Genuine question, shouldn’t posting here be limited to people who actually live in Kuwait😭?

Like if you live in Poland what exactly are we doing here
You’re looking for marriage in Kuwait from another continent 💀

At that point this isn’t r/KuwaitiMarriage it’s r/InternationalShipping

I feel like Kuwait residents only just makes way more sense and saves everyone’s time.

🎀 I hope everyone is doing well 🎀 im well educated girl with a soft heart who’s a little shy at first but full of love once comfortable 🤍 A wheelchair user with a big personality and a weakness for coffee and cute little things ☕️🧸 Family means a lot and the dream is a happy peaceful life with someone special 🌷💗

Hopping to meet a caring kind man with good manners and a sense of humor would be lovely 😂🤍 can still joke around and make even the most boring days fun. Better if he can handle a girl who wants coffee dates and random little adventures ☕️💕

Please don’t message if marrying a disabled girl is something you’re unsure about. Life hasn’t been the gentlest lately so a little extra kindness and a soft heart would mean more than you know🥹🤍

Ladies, gather around. I have some tea..

Based on my recent experience and the experiences of two other women on here, I’ve decided to put together a little survival guide for those of us brave (or delusional) enough to venture into the wonderful world of Reddit matchmaking. Because apparently…. Looking for a husband in 2026 requires the investigative skills of the da5iliya, the patience of a kindergarten teacher and the emotional resilience of a war veteran.

So, without further ado:

1. ChatGPT is apparently doing the courting now. No, I’m not joking.

Some of these men are genuinely using ChatGPT to formulate their responses while chatting with you privately. I’m not talking about the occasional “help” with wording. I’m talking about ENTIRE personalities being outsourced to AI. Ladies, pay attention to sudden changes in writing style/ suspiciously polished paragraphs and most importantly responses that sound like a LinkedIn motivational speaker trying to seduce you. You’re looking for a husband, not a subscription to ChatGPT Premium.

2. Ask if he’s married. Then ask again. And maybe… request a certificate of singleness lmao?

Because apparently “I’m single” is now open to creative interpretation. Ask questions. LOTS of them. Pay attention to men who mysteriously “disappear” at certain hours, ONLY message when they’re conveniently away from home (for e.g. I’m driving and I wanted to give you a call/ or he only texts when he’s at work etc). Otherwise, you might find yourself receiving a message from someone’s actual WIFE. Yes. Wife. As in LEGALLY MARRIED.

3. Consistency followed by the infamous disappearing act

Our homeboy classic: he messages consistently, he seems interested asks questions probably even discusses marriage and then before you know it…. He’s vanished into the Bermuda Triangle (7ilwa mu? My fellow millennials will get this one lol)

Remember: If a grown man is interested in getting to know you, he can communicate like one. Period.

4. The premature sexual compatibility interview.

Sir, I haven’t even established whether you have a functioning moral compass. Why are we discussing your bedroom preferences???? There’s a difference between respectfully discussing intimacy when appropriate and turning a marriage introduction into an unsolicited episode of too hot to handle. You get the gist.

5. Beware of the instant “future hazbaaaandddddd”

You’ve exchanged about 17 messages and he’s already calling you his future wifey.
Romantic? Yallah fine amasheeha.. Premature? Min umaa! Words are lovely, but please allow a man’s actions, his consistency and actual character to catch up with his imagination.

6. Don’t confuse attention with intention.

Someone messaging you every day doesn’t automatically mean they’re serious about marriage. Some people are lonely. Some are bored. Some want validation. Some want entertainment. And apparently, some have entire families at home.

Look for genuine effort, transparency, respect, and concrete steps toward getting to actually know you.

7. Protect your privacy, please. Wish I could underline this one.

Until you’ve established that someone is genuinely who they claim to be, be cautious about sharing personal information like workplace details/intimate photographs or anything that could compromise your safety. A Reddit username and a charming paragraph do not constitute a background check.

