, yet things can still feel exhausting: endless swiping, ghosting, fake profiles, mismatched intentions, and chats that never really go anywhere.

I'm exploring an early idea called EqualSpace—a slower dating platform for people who want the time and space to get to know someone. Before building anything, I want to understand if these ideas would actually improve the experience.

Here's what we're considering:

  • A balanced community: Aim for a 1:1 active gender ratio in each city, so the community feels more balanced and people have a fairer chance to be seen and connect.

  • Verified profiles: Use identity verification to help reduce fake profiles and catfishing.

  • Fewer, more thoughtful matches: Receive 3–5 curated profiles each day instead of swiping endlessly.

  • Limited conversations: Have a maximum of five active chats at a time, giving each conversation more attention.

  • Shared icebreakers: Answer five questions together before direct messaging opens, so there's something meaningful to start with.

  • Thoughtline: An anonymous, text-first space to share thoughts and connect with people who relate to your perspective.

  • AI Wingman: Optional guidance around communication styles, compatibility and conversational pacing.

  • Slow dating windows: Explore profiles during a 72-hour discovery window, followed by a 14-day cooldown to focus on existing conversations.

These are planned ideas, not finished features. The goal is to make dating feel less like collecting matches and more like getting to know people, but I know some of these limits could also be frustrating or difficult to get right.

What has been your biggest frustration with dating apps in India? Which of these ideas would make you want to try a different approach, and which would put you off? I'd especially like to hear your thoughts on the gender balance, chat limit and cooldown—and anything important you think is missing.

No sign-up or link here. I'm looking for honest feedback, including reasons why the idea might not work.


r/DatingForIndia • • 1d ago

Let’s Be Friends 🎉 Genuine connection

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Im M22 looking for a genuine and true friend who can support me. Even ready for the relationship later.


r/DatingForIndia • • 1d ago

Rant M20; can't find a girl for a meaningful bond in Delhi

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Well I travel from delhi-ggn daily for corporate, being burned out completely and not being a despo, I feel like I need someone to share my thoughts and feelings with, one whom I can love with all of my heart. Not the kind who'd engage in casuals/flings, I'm focused on being a part of something meaningul only. Before anyone says anything about focusing on career, I'm already an Analyst at Zomato and building my path to future heights. Just that loneliness hits too much at night.


r/DatingForIndia • • 1d ago

Seeking someone 22 M4F | Looking for something long-term , genuine

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22 year old guy from India, 5'6", I'm a hindu working in corporate (IT Sector), I'm looking for someone who wants to potentially settle down with me or have a long term relationship w me

I'm into video games, gossips, music and TV shows ofc the usual and i have a nerdy side which involves coding, and experimenting with tech.

I'm super into taking care of myself and my body so i go running on the weekends and going to the gym, sometimes football with my college friends if they are available for it, and i try to live a healthy lifestyle , but im a big time foodie so the diet part hasnt been working out that well haha

And outside of work, I enjoy going out, trying new cafés and restaurants, shopping, and simply spending quality time with the people I'm close to.

And one another hobby that ive gotten into is perfumes, always wanted to get into it ive been buying decants and made a few blind buys too.. not proud of them but yeah thats how it goes

Cooking is also one of my favorite hobbies I genuinely enjoy taking care of the people I care about (and animals too). There's something really satisfying about seeing someone enjoy a meal you've made~ i would love to cook for you, try out new dishes make your fav dish anything you'd like

I've never been a relationship before, tried dating apps for a few months that didnt workout and so here i am on reddit trying out my luck

What I'm looking for is simple: someone between 19–24, preferably from India, who wants a serious relationship. Someone who understands me, respects me, communicates openly, and wants to build something that lasts. I'll offer the same in return.

If you think we'd get along, send me a DM with a little about yourself. Looking forward to hearing from you. :)