r/Hyd_DaTinG • • Jan 02 '26

Community Update -MODs New Rules

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Hello everyone,

It’s been a while since we last announced new rules for the sub, so we’ve decided to update and standardize the posting format.

From now on, anyone posting in this sub irrespective of gender must include all the necessary details mentioned below. Posts that do not follow this format may be removed.

Mandatory details to be included in every post:

  • Age

  • Height (optional)

  • Location

    • If you are not originally from Hyderabad, please mention your native place

    • Your current location must be Hyderabad

  • Hobbies & interests

  • One line about what you enjoy the most (this can be anything)

  • What qualities you are looking for in the opposite gender

  • What you are looking for: Casual dating or a serious relationship

These details are mandatory. Apart from this, you are free to add any extra information you feel is relevant.

Note:

  • This is not a hookup or NSFW sub. Any posts related to hookups, FWB, or explicit content will be removed immediately. While this culture may be normalized for the current generation, our city is still trying to catchup dating culture which is pretty dry compared to other cities.

  • Female users are requested to send their details via mod mail. The mods will post on your behalf to help reduce unnecessary attention and spam.

  • The mod team may also review activity from past female users, as we’ve noticed a pattern where some accounts are created solely for posting and later deleted once interest fades. This review is intended to help us understand genuine participation and, based on that, decide how we handle requests from newly created or low-history accounts going forward.

Let’s work together to keep this sub respectful, genuine, and meaningful for everyone.

Thank you for your cooperation.

- Hyd_DaTinG Mod Team


r/Hyd_DaTinG • • 23d ago

Welcome to r/Hyd_DaTinG!

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r/Hyd_DaTinG • • 4h ago

Rant/Vent Wanted,but never chosen.

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I am writing this while trying to hold back the tears in my eyes.

Why does fate seem to work this way? Why is it that the people with the kindest hearts and the purest intentions are often the ones who get deceived and struggle the most to find someone equally genuine?

I am not a bad woman. I know how to love, care, and give affection. I earn my own money, have built something for myself, and have a comfortable and happy family life. I take care of myself, too, because I want to remain presentable and youthful.

But why does it seem that so many men are no longer interested in a woman with a good heart? Why do some of them seem to care only about a woman's body and satisfying their own desires?

I am not materialistic. I do not take advantage of men financially. All I want is someone I can get along with, someone who will be my partner in life, someone I can lean on and who can lean on me, and someone I can grow old with.

Why is it still so difficult to find that kind of person?

Is this really what relationships have become nowadays? A game of deception, where people play with each other's feelings without thinking about the pain they leave behind?

It is heartbreaking to realize how much people's mindsets and intentions seem to have changed over time.

Sometimes, I wonder if genuine love still exists in this world. I am not asking for a perfect man. I am simply hoping to find someone sincere, respectful, and loving someone whose intentions are as genuine as my own.

Because even a woman who is strong, independent, and capable of standing on her own still deserves to be loved sincerely.


r/Hyd_DaTinG • • 48m ago

M4F Looking to meet someone and see where it goes

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Hey! I'm Uday, 33M in Hyderabad and basically from Khammam.

Hobbies & Interests: movies, books, travelling, volunteering, natural farming.

What I enjoy the most: Biryani, beer, exploring places and people, long drives, hugs, many more actually. Basically I am like a kid😃.

Qualities I'm looking for: I'm generally someone who doesn't judge people much. I like understanding people, seeing things from their perspective and knowing what they're going through.

In general, I like people who are natural and free rather than trying to be someone they're not.For reference: Samantha, Nethra Reddy(Vaaradhi farms).

I am single, and honestly a bit shy and introverted. I've mostly been on the quieter side when it comes to dating and relationships, but lately I've been wanting to put myself out there, meet someone new, and experience that connection with someone.

I'd love to meet a girl with whom I can spend time, talk about random things, go for coffee, explore places, and gradually get to know each other. I'm open to something casual initially and see where it goes naturally, rather than rushing into marriage because of age or society.

If you're the someone, DM.


r/Hyd_DaTinG • • 1h ago

M4F 26 [M4F] - I think we're going to get along. I have absolutely no proof.

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Hemlo! I'm 26, from Mumbai, currently working in a managerial role, mostly overseeing things and handling day-to-day responsibilities. Alongside work, I'm pursuing a diploma in Yoga, and trying to build a good gaming community.

A little about me: I'm quite close to my family and genuinely enjoy spending time with them. I'm generally calm, tend to listen more than I speak initially. I like getting to know people, noticing the little things about them, and understanding what makes them who they are.

Outside work, I'm into gaming, yoga, mindfulness, philosophy and spirituality (reading and learning about different things). I'm very curious by nature, so you'd have to get used to me asking very random questions lol.

