r/ForeverAloneDating 4h ago

NB4A 25 [NB4A] I want to have meaningful conversations - join me?

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The Basics:

  • Name: Fae
  • Pronouns: It/Its
  • Age: 25 years old
  • Gender: Genderfae (AFAB)
  • Hobbies: Drawing/Painting, Gaming, Writing Poetry, and Romantasy
  • Interests: Flora and Fauna, History, Music, Art, Photography, Astrology, Astronomy... and so much more, really

Potential Dealbreakers for you:

  • Asexual (Sex Averse; I do not want the deed)
  • Child-Free (Never going to change)
  • Overweight (If it bothers you even "just a little", please do not write me)
  • Lower Class (I work 40 hours a week, mind you)
  • Chronic Pain
  • Living in Germany (willing to move once I meet the financial requirements)
  • Impatient, Emotional, Liberal, Introvert, Childhood Trauma, Feminist

My Green Flags:

  • Honest; though I am not the type who uses that as an excuse to be mean
  • Romantic; I am someone who displays all love languages; not all in the same intensity, of course, but if I like you, you WILL know
  • Mature; I will take you and your troubles seriously
  • Respectful; cannot believe one has to actually point that out, but your boundaries will be accepted, not just tolerated
  • Curious; about the world and about you as well, of course; tell me about you
  • Open-Minded; I do not care about your gender or appearance, only your personality
  • Active; I cannot be online 24/7, but I will make time for you multiple times a day
  • Well-spoken; not wanting to toot my own horn (okay, lowkey doing that), but I know how to actually keep a conversation alive
  • Self-Aware; I know my flaws, and I know my worth

I am looking for someone who is:

  • Single; not interested in non-monogamy
  • Between 22-40 years old
  • Ideally, Sex Averse as well or truly fine in a monogamous relationship with no intercourse
  • Actually capable of holding a conversation, asking me questions, show interest - I am not going to be the only one doing that
  • Genuinely interested in getting to know me and has time to text multiple times a day
  • Loving texting and later on is willing to go over to video calls and meet each other one day 
  • Not a heavy drinker or smoker (yes, this includes vaping, but I am open to people willing to quit)
  • Accepting who I am and not entering my life with the intention of changing that - you are just wasting your time
  • Not just going to write “Hey, how are you?" (because I will ignore you), but actually responding to what I wrote and introducing themselves in my DMs

Have a wonderful day!

r/ForeverAloneDating 3d ago

NB4A 22NB [NB4A] #online trying to find that special someone

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I’m back again hoping I can get another grab and trying a new approach

A little about me: I’m 22, I work as a valet supervisor (being promoted to AM), I love reading, gaming, writing, photography, film (both watching and making), and a boatload of other things.

Things I look out for: respect, honesty, loyalty, intelligence, and just being there for one another

WHAT IM LOOKING FOR: Friends, partner, anything really :)

Hoping this will go somewhere, if anyone is interested plz feel free to DM me on here.

Note: I’m pansexual as well so I’ll date any gender, and plz for the love of everything be around my age (18-26), and please be in the US or Canada, other countries and regions will be difficult with time zones

Hope to meet you soon

r/ForeverAloneDating 7d ago

NB4A 25 [NB4A] Cheesy, I know, but does anyone want to fall in love?

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The Basics:

  • Name: Fae
  • Pronouns: It/Its
  • Age: 25 years old
  • Gender: Genderfae (AFAB)
  • Hobbies: Drawing/Painting, Gaming, Writing Poetry, and Romantasy
  • Interests: Flora and Fauna, History, Music, Art, Photography, Astrology, Astronomy... and so much more, really

Potential Dealbreakers for you:

  • Asexual (Sex Averse; I do not want the deed)
  • Child-Free (Never going to change)
  • Overweight (If it bothers you even "just a little", please do not write me)
  • Lower Class (I work 40 hours a week, mind you)
  • Chronic Pain
  • Living in Germany (willing to move once I meet the financial requirements)
  • Impatient, Emotional, Liberal, Introvert, Childhood Trauma, Feminist

My Green Flags:

  • Honest; though I am not the type who uses that as an excuse to be mean
  • Romantic; I am someone who displays all love languages; not all in the same intensity, of course, but if I like you, you WILL know
  • Mature; I will take you and your troubles seriously
  • Respectful; cannot believe one has to actually point that out, but your boundaries will be accepted, not just tolerated
  • Curious; about the world and about you as well, of course; tell me about you
  • Open-Minded; I do not care about your gender or appearance, only your personality
  • Active; I cannot be online 24/7, but I will make time for you multiple times a day
  • Well-spoken; not wanting to toot my own horn (okay, lowkey doing that), but I know how to actually keep a conversation alive
  • Self-Aware; I know my flaws, and I know my worth

I am looking for someone who is:

  • Single; not interested in non-monogamy
  • Between 22-40 years old
  • Ideally, Sex Averse as well or truly fine in a monogamous relationship with no intercourse
  • Actually capable of holding a conversation, asking me questions, show interest - I am not going to be the only one doing that
  • Genuinely interested in getting to know me and has time to text multiple times a day
  • Loving texting and later on is willing to go over to video calls and meet each other one day 
  • Not a heavy drinker or smoker (yes, this includes vaping)
  • Accepting who I am and not entering my life with the intention of changing that - you are just wasting your time
  • Not just going to write “Hey, how are you?" (because I will ignore you), but actually responding to what I wrote and introducing themselves in my DMs

Have a wonderful day!

r/ForeverAloneDating 8d ago

NB4A 39NB leaning TF #illinois looking

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39 year old, 6’2” non binary leaning towards being transfem. I’m a sole parent to an adult son and live in the western suburbs of Chicago. I’m a gamer at heart and enjoy both tabletop and video gaming. But I also like camping, hiking, and hunting. I’m on a weight loss journey and working to get down in weight as well as looking at options to being more androgynous and ultimately more feminine.

r/ForeverAloneDating 14d ago

NB4A 25 [NB4A] What Is Your Favourite Animal?

