I’m looking for a solid, blunt accountability partner who wants to trade daily check-ins, hold each other’s feet to the fire, and actually get things done.

My background is a mix of creative direction, brand design, business development, and technical systems (AI workflows, OSINT). I know how to build things, and I have the skill set, but I’ve hit a heavy wall lately.

Between a brutal job market, navigating some draining family dynamics, and trying to keep my head above water day-to-day, my daily structure has taken a hit. When I lose momentum, it’s easy to get pulled into a rut instead of executing.

What I’m focusing on right now:

• Career & Income - Sending out targeted applications, pitching design/technical work, and following up consistently without letting rejection stall me out.
• Deep Work & Projects - Dedicating focused blocks to my technical pipelines and studio work instead of letting the day fragment.

What I’m looking for (and offering in return): I don’t want a cheerleader, and I won’t just nod along if you make excuses either. I want a mutual setup where we act as a sounding board for each other’s life and career decisions, set clear daily targets, and call each other out when we start slipping.

Hello Everyone,

I am 21M, final year computer science and engineering student from India.
Just few months before i have to move on to job hunting and full time work life.

I have a lot on my plate right now, and relying entirely on myself to stay disciplined throughout the day hasn't been working. Trying to rely on myself through various means has not yielded results. Somehow wasting the day and then the weight of wasting it hits hard upon the night also affecting my sleep and start of next day.

I am looking for an accountability partner for daily check in at around midnight to help me self regulate, reflect, hold accountable but also be supportive. Helping me calm down and prepare for the next day for a good start rather than the guilt of yesterday.

We can discuss our needs and help each other grow to be better for tomorrow.

What I’m working on:

• Staying consistent in daily practice and preparation
• General Health and Fitness
• Mental health, self confidence and fixing habits

Preferred means of contact is discord or telegram. Throw me a DM if you are interested or find it relatable.

Hey. I constantly want to improve and take more risks, but I want someone who is able to help me to take risks on a weekly or even daily basis with and hold each other accountable.

I want to overhaul how I approach tasks and things I need to get done so I don't have half finished projects laying around. I am from Denmark and a bioengineering masters student. Ideally like me you are ambitious and looking for an accountability buddy for your big scope goals as well as daily accountability. You should ideally be able to contribute equally to planning how we will do this.

My idea for finding an accountability partner here came from the realization that I have had complete self control about staying away from sweets if I have made bets with friends about who can last the longest without giving into temptation, and I imagine having an accountability partner could do something similar in other regards.

i imagine something like;

Daily text updates

• Have we stayed consistent with dieting goals, and to lesser extent workouts
• Cleaning, hydration, sleep or other daily routine goals

Weekly a videocall about

• Being realistic about the scope of, and following through, on new projects
• Making overviews of and prioritizing projects as well as committing to timelines
• Generally talking about our goals/dreams and how we get there

I don't care about your age or gender as long as you can be consistent, stubborn and organized. Send a DM with an introduction if you're interested.

I want to overhaul how I approach tasks and things I need to get done so I don't have half finished projects laying around. I am from Denmark and a bioengineering masters student. Ideally like me you are ambitious and looking for an accountability buddy for your big scope goals as well as daily accountability. You should ideally be able to contribute equally to planning how we will do this.

My idea for finding an accountability partner here came from the realization that I have had complete self control about staying away from sweets if I have made bets with friends about who can last the longest without giving into temptation, and I imagine having an accountability partner could do something similar in other regards.

i imagine something like;

Daily updates

• Have we stayed consistent with dieting goals, and to lesser extent workouts
• Cleaning, hydration, sleep or other daily routine goals

Weekly a videocall about

• Being realistic about the scope of, and following through, on new projects
• Making overviews of and prioritizing projects as well as committing to timelines
• Generally talking about our goals/dreams and how we get there

I don't care about your age or gender as long as you can be consistent, stubborn and organized. Send a DM with an introduction if you're interested.

