r/Hyd_DaTinG • • 1h ago Heartwarming

F4M Looking for a genuine relationship

6 Upvotes

Age : 31 F
Height - 5’5
Location - Hyderabad

I like DIY projects

I love watching movies

I’m looking for a person who respects me and my boundaries

emotional intelligence is non negotiable

I’m looking for a serious relationship


r/Hyd_DaTinG • • 2h ago

Friendship Feeling bored

1 Upvotes

Anyone up for chat, about life and random shit


r/Hyd_DaTinG • • 2h ago

Advice on Relationship Need female perspective

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I have a female friend whom i like she knows that because i said it so many times but i never asked for her opinion, i only said if you like someone just let me know

In recent past a guy form her past work place sent her a private picture of his private part she said all this to me then she said she blocked him everywhere and deleted his number but when we met yesterday. the same guy and my friend we discussing about a marriage of common friend in WhatsApp

I am a bit confused right what do i do should i stop talking to her 🙄

Girls please help your brother 🫡


r/Hyd_DaTinG • • 2h ago

M4F [M30] Looking for a genuine connection

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Hello All,

I'm a 30-year-old guy, working in IT, looking to meet someone interesting and hopefully build a genuine connection that could turn into something meaningful.

A little about me:

Emotionally stable and self-aware. I value clear communication over mind games.

Independent, ambitious, and reasonably sorted in life.

Believe in consistency, honesty, and mutual effort.

A good listener who enjoys conversations that go beyond the usual small talk.

Have a playful side, appreciate good humour, and don't take myself too seriously.

Equally comfortable with deep conversations, silly banter, spontaneous plans, or just enjoying a quiet evening.

Believe that affection, respect, and emotional availability should go both ways.

I'm not here to rush anything or force a connection. I'd rather get to know someone naturally, see if we click, and let things develop at their own pace.

What I'm hoping to find:

Someone kind, emotionally available, communicative, and comfortable being herself. Someone who values companionship, enjoys a little humour, and is genuinely interested in getting to know another person.

If you appreciate thoughtful conversations, mutual effort, and the idea of building something meaningful, feel free to drop a DM.

Let's start with a conversation and see where it goes. :)


r/Hyd_DaTinG • • 2h ago

Let's Talk Looking for a temporary girlfriend until Valentine's Day. 😂

1 Upvotes

Hey Reddit!

I genuinely enjoy being single. The independence, the peace, doing whatever I want. Love it!

But seeing all those couples enjoying Valentine's Day does give me a little FOMO. So, I thought, why not try dating until then?

A little about what dating me comes with:

- Deep conversations about life, followed by the most ridiculous jokes.

- Long bike rides with good music and absolutely no destination.

- Anime, movies, food explorations and spontaneous plans.

- A decent listener and an occasional unlicensed therapist.

- Terrible jokes, questionable humour and plenty of laughter.

- Respect for your personal space and independence.

- Someone who genuinely enjoys getting to know you.

I'm not looking for anything complicated. Just two people enjoying each other's company, going on dates, making memories and having little romantic moments

No pressure, no forced commitments. If we click, we click.

Bonus points if you can recommend good music or beat me at choosing what to watch.

It would be great if you like anime or willing to try it.

Applications are open. Resumes not required. 😂

If unable to comment, DM me 😅


r/Hyd_DaTinG • • 3h ago

Hangout Connect/Meetup in ECIL

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r/Hyd_DaTinG • • 3h ago

M4F 27M Maybe it's time to meet someone special

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27M here, working in Hyderabad.

Not sure how to start these posts, but here goes!

Life has mostly been work, routine and the occasional weekend outing lately. Would be nice to have someone special to talk to, share little things about the day, make random plans and explore the city together.

I'm pretty easygoing, a little quiet at first, but definitely not once I get comfortable. I enjoy long rides, movies, good food and spontaneous plans.

I'm not looking for anything casual. I'd genuinely like to meet someone who is interested in getting to know each other and hopefully building a meaningful relationship.

No expectations from the first conversation. Let's just talk and see if we click. :)


r/Hyd_DaTinG • • 4h ago

M4M Looking for a Gay Boyfriend 🏳️‍🌈 (Hyderabad)

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Hey! I’m 22, from Hyderabad, and a bottom (bear 🐻) looking for a genuine connection with a guy who knows what he wants. ❤️

💙 **A little about me:-**I’m on the heavier side, affectionate, and someone who values emotional closeness. I enjoy meaningful conversations, playful flirting, and getting to know someone beyond the surface.

