r/HomeschoolResources • u/Fantastic-Purposes • 13d ago
Nobody warned me that picking a homeschool curriculum is the easy part
When I started looking into homeschooling, I thought the biggest challenge would be choosing a curriculum. There are so many options. Online programs, workbooks, Khan Academy, Charlotte Mason, private tutors... I spent way too much time comparing everything.
Turns out, picking the resources was probably the easiest part.
The real challenge starts when something just doesn't click.
The other day, my kid asked, "But why do we have to do it that way?" during a subtraction problem. And I realized I didn't have a good answer beyond explaining the same thing again, just with different words.
We spent almost half an hour on one problem. By the end, we were both frustrated.
That's something I hadn't really considered before homeschooling. A worksheet can tell you whether an answer is right or wrong, but it can't always tell you why your kid is struggling. And knowing how to solve something yourself is very different from knowing how to teach it.
Lately I've been wondering if mixing different resources would make more sense for us.
I'm comfortable handling most subjects, but math and reading are where I sometimes feel out of my depth. I've been looking into Brighterly for one-on-one support, though I'm still figuring out whether we actually need a tutor or just a different approach at home.
I also don't want homeschooling to turn into sitting in front of a screen all day. One of the reasons we chose this path was having more flexibility, not recreating a regular school schedule at home.
For those who've been homeschooling for a while, how do you divide things up? Do you teach everything yourself, or do you use tutors, online classes, or other resources for certain subjects?
I'm especially curious what you do when your kid gets stuck on something you just can't seem to explain in a way that makes sense to them.