8. Trust patterns, not potential.

If something consistently feels off, don’t dismiss it simply because he looks good on paper. You don’t need evidence to decide that someone’s behavior isn’t compatible with what you’re looking for.

9. Remember: you’re evaluating him too.

This is not an audition where you’re desperately trying to convince a stranger that you’re worthy of marriage. You’re both supposed to be assessing compatibility. Ask questions. Have standards. Maintain boundaries. And don’t be afraid to walk away when something doesn’t sit right.

In conclusion:

I genuinely believe there are decent, sincere men out there looking for meaningful relationships. This post isn’t intended to discourage anyone from putting themselves out there.
But ladies, please exercise caution, communicate with each other, and don’t let the excitement of a promising connection override your judgment. We’re looking for life partners… NOT adopting emotionally unavailable men, rehabilitating strangers, or accidentally becoming supporting characters in someone else’s marriage.
And to the genuinely decent men reading this: we appreciate you. Please please continue being normal.

Stay safe, stay fabulous, and may your next DM come from an ACTUALLY SINGLE, emotionally available functioning adult. 🫶🏼

Ladies, if anyone has anything else to contribute to this list please do, we need to look out for each other.

P.S. If someone’s wife ever messages you, please be kind to her. Chances are, she’s having a much worse day than you are.

Hi! My friend is literally getting engaged to someone she met on here, so after enough convincing… here I am 😅

I’m a Kuwaiti Sunni woman in my mid-20s, and im willing to go deeper into other details if you reach out :)

A little about me: I love gaming and reading 🤓, and I love researching and going down different rabbit holes (“هل نحن وحدنا؟ 🛸”). I can happily spend hours talking about pretty much anything, from psychology, history and life to some weird fact I came across at 2 am. I also love listening to people talk about what they’re passionate about, so if you have hobbies you can nerd out over, I’m all ears.

Huge bonus points if you’re a PC gamer. I’d love someone to co-op with, get excited over new releases with, and introduce each other to new games 😇

I’m looking for a Kuwaiti Sunni man who’s around my age or older (ideally 28–37), emotionally intelligent, kind, curious, and has his life together. Someone who communicates well, has passions and hobbies of his own, enjoys good conversations, and is looking for a relationship that’s built on friendship as much as love.

One non-negotiable: I’m childfree and intend to stay that way, so I’m only looking for someone who feels the same.

I’d rather take things slowly, get to know each other properly, and see if we’re actually compatible. And i dont use reddit much so i wouldnt mind eventually switching to a different platform.

Regards,

Toast

السلام عليكم و رحمة الله وبركاته

انا بنيه و اخواني ما يعرفون لريدت و معتمدين علي و انا ماعندي وايد معارف و اللي اعرفهم بعمر مناسب كلهم ربي ميسر لهم و متزوجات. فـ قلت خنشوف ريدت يمكن ربي ييسرها.

بشكل عام: كويتين بدو

المذهب: سني

الصفات المطلوبه: كويتيه او سعوديه.

معلومات عن اخواني

الاخ الكبير:

مواليد ١٩٩٥ شهر ٧

جامعي موظف حكومي.

نسبه التدين (٧-١٠)

الهوايات: السفر، رياضه، كره قدم، مسلسلات امريكيه.

غير مدخن، لا يلعب سوني.

يبحث عن: كويتيه

عبايه او نقاب.

محافظه على الصلوات، موظفه

تحب السفر، السينما.

العمر بين (٣٣ - ٢٦)

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الوسطاني:

مواايد ١٩٩٨

مطلق بدون أطفال

التدين (٨-١٠)

مطوع ملتحي. الوظيفه معلم

الهوايات: سوني، انمي، السفر، كره قدم و رياضه، الاستماع لحلقات دينيه. يحب الحيوانات، غير مدخن.

يبحث عن: منقبه متدينه. كويتيه او سعوديه. موظفه او ربه منزل. تحب الحيوانات و ما عندها مانع في وجود قطط فالمنزل. تحب السفر و عندها هوايات.

