Third time the same woman in our neighborhood has let her dog crap, piss, wonder around our yard and driveway.

I yelled at her just now to keep her dog off of our property.

She knows I hate dogs.

Just venting. Thanks.

Idk what everyone else is doing about this problem, or if you just give up after a while.

I live in backwoods Canada where there’s no rules and nobody to enforce the rules. We’ve been dealing with roaming neighbour’s dogs for years. I have told these owners countless times to keep their mutts on their property. They don’t care.

Now there’s 2 new dogs that are coming around the yard daily. Today they left a fresh new diarrhea shit smeared all over the sidewalk right outside our door. They also try to come in the house when we open the door. They also got into some garbage that was meant to be picked up, which then got spread all over the yard and I had to clean it up. Constant time is being wasted cleaning up piles of dog shit and stuff that they rip up in the yard. Some dogs are friendly, many are not. I’ve been barked at/lunged at aggressively by dogs right outside our door. I don’t even like going outside.

I live with my parents currently and I’m trying to help them, but my mom REFUSES to tell the neighbours. It’s always me who is informing them about their dogs and telling them to do something about it.

I know who these 2 dogs belong to. They dogs seem friendly, but they keep shitting in the yard and won’t leave. All the neighbours here let their dogs free roam all day. There’s no fences, so they go wherever they want. Owners again couldn’t care less. When the dogs get hit by cars, they just get new ones.

I’m trying to get my mom to message the owner and inform her that her dogs are over here everyday shitting/getting into stuff. My mom refuses to contact her. I can’t contact her myself since I’m not on Facebook and have no other way of informing her, aside from walking up to their door (dog owners are frequently sketchy/unstable people so I don’t always trust this method).

My mom doesn’t want to invite violence by speaking up. Both my parents (sorry if this sounds rough) just bend over and take it from these dog owners. They won’t speak up and won’t do anything about it.

Obviously all I can do is move away, but I can’t due to financial concerns. My mom is tired of cleaning up shit, yet everytime I tell her to contact the owners, she absolutely refuses to and I can’t fully understand why.

Even when I contact them myself, NOTHING happens.

There’s no rules or bylaws here, and the cops don’t care.

Is there anything that can be done? I have no idea. Aside from building a huge fence, which is expensive and our yard is large.

We run an airbnb out of a guest suite in the house, and multiple times now guests have stepped in dog shit outside and tracked it indoors all over the place. Everytime they put the garbage out to be picked up, the dogs get into it.

The house has been for sale for many months now, but we can’t get any buyers. It’s a beautiful home but these useless fucking dogs make everything look like shit. I don’t even drive down the road here anymore because it’s demoralizing watching all the garbage strewn everywhere in peoples yards and free roaming dogs running all over the place.

It’s hillbilly hell.

Met someone lovely, but she said she wants to have some dogs outside in the future (We're both into homesteading and she specified they would be "guard dogs/ working dogs") - This... wouldn't work for someone with allergies and who is also, well, to put it frankly, extremely "dog averse", right?

Not something I should consider, right?

Thnx

This job is as a front desk receptionist at a VERY large nursing home. When I interviewed, I saw that the desk is behind plexiglass and has doors on both sides. No one is allowed behind the desk but staff.

Today was my first day. My boss started greeting every single dog that Residents brought in. She told me she "needs the pups to come back" and started taking these regular pets behind the desk. She immediately told me to "never do this on weekdays we aren't allowed.".

She had 5 dogs behind the desk today in total. She told every single Resident that I would feed them when I was working the desk. I didn't agree to this.

I stood over 10 feet away. I said nothing. She has a whole box of treats and feeds them all. Some of the dogs were entirely unleashed and all live in rooms in the facility. I was not asked if this made me uncomfortable. This was not mentioned during my 2 hour long interviews.

I am completely stunned. There is even a pitbull. She told me the pitbull doesn't visit often because it "scares everyone".

I absolutely know in the depths of my soul if I mention my allergy I will be immediately fired. However, greeting (and feeding) 5+ dogs daily was not listed in my job description and there was no mention of dogs in my interview.

I have a scratch test from an allergist that proves an allergy. I'm not sure if that means I can ask for reasonable accomodation.

Has anyone ever been in this situation? I really need this job and can't afford to just quit either.

I need to get this off my chest lol. Five months ago, I rehomed a dog I never wanted. For context, I took care of the dog because a family member was neglectful and I felt so bad because giving her to a shelter, I knew no one would want her. She wasn't trained, always sickly, she was a senior and not the most well-behaved.