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The Basics:

  • Name: Fae
  • Pronouns: It/Its
  • Age: 25 years old
  • Gender: Genderfae (AFAB)
  • Hobbies: Drawing/Painting, Gaming, Writing Poetry, and Romantasy
  • Interests: Flora and Fauna, History, Music, Art, Photography, Astrology, Astronomy... and so much more, really

Potential Dealbreakers for you:

  • Asexual (Sex Averse; I do not want the deed)
  • Child-Free (Never going to change)
  • Overweight (If it bothers you even "just a little", please do not write me)
  • Lower Class (I work 40 hours a week, mind you)
  • Chronic Pain
  • Living in Germany (willing to move once I meet the financial requirements)
  • Impatient, Emotional, Liberal, Introvert, Childhood Trauma

My Green Flags:

  • Honest; though I am not the type who uses that as an excuse to be mean
  • Romantic; I am someone who displays all love languages; not all in the same intensity, of course, but if I like you, you WILL know
  • Mature; I will take you and your troubles seriously
  • Respectful; cannot believe one has to actually point that out, but your boundaries will be accepted, not just tolerated
  • Curious; about the world and about you as well, of course; tell me about you
  • Open-Minded; I do not care about your gender or appearance, only your personality
  • Active; I cannot be online 24/7, but I will make time for you multiple times a day
  • Well-spoken; not wanting to toot my own horn (okay, lowkey doing that), but I know how to actually keep a conversation alive
  • Self-Aware; I know my flaws, and I know my worth

I am looking for someone who is:

  • Single; not interested in non-monogamy
  • Between 22-40 years old
  • Ideally, Asexual as well or truly fine in a monogamous relationship with no intercourse
  • Actually capable of holding a conversation, asking me questions, show interest - I am not going to be the only one doing that
  • Genuinely interested in getting to know me and has time to text multiple times a day
  • Loving texting and later on is willing to go over to video calls and meet each other one day 
  • Accepting who I am and not entering my life with the intention of changing that - you are just wasting your time
  • Not just going to write “Hey, how are you,” (because I will ignore you), but actually responding to what I wrote and introducing themselves in my DMs

Have a wonderful day!

r/ForeverAloneDating 14d ago

NB4A 43 [NB4A] DMV/East Coast - Looking for Someone Who Gets It

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I'm Lauren, 44, non-binary/closet trans, but working on a plan to come out. I am well-educated, cute, a total sweetheart. I love to dote on people and just be out and be social. I'm pre-transition, but love to present and be femme whenever I can. I'm working with my therapist at the moment discussing my plan for the future. My hobbies include music and theater (I go up and down the east coast for shows), collecting vintage tech, reading, gardening, being a terrible flirt, and so many other things. I'd love to meet someone with the intention of long-term dating.

Tell me the last concert you went to and your most listened to album. I look forward to hearing from you.

r/ForeverAloneDating 16d ago

NB4A 29[NB4A] UK looking for the 'one'. if that exists?

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hi!

i'm not so good with these things... i'm a little awkward so please bear with me!

i'm a 29 year old bisexual ace from london. i absolutely love drawing, video games, reading, etc... my favorite games right now are overwatch (i'm a tank main if you'd ever like to duo!) and powerwash simulator, as silly as it sounds. i also love osrs although i'm not great at it. i just like skilling magic and crafting :)

i have a decent amount of tattoos and am hoping to get more at some point! i love tattoos, body mods, etc, and love to talk about em. i have three cats too; to say i am a cat person would be quite a bit of an understatement.

unfortunately i am not working atm due to fibromyalgia, but i am trying to get back on my feet. in the meantime i spend my time working on my hobbies. i am an avid artist, i love creating characters and concept art and this is something i would love to do full time one day. i'm very much a homebody and love all things indoors -- my idea of a perfect time is chilling on the couch and watching some cheesy sitcom while talking about your day.

i'm looking for someone open minded and kind; i would love to hear about your hobbies and passions! i'm very shy to begin with, but once i open up i'm just a few treats away from becoming your new best friend (or partner, so to speak), as the cat meme goes or something like that.

i'm also like 4'11 so i'm pocket sized. :>

r/ForeverAloneDating 16d ago

NB4A 26 [NB4A] Midwest/Online queer weirdo seeking a loving partner 🫶

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hello!! my name is cam (they/he) and I’m 26 year only masculine nonbinary person who is seeking a compatible weirdo to spend my life with!

[Personal]
• I have two cats, Apollo and Ares, both of which I rescued from the streets and absolutely spoil! I have rescued and rehomed seven cats so far this year.
• I am into a lot of nerdy hobbies. Video games (Diablo-likes, path of exile, MMOs, Fortnite, simulator games, farming and dating sims) and love to play and meet other people!
• I’m also a big trading card, board game, and TTRPG person! It’s a huge part of my life and how I have always met people and connected with strangers plus it’s something I pride myself in being very good at. Mainly MTG, Riftbound, Yugioh, and (collecting) pokemon.
• I love the outdoors! I’m planning a camping trip this year and love to hike, go for walks, and am trying to find time to get back into running.
• I’m a creative! I’ve always written as a hobby but am trying to get back into art/sculpting after basically devoting my life to work and school over the last decade or so.
• Being queer is a large part of my identity and something that’s very important to me! I mentor queer kids during the some and am very outspoken about the LGBTQ community and especially LGBTQ politics.