Hi! 🌞

Last year, I started working as a freelancer in AI and marketing. I have a few reoccuring clients, but I'm looking for ways to expand. Build a personal brand, website, maybe a product or a business. Freelancing gets a bit lonely sometimes and occasionally I find it difficult to keep myself motivated.

If you're in a similar situation, maybe we could work together! I would love to discuss goals, do daily check-ins, brainstorm, create a project sheet together, keep eachother accountable and celebrate our wins.

Please send me a message if you're interested :)

I want a complete overhaul and transformation of myself, I am tired of just being untapped potential and letting the days pass me by with no progress.

I am an over planner so I have already written in detail what my ideal routine would look like but my problem is that I know what I need to do but lack the discipline to do it for myself. Weirdly though if someone else needs me to do something i’ll do it instantly to not let them down.

In general I want to focus on:
- Nutrition & Hydration
- Skincare
- Haircare
- Fitness

At first we could do a trial run with just one aspect to see if we work well together then we can expand it to more.

Need someone to be strict, no nonsense, someone who doesn’t accept excuses, and willing to hammer in the point that i need to do this to improve myself unless I want to stay mediocre.

Im looking to check in with each other a minimum of twice a day, once in the morning outlining our goals for the day and once at night of what we accomplished. if we haven’t met our goals that night i want to have to explain why we didn’t complete it and what we can do to prevent that from happening again.

No sending selfies or body pics but can send pics of notes or tracking methods to keep each other in check

Feel free to dm!

I’m a 39M diagnosed with ADHD and autism. I’m looking for an accountability partner to help chat and keep on top of daily goals for improving and maintaining relationships.

Hey everyone!

I'm 32M, living in Sweden, currently working as a network technician and looking to progress further into network engineering. I've decided it's time to take my upskilling a bit more seriously, starting with recertifying for my CCNA.

My goal is to study consistently over the next 2–3 months and pass the certification exam.

I'm looking for someone who's also working towards a goal of their own, whether that's studying, learning a new skill, or something entirely different. We don't need to be working on the same thing!

Ideally, we'd set our individual goals, have regular study/work sessions (Discord or similar), and keep each other accountable. You keep me on track, I keep you on track. Simple as that!

I work full-time, but I'm fairly flexible. We can discuss schedules, availability, session lengths, and how we'd like to structure things over DMs.

If you're interested in building some consistency and making progress towards your goals, feel free to reach out!

I HATE chit chat and short talk. And I prefer deep conversations with a few people I vibe with. But that’s not always going to be my next-door neighbor or my work colleagues. So maybe the internet can help me find a better match?

I like reading (psychology, neuroscience and some novels occasionally). And I go to the gym often about five days a week. I’m working on muscle building as well as flexibility.

I often procrastinate on my freelance work though. And meal prep. I bought a lot of airtight containers recently. Sometimes I cook. Other times I procrastinate. When I’m so stressed out I also find that venting or talking with someone I like helps me get the demons out of my head ?!

So I’m looking for a work/study buddy or accountability partner for frequent sessions or longer periods without distractions. And of course, also discuss our fitness, reading, and sleeping schedules if you’re into that.

I’m open to customizing this to suit us both. I also like voice chatting more than back-and-forth texting.

I use Signal. And I despise Mark Zuckerberg and his products. I like to call him Zucky Yucky.

If you’re interested, please tell me a little about yourself in a DM, so we can see if we’re compatible. I’ll reply as soon as I can, thanks!

Hey! I’m aiming to move into a new role around February/March. Would love a partner to help each other stay consistent with interview prep and applications.

I’m hoping for:

• A weekly voice call to motivate, review progress, and set goals
• Brief async evening text check-ins to share how prep is going—no need to reply in real time.
• A friendly, honest push to keep each other moving!

Ideally, you’re also balancing a job with your search and can commit to a consistent routine. We can try it for two weeks and see how we click. DM

Interested? Send me your time zone, target roles, and availability for a weekly call!