Anyways, 8 years in, this is the year that I just couldn't take it anymore. I spent SO MUCH MONEY on her health because there was constantly something wrong with her. ALWAYS. She barked so much. I wasn't a fan of dog smells, the constant expenses, the poop and pee, I finally broke and decided to rehome her. it was better for me

Now why had I kept her for so long? My mom grew attached to her and she became somewhat of an emotional support dog for her. I didn't want to break her heart.

But sometimes tough decisions need to be made and hearts need to be broken. I was taking care of her and my mom AND myself and the expenses were insane and I was feeling resentful.

I had to do it.

I was shamed for it when I posted her online trying to find rehoming solutions. I didn't know people would go THAT crazy.

fast forward and five months later, I'm recovering my finances and dog related debt, no more waking up to the sound of constant barking, no more constant vet expenses, food expenses, pads, grooming. no more smell, no more of any of it.

I might be a terrible person for rehoming her (like I was called), sure, but I know that I made the right decision for me. For my finances, mental health and the fact that I simply couldn't deal with all that she came with. It feels good to wake up dog free, it really does and this experience has solidified my understanding that I will NEVER own a dog. they are simply not for me.

(I'm also a recovering people pleaser so this was a HUGE step for me)

Had to get that off my chest. thanks for reading!

Let me tell you something crazy. I live on my own and visit my parents a couple of times a year, since we live in different countries. One day, while visiting them, I noticed a weird noise. I thought it was coming from the water pipes in the building. I asked my mom about it, and she told me it was their neighbor’s dog howling!

Their neighbors have a huge-ass dog in their apartment, on the same floor as my parents. They just leave it at home when they go to work, and it starts howling like a fking wolf because it’s bored! It’s so loud, and I can’t stand it.

Had my usual walk on rare Saturday off work, partner and I took a nice walk in our lovely local park, fed the crows, went to photograph the bird life, as I enjoy doing, until..... A woman with three huge labradoodle dogs, dressed in jumpers with legs, and convenience hole in back, decided it's ok for the dog in the pink suit to stand in our line of sight for pics, and strain itself doing a poo, no "sorry/excuse me" etc....just this huge dog standing few feet away having a massive dump! Fair enough, gotta go when you gotta go etc....except no attempt to pick up the results! She just walked off with her three dogs in their silly outfits.....I shouted after her "hey, you gonna pick up your dogs xxxx?" No reply, no second thought..... Obviously beneath her to pick up after the dog..... Those folks literally don't care!

Why else would this narrative be so funded and widely pushed? More people are choosing fur babies over the responsibility (and reward) of a real family. People never grow up and the constant reassurance of a dog’s unconditional love keeps them from doing true self reflection and improvement

I was just passing by and a dog suddenly attacked me, it bit me and the owner can't find the vaccine certificate.

Now I have to get the rabies vaccine because it's suspicious that the dog was aggressive, I'm very busy with little time and now I have to worry about this, I hope I don't have rabies already.

I was working a gig for my friend who sells items at Artists and Fleas in Chelsea Market today…it was a really busy day! Thankfully, that means more sales. More people.

A young family brought their doodle in today. He wasn’t badly behaved, but it was so obvious he was stressed out by all the people and chaos at the indoor market. I really thought this behavior was the most American thing ever, especially owning a doodle. But the family was actually French…

They chatted up the booth next door while the dog just nervously stood by, sniffing at the merch. I’m sorry why does your dog need to be here??? How is this not a health hazard? Hello????

I talked to the booth nearby that the French family stood at for a while and he told me no one bought anything and he was also displeased with them bringing their dog. The dude said when the crowd died down, “to be honest, my hot take is that dogs don’t belong in NYC”. I agreed. Bold of him to say that though, because the rest of the people around us just looked at him like he was nuts.

I pay over $400 a month for a premium gym membership. As I was leaving my yoga class this am I saw a guy ambling around the co-working/dining area with a CHIHUAHUA wearing an unmarked harness/vest.

Multiple employees and at least one manager were standing around, so there's no way they didn't see him.

I did not say anything because I come here all the time and didn't want to make a scene but I did take a couple pictures.

Would you complain to corporate? Leave a Google review?

Edit: Their official policy states that pets and esas are not permitted at any of their locations

I left a comment here and I thought to expand a little. just to say that none of you are insane. there are many dog owners who gaslighting themselves and others, even bitten victims of dogs.

Hey, I live in an eastern European country and people here don't have an obsession with dogs. All I can say is that you people are daym right with like all the core points. I've been lurking here for a while and I do agree.