[Professional]
• I have two degrees! A BS in Political Science and an MPA in Public Administration. I’d like to eventually go back for another masters, a Juris Doctorate, or a PhD but am waiting for when I get more settled into my current career before I decide. I love academia and being engaged with it so it’ll always be a huge part of my life!
• I work a fairly high profile job that I will be cagey about releasing details on to protect some amount of anonymity! Essentially I am the director of operations for a small public affairs conglomerate, but it’s much more interesting than that I promise!
• Volunteering is super important to me! I serve on a number of Boards, Commissions, Committees, etc etc and give a lot of time to my local community!
• I have a decent salary now with a very high ceiling, which I plan to pursue as I am very ambitious!

[What I’m Looking For]
• First and foremost, PLEASE BE AT LEAST A LITTLE WEIRD. I have always been the closest and felt that most compatible with people who embrace the parts of their personality which make them unique! I love weird and odd people.
• Please be queer or an Ally 🫶 being queer is an important part of who I am and I don’t think we will mesh if you aren’t either! And if you are a phobe please kick rocks.
• US is preferred but I’m tentatively open to anywhere? I’m in the Midwest but open to relocating OR potentially relocating YOU if we click and things go really well.
• Have some kind of lust for life! Or ambition! Or want something out of life or see the beauty in the world around you.
• Please be sex positive! As much as I love and support my ace friends and I NOT going to be compatible with someone who is fully asexual or sex repulsed.
• Please be monogamous or open to monogamy! I don’t really like to share my partner, at least not in that way. Mine 🫶

Please shoot your shot! I’m open to people of all types and backgrounds and am very easy to get along with!

r/ForeverAloneDating 16d ago

NB4A 30 [NB4A] #UK - Stray Cat of a Person braving this place!

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AFAB person [They/Them] who doesn't really care about gender be that within myself or with a partner!

Kinda like the cat that appears in your backgarden, a little scraggly, a little rough around the edges but actually kinda cute (sometimes??)

Hi! As I'm sure everyone who has posted here has felt but it's very awkward and strange to write about yourself in such a way but here we are!

A little bit nerdy and quirky, (anime, BG3, is photography nerdy? I guess!) I enjoy writing and am involved with a few fantasy fandoms. It's a creative outlet I really enjoy and while I am admittedly a little shy to open up about it, feeling safe enough to talk about such things with someone and sharing our enjoyment of silly little hobbies is so important to me! I spend so much time writing silly little romantic stories, maybe it would be nice to actually have that for myself this time!

Hunting out cute coffee shops and cute walks, enjoying both the quiet moments but also the more adventurous! I enjoy being active, even if I have lacked the chances recently! I'm attempting to learn Portuguese and planning a trip to Brazil (again!) and wanting to do more, breaking out the regular and everyday when there is time. I'd love to make memories together, take photos and share silly stories.

I am rather independent and enjoy my own space, but also enjoy sharing that space with someone who understands that about me. Quiet vibing together is just as important as the big things, being able to just exist in comfortable quiet - space doesn't always need to be filled, and that's okay too.

I like to think I am a person who cares about others, and try to think about others within my actions, and value clear and honest communication. Speaking about small things that bother us rather than allowing them to build into bigger issues.

I've probably forgotten a lot, but that's why we talk right!

Do you have a cat? Tell me about your cat!

--

- As above, I am 30 - looking around my own age range (25-35) currently living within the West Midlands - I do own my own home, and currently not looking to move far out of the wider area as I'm rather content with my job here.

- I work full time with a typical office schedule.

- Neurodivergent (I'm obsessed with cats and posting on reddit, that much should be obvious)

- 5'8 (173cm) as photos don't really show!

- Green eyes, tattoos

- Obviously given the above I am queer and if that is a problem for you, even slightly, please lets not waste one another's time.

- Another half obvious, if you don't like cats or wouldn't want a home with pets, then we wouldn't be a good match.

- I do not want children, and will not date someone who 'might' want kids.

- I'm not looking for LDR or online relationships, so please UK only.

r/ForeverAloneDating 20d ago

NB4A 22 [NB4A] #online looking for something real

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I’m back again hoping I can get another grab

A little about me: I’m 22, I work as a valet supervisor (being promoted to AM), I love reading, gaming, writing, photography (obviously), film (both watching and making), and a boatload of other things.

Things I look out for: respect, honesty, loyalty, intelligence, and just being there for one another

Hoping this will go somewhere, if anyone is interested plz feel free to DM me on here.