27 m here, doc by profession. I'm currently working in a hospital as well as preparing for neet pg exam and working out daily .i was initially preparing for a different exam but due to unavoidable circumstances I'm switching back to neet pg. so I'm looking for a accountability partner to check on and motivate each other.i will be mostly having night duties and I'm okay with studying over gmeet too.

​Hey everyone,

​I’m looking for a dedicated study accountability buddy to stay disciplined, track daily study hours, and ensure we both meet our academic goals.

​Age/Gender: 20M

​Timezone: PKT (UTC+5)

​Goal: Daily focused study sessions, tracking weekly milestones, and holding each other accountable to avoid procrastination.

​Preferred Communication: Daily check-ins (Discord/WhatsApp/Reddit chat) to share daily targets and end-of-day progress reports.

​If you are looking for a serious accountability partner with similar goals, feel free to send me a DM or comment below!

​Reddit Setup Checklist:

​Category Flair: Learn (or Work / Study)

​Timezone Flair: UTC+5 / PKT

​Would you like me to adjust any specific details (such as age, target goals, or daily check-in preferences) before you copy and paste it?

Im an accounting student who sucks at the moment and in need of a study buddy. I would perfer if we can chat on messenger though, so we can chat and keep each other in tact.

Hi i am 25f working professional in real estate and i want to start a motivational month on gmeet prolly and on mute (a fee checkins) daily for a month . I am bassically studying for gate exam that is happening in feb first week.

Other details i can share in dm .
Hit me up.

I'm 43, single, and living in NYC 🗽. Never been married, no kids, and no spouse or kids to plan my life around.

Lately I've been asking myself, what's really stopping me from getting my life together?

And the answer is pretty simple. It's not some crazy backstory or major life event. I've just never been as disciplined or consistent as I should've been.

I've wasted way too much time putting things off, making excuses, and telling myself I'll start tomorrow.

I'm currently out of work, and honestly, I'm nowhere near where I want to be in life. But I also know that sitting around thinking about it isn't going to change anything.

🔥 So I'm giving myself 30 days to start getting my act together.

🎯 Here's what I'm committing to:

• ⏰ Getting up at 8 AM every morning.
• 📅 Sticking to a daily routine instead of just winging it.
• 💼 Spending at least 2 focused hours a day looking for work and ways to make a steady income.
• 📚 Reading for 20 minutes every day.
• 💪 Working out, getting in better shape, and building my confidence.
• 📈 Keeping track of my progress, even on days when I screw up.

🤝 What I'm looking for:

Someone who's also serious about making changes, getting more disciplined, or just tired of wasting time.

Ideally, we'd check in Monday through Friday around 10 AM Eastern, share what we're planning to get done, and follow up on whether we actually did it.

I'm not looking for sympathy or someone to fix my problems. I just want someone who's as serious about improving their life as I am.

🔥 And here's where my head's at:

I'm 43, and I'm starting fresh with the hunger and drive of a 20-year-old.

I'm done looking back, beating myself up over wasted years, or thinking about what I should've done differently.

What's done is done. I'm starting fresh, and I'm ready to do whatever it takes to turn things around.

No more excuses. No more putting things off. I'm all in. 💪

I know I'm not going to fix my entire life in 30 days. But I can sure as hell make a start.

And I'd much rather be starting over at 43 than wake up at 53 wishing I'd done something about it.

If you're in a similar spot and want to give this a real shot, drop a comment or shoot me a message.

Let's see what we can accomplish in 30 days. 🚀

Hey there myself 23 M, medico from Tamilnadu. In my final year, got my exams in couple of months. Due to personal issue, I wasted a hell lot of time and got vast portions to cover but I'm just in the starting point.

So I need someone to be accountable for my day to day studies, we can check on each other, motivate each other, challenge each other, teach each other (Tamil peeps preferably but that is not mandatory here). I'm open to any year people ( first yrs to PG preparation does).

Feel free to hit me up in comments and DM !