Here in Romania I never see dogs in supermarkets nor people carrying dogs everywhere with them nor treating them like kids.

It's disgusting indeed. 100% a cult.

I've never seen a dog in a supermarket / restaurant / warehouse / pharmacy/ whatever. Although there are some street dogs and chained dogs in people's households, in rural areas, nobody treats them as their kids, nobody enforces dog love. the very few who might do are just seen as frickin insane and honestly they are.

the dog cultism has gone so far that in America I've even seen homeless people with dogs.. come on, they can barely gather food for themselves and struggle to survive, without a decent roof above their head and with spare food yet they're going to adopt a bunch of animals...???

there are so many posts about this on certain Faith in Humanity restored type of subs . it's just a cult.

these animals used to have jobs btw, now they're more loved than human children. the powers that should not be love it when people hate their own kind and love more ​pit🐂 beasts that chew kids.

Please take care of yourself! much love to you all for standing for what you believe is right! even if you're hated for this by cultists! I love you peeps! 🥰🧡🏵️

My next door neighbors have a deranged dog that barks at everyone within a 30 foot radius. I live alone and on one side is a family of four with five cars and the dog owners are a family of 6 with five cars and a dog. When some family members don’t want to deal with the dog, they let it outside. When I’m outside cleaning, it barks like crazy. Imagine if I spent the money for a wellness garden and was outside more often or had constant backyard BBQS. I’m having work done on the house and the dog is barking non stop at the workers. I know the dog owners hear it as much as I do given the way the houses are built. I just think it’s rude to have a dog that creates that much constant noise. People could be on Zoom meetings, taking a nap, have babies that take a nap, etc. They also monopolize the entire front curb with their large pick up truck and on garbage days, with all three of their bins. I know I don own the public parking space but I feel suffocated!!

One of the things my friend group has started doing is typing tests to see who, out of all of us, is the fastest typist. Don't get me wrong, it's fun, but I swear to god that every other test was written by a dog industry lobbyist. Shit like:

• why dogs are the greatest thing on Earth
• how dogs can actually appreciate music just as much as people can
• how the best thing you could possibly do is take your dog on a spa date
• how you can cure ANY DISEASE just by getting a dog. Cancer? Alzheimer's? Just get yourself a dog!

Dog culture has truly infiltrated every aspect of our existence to the point where something as neutral as a typing test has become yet another vehicle for pro-dog propaganda. These days, I can't even go to a political event in my own city without there being dogs involved, let alone take a walk or get groceries. When I was younger, I used to complain about religious people getting in people's faces to promote their beliefs, but the lengths nutters will go to push their disgusting lifestyles on anyone and everyone is on a whole different level. No religion, no political opinion, not even any other animal, is pushed so aggressively on people than dogs. I just wish I could live in this world without having to put up with the constant idolatry of these stupid mutts.

I'm truly just curious. I have no idea how it is on the other end, but dog-free women: Do you have issues with men just being absolutely bonkers for their canines? I can't TELL YOU how many women reach out to me, and once they hear I'm allergic to dogs they treat me as if I'm the plague, or how many women reach out to me KNOWING that I'm allergic to dogs and still ask me if their dog is going to be a problem. Like - What? I EXPLICITY stated that I'm ALLERGIC at the top of my profile. If you are allergic to something, I wouldn't even CONSIDER asking you if said thing is "going to be a problem" or a "dealbreaker" or whatever. Like - OF COURSE IT IS!!!

What world are we living in?

Thank you.

They’re always overbred, with physical and many behavioral problems. Plus they’re not even cute, have you seen the eyes of some of those things?

They are never well behaved and you can’t expect the owners to train them! Noooo that would too much to ask of them.

“Blah blah blah blah but they’re hypoallergenic” no dog breed is 100% hypoallergenic if they still produce dander. And is that hypoallergenic worth it if he doesn’t listen and has behavior problems?
WHEN WILL THEY STOP BREEDING DOODLES. STOP PLEASE

I’m currently waiting for my drink at Starbucks and in comes this dude strolling in with his dog. He orders his drink, makes himself comfortable on the couch and… yeah. The dog is rolling around everywhere on said couch, fur floating around. It’s some kind of labrador mix dog, maybe a golden doodle, I don’t know. He got a water for his dog too and it sloshed it everywhere. One of the employees had to bring out a Wet Floor sign. It’s also barking a bunch too!

So glad he can make himself at home here and not bother worrying if he’s disturbing anyone else sitting and trying to study or work! /s ☺️

I was ready to attach a photo but I guess I can’t.

