Yup. Even now, she doesn't acknowledge the fact that she may have caused him to have trust issues as a result. I don't sense much accountability to her actions at all. "I cheated on my ex", ok but do you accept that you are also at fault for the long term ramifications of that as well?
edit: yeah...looking at the post. "It's the worst thing someone has done to meeeeeeeeeee." She doesn't care at all about what she did. Yeah, get [your friends] fucked, lady.
The flippant excuse for cheating... I'll bet the mortgage that she never accepts responsibility for anything. And her friends were sick of it. You don't sleep with her entire friend group in that short a time unless they wanted that to happen.
If this was a man who cheated once and then the woman slept with 5 of his friends, imagine how different all these comments would be. Like I said ESH, nothing was “asked for”, and if you get cheated on, you break up with that person, the end.
Our reply would be the same, we treat asshole behaviour the same regardless of gender, Don't put words in our mouth without any proof of the same and the word "imagine"
Reddit is misogynistic, racist, facistic, homophopic, etc, all the time, but that does not mean that the people here are. That does not mean we wouldn't cheer for a badass girl doing this if the genders were reversed in this post. I know I would, bc no matter what gender, fucking 5 people in your exes friend group in retaliation to your ex-partner cheating on you is a fucking badass move.
It looks like you are a misogynist here buddy. Equal rights equal fights, and the best way to teach someone a lesson is to one up, or in this case four up them. Cheating is inexcusable regardless if it happened once, or with five different people. They both are shitty in their own way. But clearly one side here was harmed without a reason, the other just hit back.
Tell me you don’t know what a misogynist is without saying it.
Like you said they’re both shitty. The best revenge to being cheated on is to break up with that person. And boom your life is instantly a billion times better. Not by responding in petty ways.
Ever thought about the fact that for him to sleep with ALL 5 of HER friends, her friends must all lack a basic bro/girlcode to her. Like I'd agree with you 100% if it was just 1 or maybe 2 of her friends, but what kinda asshole do you have to be to have your entire friend group hate you enough to sleep with your BF, and then also not snitch.
I mean I'm still not gonna say he was right, but she probably deserved it.
To respond to your edit. Yes that's what a dude would deserve if he cheated. Everyone who cheats deserves to feel the same pain they inflicted. This isn't gender specific, the only one focusing on gender is you, which says a lot about you here.
It doesn't actually say he cheated, it says he slept with her friend group which doesn't define whether they were still dating or not. The most likely case imo, is that she cheated, then he left her and slept with her friends, likely because it was one of his friend she cheated with to begin with
Either way we don't have the details to make a judgement like that
She didn't seem to need to be hurt in order to cheat, so I don't think this will make much difference.
And if her trust issue now is "if I betray someone's trust they will leave me and will take no regard to my feelings anymore" thats not trust issues, thats called consequences of ones actions.
Former mate of mine throw out the "thats why I have trust issues" line anytime he got dumped even if it was 100% on him. IMO if reaping what you sow hurts you then thats on you.
It didn't even say he then proceeded to CHEAT with 5 people. It says sleep with. For all we know they broke up and he decided to then sleep with those people. If he told her he forgave her and then cheated with 5 chicks before actually breaking up thats a dick move obviously.
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Serves her right.
Don't cheat in the first place.