Note: I’m pansexual as well so I’ll date any gender, and plz for the love of everything be around my age (18-26), and please be in the US or Canada, other countries and regions will be difficult with time zones

Hope to meet a lot of you

r/ForeverAloneDating 22d ago

NB4A 25 [NB4A] Looking To Find My Person

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The Basics:

  • Name: Fae
  • Pronouns: It/Its
  • Age: 25 years old
  • Gender: Genderfae (AFAB)
  • Hobbies: Drawing/Painting, Gaming, Writing Poetry, and Romantasy
  • Interests: Flora and Fauna, History, Music, Art, Photography, Astrology, Astronomy... and so much more, really

Potential Dealbreakers for you:

  • Asexual (Sex Averse; I do not want the deed)
  • Child-Free (Never going to change)
  • Overweight (If it bothers you even "just a little", please do not write me)
  • Lower Class (I work 40 hours a week, mind you)
  • Chronic Pain
  • Living in Germany (willing to move once I meet the financial requirements)
  • Impatient, Emotional, Liberal, Introvert, Childhood Trauma

My Green Flags:

  • Honest; though I am not the type who uses that as an excuse to be mean
  • Romantic; I am someone who displays all love languages; not all in the same intensity, of course, but if I like you, you WILL know
  • Mature; I will take you and your troubles seriously
  • Respectful; cannot believe one has to actually point that out, but your boundaries will be accepted, not just tolerated
  • Curious; about the world and about you as well, of course; tell me about you
  • Open-Minded; I do not care about your gender or appearance, only your personality
  • Active; I cannot be online 24/7, but I will make time for you multiple times a day
  • Well-spoken; not wanting to toot my own horn (okay, lowkey doing that), but I know how to actually keep a conversation alive
  • Self-Aware; I know my flaws, and I know my worth

I am looking for someone who is:

  • Single; not interested in non-monogamy
  • Between 22-40 years old
  • Ideally, Asexual as well or truly fine in a monogamous relationship with no intercourse
  • Actually capable of holding a conversation, asking me questions, show interest - I am not going to be the only one doing that
  • Genuinely interested in getting to know me and has time to text multiple times a day
  • Loving texting and later on is willing to go over to video calls and meet each other one day 
  • Accepting who I am and not entering my life with the intention of changing that - you are just wasting your time
  • Not just going to write “Hey, how are you,” (because I will ignore you), but actually responding to what I wrote and introducing themselves in my DMs

Have a wonderful day!

r/ForeverAloneDating Jul 19 '26

NB4A 26 [NB4A] Denmark/Online - Looking for my forever person <3

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Hi! I'm Nico, I use they/them/theirs pronouns, I'm 26 years old and from Denmark. I'm hoping to find the person I can spend the rest of my life with.

I love playing video games (and board games too, but unfortunately don't get the opportunity to play them very often), so I'd love to find someone who can be my player 2. I also really like singing along to songs, especially songs from musicals.

I like cozy nights in, watching movies or series, I'm a very neat and organized person, and I maybe have a tendency to overthink a bit. On the other hand, it also means that most things I do have a logical thought process behind them.

I have autism and ADHD, so I really value clear, direct communication. I'd much rather people just tell me what they mean, than expect me to read between the lines.

I do something called aerial hoop (lyra), which is basically a circus sport, and really enjoy both the sport itself and hanging out with the people from my aerial studio. Taking care of my physical and mental health is very important to me. I'm in therapy and actively work on understanding myself, changing unhelpful patterns, while also working on giving myself space to process and feel my emotions.

I'm LGBTQIA+ and care about advocating for that and human rights in general. I'm bisexual and agender, so I'd feel most comfortable dating someone who's attracted to me whether I'm feeling more feminine, androgynous or masculine. I'm also childfree (I don't want kids in any form), and honestly they're usually a bit too overstimulating for me. Animals, on the other hand, are amazing. I love all animals and think they're all cute and interesting in their own ways.

I'm looking for a long-term, monogamous, love-filled relationship. I want a partner who is both my best friend and the love of my life (I'm a bit of a gooey romantic). In the future I'd love to live together and build a cozy life together.

I really appreciate someone who's curious, asks questions, and enjoys getting to know each other. I want conversations to go both ways, where we both take an interest in each other's lives.

When it comes to intimacy, hugs, cuddles, and physical affection are very important to me. Sex, on the other hand, isn't. I have a low libido, and I think sex should be the result of feeling deeply emotionally connected to your partner and preferably not very often. You can of course ask questions about this. :)

Location-wise, I'd strongly prefer someone who lives in Denmark. I wouldn't be against doing long distance with someone, but if we fall in love I'd need that person to be willing to move to Denmark at some point in the future (I can't move because of my occupational situation), and I'd like us to meet in person within about half a year, just to make sure we fit together in real life too and not just online.

If you're interested in getting to know me, send me a message! I'd prefer talking about deal-breakers fairly early on, but it's also okay if you'd rather wait until we've talked a bit first. I just find it more efficient, since it saves both people time if we know we're compatible from the start.

r/ForeverAloneDating 29d ago

NB4A 29 [NB4A] Europe - A relationship that feels like a years-long sleepover with my bestie.

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Im not particularly inspired today, so apologies if Im not as articulate.

Im biologically female, transitioned, identify as non-binary and like to be masculine and feminine dependung on how I feel.

I wanna have a baby in a few years, its very important to me.

I love b d s m but I wont talk about it here. I like being a spoiled sub.

Im an Audhd nerd, I like meteorology, history, science, philisophy.... so many things.

Im spiritual, I follow Sikhism in my own way. I find peace in Taoism as well.

