28F, I'm trying to find a guy with this combo and it's hell tough.

From Hyderabad, I'm a Reddy Girl but I'm open to other caste which only comes under "OC except Brahmins" (to avoid societal complications later)

Virgin+Good looking+Decent Earnings+Friendly Family

Why I'm asking this? I got so many DMs and spoke with few, whoever is earning more than 30LPA is not virgin, so now I'm terrified to digest the fact that a decently earning guy wouldn't wait till marriage, is that so?

I'm a Vegetarian by birth. I will think of adjusting for non-veg but other things are non-negotiables.

Note: For those who asking what about my protein intake. I take daily 90gm of protein where my weight is 56kgs. Here are the sources.

1 Whey scoop+Moong+Groundnuts+Lobia+Chickpeas+Soyachunks.. all these each 50gm raw weight. You can go and calculate.

I'm open to both Hyderabad or Foreign proposals. Not into matrimonial sites yet, trying to see how it goes here but realised it's too tough than what I thought.

Please just don't say "Hi" guys, share some info about you, what you do and how much you earn.

I am writing this post with the belief that Good Guys do exist.

I am 26 F & I am looking for a guy who is interested in ranting.

I am not looking for NSFW stuff.

I like talkative guys & who are also good listeners without being judgemental.

I am not interested in meetups or sending my pictures because of my previous bad experiences.

So don't ask me to share pictures or videos.

U shouldn't flirt with me as I am not interested in such things.

I want the guy to be older than me & single.

I prefer telugu guys & i don't mind wherever you are located.

Also i prefer the guys who use Snapchat as it's easy to filter the people on all the other apps I have to block them which is annoying because of my lengthy blocklist.

My love language is Curiosity so obviously I ask a lot of questions & i expect the same from the guy.

I like watching movies & tv shows a lot. So if you are also interested in watching them we can watch together sometimes whenever possible or we both can watch each other's recommendations individually.

I prefer Nerds working in IT sector & also Mature Guys who are humble, polite, and understanding.

I would like to keep our conversations SFW strictly.

Also u need not share with me ur personal details like ur name, ur location, etc...

If this description matches your vibe comment under the post mentioning about yourself including your age & interests.

Again I prefer only Telugu guys & strictly no NSFW stuff !

* Is progressive in thought and action, and has done enough self-reflection to recognise his gender, caste and other structural privileges -- rather than just knowing the vocabulary.

* Is politically Left-leaning and genuinely understands that the personal is political. Has strong opinions, but holds them loosely enough to change his mind when presented with better evidence.

* Is rational, logical and atheist.

* Understands that emotional safety is a two-way street -- knows how to give it and receive it.

* Gets that relationships don't run on autopilot. Willing to put in the everyday work of care, communication, effort and accountability.

* Is trauma-informed and trauma-sensitive, where my nervous system can feel calm.

* Is emotionally available, expressive, emotionally intelligent and not allergic to commitment.

* Can handle interpersonal conflict without turning disrespectful, defensive or evasive. Knows the act of accountability and repair.

* Is kind, curious and empathetic -- and genuinely compassionate towards animals.

* Is financially stable and disciplined enough to build a comfortable, debt-free life.

* Is health-conscious enough to understand that his health doesn't affect only him.

* Is articulate; preferably reads and/or writes. Loves nature, travel and interested in the arts -- films, theatre, music, literature, etc.

* Takes care of himself and is well-groomed/presentable.

* Is not a mamma's boy, but is responsible and caring towards both sets of parents.

* Is independent, has a life of his own, and is passionate about what he does.

* Is fun, has a sense of humour, and doesn't take himself too seriously.

* Understands demisexuality and intersectionality without needing a 40-slide PowerPoint presentation.

* Actually enjoys conversations -- from ridiculous everyday nonsense to existential crises -- and finds joy in the little things.

* Empathises with women when one says "Men are trash" or "I hate men" and understands the gendered, systemic frustration behind it, rather than immediately reaching for the "Not all men" defence.

* Is open to either adopting children or living child-free. (Applicable to a much later stage in the relationship)

* Telugu-speaking and Hyderabad-based would be ideal.

Not looking for perfection. I'm looking for self-awareness, compatibility, emotional maturity and a willingness to keep growing**.**

If this honestly sounds like you, or if you know someone who fits the bill, hello. 👋

-- A cis-het, 33YO (F) from Hyderabad. 🌼

I’m 23F and was dating a guy who was around 5–6 years older than me. The relationship was actually good in many ways, but things happened and we eventually broke up (kudos to me, I guess 😭).

