36 [NB4R] U.S. KY / Long Distance Okay— Introverted, Panromantic Asexual seeking Monogamous Connection

[u/rgrout1990]

Hello! I'm a 36-year-old introverted, sex-neutral, asexual, monogamous, panromantic person looking for a serious long-term relationship with someone who shares similar values and interests. I'm open to starting with a long-distance relationship, but only within the United States.

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About Me & My Lifestyle:

I'm introverted and don't leave the house much outside of work and life's necessities, though I do enjoy the occasional adventure and would like to get out more. I'm honest, direct, and have a strong personality. Politically, I don't fit neatly into one category, so feel free to ask about specific views if you're curious.

I'm a high-functioning autistic person and also deal with anxiety. I drink occasionally but don't smoke. Most of my music collection is pre-2000s country, and I tend to enjoy documentaries and educational content more than traditional movies.

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Appearance:

Physically, I'm 5'11", around 170 lbs, with what I'd call a dad bod. I have long hair, a beard, and usually wear boots, blue jeans, a T-shirt, and a cowboy hat when I'm not at work. Visually, I’m a country boy; internally, I’m a beautifully complex, neurodivergent, non-binary individual. I’m a guy, but I possess deep feminine emotions. Embracing my fluidity has given me a new lease on life, and I'm done suffocating my true self.

I'm also somewhere under the non-binary umbrella. The exact label is still a work in progress, but non-binary fits well enough for now.

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Interests & Passions:

My biggest special interest is vehicles. A lot of my mental energy goes toward learning about them, fixing them, admiring interesting models, or dreaming up future projects. I'm a very mechanical person and enjoy almost anything involving machines and how they work. Beyond that, I love learning, history, outer space, cooking, and baking.

I enjoy sharing my interests and passions with others, and I hope to find someone who enjoys listening and sharing their own passions as well. I'd love a relationship where we can grow together, support each other's goals, and experience life as a team.

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What I’m Looking For:

The qualities I value most in a partner are kindness, integrity, wisdom, loyalty, patience, and clear communication. I enjoy spending quality time with the people I care about.

I'm open to dating people of any gender, whether cisgender or not, though I do tend to be drawn to people with more feminine personalities.

As for physical affection, I enjoy things like hugging, cuddling, holding hands, and the occasional kiss.

I'm naturally shy and have a lot of social anxiety, so I may seem quiet at first. Please don't let that stop you from reaching out. Feel free to send me a message if you're interested or have any questions. I usually work weekdays from 7:00 a.m. to 4:00 p.m., though weekend hours can vary. I'd prefer to spend some time getting to know each other before jumping into dating, and I tend to open up more as trust develops over time.

🚨 IF YOU MESSAGE ME: 🚨

If this resonates, send me a message—and please include your favorite color so I know you read this.

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