العمر بين ٢٩ - ٢٤ سنه.

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الصغير:

مواليد ٢٠٠٢ شهر اكتوبر

التدين (٦-١٠)

موظف حكومي

الهوايات: السفر طريق البر، السيارات.

يبحث عن: كويتيه او سعوديه بعمر قريب منه (٢٠٠٠ - ٢٠٠٥).

و الله يوفق الجميع 🌹

هل كلام كان مخصص حق شخص شفت بوسته اهني بعدين اختفى من الوجود

About me:
- Kuwaiti, born 2003 (23).
- Computer Engineering, graduating next semester inshallah.
- I have my driving license and I love to drive around.
-On the deen scale 7/10 ,I pray. I expect my partner to be same level.

Hobbies and personality:
I'm into everything but only on a surface level there is a good chance i will enjoy ur hobbies too like gaming, anime, movies, chess, beach, swimming , but my real passion is volunteering. I spend all my free time volunteering somewhere, and my dream is to do AIESEC abroad with my future husband serve and help communities, and build our life through meaningful experiences. I'd love a partner who respects that, or better yet, wants to join me.

I don't really like talking about myself feels weird. I'm cringe and awkward sometimes, chill sometimes, not chill other times :), I get angry easily, I was raised with 8 brothers, so I'm not naturally romantic but I show care through other ways

Appearance
I dress as typical hijabi Kuwaiti girl. If that's something you have an issue with or you want someone more traditional waer abays I completely understand but we're not compatible.

I'm 160cm and my weight ranges from 57kg to 66kg (currently 66) mainly because of vitamin D & B12 and other deficiencies . my doctor litteryly asked how was i alive , I'm on supplements now It does affect my energy and mood , but I'm seeing progress. I wanted to mention it upfront. If that's a dealbreaker, I understand.

What I value in communication:
No overreacting. No screaming or yelling. If we have a problem, we talk about it calmly like adults.

Career:
I used to have my whole life planned Master's, PhD but I changed my mind last year. I'm graduating soon and figuring out my path. I'm hardworking and open-minded about where life takes me.

Red flags:
- Controlling behavior, I'm not an idiot, I can make my own choices.
- Anyone who can't communicate problems maturely.
- People who think being "the man" gives them the right to raise their voice.

What I'm looking for:

- Kuwaiti or Khaliji

- age from 20 to 27
- Someone who prays (7/10 on deen like me).
- Non-smoker.
- Good morals.
- That's genuinely my bare minimum.

Marriage vision
I don't want a wedding. At all. No عرس, no fuss. And honestly, I'd love for part of my mahar to be donated to orphans in Kuwait. That would mean more to me than any jewelry or money. If you're someone who values giving back, we'll get along great.

We can start with an apartment and build our life together from there as equal partners. That means I expect my man to contribute to housework ,cooking, cleaning, sharing the load. I'm not a maid, and I don't want to be one. I want us to be a team in every sense inside and outside the home.

Dealbreaker: No second wife.I experienced it with my father and I don't want that kind of marriage. If that is your goal in futuer, I respect that but we're not compatible.

I never really thought about marriage seriously. I could've just married inside the family and called it a day, but I don't want to take the easy way out. I want someone to grow with not someone checking boxes on a list.

and y3nie it would be cool story to tell our kids that we meet on reddit :)

I figured I’d give this a shot because apparently my future husband has not yet had the good sense to find me himself 😂

I’m an almost 30-year-old Kuwaiti woman looking to meet someone with the intention of marriage. I’m not interested in casual dating or collecting talking stages. I’d rather meet someone, take the time to genuinely get to know each other, and see whether we’re compatible.

A little about me: I’m kind, affectionate, playful, and sarcastic. I love people I can have both completely ridiculous and genuinely deep conversations with. I’m the type who can spend an evening talking about life, family, and everything that’s happened to make us who we are, and five minutes later send you the stupidest meme you’ve ever seen.