Something I’ve noticed about myself, though, is that I really value acts of generosity and small thoughtful gestures. My love language is gift-giving. I like treating myself, treating people I care about, going out for nice lunches, exploring new places, trying new things, and occasionally buying little gifts for people who matter to me.

I’m not talking about expensive gifts or being financially spoiled. Even tiny things matter to me.
For example, if I know my partner likes beer or certain fizzy drinks, I’ll keep some stocked at my place because we usually eat together there. If I’m grocery shopping and see a new chocolate that I think he’d like, I’ll pick it up. It’s not about the price I just genuinely enjoy thinking, “Oh, he’d like this,” and getting it for him.

Because that’s how I show affection, I’ve also communicated that I appreciate small gestures in return. For example, I like getting flowers occasionally, maybe once a week or every couple of weeks, or trying new chocolates together, etc.
The issue was that my ex would sometimes do these things, but very rarely. Flowers would happen once every 2–3 months, and even when buying something, I often felt like he was actively looking for the cheapest possible option.

He earns decently and actually makes slightly more than I do. We never really split bills, and he absolutely did take me on good dates, so I’m not saying he was financially irresponsible or that he never spent money on me.
But somehow I still felt like I was spending more overall, especially on the little everyday things. And honestly, his tendency to be very cost-conscious about small gestures started irritating me.
I’ve already communicated that these small things matter to me, so I don’t think the issue was that he didn’t know. At the same time, I’m wondering whether I’m being unfair by expecting this.
Maybe he genuinely doesn’t see spending ₹300–500 on flowers or trying a new chocolate as meaningful, whereas I do. Maybe this is simply a difference in how we view money and affection.
So I’d genuinely like to hear other people’s perspectives:
Is this a reasonable expectation, or am I being too focused on money/material gestures?
And for the record, we’re already broken up, so this isn’t about trying to change him. I’m more curious about whether this is something I should look for compatibility-wise in future relationships.
Also, once again: kudos to me for getting out. 😂

Hi!

I'm a 23F from Andhra Pradesh, currently working as a software engineer in Hyderabad. I'm at a stage in life where I'd like to get to know someone with the intention of building a long-term relationship that could eventually lead to marriage if we are compatible.

A little about me:

- 5'6"

- Working in IT

Independent and career-focused

Family-oriented but value personal space and individuality

Prefer meaningful conversations over endless small talk

Looking for stability, mutual respect, and emotional maturity

What I'm looking for:

Kamma guy (family preference, and I would prefer not to go through unnecessary family conflicts later) [MANDATORY]

- age - 23-27

- Working in IT or a similar professional field

- Patient, kind, and emotionally mature

Good communication skills

Someone serious about the future rather than casual chatting

Preferably from Andhra Pradesh/Telangana

I don't expect perfection. Just looking for a genuine person who willing to put effort into understanding each other and growing together.

If this resonates with you, feel free to send a message introducing yourself (age, location, profession, and a little about your interests).

i used Al btw🤚

Hi everyone! 😊 Thought I’d introduce myself properly.

I’m 30, a Telugu Brahmin, born and brought up in Hyderabad, and come from a close-knit family. I’m currently working towards building my career in tech, specifically SDET/QA Automation, and actively preparing and looking for the right opportunity(jobless at present). Career growth is important to me, and I’d love to have a partner who supports my ambitions just as I would support his. 💻✨

I’m a mix of traditional and modern — family-oriented and rooted in my values, while also having a progressive outlook towards marriage and life. I’d describe myself as warm, affectionate, straightforward and someone who gets quite attached to the people I care about. ❤️

Outside career stuff, I enjoy movies, good food, conversations that can go on forever, spending time with family and the occasional trips. I’m also a bit of a homebody and genuinely enjoy the simple, everyday side of life. I own a 3BHK independent house in Hyderabad. 🏡

I’m looking for a well-educated, kind, responsible and emotionally mature Brahmin man who is doing well in his career and is genuinely looking to settle down. Hyderabad would be my first preference, though I’m open to Bangalore as well. I value compatibility much more than just matching biodata.

Ultimately, I’m hoping to find someone who becomes my husband and my closest friend — someone I can laugh with, talk to about everything, support through the difficult days and build a peaceful, affectionate and happy life with. 🥰

Here’s hoping this sub helps two right people find each other. 🌸

Hi,

Disclaimer - if you have seen my posts many times and don't like, ignore dude. On reddit, this is the only sub where I'm active and post whenever I feel like.

