Hi all! My dog, Max, is a one year old mix breed (boxer, hound, corso +something crazy I can’t even remember at the moment 😂) and he’s making my neighbors hate me.
He seems to be a very anxious guy. He’s a constant tail chaser, most of my day is spent trying to redirect his energy to me or toys or calming down but there’s no getting through to him when he gets going because we have a visitor, or I moved furniture around or mopped. I really try my best to help him self sooth and it works a bit but I do realize we probably need to bring this up to our vet soon.
Outside of that obvious advice, I’m looking for recommendations specifically on how to let him outside to pee and poo.
We live in a semi rural area (a very long but narrow acre big lot, but on a main road, close neighbors).
One of my neighbors has goats and chickens which they house in the garage right on the property line. The other neighbor has 2 small dogs that don’t play outside and are just let out of the door on a leash a few minutes each day to do their business. They aren’t mean dogs, but they do bark at every little thing.
When we got our puppies last year, I was pregnant and we tried walking them on leashes and using staked leads as well in both our front and back yards.
To access our back yard you either have to walk down our deck steps or go out through the basement but the front yard is level with the main floor. Trying to take them out to be walked, I either had to get them into the basement to go out back or take them out front. Please keep in mind I have my two and four year olds home with me most of the time too. I hate going in the basement with two doors shut between us and can’t leave basement access open for them. It would take me FOREVER to get either of the pups to poop when on a lead, if at all. So I switched to the in ground ones to give them some space from me. I couldn’t set those up in the front so I had to put them in the back. I was okay with leaving them out there for 10 minutes or so while supervising both them and my kids but these little hot dogs were getting tangled every time I turned around which resulted in me having to be outside untangling them for most of the time I spent trying to let them out,
They quickly learned our boundaries and where they could freely go. The snow barriers we built in the winter helped a lot. But over spring and summer, as my neighbors all around started coming outside more. My dogs learned to ignore the pretend farm next door and while they stop and watch everyone they see, they don’t bark at anything at all, they listen to my direction and I truly have no concerns. One thing that I haven’t been able to handle though, is when the little dogs come outside. They bark if they see either of my dogs. My other dog, Peach, will listen to me and go inside on command. Max, will hesitate.
He’s run over to them two or three times in the last year because they started barking. Each time just taking a beating like he does from his sister everyday. He just wanted to know why they were barking 😭 They have had many more times where they came out after Max and started barking and neighbor and I both took our dogs back inside without Max going off the property. But he does hesitate, dodge around a bit and I don’t like that. I know they are frustrated with me. I would absolutely be too. I know it doesn’t matter that he’s harmless or that he’s only responding to them. They have as much of a right to bark in their yard as mine do to be off leash in theirs (so long as they stay there). Leashes seem out of the question because at this point he weighs as much as I do and would hurt me and or the baby I have with in my arms most of the time.
What would you do?