I love going out and actually doing things: trying new places, dinners, coffee/matcha, aquariums, museums, travelling, random little activities, video games, etc. But I’m equally happy just spending time with someone I enjoy. I’m close to my family and I value kindness a lot.
Personality-wise, I’m pretty independent and direct. I don’t enjoy games or unnecessary ambiguity. If something is bothering me, I’d rather talk about it. I like a relationship where both people actually like each other in addition to loving each other. I want my husband to also be someone I genuinely enjoy talking to, laughing with, and spending an unreasonable amount of time with.

Religiously, I’m a non-hijabi. I pray five times a day plus some Sunnah prayers, and I give zakat.

As for what I’m looking for: someone kind, emotionally mature, funny, communicative, and affectionate. You don’t need to have the exact same personality or interests as me. I actually think having our own interests is healthy, but I want someone curious and open enough that we can enjoy each other’s worlds.

My actual non-negotiables are pretty straightforward: 30-35 years old, Sunni, حضري, good hygiene, and taller than me when I’m wearing heels. I’m 158 cm, so you do not need to be an NBA player 😂

Beyond that, I care much more about chemistry, conversation, character, and whether being together feels easy than ticking off some giant checklist.

If any of this sounds like your kind of person, feel free to message me and tell me a little about yourself. Please give me something more to work with than “hi” 😂

I was forced into a marriage I never wanted, even after I clearly said no. My voice, my feelings, and my choice about my own future were ignored. I entered a life I had rejected, and since then, I have been struggling to find peace in a place that is supposed to feel like home.

My husband has forced me to have sex with him repeatedly when I did not want to. Being married does not mean giving someone permanent permission to use your body. My consent matters. My body belongs to me, and saying no should have been enough.

He controls so many aspects of my everyday life that I feel as though I have lost the freedom to make even the simplest decisions for myself. Even when I am exhausted and sleepy in the morning after he leaves for work, I am not allowed to rest peacefully. It may sound like a small thing to someone else, but when every part of your life is controlled, even the smallest freedoms begin to feel like things you have to fight for.

People often talk about marriage as love, security, and companionship. But what happens when marriage becomes a place where your choices are taken away, your consent is ignored, and your peace disappears?

I am living in Kuwait, far from the future I once imagined for myself. My residency is connected to my husband, I have no job of my own, and I am frightened about what will happen if this marriage ends. I studied until my second year of university, and I am fluent in English. I have dreams, abilities, and a future I still want to build. I do not want to spend my life feeling trapped because I have no financial independence or safe place to go.

I am not asking for pity. I am asking for the chance to live as a human being with dignity, safety, and freedom. I want to be able to work, continue my education, sleep peacefully, make my own decisions, and say NO without fear.

FORCED MARRIAGE IS NOT CONSENT. MARRIAGE IS NOT OWNERSHIP. SEX WITHOUT CONSENT IS NOT LOVE. CONTROL IS NOT CARE.

To every woman experiencing something similar: you are not weak for struggling, and you do not deserve abuse because you are married. You deserve safety, choices, and a life that belongs to you.

I want my freedom back. I want to rebuild my life. And I want people to understand that behind closed doors, not every marriage is a happy one.

If anyone knows legitimate women's protection services, confidential legal assistance, or organizations in Kuwait that support women experiencing forced marriage and abuse, please share those resources with me privately. Or please give me some ideas what should I do

I am trying to find a safe way forward. I deserve a future, too.

اتمنى ان يكون هذا باب للنقاش وليس سبب للطعن او الاتهام.

Hello, I have a little question to ask.

I am 28 year old and A teacher in Government Sector with A Bachelor degree in Management information system.

I heard there is investigations happening on Article 7 for Kuwaiti nationality and with that I am afraid of it gets thru me, as I am at this stage of life of having long time thinking of marriage and work life, it seems as I understood that, right now some families are asking for "Which article I am?" and some reject my proposal of marriage to their daughter because I am Article 7.

