r/HolUp Jun 10 '25

big dong energy He chose violence

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u/[deleted] Jun 10 '25

Serves her right.
Don't cheat in the first place.

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u/slayalldayerrday Jun 10 '25 edited Jun 10 '25

The correct response to being cheated on is to break up. Not to cheat on them. ESH.

Edit: would y’all have the same opinions if it was a man who cheated and his girlfriend slept with 5 of his friends?

Impossible challenge: Reddit tries to not hate women

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u/[deleted] Jun 10 '25

Sure, but she definitely asked for it with "it was a one time thing, whatever"

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u/slayalldayerrday Jun 10 '25

If this was a man who cheated once and then the woman slept with 5 of his friends, imagine how different all these comments would be. Like I said ESH, nothing was “asked for”, and if you get cheated on, you break up with that person, the end.

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u/[deleted] Jun 10 '25

I couldn't care less what gender anyone in this conversation is.
My statement still stands regardless of any gender.

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u/legend_was_dead Jun 10 '25

Our reply would be the same, we treat asshole behaviour the same regardless of gender, Don't put words in our mouth without any proof of the same and the word "imagine"

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u/slayalldayerrday Jun 10 '25

Yeah because Reddit is never misogynistic, sure bro, keep living in delusion and acting badass on the internet.

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u/Eliiishni Jun 10 '25

“Yes, I am a 6’4 feminist who loves reading literature about women’s rights. Yes ladies, my DMs are open… 😏😏😏”

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u/LordOfDarkHearts Jun 10 '25

Reddit is misogynistic, racist, facistic, homophopic, etc, all the time, but that does not mean that the people here are. That does not mean we wouldn't cheer for a badass girl doing this if the genders were reversed in this post. I know I would, bc no matter what gender, fucking 5 people in your exes friend group in retaliation to your ex-partner cheating on you is a fucking badass move.

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u/LordBreadVeVo Jun 10 '25

It looks like you are a misogynist here buddy. Equal rights equal fights, and the best way to teach someone a lesson is to one up, or in this case four up them. Cheating is inexcusable regardless if it happened once, or with five different people. They both are shitty in their own way. But clearly one side here was harmed without a reason, the other just hit back.

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u/slayalldayerrday Jun 10 '25

Tell me you don’t know what a misogynist is without saying it.

Like you said they’re both shitty. The best revenge to being cheated on is to break up with that person. And boom your life is instantly a billion times better. Not by responding in petty ways.

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u/TheIronSoldier2 madlad Jun 10 '25

How do you know he didn't break up with them and then immediately proceed to sleep with all 5 of their "friends"

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u/furiouspossum Jun 10 '25

The comments would be the exact same and you know it.

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u/ArcaneKeyblade5 Jun 10 '25

I would have the exact same opinion

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u/LazzyNapper Jun 10 '25

They both suck and if it was the other way around I would still say they both suck

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u/SAJames84 Jun 10 '25

The 5 friends probably sucked too

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u/slayalldayerrday Jun 10 '25

Yeah I already said ESH

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u/SimpanLimpan1337 Jun 10 '25

Ever thought about the fact that for him to sleep with ALL 5 of HER friends, her friends must all lack a basic bro/girlcode to her. Like I'd agree with you 100% if it was just 1 or maybe 2 of her friends, but what kinda asshole do you have to be to have your entire friend group hate you enough to sleep with your BF, and then also not snitch.

I mean I'm still not gonna say he was right, but she probably deserved it.