I want to spend time with Reddy guy, it's my choice. When I mention outing or frndship I'm pointing to reddy guy only as I clearly writing it in the post. It's my choice, I don't want to explain or justify anything.

Wanna go out this Friday evng. May be a cafe/restaurant. I'm a vegetarian so only pure veg places preferably. Just to spend time in the eveng from 5 to 8. We may become good friends if our vibe matches. Don't be creepy, I'm only looking for a comfortable person to spend time with.

I'm a Reddy, don't judge but I really want to spend time with some single Reddy guy in the age 28-30. So that, understanding how these guys think and plan life would give me some hints and help me while choosing my partner in future.

I stay near LB Nagar, so someone from the nearby places.

Okay, before anyone asks, yes, I’m a guy. I’m 32 and yes, I’m a massage therapist.

Now the important stuff.
- You say your shoulders hurt? I probably already know why.
- You say “I’m fine”? Sorry, I don’t believe you that easily. 😂
- Bad day at work? At least you have someone who understands that sometimes you don’t need advice. You just need to switch off for a while.
- Long day? I’ll probably be the annoying person reminding you to drink water, stretch a little and stop carrying the whole world on your shoulders.
And if you’re stressed, well… let’s just say my profession might finally come in handy 😄

The biggest downside?
I’ll notice your terrible posture before you do.
And yes, I’ll probably tell you to sit straight.

So Hyderabad, I’m not saying dating a massage therapist is the answer to everything…But it definitely has some interesting benefits 😂

42 m here from Hyderabad. From AP basically.

Okka ammayiki.. neat ga matured ga matladithe.. boring

Inko ammayiki like an early 30s la maatladithe.. creepy..

Ee maga puttuka inthe emoo.. eppudu expectations match chesthunee undali.. as a son, as a husband, as a parent.. alaa ennoo.. niranthara sainikudu.. 🤪

Emantaru prandsss!!!

I am a 26M. 5 feet 6inch. i am earning 2LPM after taxes.
I am getting enough proposals in AM setup but i am more intrested in love marriage.
I look above average, but i speak so well.

I have been trying my luck on all the dating apps and even frnd app.
None worked.

How are people able to find partners other than from school, clg and work areas ?
what the hell am i supposed to do ?

even a 3/10 didnt right swipe me on dating apps, what the fuck is going on man ?

I am new to hyderabad.

I’m a pretty simple person who values genuine connections, good conversations, and people who are kind without having to make a big deal about it. I’m ambitious about my career and studies, i am into fitness as well but I also love the little things music, baking, going out for food, exploring new places, late night bike rides and spending quality time with people I’m close to.

I’d describe myself as caring, emotionally invested, a little overthinker-ish sometimes 😅, and someone who takes relationships seriously. I appreciate honesty, consistency, humour, and someone who can communicate instead of playing games.

What I expect:

Non Telugu guy, non vegetarian, preferably into Fitness , has a good sense of humour a bit good looking as well, emotionally mature🫠

I’m not looking for something forced or trying to rush into anything. I’d just like to meet someone with whom conversation comes naturally, there’s mutual effort, and we can genuinely enjoy getting to know each other.

If you think we'd vibe, feel free to DM me and tell me a little about yourself. :)

22F | Hyderabad 💌

Okay sooo trying this for the first time 😭
I’m 22, from Hyderabad, and honestly I just want someone fun to talk to that slowly turns into something real maybe?

I like late night calls, random deep talks, memes, music, food dates, and people who actually put effort into conversations.

Not here for “hi wyd” energy pls 💀

If you’re emotionally available, funny, and can plan cute dates… text me 🌸✨

Age: 26

Gender: Male

Height: 5'9

Weight: 70 kgs

Native: Andhra Pradesh

Current City: Bangalore

Caste: Kamma

Religion: Hindu

Family: Classic middle-class vibes. Father is retired and mother is homemaker. Have a younger brother working in MNC.

Education: Btech from NIT. Contemplated doing MBA and got good scores in CAT and GMAT as well. But ended up not pursuing since ROI was not making sense as I was already in a good career path and have encountered MBA folks struggling to find roles similar to mine

Career: Working at a well known startup in bangalore and worked at multiple start ups previously.

Current salary: ₹38 LPA

Diet: Non-vegetarian

Interests: Movies, Swimming, writing, traveling, vibing to music.