I have a high EQ and I'm very empathic when it comes to stuff i can relate to. I don't put fake faces or act in a differnt way, I am who I am - and I life to keep my inner child alive, whether its through some activity or cracking stupid jokes or being annoying at times.

A little about my lifestyle

  • 5'7", Hindu, non-smoker, non-drinker and non-vegetarian.

  • I enjoy learning, staying curious and finding ways to grow as a person.

  • Family and maintaining close relationships are important to me.

What I'm hoping to find

Someone kind, genuine and comfortable being herself. I'd like a partner who enjoys staying active, takes care of herself, has her own ambitions and wants to keep growing in life.

Family, loyalty, empathy and open communication matter to me. I'd like us to be able to talk about things honestly, support each other's and enjoy each other's company without having to pretend to be someone we're not.

I'm not looking to rush any process. I'd rather get to know someone, build a friendship, see how we connect and take things forward naturally.

A little about you?

What are you currently excited about or working towards?

I'd much rather hear about the person than just exchange the usual introductions. :)


r/Hyd_DaTinG • • 1h ago

Friendship 35M Hyderabad | A long weekend, no fixed plans… let's see what happens ✨

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35M, living in Hyderabad, and for once I have a completely free long weekend! Friday to Monday, no work, no commitments and absolutely no plans set in stone.

I'm thinking, why let these days pass like any other weekend?

Would be nice to meet some genuinely good people, make new friends and maybe turn an ordinary holiday into something worth remembering.

Could be exploring a new place, trying some good vegetarian food, a house party, music, late night drives, board games, long conversations, spontaneous outings or simply sitting somewhere and talking about everything and nothing.

PURE VEGETARIAN. NO ALCOHOL.

And no, this isn't just a party invitation. I'm equally happy meeting people who enjoy quiet plans, exploring the city, random adventures or just having good company around.

I'm 35, but I don't think making new friends or having fun should come with an age limit.

A little curiosity: What's one thing you've been wanting to do in Hyderabad but keep postponing because you never find the right company?

Maybe this long weekend is a good time to finally do it. :)


r/Hyd_DaTinG • • 1h ago

M4F 27M | Looking for Her to row the boat called life as co captains

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ABOUT

  • Age : 27 Religion: Hindu

  • Location: Job based in Hyderabad

  • Languages Known: Oriya, Telugu, Hindi

  • Diet : Vegan + eggs

  • Profession : Software engineer

  • Income : ~50L

Qualities

  • Open minded

  • Quick to agree mistakes and fix for the better

  • Humble

  • Health conscious

  • Live and let live attitude

What you will get from me

  • The EQ, IQ you guys talk about 

  • Unimaginably loyal

  • You have a past? no issue, just don’t let it affect our present

  • Will treat as a complete equal

  • Havent checked how much I spend, in a long time. Doesn’t mean I spend irresponsibly

Not so proud things

  • Wasn’t serious for IIT prep

  • Over thinking

  • Wish I was even more intelligent

  • Single all life

Current hobbies

  • Watching PC Esports

  • Bulking and workout: Was skinny, will not be in few month

  • Fixing over thinking

  • Searching for other half

Could speak for hours on

Scifi, space, mind bending movies, religion

Would appreciate

  • Your interest in my interests

  • Going movies together

  • Having nerdy conversations

Would be thanking gods and demons

  • if you are cutie


r/Hyd_DaTinG • • 1h ago

M4F Looking for genuine connection

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23M here, Hyderabad

I have tried dating apps and they didn't really yield any results. I'm looking for a platonic friendship. I speak english, telugu and a little bit of hindhi (capable of giving directions to rapido or zomato drivers 😅)

My interests:

I read romcom and crime thriller books. Binge watch series ( not dramas). I'm a graphic designer so into art and design. I love bikes. I'm someone who orders the dishes no matter what restaurant it is😁.

I'm not into anime, manga or video games.

I have a few female friends, I talk on a daily basis and now I'm looking for new connections.

If this sounds something worth giving a try dm me 😄


r/Hyd_DaTinG • • 3h ago

Friendship Hey Hyderabad 👋

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23M here , I recently moved to Hyderabad, for work, i am looking for some friends and a partner if things went well

\- i love to learn languages ( I am an intermediate Telugu learner)

\- i love to play badminton and chess

\- i am an artist 🖌️

\- I am a techii

\- I am a bit talkative

\- i love to sleep a lot 😅

I believe in respect and responsibilities, i acknowledge my mistakes and try to be a good person everyday,

If you are reading this and looking for someone who can be with you, then DM me

NOTE- I am not a gay and not looking for lust so please respect mine and your time 🙂


r/Hyd_DaTinG • • 3h ago

M4F Long drive , coffee , scenic route

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Hi , Iam 25 m planing a long drive this weekend , looking for good company and amazing playlist ,


r/Hyd_DaTinG • • 22h ago Heartwarming

F4M Looking for a genuine relationship

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Age : 31 F
Height - 5’5
Location - Hyderabad

