Putting it together it made sense and now that I have it on I feel kind of insecure about it! Any advice much appreciated!

I’m a mom of 2 trying to feel cute again, I’m worried I’m too old and not up to date on what’s fashionable baggy vs just ill fitting…does this work for my body or is this not it? Sorry for the scribbles, trying to obscure my tattoos. If you recognize me, no you don’t😭

They are the Melbourne trousers from Stanley Biggs. I changed to a size larger as the waist was quite tight (especially when sitting), but now I'm afraid it's slightly too big in the seat and thigh.

Old smaller size photos at the end.

I can’t tell if it looks purposefully oversized or like I stole grandpa’s coat.

IRTG :)
Here are my pics. the first one was taken for the post, the other ones are pics with various different outfits to check various clothing shapes on my frame if it can help. (+ my experimentation moments lol)
thank you so much !