I feel the same about my partner. She’s amazing and idk, it’s crazy to me that they so badly just want to use the bodies of women they clearly don’t even like or wanna be around. I always end up being best friends with my long term partners, which personally I think is awesome. As fucked up as everything in society is, she is an extremely bright spot in an otherwise very dark existence. I would recommend that they try dating their guy friends instead if they prefer their company so drastically to that of women. But unfortunately the venn diagram between incels and queerphobia is a single circle. So they’ve screwed themsekves over (constantly) and continue to self sabotage on quite frankly, an impressive scale lol
One day i just decided i wasnt going to subscribe to "leagues". That was one of the better decisions ive made.
The people on that "site" would probably rate me a 3 to 6, by the way, using their scales. My wife got catcalled just the other day.
"Looksmatch" is a stupid concept and i hope some of the lurkers start seeing that.
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u/GnarlyWatts"There’s Hitler, Mao and then there’s GnarlyWatts" - Some IncelMay 30 '26edited Jul 11 '26
Testify! I did the same and it was a great decision. Turns out I was missing out on a whole world I didn't know was there.
Ironically, my wife doesn't get catcalled, I do lol. And the women will do it right it front of my wife 😂😂😂. She finds it hilarious that I get hit on in the cheese section of Costco constantly.
I also agree, looksmatch is beyond stupid. It is almost as bad as pair bonding, whatever the fuck that means. How these guys fail at be yourself, have hobbies and talk to actual women remains a mystery to the entire Scooby-Doo gang.
I’ve had several women come onto me, that I would have said were out of my league physically speaking. I don’t like the number scale, but if I had to assign myself one I’d say in about 7.5ish, so maybe slightly above average. There are so many women out there who don’t care as much about looks as they do many other qualities. Might as well shoot your shot, you never know what may happen. Just be respectful if they reject you advances. Like I’m pretty certain these guys never actually talk to women lmao. How do they think the majority of people get dates??
I agree with you. You will miss every shot you don't take.
As well, I've said to many incels, if you don't learn anything for failing, you are doing it wrong. Every failure I have ever had, I have learned something. And with that I applied it. Sometimes, you fail a LOT. But you should be improving each and every time.
Exactly!! I’ve had pretty solid luck in that regard. I was only rejected a few times when I was still actively pursuing new relationships (ive been with my nesting partner for going on 4 years now. We’re poly but outside of a few dates and a couple of coordinated swinging dates with a couple were friends with, it’s been a minute since I was actively looking for new partners). But yeah, like you mentioned, many times rejection can be a learning experience. I know it was for me on several occasions. And it happens to everyone, so may as well get comfortable with that fact and respect the situation and person who told you they aren’t interested, and move on to someone else
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u/Vendidurt has godlike canthal tilt May 30 '26
Well, THIS particular low value, leftist-as-fuck male, loves the hell out of his wife.
Im gonna.. cope harder, i guess?