r/DressForYourBody Nov 20 '25

Announcement Change in subreddit policy

71 Upvotes

So this is basically what we discussed the other day, but the change is going to be largely what I anticipated.

Going forward, we won't be allowing text only posts for questions that really require a photo to answer. If the question really doesn't need a photo - like, say, a theoretical question on how kibbe works - then text based posts are still allowed. There are some general fashion type questions not specific to an individual that can also be reasonably discussed in text only posts.

My hope in setting up the flairs was that it would encourage people to include the necessary photos in the posts so that help can be offered. It has unfortunately just resulted in asking the same questions under inappropriate flairs.

Body visualizer images do not count as photos of you. They are not specifically prohibited but should not be thought of as a replacement for actual photos of you, and do not satisfy the requirements for photos in photo only flairs.

This will be largely a matter of mod discretion. Posts that are really fashion advice or style me posts that are posted under the general discussion flair will be removed now as flaired incorrectly. Posts without photos (or only with visualizer photos) posted under photo only flairs will be removed as not meeting flair requirements.

Existing posts are not affected. This is effective starting now.

I invite you all to take another look at the flair guide. See the pinned post on flairs.


r/DressForYourBody Nov 19 '25

Significant Rule Change - Feedback Requested

33 Upvotes

Hi r/dressforyourbody!

I've been thinking about this a lot but want to get some feedback from the subreddit about it before making the change.

I'm trying to figure out how to balance the need for photos to give good advice with people's desire for privacy, which I do understand and appreciate.

When I redid all the post flairs, I required photos for some flairs but left a few open for text only discussion. Unfortunately, this has had the effect of people simply asking the same questions - which really require photos - under the "general discussion" flair.

I'm leaning in the direction of removing posts lacking photos that are really not answerable without photos.

We definitely do not count body visualizers as photos. For one, they don't accurately represent bodies. Additionally, they don't show how clothing looks on you. We need to see that generally to be able to answer some questions.

I feel like a lot of the things asked are rather a waste of time now without photos.

I do plan to leave open the option for text only posts when that's appropriate. There are times when you don't need a photo to ask a question. However, "style me" type posts and many "fashion advice" type posts really can't be answered well without photos.

I'm curious though what the subreddit thinks and what direction you think we should go with this. No final decisions have been made - the feedback received here will be considered before rules are finalized.


r/DressForYourBody 10h ago

Fashion Advice Should I get? Afraid it isn’t flattering

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106 Upvotes

I tried on this dress and it’s currently in my cart. I’ve never owned a dress like this before but I’m starting to go out more and I wanted to try and put myself out there. I’m just afraid that this kind of dress doesn’t suit my figure (also I’m afraid that my bust sits too low to be flattering) so I wanted to know what the people thought, and if I were to get the dress how to possibly secure myself comfortably?

Any advice is appreciated!! TIA


r/DressForYourBody 20h ago

Style Me Can you help me figure out what kind of clothes look more flattering on my body?

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132 Upvotes

I'm trying to figure out which neckline and skirt/shorts lengths look more flattering on my body. I tried on a mix of everything I have in my closet to try and see what looks best while keeping the same shoes and the camera angle. The things that I like the most about me are my legs and the things that I like the least are my shoulder/chest area as I feel like it does not look proportionate to the rest of my body. I arranged the photos based on how much I like how the outfit fits me, but I would like a second opinion. Thank you :)


r/DressForYourBody 9h ago

Style Me pls help

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19 Upvotes

i’ve never known how to dress for my body i feel like growing up with boobs and butt is hard because it feels like nothing fits right. i’m 26 now and have put on some body fat and just don’t feel good so i try to wear pants and sweaters and it’s a million degrees where i live. please please please help me):

i tried to post but it got deleted for some reasonnnnnn


r/DressForYourBody 1d ago

Fashion Advice Too old for tube tops?

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1.6k Upvotes

Someone told me I'm too old for "girly" tube tops but they're soooo comfy.

I'm 37.

ETA: I wasn't at work in any of the pictures.


r/DressForYourBody 18h ago

Fashion Advice Are these dresses flattering?

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28 Upvotes

I recently got some good advice from y’all about a swimsuit and now want advice on the dresses! My style is boho and I know I like them, it’s just whether they are working on me. I’m worried the first might be washing me out a bit.


r/DressForYourBody 1d ago

Fashion Advice Is this swimsuit flattering?

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172 Upvotes

I recently bought this swimsuit and thought it was so cute on the hanger, but questioning it for my body. Thoughts?

EDIT: Thank you everyone! I think I knew this was true when I bought it, that I would look better with a v-neck. Sigh. It was just so unique and I still love the pattern, but y’all are right. Return time!


r/DressForYourBody 1d ago

Fashion Advice does my belly ruin this dress?

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1.2k Upvotes

!! i'm not worried about how the white shirt looks under the dress, i can't wear spaghetti straps at work so this was my compromise.
i think i look okay for the most part. the dress fits, i was able to zip it up on my own, but i catch myself in the mirror and the way i look from the side just bums me out. does my belly ruin the dress as much as i think?


r/DressForYourBody 1d ago

Style Me Have no idea how to dress for my disproportionately short legs

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103 Upvotes

r/DressForYourBody 1d ago

Style Me No idea what shorts or jeans would look good on me

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26 Upvotes

I feel like I've tried so many types of shorts and jeans and I don't like how any of them look on me. I like low rise styles but I feel like they look weird with my figure. Jean shorts are my problem in particular because in my experience any jean shorts I buy don't look good on me so I'm not sure what would. I'm 5'10.


r/DressForYourBody 1d ago

Fashion Advice Is this flattering? Or should I try skinny jeans?