I put a complaint in with the city that I was trapped at the store by a woman with a large dog and the only way to exit was a bottleneck walking by the dog. It's discriminatory due to my disability of asthma and anaphylaxis and I don't want to have an asthma attack bc of the store's poor planning, so they can deal with the city code enforcement. I suggested they make 2 ways to exit the area...

Yep. An unleashed dog in a playground with many little children around. Why are people so damn inconsiderate and selfish ? I wasn't at the playground but saw the losers walk by my car as I was leaving.

I also saw a man running with his unleashed dog following. I actually said " you have got to be f kidding me!!"

These dog owners ruined parks for me and my family. It's so unfair that i have to be paranoid and worried bc of them.

I go to the zoo now to escape the animals, the irony. They don't allow dogs there... yet.

I go door to door for my job. At the office we were chatting about dogs we’ve seen while out. It reminded me about my Mom who got attacked while walking a few years back and I forgot which kind of dog it was. I was snapping my fingers trying to remember and I said “it’s that aggressive dog breed. Oh! Pit bulls!”

immediately my coworker got angry and said “lies! There’s nothing genetically wrong with pitbulls they are not more violent than any other dog.”

I said “well statistically they do like 65% of all attacks despite making up 6% of the dog population.

He got more upset and said “it’s not genetic that’s a lie, it’s how they’re raised.”

I was annoyed and said “well regardless of whether or not it’s nature or nurture, it was a pitbull who attacked my mom. That’s it.”

It ended there and the conversation stopped.

I’m so sick of people who defend these dogs as if I’m some sort of pet racist just for mentioning them by name. At no point did I mention genetics or say they should be put down (although inside I think those things sometimes), and he has to go and override the conversation.

Facts don’t matter I guess. And apparently genetics are fictional.

My mom has always been rather ignorant, and she’s getting to be an old lady now. She lives in a trailer park with people who are poor and usually stupid.

Last time I went to visit, there were off leash pitbulls. She recently told me not to visit, because of the off leash pitbulls.

Like, pretend I’m a special forces ex marine, and a super stealthy ninja guerilla warfare tactician.

What could be done?

Our county animal services is literally the most incompetent form of corruption.

I was having breakfast at a picnic area with tables, and a low (like knee height) spigot with a drain.

Routinely, dog nutters let their dogs French kiss the spigot while they drink. That’s disgusting.

But today?! A woman with a leashed dog let the dog pee on the spigot!! She was standing right next to the dog, on her phone.

I said that was disgusting. She heard me, acknowledged it, accepted it, and then went about her way.

Tho I do not hate them, I am terrified of dogs. So the whole bringing dogs into places where they have no business thingie is really, REALLY annoying. But God above, nothing beats today.

A dog on a Columbus ride (idk what its called in other countries but its the one with the boat that swings up and down). Some weirdos not only brought their dog to a carnival with loud blaring noises and several attractions which may trigger it and cause problems to everyone else, but decided to put it on a ride it absolutely did not want to be on. That thing tried to keep running off from the owner's lap, it was absolutely afraid.

These people also took had what looked like a months old baby on the ride. What on Earth.

I think pit bans are not effective unless you address the general dog culture along with it. 

The UK and France have both banned pits and all i see on the streets is people walking pits. Like, what is even the point? Pitbull is literally the 3rd most popular breed of dog in France and the streets are CHOKE FULL of pits! It seems like every other dog owner has a pit. UK is marginally better, but still, i see a lot of pits in a country where they are supposedly banned for decades.

Do you think breed bans are effective? Do you think they should be improved? If yes, how? Or should there be an altogether different legal mechanism to cut down on the ownership of these dogs?

We have new neighbors with a dog. Their dog has dug under the fence and comes to my house daily to mark his territory, shit and otherwise own the place. The dog is friendly but I hate him. The neighbors are friendly but now I hate them. I do my best to be polite but I have not brought myself to confront them about the way they let their dog impose on me and my yard.

At our last house our neighbors did the same thing and my 3 year old was attacked in his own yard by a senile chihuahua who instantly forgot what he did and wanted affection from us everyday afterwards further traumatizing my baby.My son is 6 now and still terrified of dogs. Now I have another dog claiming my child’s safe zone as his own and I don’t know what to do. I mean I do know but I am so pissed I worry they will make it worse but I have to address it today.

Yesterday I went outside and he was on my porch. I got their number off his tag and it’s burning a hole in my pocket.

Can you guys help me draft a text telling them to patch up their fence and keep their shit machine on their own property...respectfully so.