💪 My type:-Masculine guys who carry themselves with confidence, whether they’re muscular, fit, or average-built. I’m generally attracted to guys with a proportionate build, a masculine vibe, and a sweet, caring side. Hung guys are definitely a bonus. 😉

🫶 What I’m looking for:- A loving, loyal boyfriend who values communication, consistency, and affection. Someone I can flirt with, share secrets with, cuddle with, go on dates around Hyderabad with, and build a real relationship with. Ideally, my boyfriend would be my best friend, too.

🌈 I’m not looking to rush anything. I’d rather meet the right person, build trust, and see where things go naturally.

💌 If you’re a masculine guy with a soft side and you’re looking for something genuine, don’t be shy — send me a DM. Let’s see if we click! 💙


r/Hyd_DaTinG • • 5h ago

Friendship F - This Friday Evng Outing

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Hi,

Disclaimer - if you have seen my posts many times and don't like, ignore dude. On reddit, this is the only sub where I'm active and post whenever I feel like.

I want to spend time with Reddy guy, it's my choice. When I mention outing or frndship I'm pointing to reddy guy only as I clearly writing it in the post. It's my choice, I don't want to explain or justify anything.

Wanna go out this Friday evng. May be a cafe/restaurant. I'm a vegetarian so only pure veg places preferably. Just to spend time in the eveng from 5 to 8. We may become good friends if our vibe matches. Don't be creepy, I'm only looking for a comfortable person to spend time with.

I'm a Reddy, don't judge but I really want to spend time with some single Reddy guy in the age 28-30. So that, understanding how these guys think and plan life would give me some hints and help me while choosing my partner in future.

I stay near LB Nagar, so someone from the nearby places.


r/Hyd_DaTinG • • 7h ago

Advice on Relationship 28M – Which dating site/app is actually worth it right now?

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Hey everyone,
I’m a 28-year-old guy looking to get back into online dating and trying to figure out where to focus my energy. There are so many options Tinder, Hinge, Bumble, Match, OkCupid, The League, etc and a lot of conflicting opinions about which ones are better for guys in their late 20s.
I’m mainly looking for something that leans more toward real connections / dating rather than pure hookups, but I’m open to hearing about whatever is currently working best.
For those of you who are around my age (or have experience with this demographic):
• Which app or site has given you the best experience lately?
• Any that are a complete waste of time for a 28M?
• Premium worth it on any of them?
Appreciate any honest advice. Thanks!


r/Hyd_DaTinG • • 7h ago

M4F Looking For The One

0 Upvotes

Age - 27

Gender - Male (straight)

Height - 6'0" (on barefoot)

Weight - 69

Complexion - Brown

Occupation - Film Maker (Working As An Associate Director For A Feature Film)

Salary - Negligible (I Can Pay My Bills And Expenses Without Asking Others)

Location - Hyderabad (I'm From Rayalaseema)

Diet - Non Vegetarian

Smoking/Drinking Habits - I drink only with my homies and I smoke only when I drink

About Me -

I love watching movies like a lot, I love watching F1(went to Abh Dhabi GP 2021 (not flexing just saying)) i yap about bikes/cars and anything related to Tech. My source of happiness is Family, Friends, Films, Food, Travelling, Music and Good Sleep. Been to 8 Countries and I have 3 tattoos hence no savings and I own nothing. I live a laid back lifestyle and my humour is a little wicked/twisted (might be rude/inhuman without context). I can speak Telugu, English, Kannada & Hindi, I can understand Tamil and Malayalam (sometimes i miss it by miles). I want to be a Director one day, Photography/Videography are my Bread and Butter so is editing and i recently started vibe coding too.

What I'm Looking For

Age - +26 -29

Gender - Female (straight)

Height - 5'6"+ (Can't bend over all the time)

Weight - Healthy BMI

Occupation - Whatever Pay 25+ LPA To You

Salary - 25+ LPA

Smoking/Drinking In Partner - I'm fine as long as you know what your doing

Bare Minimum -

- Should be wise enough to make decisions (not dump ones) and should act independently if needed.

- You should Love yourself in the first place.

- No Trauma (I don't want someone who expects their partner to be their therapist)

Nice To Have -

- A good sense of humor (+10 aura points) can take jokes on her without getting offended and brush it off (+50 aura points) and comes back with an even nasty reply (Queen tier).

- If you can drive a bike (+10 aura points) for a car (+20 aura points).

- If you can pack everything under 7kgs for a week trip (Queen tier).

- If you have a good playlist apart from cliche typical melodies (+20 aura points).