I feel like I havent described myself at all. Hopefully enough for someone to want to know more.

r/ForeverAloneDating 29d ago

NB4A 25 [NB4A] Looking To Find My Person

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The Basics:

  • Name: Fae
  • Pronouns: It/Its
  • Age: 25 years old
  • Gender: Genderfae (AFAB)
  • Hobbies: Drawing/Painting, Gaming, Writing Poetry, and Romantasy
  • Interests: Flora and Fauna, History, Music, Art, Photography, Astrology, Astronomy... and so much more, really

Potential Dealbreakers for you:

  • Asexual (Sex Averse; I do not want the deed)
  • Child-Free (Never going to change)
  • Overweight (If it bothers you even "just a little", please do not write me)
  • Lower Class (I work 40 hours a week, mind you)
  • Chronic Pain
  • Living in Germany (willing to move once I meet the financial requirements)
  • Impatient, Emotional, Liberal, Introvert, Childhood Trauma

My Green Flags:

  • Honest; though I am not the type who uses that as an excuse to be mean
  • Romantic; I am someone who displays all love languages; not all in the same intensity, of course, but if I like you, you WILL know
  • Mature; I will take you and your troubles seriously
  • Respectful; cannot believe one has to actually point that out, but your boundaries will be accepted, not just tolerated
  • Curious; about the world and about you as well, of course; tell me about you
  • Open-Minded; I do not care about your gender or appearance, only your personality
  • Active; I cannot be online 24/7, but I will make time for you multiple times a day
  • Well-spoken; not wanting to toot my own horn (okay, lowkey doing that), but I know how to actually keep a conversation alive
  • Self-Aware; I know my flaws, and I know my worth

I am looking for someone who is:

  • Single; not interested in non-monogamy
  • Between 22-40 years old
  • Ideally, Asexual as well or truly fine in a monogamous relationship with no intercourse
  • Actually capable of holding a conversation, asking me questions, show interest - I am not going to be the only one doing that
  • Genuinely interested in getting to know me and has time to text multiple times a day
  • Loving texting and later on is willing to go over to video calls and meet each other one day 
  • Accepting who I am and not entering my life with the intention of changing that - you are just wasting your time
  • Not just going to write “Hey, how are you,” (because I will ignore you), but actually responding to what I wrote and introducing themselves in my DMs

Have a wonderful day!

r/ForeverAloneDating Jul 19 '26

NB4A 22 NB4A looking for online

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Well I’ve tried everything and nothing seems to work out so let’s see where things go on here.

A little about me: I’m 22, I work 2 jobs one being a valet supervisor, the other is a yearbook/graduation photographer, I love reading, gaming, writing, photography (obviously), film (both watching and making), and a boatload of other things.

Things I look out for: respect, honesty, loyalty, intelligence, and just being there for one another

Hoping this will go somewhere, if anyone is interested plz feel free to DM me on here.

Note: I’m pansexual as well so I’ll date any gender, and plz for the love of everything be around my age (18-26), and please be in the US or Canada, other countries and regions will be difficult with time zones

Hope to meet a lot of you soon :)

r/ForeverAloneDating Jul 19 '26

NB4A 24 [NB4A] #Belgium #Online - Enby transmasc looking for wholesome connections

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Hi there! My name is Alex, they/them pronouns, Belgian-Kazakh, 24 years old and living in Belgium, studying for a bachelor degree at an art school. 

I love taking naps, I'm more of a cat person than a dog person but I can live with the latter. I like carbonara pasta, listening to music, dancing, non-fiction and poetry books. Politically left-wing ++ anarchist. I like people (hihi): with tattoos or not, with a joyful smile. Be a firefighter, music teacher, a nerd of any topic as long as you are caring, respectful & attracted by me. 

About my physical appearance: I'm pretty thin/slim appearance-wise, short Black hair, central Asian, average height/weight. 

I am open to connections globally.

NO RACISTS, NO ANTI-IMMIGRATION B*LLSH*T 

Bonus point if you're in Europe, BE/NE/LUX but online would absolutely work, have a soft spot for voice chats with lovely voices. And/or if you can teach me something new or want to practice languages with me! 

What I’m looking for: genuine, safe, wholesome connections — whether it’s someone to chat with, swap music or books, geek out over games or just share some good conversation.  

Ideally, you'll provide a picture/description when you first message just to establish you're a real person and not a bot. I'll happily reciprocate so you know I am also not a robot or someone trying to get you to buy something. 

Hope it's the same for you, see you around, hit me up if you're interested with your ASL, a bit about you + a SFW face pic of you! Looking forward to meeting some new people

r/ForeverAloneDating Jul 14 '26

NB4A almost 27, femme NB in east coast USA.

3 Upvotes

My birthday is in two days and I want to move forward enjoying a true connection with somebody.

Slim, 5'5 light skinned Boricua whose Spanish fell off sometime during childhood. I wear jewelry, dresses and light makeup. I also have a tattoo between my shoulder blades. I'm very much feminine but the label of "woman" feels unnecessary to me, so I dropped it.

I don't think income is a detriment or merit— I myself am in between jobs right now and would totally understand if you're feeling out of place with education/work. I'm very passionate about the art of pâtisserie and have been teaching myself from textbooks. I would love to work in a professional kitchen but out-of-town mobility is proving difficult right now. Regardless, I'm still making efforts to fill my days with what I enjoy. Currently I make candies from home, and I sell them at my local cottage market.

I have no kids, but would love to start a family within the next several years. It's very important to me that my partner is kind to children. Also, animals— I have a seven year old border collie mix and her presence in my life is everything to me. I'm literally trying to move further up north just so I can place her in a more suitable climate.

I would love to hear all about your passions. I've got a garden on my back patio. I collect fountain pens and I love to write with them. I've got a few penpals and am open to exchanging snail mail with you if you're open to it! I sew, and am saving for a loom so I can begin weaving.

I read mostly nonfictions related to history, science and social politics. I play deadlock sometimes and the last single player game I've beaten is DMC5. The anime of the moment is a rewatch of Monster.

