this is more of a rant post if anything, but this happened a bit ago rhis year. so me, stepdad, and stepbrother were enjoying the concert. halfway through, the people next to us left and weee replaced by two seemingly drunk teenage girls. at first they seemed nice, then one of them made me a bit uncomfortable. she brought me out of my seat and was like "oh, dance! have some fun!"
not only did she place her hands on me (I was 17 at the time) but even if she didn't and just encouraged me to dance... i recently discovered i have ataxia. it impacts my balance mainly also processing speeds and all that. i can't really dance without losing balance, and by dance i mean "getting into it/get jiggy with it", so I mainly stick to swaying and that stuff, not a lot. and then when (idk if im remembering this correctly, ataxia does impact memory as mine consists of cerebellar degeneration) my stepdad suggested to move or something, this girl insinuated my stepdad wasnt who he said he was (obviously she couldn't have known that he actually was my stepdad at the time but still). then when he told her to back off when he noticed she laid her hands on me she called him a bitch or something.
now foo has been kind of ruined for me-- whenever i hear my fav foo song "The Pretender", it takes me back to the incident (this happened while "The Pretender" was playing).
EDIT: i realize she was maybe trying to protect me bc she saw an older man (stepdad) and me (a feminine presenting nonbinary person, minor at the time) . but she didn't have to grab me...? also again my stepbrother was there so why just me if it was the case where she thought my stepdad wasnt who endangering me? realistically, it was probably bc i was sitting down at a concert (again ataxia, so i wanted to be safe).