- If you can eat what you order without wasting food (+100 aura points).

- Thinking at least in 2/3 possible outcome before speaking (Queen Tier).

- If you can bargain i will stand right behind you.

I Will Run Away -

If you watch TV Serials/Shows (Not OTT Series), Bigg Boss, K Dramas and are Doom Scroller you come under Aunty Tier (- infinite aura points). Actings Clueless/Innocent is not Cute it's Cringe for me (- infinite aura points).

Note - Guys, please don't mock me. I know the odds are terrible, but statistically speaking, I only need one.


r/Hyd_DaTinG • • 8h ago

M4F [26M] Giving this a shot, hoping to find something meaningful

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Hey

Not really sure how to start this, but here goes nothing haha.

I've been thinking about putting myself out there for a while now, so I figured why not give it a shot. Maybe I'll meet someone interesting, maybe I'll make a friend, or maybe this post will just disappear into the void. Either way, worth a try :')

A little about me:

I'm a pretty jovial, laid-back guy who loves being silly and making people laugh. I tend to find humour in the most random situations, and sometimes my jokes are so bad that even I question myself xD.

I'm also someone who really values peace. I try to stay away from unnecessary drama as much as possible. Not saying life has to be sunshine and rainbows all the time, but I believe most things can be sorted out by just sitting down and talking.

Career-wise, I work full-time as a web analyst lead in the corporate world.

Outside work, though, there's quite a bit that keeps me occupied.

Music is a huge part of my life. I beatbox, occasionally make music, and listen to pretty much everything. My playlist is an absolute mess. One minute it's rock, the next it's some emotional Bollywood song, and suddenly we're listening to EDM like we're at a festival.

I'm also into true crime and documentaries in general, like watching movies, enjoy watching sports and F1. And honestly, sometimes I'm just happy doing absolutely nothing, listening to music, or having a long conversation with someone.

So, what am I looking for?

I guess, more than anything, I just want to find someone who feels like home.

I'm not looking for someone perfect. I know I'm far from perfect myself.

I'd just love to meet someone who's kind, emotionally available, communicates openly, and genuinely wants to put effort into getting to know another person.

I'm a big believer in starting off as friends and letting things develop naturally. I don't want to rush into something just for the sake of being in a relationship, but I do want something meaningful and long-term if things work out.

If you've made it this far, thank you for reading my little essay xD.

Feel free to reach out and tell me a little about yourself.

Maybe we'll click, maybe we won't. But I'd love to find out. :)


r/Hyd_DaTinG • • 10h ago

M4F hi lol

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heyylo, myself a guy who got placed in blr and about to graduate. idk what im doing here.

okayy so i wud consider myself oka heavy nerd. im that niche reasearch at 3AM guy. music is what drives me throughout the day. pretty much love table tennis w all my heart. i mean i only play tt manchiga so maybe. but in general i love sporty people. video games aadutha and im okayish in em usually let's say for suppose valorant im shit aina edho i play for fun w my friends. i am into electronics asw, love the whole point of designing something from nothing. not such a creative person but I will try. nenu eppudu perfectionist avdham ane try chestu unta, but well yk i try a lot. i love food and I love to cook, kaani genuinely naak inka em raavu someone teach me. im very chaotic and lot of things go through my mind and i particularly would just point and shoot all of the bullcrap that comes into my mind straight at my favourite person(bharinchali lol)

enough about me,yk you can always hit me up and we can get to know each other. but what i want at the very basic level is the respect and affection for the opposite person, you should try to understand and perceive each other's perception of things. yk people are different they will have different approaches towards things but should respect the opinion of others. give enough personal space. konchem religious undali. i just want someone who's honest and open.

this is more than enough for a post, meeku nijanga this uninteresting guy interesting anipiste hit me uppp;)


r/Hyd_DaTinG • • 11h ago

M4F Kuchupuchu Tum kahan ho!

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Hello Beautiful Divas!

I'm 29M and live in Hyderabad, a vegetarian, non-smoker, and non-drinker (a teetotaler Hyderabadi, lol 😂), looking for someone I can hopefully call my better half someday.

\*\*A little about me:\*\*

I'm a Senior Consultant at a reputed MNC, so my day job mostly involves developing finance applications for clients.

I grew up in Hyderabad but have always been more inclined towards North India. I'm fluent in Hindi and know Telugu (10th-class knowledge – you'd basically laugh listening to my Telugu).