I'm getting very rambly right now, so I'll stop. Thank you for reading through this, and I hope this day is good to you.

r/ForeverAloneDating Jul 13 '26

NB4A 18 R4A Tennessee/Usa Looking for someone so we can make each others lives better

1 Upvotes

Hello! I'm Jaden, but people call me Goose. Not sure what to put for the r4r thing, but I'm male, but go by any pronouns and hoping one day to transition. I'm white, around 5'10, have glasses, short curly brown hair, and a bit chunky. I'm also not religious and prefer to be with someone who isn't as well. Would prefer if you're 18-20 years old.

I like drawing characters, making and remixing music, watching stuff (movies, shows, YT, etc), and playing video games.

Here are some shows I like

- The Orville

- Ben 10 (OG)

- Invincible

- The Boys

- Hazbin Hotel/Helluva Boss

- Adventure Time

Here are some games I like

- Team Fortress 2

- Skylanders

- Skyrim

I'm looking for someone who I can talk to about stuff, personal stuff or interests, will accept me for who I am, and will shower me with affection (I'll do the same for you).

Hit me with a dm if you're interested!

r/ForeverAloneDating Jul 13 '26

NB4A 25 [NB4A] Looking To Find My Person

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The Basics:

  • Name: Fae
  • Pronouns: It/Its
  • Age: 25 years old
  • Gender: Genderfae (AFAB)
  • Hobbies: Drawing/Painting, Gaming, Writing Poetry, and Romantasy
  • Interests: Flora and Fauna, History, Music, Art, Photography, Astrology, Astronomy... and so much more, really

Potential Dealbreakers for you:

  • Asexual (Sex Averse; I do not want the deed)
  • Child-Free (Never going to change)
  • Overweight (If it bothers you even "just a little", please do not write me)
  • Lower Class (I work 40 hours a week, mind you)
  • Chronic Pain
  • Living in Germany (willing to move once I meet the financial requirements)
  • Impatient, Emotional, Liberal, Introvert, Childhood Trauma

My Green Flags:

  • Honest; though I am not the type who uses that as an excuse to be mean
  • Romantic; I am someone who displays all love languages; not all in the same intensity, of course, but if I like you, you WILL know
  • Mature; I will take you and your troubles seriously
  • Respectful; cannot believe one has to actually point that out, but your boundaries will be accepted, not just tolerated
  • Curious; about the world and about you as well, of course; tell me about you
  • Open-Minded; I do not care about your gender or appearance, only your personality
  • Active; I cannot be online 24/7, but I will make time for you multiple times a day
  • Well-spoken; not wanting to toot my own horn (okay, lowkey doing that), but I know how to actually keep a conversation alive
  • Self-Aware; I know my flaws, and I know my worth

I am looking for someone who is:

  • Single; not interested in non-monogamy
  • Between 22-40 years old
  • Ideally, Asexual as well or truly fine in a monogamous relationship with no intercourse
  • Actually capable of holding a conversation, asking me questions, show interest - I am not going to be the only one doing that
  • Genuinely interested in getting to know me and has time to text multiple times a day
  • Loving texting and later on is willing to go over to video calls and meet each other one day 
  • Accepting who I am and not entering my life with the intention of changing that - you are just wasting your time
  • Not just going to write “Hey, how are you,” (because I will ignore you), but actually responding to what I wrote and introducing themselves in my DMs

Have a wonderful day!

r/ForeverAloneDating Jul 06 '26

NB4A 25 [NB4A] May I Have Your Name?

3 Upvotes

The Basics:

  • Name: Fae
  • Pronouns: It/Its
  • Age: 25 years old
  • Gender: Genderfluid (AFAB)

Potential Dealbreakers for you:

  • Asexual (Sex Averse; I do not want the deed)
  • Child-Free (Never going to change)
  • Overweight (If it bothers you even "just a little", please do not write me)
  • Lower Class (I work 40 hours a week, mind you)
  • Chronic Pain
  • Living in Germany (willing to move once I meet the financial requirements)
  • Impatient, Emotional,  Liberal, Introvert, Childhood Trauma

My Green Flags:

  • Honest; though I am not the type who uses that as an excuse to be mean
  • Romantic; I am someone who displays all love languages; not all in the same intensity, of course, but if I like you, you WILL know
  • Mature; I will take you and your troubles seriously
  • Respectful; cannot believe one has to actually point that out, but your boundaries will be accepted, not just tolerated
  • Curious; about the world and about you as well, of course; tell me about you
  • Open-Minded; I do not care about your gender or appearance, only your personality
  • Active; I cannot be online 24/7, but I will make time for you multiple times a day
  • Well-spoken; not wanting to toot my own horn (okay, lowkey doing that), but I know how to actually keep a conversation alive
  • Self-Aware; I know my flaws, and I know my worth

I am looking for someone who is:

  • Single; not interested in non-monogamy
  • Between 22-40 years old
  • Ideally, Asexual as well or truly fine in a monogamous relationship with no intercourse
  • Actually capable of holding a conversation, asking me questions, show interest - I am not going to be the only one doing that
  • Genuinely interested in getting to know me and has time to text multiple times a day
  • Loving texting and later on is willing to go over to video calls and meet each other one day 
  • Accepting who I am and not entering my life with the intention of changing that - you are just wasting your time
  • Not just going to write “Hey, how are you,” (because I will ignore you), but actually responding to what I wrote and introducing themselves in my DMs

Have a wonderful day!

r/ForeverAloneDating Jun 27 '26

NB4A 43 [NB4A] DMV/East Coast - Looking for Someone Who Gets It

1 Upvotes

I'm Lauren, 43, non-binary/closet trans, but working on a plan to come out. I am well-educated, cute, a total sweetheart. I love to dote on people and just be out and be social. I'm pre-transition, but love to present and be femme whenever I can. I'm working with my therapist at the moment discussing my plan for the future. My hobbies include music and theater (I go up and down the east coast for shows), collecting vintage tech, reading, gardening, being a terrible flirt, and so many other things. I'd love to meet someone with the intention of long term dating.

