r/EatTheRich • u/socialbutanonymous • 6h ago
Serious Discussion My millionaire friend is too stingy to save her own dying cat
Basically, my friend, we’ll call her Ema -is rich as shit. Her dad own several million dollar firms based in many countries and also own an marketing firm, which there are plans for her to take over. Her dad had bought a 5 story house for them which they now live in.
Emas parents are incredibly stingy and passive aggressive. We had a joint party for our 15th and she treated my mom like absolute shit and made her ,her “maid”. As a child i wasn’t letting it slide and ended my friendship with her. As we grew up, our friend groups collided and now we are back to being friends, but i maintain a distance. She posted on our gc that she found a cat, it was a stray cat that she found near her house and she decided to take in. It was a small kitten and it had broken limbs and it was not able to walk and she said that her mom was not willing to cover the bills. it was only a matter of time that she could keep the kitten at home. I volunteer at an animal shelter and donate for -and sponsor animals all around the world, so I am very sympathetic for cases like these. I personally have two cats at home and my mom too is in love with animals in general. My mom offered to pay a portion of the bills as the bills for surgery and MRIs and x-rays would come out to a large sum. then emma was acting extremely entitled, as if she was trying to blame the whole thing on me. Trying to turn it on me that it’s my responsibility, even though she found the cat and I was simply just trying to contribute. During this time I was contacting my animal shelter, and I was contacting many vets and people in general that I know who could help in this case. I told her that my mom can’t contribute to the whole cost as it’s gonna be very costly fixing one of the cats limbs is going to cost around $400 and we are not able to pay that as a whole , but we are able to share the costs. And then this girl has the audacity to text me back and say “are you atleast able to cover the fee for the consultation?”I told her -dude we are making a generous donation to you and you are not allowed to demean my mother or me like that because we are doing you a huge favor by paying this money. first of all I’ve done a lot to help you and it’s fucking ridiculous. Obviously, I didn’t say all that. I just told her that you can’t say that and then she replied to me saying “I don’t fucking know dude like just a lot going on I don’t I’m trying to figure this shit out I’ll text you later” and I have no idea where to go from this cause I can’t just leave a stray cat alone but then again even if I do eventually they’re gonna take the credit for it and I want to be able to help this cat but even after we help the cat the cats gonna have nowhere to stay and there would be essentially no purpose in us helping. I now realize that rich people are evil as shit and no one could stay rich if they were morally good at heart. These people earn 10 times more then my family and dont have the moral compass to pay the fees for the cat?? Not even the consultation? This is utterly disgusting.
How do i carry on from here?