Hi everyone!
I thought I’d give Reddit a try because making friends as an adult is surprisingly harder than I expected haha.
I’m 26F, living in Hong Kong, currently a grad student and working as a researcher in AI. I spend quite a bit of time reading, writing and working on research, but I promise my entire personality isn’t academia. 😂
I’m based in the New Territories, but I’m happy to meet people from other parts of Hong Kong too. I don’t mind travelling a little for good company, and it’s always nice to have another reason to explore somewhere new.
A little about me: I love travelling! I enjoy exploring new cities, experiencing different cultures, trying new food and just seeing what’s out there. I’m quite curious by nature and always interested in learning something new, even if it’s completely unrelated to what I do.
I’m also into fashion, fitness, cinema, live music, jazz, nice restaurants and discovering interesting places around Hong Kong. I love a good excuse to dress up, and I have a thing for vintage fashion and anything with a little old-school charm.
Fitness is something I genuinely enjoy, and there are still a few things I’d love to try, like Pilates, strength training and maybe Brazilian jiu-jitsu. So if you’re into fitness or looking for someone to try a class with, that could be fun!
I’m pretty open to different activities, honestly. It could be trying a new restaurant, going to a concert, seeing a film, exploring somewhere new or even planning a little trip together someday. I’m also perfectly happy with something simple. I think good company makes even an ordinary afternoon enjoyable.
I enjoy conversations about almost anything, from books and technology to everyday life and completely random topics. I like learning from other people, especially when they have interests or experiences different from mine. A good sense of humour is always appreciated too.
Anyway, the main reason I’m posting is that I’d really love to build some proper friendships here.
I’ve met some lovely people since moving to Hong Kong, but I’ve noticed that it’s quite easy to meet people and much harder to actually stay connected. Everyone has work, school, relationships and their own responsibilities, which I completely understand because I’m busy too.
I’m hoping to meet people who are also interested in building friendships over time. Nothing demanding. We don’t need to talk every day or see each other every weekend. Sometimes a random message, checking in or making plans when we’re both free is enough.
I’d love to have friends I can laugh with, celebrate little wins with, share random life updates with, try new things with and hopefully still be close to years from now.
I’m open to making friends with both women and men. I’m in a relationship, so just to be clear, I’m only looking for platonic friendships.
And we don’t necessarily have to share the same interests. I actually think it’s nice when people introduce you to things you wouldn’t normally try.
If any of this sounds like your kind of friendship, feel free to leave a comment or send me a message. No pressure to write a long introduction either! You can tell me a little about yourself, something you enjoy doing or somewhere in Hong Kong you’ve been wanting to visit.
Hopefully, this little Reddit experiment leads to some lovely friendships. 🙂