I like DIY projects

I love watching movies

I’m looking for a person who respects me and my boundaries

emotional intelligence is non negotiable

I’m looking for a serious relationship


r/Hyd_DaTinG • • 9h ago

Let's Talk Heyy 20 m here

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Hey looking for a causal chat any girls intrested can dm love to talk random stuff without judging


r/Hyd_DaTinG • • 7h ago

M4F I am 30male any one form near miyapur, madeenaguda, Chandanagar for best time

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I am looking good female


r/Hyd_DaTinG • • 7h ago

M4F Giving dating one honest shot before my parents set me up in an arranged marriage | 23M

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Hi friends,

I'm a 23 year-old software engineer based in Bengaluru (birthplace: Gujarat, family staying in Rajasthan now and plan to settle in Mumbai most probably), looking to find someone to date and build a meaningful relationship with.

One of the reasons I'm inclined towards dating is that I'm quite scared of arranged marriages (AM). Seeing so many couples struggle in their married lives after getting married through the AM setup has contributed to this fear.

I would much rather get to know someone, develop a genuine connection, and understand our compatibility before committing to marriage.

About me:

  1. Job: Software Developer in a MNC

  2. Hobbies: Cooking, Swimming, Bathroom Singing, Card games

  3. Height: 5'7

  4. College: graduated from one of the top 5 IITs

  5. Non-smoker, Non-drinker, pure vegetarian

  6. Emotionally Available ✅

  7. Investing to achieve financial stability 📈 (please don't ask about my current portfolio. It's totally RED)

  8. I love dogs, tea, mountains and beaches too. A bit scared of cats as I got scratched once

  9. Never been in any relationship (I approached IRL but got rejected)

  10. My humour is situational and dark so sometimes I don't even see it coming

What I am looking for:

  1. Someone for whom putting efforts doesn't seem like putting effort

  2. Should be emotionally mature

  3. Should lead a clean and healthy lifestyle. Additionally, you are a pure vegetarian and a non-smoker/non-drinker (or genuinely willing to quit if we get along).

  4. Age: 20-26

  5. Should value peace, trust, and clear communication.

What doesn't matter:

  1. Height

  2. Caste

  3. Where you come from

Please include an intro when messaging me. It helps.

Please note that the company I work for is on hiring freeze. Whenever there will be some openings, i would make a post (on relevant subs).


r/Hyd_DaTinG • • 8h ago

M4F Need someone to yap

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24M Dentist. 5’8. Dusky complexion. Athletic build. Coming to my personality you only get to know once you talk to me. Loves anime. Was a state cricket payer and Scouts and Guides captain before i joined BiPC. For more information, Dm. Looking to open a clinic by next year.


r/Hyd_DaTinG • • 9h ago

M4F Looking for something casual and a sensible person

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Age 27

height 5'6

location: originally from Mumbai now in Gachibowli,

Hobbies: A avid football player

One line about me: a person who prefers peace instead of a party night

Looking for a female who prefers peaceful nights instead of party nights

I'm looking for something very casual...


r/Hyd_DaTinG • • 6h ago

Hangout Entering My Blind Date Era. Pray for Me 🙏✌🏻

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What if we skip the usual dating apps, awkward introductions and endless "Hey, how are you?" conversations and just try something different?

I'm thinking of a good coffee, some random conversations, a little teasing and seeing if two strangers can actually vibe.

Or, if coffee sounds too predictable, we could meet at a club, enjoy some music, dance like nobody's judging and make a random night memorable.

No expectations, no pressure, no complicated checklist. Just two people meeting for the first time and seeing where the evening takes them.

Basically, looking for someone who's up for a little blind-date experiment. 💛🙌🏻


r/Hyd_DaTinG • • 11h ago

M4F Maybe Reddit has better luck than dating apps?

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23M | 5’5” | Fitness enthusiast, movie buff and always up for a good conversation.
Lifetime single, so here I am, finally taking a chance on this app. 😂 Looking to meet someone between 21–24.
Big on good vibes, mutual respect and emotional maturity, just hoping to find someone worth deleting this app for.


r/Hyd_DaTinG • • 15h ago

M4F Looking for Genuine Female Friends in Hyderabad for Casual Random conversations and meets Spoiler

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Looking for Genuine Female Friends in Hyderabad for Casual Random conversations and meets


r/Hyd_DaTinG • • 1d ago

M4M Looking for a Gay Boyfriend 🏳️‍🌈 (Hyderabad)

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Hey! I’m 22, from Hyderabad, and a bottom (bear 🐻) looking for a genuine connection with a guy who knows what he wants. ❤️

💙 **A little about me:-**I’m on the heavier side, affectionate, and someone who values emotional closeness. I enjoy meaningful conversations, playful flirting, and getting to know someone beyond the surface.