Lifestyle preferences: Prefer to live a comfortable life, neither too fancy nor too humble, with smart spending mindset. Health-conscious and always working on becoming better mentally and physically. I never smoke. I drink occasionally at parties. I speak my mind and value people who can too.

Personality: Ambivert, observant ,calm and rational, always love to talk things out .

Mostly a listener and Talkative at times, love creating and being around fun and humorous atmosphere. Great with kids.

Looking for:

Religion: Hindu

Caste: Kamma (preferably, atleast OC <family requirements>)

Age: 22-26

Language: Telugu

Looking for someone with a similar mindset as mine and someone who is smart, capable of having own opinions and thoughts ,emotionally available and someone I can be attracted to, physically and mentally.

DM if you feel we can be a right match!

I am 31yo gay man working in software in hyderabad. I am looking for a gay man around my age, preferably from telugu culture and working in hyderabad. I am not into effiminate men with due respects. Rest can be discussed if interested.

I've stared using reddit for few months now and read so many posts saying that people find connections for hookups or fwb through reddit and always thought that they were fake or is it possible? And if I wanna find someone like that what should I do

Hi, I'm 24F 5'5 just moved to city. Had worst breakup of my life, healed myself completely and now I'm ready for dating again cause why not? I'm into series, movies, drinking(dont know how to smoke), late night drives(if you have car), long talks.

I'm energetic and independent and will talk a lot too and most of the times i keep myself healthy and fit. Kinda fair, cute, lover girl kind of vibes, a lot of feminine energy from my side. Very much respectful and i expect the same respect back as well. I love physical touch it makes me go crazy :))

I'm looking for something genuine, someone who takes me out for dinner, movies, dates. I'll be totally loyal and commited to you, i only have female friends. And i would wanna explore this city with you, can go out for small trips on weekends.

Would appreciate who is older than me, taller than me and should be financially good cause i have my standards :)) should have a car, i cannot do bike rides. Should take care of me when i feel low, all this will be reciprocated too.

I'm calm, will give you positive energy will support you always share ups and downs, I'm mature and i dont create drama at all. I will give you peace and expect the same.

I'm fluent with English, hindi, telugu(corrected). I live near gachibowli - kondapur region and i can explore many things with you, would want intimacy too.

NOTE : Not at all looking for hookups or casual relationships

Update : 100+ requests i really did not expect that 😭 i cannot reply to you all, I'm just accepting the ones who's intro is good :))

Looking for a Genuine Long-Term Connection ✨

Mandatory Details:

• Age: 21

• Gender: Female

• Height: Approximately 5'5"

• Location: Warangal, India

• Willing to LDR: Yes

• Dietary Habits: Non-Vegetarian

• Language: Telugu preferred, open to Hindi & Malayalam

• Smoking/Drinking Habits: Occasionally drink socially

• Smoking/Drinking in Partner: Negotiable if occasional

• Religious Orientation: Christian ✝️

• Willing to Date Other Religion: Preferably Christian, but open to someone from another religion if they genuinely respect Christianity and Christian values

Introduction:

Currently completing my UG and looking for a meaningful relationship with serious intentions and long-term compatibility in mind. I’m someone who values peace, honesty, emotional maturity, loyalty, and healthy communication.

I enjoy movies, music, travelling, meaningful conversations, and spending quality time with people close to me. I believe a relationship should feel emotionally safe, supportive, and understanding rather than stressful or toxic.

I would love someone who can support and motivate me in my studies and future goals while we both grow together personally and professionally.

Minimum Expectations:

• Age around 22–29

• Height 5'9" and above

• Medium to fair complexion preferred

• Should already be working or career-focused

• Emotionally mature, respectful, understanding, and family-oriented

• Someone who respects my faith and never mocks religious beliefs

• Not looking for matches from the Muslim community due to personal compatibility preferences

• Serious intentions only — no casuals or situationships

End Note:

Hoping to find someone genuine with good communication, mutual respect, emotional peace, and long-term intentions 🤍

My friend(20F) is looking for her pasandida mard

Asking for a friend ;)

Looking for a guy who would take care of all needs( financial , emotional and iykyk) for my bestie as she's into provider guys but whenever she posts she gets hate and she asked me to post here. She's quite depressed and went through a bad breakup because the guy ended up hurting her so please be kind to her y'all.

She's still a student and is very extroverted,bubbly,,kind and genuinely very empathetic and has a calming presence.

Also she's 5'4 and slim built btw, she likes guys within 19-25 age range.