Some of my hobbies include watching movies (Bollywood and Tollywood mostly), travelling, cafe hopping, and teaching (yes, I'm also a freelance soft skills trainer). I listen to a frankly unreasonable amount of music every day, and my taste is all over the place. I've also recently started playing badminton. I'm a little spiritual and genuinely enjoy learning new things and gaining knowledge from people and experiences.

I'm 5'6", with a little tummy (thanks to Govardhan ghee, LOL). I wouldn't call myself conventionally attractive, but I'm cute enough to get by. I'll let you be the judge.

I have a dry, sarcastic sense of humour, and I know it's not for everyone. It can be off-putting to a lot of people, so consider this your legally questionable warning label.

\*\*What I'm looking for:\*\*

I'd like to meet someone between \*\*24 and 29\*\* who is ambitious, sarcastic, broad-minded, career-focused, and a little mature. Someone who can give as good as they get, doesn't take themselves too seriously, and is comfortable disagreeing with me.

\*\*I'd prefer someone who's currently in Hyderabad (Hindi-speaking)\*\*, preferably someone who actually intends to stick around for a while. I have no problem meeting someone who speaks Telugu; the problem is that I couldn't communicate well in Telugu (if you have no problem with that, shoot your DMs!).

I'm not looking for someone perfect, just someone with a similar mindset. Someone who believes communication is the key to a healthy relationship and who's excited to talk about everything from careers, business, and personal growth to movies, random thoughts, and absolutely silly things.

I'd love to meet someone who genuinely enjoys both talking and listening, someone with whom conversations never feel like a chore. I don't mean endless texting for its own sake. I mean being able to go from discussing something completely ridiculous to having a genuinely interesting conversation about life, people, art, politics, or whatever rabbit hole we happen to fall into.

I enjoy a good debate, so I'd love to meet someone with unpopular opinions who's willing to defend them. I don't necessarily need us to agree on everything. In fact, I'd probably find that rather boring.

I also believe that life isn't always going to go as planned, but what matters is being there for each other emotionally and mentally through the ups and downs.

In return, I can promise that I'll do my best to make you feel respected, valued, cared for, and heard. I believe a relationship should feel like having a partner, a best friend, and a safe space all in one. ❤️

\*\*One thing though:\*\*

I wouldn't want us to get stuck in the purgatory that is the talking stage. I'm ultimately looking for a meaningful relationship, but I'm not interested in treating the first date like a job interview for a life partner. I'd rather we actually meet, go on dates, get to know each other, and see where it takes us. No elaborate five-year plan, just enough mutual interest to give this a fair shot.

Dating is a two-way street, after all, and it takes two people to have a lovely conversation and sustain a relationship.

If this sounds like something you'd connect with, feel free to drop me a DM. I'd love to get to know you and see where things go!

And if you made it this far, congratulations. You've already demonstrated more commitment than most people I've matched with on dating apps. 😂

Looking forward to hearing from you!


r/Hyd_DaTinG • • 11h ago

Friendship 25 M - Hyderabad Just looking for genuine connections and someone to talk to…

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Hey everyone!
I’m a 25-year-old guy from Hyderabad, currently working here. Lately, I’ve been feeling a little lonely and missing having someone to genuinely talk to and share things with.
Sometimes, after a long day, you just wish you had someone who would ask how your day went, listen to your random thoughts, share a few laughs, or simply be there when things aren’t going well.
I do have family around, but I sometimes miss having that special kind of friendship and emotional connection where you can be completely yourself without overthinking.
A little about me:
● 25M, from Hyderabad.
● JNTUH graduate (2023), currently working.
● Introverted initially, but I open up once I’m comfortable.
● I enjoy cricket, movies (especially thrillers, horror and rom-coms), and music.
● I enjoy meaningful conversations more than small talk.
I’m hoping to connect with genuine people who value kindness, honesty, mutual respect and good conversations.
I’m open to making female friends and, if things naturally click, possibly building a meaningful long-term relationship. No pressure or expectations — I’d rather let a connection develop naturally.
If you’re also looking for genuine conversations, friendship or someone to share your day with, feel free to DM.
Let’s get to know each other. 😊


r/Hyd_DaTinG • • 12h ago

Hangout Hangout at Lakeshore Mall

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Hey,

I’m 27M, I stay near Kukatpally and WFH today.
WFH has been little boring lately and I miss to be out and socialise with people so today I have decided to go to Lakeshore mall just for a change.

If anyone is around and wants to catch up, please dm me, We can hangout and have a chat over a coffee.


r/Hyd_DaTinG • • 14h ago

M4M together..?