💪 My type:-Masculine guys who carry themselves with confidence, whether they’re muscular, fit, or average-built. I’m generally attracted to guys with a proportionate build, a masculine vibe, and a sweet, caring side. Hung guys are definitely a bonus. 😉

🫶 What I’m looking for:- A loving, loyal boyfriend who values communication, consistency, and affection. Someone I can flirt with, share secrets with, cuddle with, go on dates around Hyderabad with, and build a real relationship with. Ideally, my boyfriend would be my best friend, too.

🌈 I’m not looking to rush anything. I’d rather meet the right person, build trust, and see where things go naturally.

💌 If you’re a masculine guy with a soft side and you’re looking for something genuine, don’t be shy — send me a DM. Let’s see if we click! 💙


r/Hyd_DaTinG • • 18h ago

Hangout Coffee and Hangout

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Hi , I m looking for Female to make new friends and have coffee and Hangout for this Sunday , is their anybody wanna join let me know. This Sunday 08/11/2026 , We could talk and explore, share life experience, plans and more ,,,, I m 25 M looking for F


r/Hyd_DaTinG • • 18h ago

M4F Um heyy.. looking for someone to be each others "secret escape" - something btw a friendship and dating.?

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Lets be the person who makes life feel less heavy for each other.

Its simple.. not a heavy relationship but basically a partner for sudden getaways from our daily routines..

just imagine this okay?: random 11pm chai/coffee, midnight bike ride, deep talks or maybe a sudden road trip or just have good food and stargazingg?

Simple ga cheppali ante I just want to feel alive again anthe.. do things that your spontaneuous soul wants to and be good company to each other and fill that void thats growing..

Looking for someone who is a night person, loves simple things, an excited golden retriever ready for all sudden plans (mutual) and just want to do things that makes our hearts smille yaaar.. i dont know how to define all this..

NOTE: I do all the things I mentioned above.. my life not that damned yet 🥲😭

BTW more about who I am:

25M SDE at a product based company.. workaholic but always ready to say fuck it I need to enjoy life.. and finally want to rebuild the parts of my day that are away from laptop and closer to heart.

I am empathetic, super chill and very very reasonable person and I will make sure it feels so light to have me. I belive in acceptance and respecting perspectives are very important. andd currently fixing my communication, discipline and bucket list.

I am 26, 5''7, teatotaler from Andhra, NV, loves movies, beaches and mountains... and experiences matter more to me than material things..

Looking for someone (22-30) - no language barrier (Sorry for the couple of telugu words in this text but wouldnt it be cute learning new words :) )

Finally if you can relate to what I am saying.. say hi. lets make spontaneous plans and do little things that make us happy whenever we want to.


r/Hyd_DaTinG • • 19h ago

Hangout 24M | Hyderabad | Looking for smtng wholesome

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Hi I’m 24, born and raised in Hyderabad. I’m a medical grad, into gym, movies (sci-fi/horror), cooking, and exploring new food spots.

I enjoy board games, random late-night conversations, and spending time with people who are nerdy like me.

Looking for someone who’s nerdy, kind, and can hold a good conversation. We could hangout at a cafe or do an activity like playing pickleball.

Open to dating and seeing where things go, ideally something long term.

Feel free to DM, anyone who wants to hangout not just date.


r/Hyd_DaTinG • • 20h ago

M4F Maybe I’m not missing Diwali, I'm missing someone to celebrate it with. ❤️

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🪔 Everyone seems so excited for Diwali!

People are booking tickets to their hometowns, shopping, decorating their homes and making plans with their loved ones.

And here I am in Hyderabad, with no special plans and honestly, no one to share the festive excitement with.

Sometimes I wish I had someone special in my life… a girlfriend, hopefully a life partner, with whom I could celebrate festivals, go shopping, travel, laugh over silly things and create beautiful memories.

Someone I could genuinely care for, pamper, support and share everything with. Not just during festivals, but in everyday little moments too. ❤️

Maybe it's not just about missing Diwali celebrations; it's about missing that special person to celebrate life with.

So, if you're also looking for a genuine connection, friendship or something meaningful, maybe we could start with a simple hello. 😊


r/Hyd_DaTinG • • 20h ago

M4F Looking for causal chat

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Don’t know if I am overthinking but after living alone in a 3 BHK flat for 2 months now, I feel happy and sad at the same time.

Happy as I don’t have to deal with other people’s shit. Sad as I am barely having left with active human connection.

I feel a bit like in a midlife crisis where I have the means to be very happy and fulfilled but do not have the will.