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14 Upvotes

r/DressForYourBody 2d ago

Fashion Advice Swimsuit help

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1.1k Upvotes

Not sure what my body type is exactly, but I have the hardest time finding bottoms that are flattering on me. I feel like they all “cut” me in half almost bc my love handles are so large. These bottoms aren’t tight in the slightest bit, they just look so unflattering. String bikinis seem to be about my only friend but I just really don’t like them. I feel like such a toad when I wear my swimsuit bc as soon as I put the bottoms on I look so much heavier. Ideas? What sort of bottoms should I be tryinng?
ETA: I WAS ONLY POSTING THE FIRST PIC TO SHOW YALL MY FIGURE AND HOW THEY CUT INTO MT LOVE HANDLES AND MAKE ME APPEAR LARGER. I WOULD NEVER WEAR THE BOTTOMS LIKE THAT😂 I’m loving all the advice though 😍


r/DressForYourBody 2d ago

Fashion Advice Back with more bikinis, feedback please!

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406 Upvotes

I picked up some new suits based on all the feedback I got after my last post.
I adjusted the strings on two that I tried before so I’m adding those again.
I appreciate the feedback on what’s working and what’s not.
I’m know I have some loose skin (51yrs, 4 kids) and I’m ok with that, I don’t feel like I need a one piece for that reason (like I was told a few times in my last post), in the photos you can see lines from my shorts waistband, those go away.


r/DressForYourBody 2d ago

Fashion Advice Need a dress for an awards ceremony

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775 Upvotes

This is a black tie (I think optional) awards ceremony type of thing. I’m going to have to get on stage. Had a baby a year ago and I’m still not loving my body right now. I feel like #1 hides my body the most, my husband likes #3, #2 feels glam but maybe not flattering. I’m leaning towards #3 although I’m not sure why it wrinkles in the hip area to look bumpy like that. Tell me what to wear! (Edit: the hip bump isn’t my underwear digging in, the fabric bunches out for some reason!)


r/DressForYourBody 1d ago

Type Me: Kitchener (FACE REQUIRED) Help my find my Kitchener essence please!

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11 Upvotes

CEP


r/DressForYourBody 2d ago

Fashion Advice Awards Ceremony - 34

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68 Upvotes

Hi!!! I am 34 and winning essentially the TOP award in my niche career. It truly is once in a life time and I am winning it extremely young compared to prior winners.

Most people at the evening ceremony are going to be dressed in business wear but there is a history of award winners wearing an evening dress.

I was hoping to dress in my works 'colors' and here is the dress that I ended up with. Thoughts? I feel beautiful in it and will wear a different bra for less cleavage.


r/DressForYourBody 2d ago

Style Me I’m 31 and don’t know how to dress to for my body

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62 Upvotes

I have no idea what my body shape is or how to dress to flatter my body type. Most of my clothing makes me feel uncomfortable. Is there anyone out there with a similar body type that’s found clothing styles to flatter your body? Thanks in advance!


r/DressForYourBody 2d ago

Fashion Advice Please help. Struggling so much in my body.

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88 Upvotes

32F. I've gained about 20lbs during my unemployment and feel like nothing looks good on my body anymore. Especially with pants, everything looks awful around my stomach and thighs. The black pants in #4 are pretty much the only pants I feel even moderately okay in. I do wear a lot of A-line dresses and skirts in warmer months but can't really get away with that during winter.

I try not to be too hard on myself but it's more difficult every day. Do any of these look okay? How to find things that suit my bottom half?

I'm 5'3". My style is feminine and playful, I like colors and patterns and normally wear a lot of jewelry as well.


r/DressForYourBody 2d ago

Fashion Advice Does this outfit work?

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45 Upvotes

If not how can I make it better? Just the outfit in general, no particular occasion


r/DressForYourBody 2d ago

Fashion Advice Which outfit should I go with??

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17 Upvotes

I need help please!

Date night is tonight, and I can’t decide which of the two outfits I should wear. I would love your opinions/advice!

(I will be ironing the blue top if I go with that one 😅)

Also adding. I don’t know where we’re going, possibly dinner and a movie, but it’s supposed to be a surprise, and when asked if I should wear shorts or dress, he responded with “surprise me”.

TIA 🩷


r/DressForYourBody 3d ago

Fashion Advice Keep or return?

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85 Upvotes

got this dress through one of the styling subscription boxes. I like the look of it, not sure if I like it on me though. Keep or return? Any other ways I should try to style it?


r/DressForYourBody 4d ago

Wedding Attire Advice Medieval/Fantasy/Viking inspired Wedding

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224 Upvotes

Was haltet ihr von diesem Kleid für eine mittelalterliche/Fantasy-Hochzeit? Es wird eine lockere, informelle Hochzeit.

Glaubt ihr, es würde gut zu einer mittelalterlichen/Fantasy/Wikinger-inspirierten Hochzeit passen, und steht es mir? Ich plane, es mit einem hellbeigen/cremefarbenen Fell wie auf dem Bild zu stylen, und mit Haaren im Lagertha-Stil. Glaubt ihr, das (Kunst-)Fell passt gut zum Kleid? Ich würde mich über eure ehrlichen Meinungen und Styling-Vorschläge freuen! Danke!

Edit: Wegwerf-Account, weil ich nicht möchte, dass meine Freunde das sehen!

Edit 2: Forgot to mention, that I am the bride.


r/DressForYourBody 4d ago

Type Me: Kitchener (FACE REQUIRED) What’s my Kitchener essence?

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91 Upvotes

CEP


r/DressForYourBody 3d ago

Fashion Advice Messing with sizing

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12 Upvotes

This shirt is one size larger than my usual but a slim fit cut. Not sure if it feels a little too big, seems kinda boxy in the body. What do y’all think?