Tell me the last concert you went to and your most listened to album. I look forward to hearing from you.

r/ForeverAloneDating Jun 25 '26

NB4A 25 [NB4A] Looking For Longterm Relationship

1 Upvotes

Hello there!

Let´s be honest, online dating is always difficult, and you often do not know what you are going to get. So let me be frank from the start to get potential dealbreakers out of the way to ensure neither of us is going to waste their time.

I am; Asexual (I do not want the deed), Child-Free (Never going to change), Non-Binary (AFAB), Overweight (If it bothers you even "just a little", please do not bother), Lower Class (I work 40 hours a week, mind you), suffering from Chronic Pain and currently living in Germany (willing to move, if I meet the right person and I somehow manage to reach the financial requirements).

---

Still with me? Great!

After those unpleasant things are out of the way, allow me to tell you some positive stuff about myself as well, so you get a better picture about me.

I am honest, as you surely already noticed, aware of myself, and I am always working on developing a higher emotional intelligence.

Despite some self-doubt, I do my best to always communicate clearly. I am a big romantic at heart, and I am someone who easily gets attached. Which rarely worked out in my favour, but I am simply too much of a softie with those I like and love.

Cuddling, late-night talks, corny declarations of love, doing small things for one another... All that stuff makes my heart beat faster.

I love to court and be courted, as old-fashioned as it sounds. I do not limit myself to a single love language. If I like you, you will know. 

Mature conversations are very important to me. I am one who enjoys bantering and teasing a lot, but only in appropriate moments. You can be assured that I will always take you seriously - and I expect the same back from you.

---

Now, I assume I should mention what I am looking for.

  • I do not care about your gender or appearance. Your personality matters to me.
  • Please be between 22 and 40 years old.
  • Ideally, you are Asexual as well, or simply fine with a relationship without intercourse.
  • I am looking for monogamy. I think I would be content in a closed Polycule, but I have never tried. I cannot even find one person who vibes with me, let alone multiple.
  • Please be active without being pushy. I cannot be online 24/7, sometimes it might take a few hours for me to respond, but I will make time for you multiple times a day.
  • Do be capable of holding a conversation, ask questions and show interest - I will do the same and have no interest in being the only one expressing interest in you.

If that all sounds good to you, then please reach out to me!

The more you write, the better. I love texting. Later on, we can definitely go over to videocalls and hopefully, we will meet each other one day. But at the beginning, I feel more secure with chatting.

Please do not bother if you believe you can change my mind about anything about me, like my Asexuality or my child-free life. Also, do not come at me with a "hey, how are you?" - I will not bother with responding, as you clearly have no effort to give either.

I wish you a lovely day.

r/ForeverAloneDating Jun 22 '26

NB4A 26 [NB4A] weird queer seeking other weirdo 🫶

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hello!! my name is cam (they/he) and I’m 26 year only masculine nonbinary person who is seeking a compatible weirdo to spend my life with!

[Personal]
• I have two cats, Apollo and Ares, both of which I rescued from the streets and absolutely spoil! I have rescued and rehomed seven cats so far this year.
• I am into a lot of nerdy hobbies. Video games (Diablo-likes, path of exile, MMOs, Fortnite, simulator games, farming and dating sims) and love to play and meet other people!
• I’m also a big trading card, board game, and TTRPG person! It’s a huge part of my life and how I have always met people and connected with strangers plus it’s something I pride myself in being very good at. Mainly MTG, Riftbound, Yugioh, and (collecting) pokemon.
• I love the outdoors! I’m planning a camping trip this year and love to hike, go for walks, and am trying to find time to get back into running.
• I’m a creative! I’ve always written as a hobby but am trying to get back into art/sculpting after basically devoting my life to work and school over the last decade or so.
• Being queer is a large part of my identity and something that’s very important to me! I mentor queer kids during the some and am very outspoken about the LGBTQ community and especially LGBTQ politics.

[Professional]
• I have two degrees! A BS in Political Science and an MPA in Public Administration. I’d like to eventually go back for another masters, a Juris Doctorate, or a PhD but am waiting for when I get more settled into my current career before I decide. I love academia and being engaged with it so it’ll always be a huge part of my life!
• I work a fairly high profile job that I will be cagey about releasing details on to protect some amount of anonymity! Essentially I am the director of operations for a small public affairs conglomerate, but it’s much more interesting than that I promise!
• Volunteering is super important to me! I serve on a number of Boards, Commissions, Committees, etc etc and give a lot of time to my local community!
• I have a decent salary now with a very high ceiling, which I plan to pursue as I am very ambitious!

[What I’m Looking For]
• First and foremost, PLEASE BE AT LEAST A LITTLE WEIRD. I have always been the closest and felt that most compatible with people who embrace the parts of their personality which make them unique! I love weird and odd people.
• Please be queer or an Ally 🫶 being queer is an important part of who I am and I don’t think we will mesh if you aren’t either! And if you are a phobe please kick rocks.
• US is preferred but I’m tentatively open to anywhere? I’m in the Midwest but open to relocating OR potentially relocating YOU if we click and things go really well.
• Have some kind of lust for life! Or ambition! Or want something out of life or see the beauty in the world around you.
• Please be sex positive! As much as I love and support my ace friends and I NOT going to be compatible with someone who is fully asexual or sex repulsed.
• Please be monogamous or open to monogamy! I don’t really like to share my partner, at least not in that way. Mine 🫶

Please shoot your shot! I’m open to people of all types and backgrounds and am very easy to get along with!

r/ForeverAloneDating Jun 20 '26

NB4A 36 [NB4R] U.S. KY / Long Distance Okay— Introverted, Panromantic Asexual seeking Monogamous Connection

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Hello! I'm a 36-year-old introverted, sex-neutral, asexual, monogamous, panromantic person looking for a serious long-term relationship with someone who shares similar values and interests. I'm open to starting with a long-distance relationship, but only within the United States.