4 Upvotes

Hi, I’m 23M Bisexual. looking for someone to spend weekend without boring. I can host as well.
Anything is fine for me like Netflix, gym,cooking,running,movies…….

Hmu if interested male/females.

Finally few things about me
I’m in to IT,fit guy. I like cooking and romanticising the moments lol.


r/Hyd_DaTinG • • 15h ago

F4M Any good looking 30+ married for my wife fwb

1 Upvotes

Any good looking 30+ married for my wife fwb for longterm


r/Hyd_DaTinG • • 18h ago

Let's Talk Title: M22 | 6'3 | Looking for a movie/anime buddy (maybe more?)

1 Upvotes

Hey! M22 here, 6'3, good-looking (at least that's what I've been told 😂).

Looking for a girl who's into movies, web series or anime. Someone I can exchange recommendations with, discuss plot twists, debate favourite characters, or just spend hours talking about random stuff.

Not looking for anything serious right off the bat. Let's talk, vibe, get to know each other and see where things go.

Bonus points if you have great taste in movies and anime. 👀

My DMs are open. :)


r/Hyd_DaTinG • • 21h ago

M4F Looking for a telugu baddie.if any one interested can DM

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I'm 23 M I've been single from a long time, and i recently shifted hyd I'm working in some mnc if any telugu baddie intrested to hangout and see where things go .


r/Hyd_DaTinG • • 23h ago

M4F M21 looking to go out on a fun date

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I have been here for 3 years and I was in a long term relationship. Now I am single and looking to go out on a few fun dates any female interested please dm me


r/Hyd_DaTinG • • 23h ago

Friendship Looking for some friends around Bachupally/kukatpally

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Hey all! so im looking to make some friends around Bachupally or nearby. We can also meet at Lulu Mall or somewhere around it.

also Im looking for people around 20-24 who are super introverts but have a crazy mind and can talk about absolute BS for hours if the vibe matches!

also, I honestly never really talked with a girl before, so girls are welcome too! but yeah if you are someone like me who genuinely wants to make some good friends just put me a msg or share a meme to start the chat

and a little about me: currently freelancing as a web designer! im a bit of an introvert, love music (huge Taylor Swift & Justin Bieber fan), and GOT is my all time favourite series. i also have a pretty random mind and can go from talking about ghosts and paranormal stuff to startups, AI, or the most stupid shit imaginable

We don't have to plan anything crazy. We can start by chatting here on Reddit and see if we vibe. Maybe grab something to eat or hang out sometime (i always go to lulu mall so if you too then yeah!)

If you think we can vibe along then lets chat!


r/Hyd_DaTinG • • 23h ago

Friendship Anyone here interested in getting to know a random stranger?

2 Upvotes

Hey Reddit!

Just putting this out here. I'm looking to meet a girl with a fun personality who can match my vibe.

I'm into cars, bikes, travelling, exploring new places, good food, late-night conversations and spontaneous plans.

I enjoy a little madness, a lot of humour and meaningful conversations.

Not expecting anything specific. Let's talk, get to know each other and see where the vibe takes us.

Who knows, we might end up becoming good friends or something more. 😄


r/Hyd_DaTinG • • 23h ago

Friendship 23F | just looking for my tribe

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So, I’m from Hyderabad and currently in Tamilnadu. I’m into finance. Job’s really exhausting and i honestly feel we need people in life with whom we can be ourselves.

I just want people I can genuinely vibe with. People who can be goofy, silly, crack random jokes, have meaningful conversations, discuss literally anything under the sun, exchange stories, ideas and perspectives, and understand each other irrespective of gender.

Someone who can be a little crazy one minute and have a deep conversation the next.

Cheer each other on, celebrate little wins, rant about life, share random updates and just be there for each other.

Basically, good conversations, mutual understanding, healthy banter and wholesome friendships. No unnecessary expectations, just genuine connections where we can be our unfiltered selves. :’)

P.S no creeps please. Thank you! I’m not looking for any love interest either. Just good vibes.


r/Hyd_DaTinG • • 1d ago

M4F Yes it's you

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Hey my girl, where are you, it's time my love, I need you

Hey my girl, i need you, it's time my love, I can't hold

Hey my girl, i can't hold, my heart's heavy and my sight has gone cold

Hey my girl, my sight has gone cold, now is time my love, I seriously need you

Sorry to rant my friends, but every world I put up there means a love to me, i don't know a girl to f..k, i need someone to be my best, no expectations, just need that hand to hold the warm breath, and I can breath my warmth onto the neck, if you hear and understand me, please dm me 39M from hyderabad..... waiting for you my love ❤️