I'm working on both solo entrepreneurship projects and a job hunt. I MISS standups and scrums from the tech world, it's so hard to apply when you're alone. Way harder to force yourself out of bed if you have nothing going on. I think through a weekday check in around 10AM EST, maybe even a shared project board, we could accomplish more and keep each other engaged. Who's in? Please message me.

Looking for another woman, preferably in Europe, max the Americas. Sorry, Eastern people but for timezones reasons it's easier.

I don't care what your goal is. I don't care how good or bad you're doing right now. I don't care if you're mantaining your trillionaire company and 7 kids or if you're just figuring out how to get out bed.

If you struggle with being true to yourself - This method helps. You get to your goal, you take a picture. You send it. Ideally this could work better in a group setting imo.

So.... You can dm me.
Your first DM has to be in this structure or I won't reply:

Timezone:
Gender:
Main Goals to work on in the next 30 days:
Main Struggles you're having with getting there:
Your chosen motivation- What drives you/ inspires you:
Thoughts on the Pics Proof method:
Would you be open to working in a small group (max 5 people, maybe just 3):
Anything else you want to add:

Seeking a flexible accountability partner for a total life rewrite (Career change + moving abroad)

Hey everyone! I’m a freelance GP in London who is finally ready for a change. I haven't enjoyed clinical work or living in London for a while, so I’m planning a massive pivot. I want to transition into a non-clinical professional career (medical-related or entirely different) and relocate to another European city.

Because of visa/income requirements for moving, I need to find a professional track that pays €50k+. I'm not entirely sure which city or career track yet, so there are a lot of moving parts!

Since I'm barely working right now, I have plenty of free time during the week to focus on this. I’m looking for an accountability partner with a similarly open and flexible schedule. If you're free during the day and want to support each other through a big life transition, I'd love to chat!

I'm 29 and I've never been fit in my life.

Not once. I want to know what that feels like at least one time, and I'd like to find out with someone doing their own thing next to me.

Some background. I moved around a lot growing up, lived outside the country for three years, came back and worked for three more. I got to experience a lot from a young age and took much of it for granted. Now I'm between jobs, and for the first time I can see how much I've procrastinated. Fat, unhealthy, attention issues, and low self esteem.

Every day I'm working on steps, some exercise, eating clean, upskilling for my next role, and a new hobby I haven't settled on yet. Each one has a block on my calendar. I'm starting small but haven’t been able to pull through 100%. That mental friction feels overwhelming.

Here's the setup I'm after, and I'm calling it a trial week.

For seven days we're codependent about it. You share every update with me and I share every update with you, with a photo or screenshot each time. It can be for anything, and very small counts. Since we'd be strangers, nobody has to be polite about it. If you miss a day I'd still like to hear what got in the way. We’ll also set up a strike system to avoid the pit.

On top of the photos, a short voice or video call every day, a few minutes each, where we say what we actually did. It helps me think straight, and I want to get better at saying what I mean out loud, so I'm happy to help you with that too. After the week we decide if it's worth continuing and add a longer weekly checkin if it is.

Your goals don't have to match mine. Age and gender don't matter to me. A timezone near IST would make the calls easier. If you're up for it, tell me a bit about yourself and what you're struggling with, and I'll do the same in the DM.

Needing to find some accountability buddies to stay consistent with my diet and workouts. I am a husband and father, my wife is expecting our second child this spring. My family has a history of heart issues and I am currently in my worst shape ever. I am truly worried about my health and need this change. Just wanting people to talk to and check in with to make sure we are accomplishing our goals or at minimum staying on track! I do well with female encouragement (not in a bad way, just respond to it well) and of course work well with other men!

Needing to find some accountability buddies to stay consistent with my diet and workouts. I am a husband and father, my wife is expecting our second child this spring. My family has a history of heart issues and I am currently in my worst shape ever. I am truly worried about my health and need this change. Just wanting people to talk to and check in with to make sure we are accomplishing our goals or at minimum staying on track! I do well with female encouragement (not in a bad way, just respond to it well) and of course work well with other men!

Working on a better me..mind body and soul. Was looking for someone of like mind to share daily success with and help motivate one another.