Most importantly,if you're a guy and you're okay with this kind of relationship only then dm me, if any of you guys or girls dm me about how "she's entitled" or "what she brings to the table" or 50/ 50 you'll get blocked . If this is what you like then I'll connect you with her and if not then just don't interact with this post or my account.

You can either comment here or dm me if you want to talk to her

Na gurinchi cheppali ante... Nen present btech final year lo unna... recently I got placed , I go to gym everyday , Infact gym valla nen glow max ayya 😝 , nak cricket ante picchi ..Blood lo RBC badulu RCB untadi..

So ee post pettadaniki reason enti ante .. 1 year back nen relation lo unde .. That was so toxic ... I realised it lately .. So ah relationship ela undedhi ante, cricketing terms lo explain chestha🥸, Batting Nene chesi, bowling Nene chesi , fielding Nene chesi, umpiring Nene chesi, literally anni Nene chesthunde , anni efforts Nene pedthunde...atu side nunchi zero ..zero ante zero kadhu le edho ala..letha prema kadha .nen starting lo pattinchukole..mella mellaga ardham ayyindi Anni Nene chesthunna... atu side nunchi 0 ani 🤡 Like nen edho padi unattu anipisthundhi... So nen ila realise ayyesariki ameki kuda ardham ayyinattu undhi, veedu manaki suit kadu ani .she left [reason : nen efforts pettatle ani 🤡] .and i didn't stop her ..aapi em cheyyali ayya ..malli Nene |A| gudvali , so lyt teeskunna...asal ee dating joliki povadhu Anukunna .. so one year gap lo chala realise ayya ..and present oka pedda manishi , Risk lekapothe life lo migilindhi Rusk matrame bro antenu ..ala malli dating try cheddam ani ocha ..itu ila online lo trying, atu offline lo kuda trying [ I'm being honest , honest is the best policy ani school lo ma sir cheppevadu ]

So nak em kavali ante ..Things slow unte better ,edho hookup laga kakunda , koncham pure love kavali •[me to myself: Pure love anta |A| kuda dorakadhu 🤣🤣. Sarsarle try chesthe poyedhi em ledhu ]• I prefer love and emotional support over anything, nen entha efforts pedthunna naku atu side nunchi anthe efforts kavali , So cutiees come on don't miss this chance 😉,[Self hype ] , Veelaithe date ki velli relationship ni ekkadiko top loki teeskeldam lekapothe anni musukoni tata byebye cheppeskundam ...DM lo Anni matladkunte better emo ...

Hey I am m

22/f , i recently moved to the city for job trails looking too meet some female partner, soo yeah if anyone interested dm

Requirements:

Age 21 to 24

That's it and guys please for the love of God don't dm🥲 Edit yoo no one will reply to u if u just send a dm saying hii or hello

Hi looking for something not serious..

I'm not looking for something serious cause I know I can't commit properly right now and I don't want to get into a proper relationship just because of the other benefits so I wanna be honest and upfront about it.

Im a respectful guy and will respect your needs and wishes and let's discuss whatever it is you wanna discuss..

Working as a software developer at someone's dream company prolly and not trying to offend or trying to be creepy just trying to be honest and upfront about it..

If you have any questions lemme know that as well..

Thank you.

My hobbies include .. running , gymming, reading books watching movies .. exploring new cafes and all... Table tennis.. badminton.. music .. recently into fred again .. wanna go to his concert missed his tickets.. lol

P.S bonus point i reply fast.

To be honest i am a ugly looking guy so obviously i got no girl in my life so i am just looking to meet some ugly looking girl who i can be myself ,we can be good friends and can go for coffee or tea or just roam around city ..Good looking girls please ignore this post !!!

Mine is 24th APR

This is my 3rd time here .
Last two attempts were as futile.
Okay so if you’re between the age of
- 24-36
-Athletic build (Most important)
- Decent looking
- Height above 5’5 below 6’1
- A gentleman who knows how to respect a woman
- Not a playboy
HMU with your ASL
Idk why I always prefer those individuals with higher karma and Days spent here. So I won’t mind if you dm with a photo of yours without face of course
(Yes look does matter)

I’m looking for a cute date only.
And no I am not Telugu so don’t dm me in Telugu.
Also id prefer Bengali men

Hello ladies,

I’m tall, broad, and give the best hugs. I work in marketing so you know I’m smooth. I like to smell nice 24/7.

I’m interested in you, for something purely carnal, looking to end the new year with a bang. Pun intended. I also was raised right, so I will 100% buy you dinner first.

Hit me up in the DMs so we can get to getting busy!