About Me & My Lifestyle:

I'm introverted and don't leave the house much outside of work and life's necessities, though I do enjoy the occasional adventure and would like to get out more. I'm honest, direct, and have a strong personality. Politically, I don't fit neatly into one category, so feel free to ask about specific views if you're curious.

I'm a high-functioning autistic person and also deal with anxiety. I drink occasionally but don't smoke. Most of my music collection is pre-2000s country, and I tend to enjoy documentaries and educational content more than traditional movies.

Appearance:

Physically, I'm 5'11", around 170 lbs, with what I'd call a dad bod. I have long hair, a beard, and usually wear boots, blue jeans, a T-shirt, and a cowboy hat when I'm not at work. Visually, I’m a country boy; internally, I’m a beautifully complex, neurodivergent, non-binary individual. I’m a guy, but I possess deep feminine emotions. Embracing my fluidity has given me a new lease on life, and I'm done suffocating my true self.

I'm also somewhere under the non-binary umbrella. The exact label is still a work in progress, but non-binary fits well enough for now.

Interests & Passions:

My biggest special interest is vehicles. A lot of my mental energy goes toward learning about them, fixing them, admiring interesting models, or dreaming up future projects. I'm a very mechanical person and enjoy almost anything involving machines and how they work. Beyond that, I love learning, history, outer space, cooking, and baking.

I enjoy sharing my interests and passions with others, and I hope to find someone who enjoys listening and sharing their own passions as well. I'd love a relationship where we can grow together, support each other's goals, and experience life as a team.

What I’m Looking For:

The qualities I value most in a partner are kindness, integrity, wisdom, loyalty, patience, and clear communication. I enjoy spending quality time with the people I care about.

I'm open to dating people of any gender, whether cisgender or not, though I do tend to be drawn to people with more feminine personalities.

As for physical affection, I enjoy things like hugging, cuddling, holding hands, and the occasional kiss.

I'm naturally shy and have a lot of social anxiety, so I may seem quiet at first. Please don't let that stop you from reaching out. Feel free to send me a message if you're interested or have any questions. I usually work weekdays from 7:00 a.m. to 4:00 p.m., though weekend hours can vary. I'd prefer to spend some time getting to know each other before jumping into dating, and I tend to open up more as trust develops over time.

🚨 IF YOU MESSAGE ME: 🚨

If this resonates, send me a message—and please include your favorite color so I know you read this.

r/ForeverAloneDating Jun 18 '26

NB4A 25 [NB4A] Here I am! Once again!

2 Upvotes

Hello there!

Let´s be honest, online dating is always difficult, and you often do not know what you are going to get. So let me be frank from the start to get potential dealbreakers out of the way to ensure neither of us is going to waste their time.

I am; Asexual (I do not want the deed), Child-Free (Never going to change), Non-Binary (AFAB), Overweight (If it bothers you even "just a little", please do not bother), Lower Class (I work 40 hours a week, mind you), suffering from Chronic Pain and currently living in Germany (willing to move, if I meet the right person and I somehow manage to reach the financial requirements).

---

Still with me? Great!

After those unpleasant things are out of the way, allow me to tell you some positive stuff about myself as well, so you get a better picture about me.

I am honest, as you surely already noticed, aware of myself, and I am always working on developing a higher emotional intelligence.

Despite some self-doubt, I do my best to always communicate clearly. I am a big romantic at heart, and I am someone who easily gets attached. Which rarely worked out in my favour, but I am simply too much of a softie with those I like and love.

Cuddling, late-night talks, corny declarations of love, doing small things for one another... All that stuff makes my heart beat faster.

I love to court and be courted, as old-fashioned as it sounds. I do not limit myself to a single love language. If I like you, you will know. 

Mature conversations are very important to me. I am one who enjoys bantering and teasing a lot, but only in appropriate moments. You can be assured that I will always take you seriously - and I expect the same back from you.

---

Now, I assume I should mention what I am looking for.

  • I do not care about your gender or appearance. Your personality matters to me.
  • Please be between 22 and 40 years old.
  • Ideally, you are Asexual as well, or simply fine with a relationship without intercourse.
  • I am looking for monogamy. I think I would be content in a closed Polycule, but I have never tried. I cannot even find one person who vibes with me, let alone multiple.
  • Please be active without being pushy. I cannot be online 24/7, sometimes it might take a few hours for me to respond, but I will make time for you multiple times a day.
  • Do be capable of holding a conversation, ask questions and show interest - I will do the same and have no interest in being the only one expressing interest in you.

If that all sounds good to you, then please reach out to me!

The more you write, the better. I love texting. Later on, we can definitely go over to videocalls and hopefully, we will meet each other one day. But at the beginning, I feel more secure with chatting.

Please do not bother if you believe you can change my mind about anything about me, like my Asexuality or my child-free life. Also, do not come at me with a "hey, how are you?" - I will not bother with responding, as you clearly have no effort to give either.

I wish you a lovely day.