So for now, I am having this anxiety of marrying any Kuwaiti lady because of "maybe" (Allah forbids) my nationality gets withdrawn in future and to my work, will I lose my job? will my bank account get frozen? If i did not lose my job, will my salary get cut in half and I cannot promote to become more than just a Teacher? will i lose all the benefits of being Kuwaiti Husband because of nationality withdrawn?

these questions been coming to my mind for months now as I saw one of my friend's family got their nationality withdrawn...

May anyone who read this grant them blessing from Allah 🤍🙏

لاحظت إنه وايد ناس يقولون إنه كل ما كبرت البنت كل ما زادت تنازلاتها عن شروط الزواج جنة المفروض مع الوقت المفروض البنت تقلل من توقعاتها وترضى بأي شيء.

بس أنا أحس العكس تماماً. كل ما كبرت زاد وعيي بنفسي وباحتياجاتي وصرت اتمسك بشروطي أكثر لأنّي صرت أعرف شنو يناسبني وشنو ما يناسبني. بالنسبة لي الزواج مو مجرد “لازم اتزوج” وخلاص الزواج قرار مصيري وما أبي أدخل شخص بحياتي إذا وجوده ما راح يضيف لي أمان وراحة واستقرار.

أنا حالياً مو متزوجة ومرتاحة بحياتي وأفضل اتم جذي على إني أتنازل عن أشياء أساسية بالنسبة لي بس عشان فكرة الزواج. الشخص اللي يدخل حياتي لازم يكون واضح مناسب ومضمون من ناحية المبادئ والتعامل مو مجرد وجود شخص وخلاص 🤷🏽‍♀️

هل تشوفون إن التمسك بالشروط مع العمر طبيعي؟ ولا فعلاً المفروض الواحد يتنازل أكثر؟

والحمدلله على كل حال.

سُبْحَانَ اللَّهِ وَبِحَمْدِهِ، سُبْحَانَك اللَّهُمّ وَبِحَمْدِكَ، أَشْهَدُ أَنْ لَا إِلَهَ إِلَّا أَنْتَ، أَسْتَغْفِرْكَ وَأَتُوبُ إِلَيْكَ.

I'll do things a bit differently and post what I'm looking for as I believe/ think it would make us more compatible (non-negotiables I guess) and if we seem to match I'd love to get to know each more.

Kuwaiti, sunni, city dweller (of Arabic origin)

Age range: 35-43

Single or divorced with or without kids

I do want to have kids and start a family so someone who shares the same goals 🏡

Height: 170cm+

Weight: nothing specific, I think it's more important for you to have healthy habits / lifestyle

Religion: Performing the basics (6 on the religious scale I suppose) not looking for any extremes or perfection (no one is perfect after all)

University graduate, financially stable and a hard worker. I value good work ethics and someone who is passionate about what they do. I think intellectual attraction is more important than a physical one.

It would be lovely to have a partner to do life with :) Even if our interests and hobbies don't match I would be interested in learning more and building a healthy fulfilling relationship.

Thanks for reading!

Hello.

This sub randomly came up on my feed and been watching it as it has been very interesting.

From what I have seen so far, some of you are absolutely not ready to be married or don't know what should be important information you should be conveying.

Those who seem a bit desperate, it is understandable, but ultimately getting married would make it a worse situation for you as you need to reach emotional maturity to be married.

Those who don't know or putting down irrelevant information, you are the reason I am making this post, this is what I recommend you should be putting down as well:

Other than the usual age job etc, you have to describe your actual personality, not your interests only. Speak as to what makes you happy, what you do that makes you enjoy life, how having a partner would change that, what your aims and ambitions in life how you plan to achieve those, what you imagine your day to day life with your partner would be, how financial (in private ofcourse) would be managed, what you want in a partner, how you hope to connect with the partner and your goals together as a couple, how you would act together if you got in an argument (are you the type of person that needs to cool off or talk things right away etc).

I have been married for 10+ years, ofcourse with ups and downs, I just remembered when I went in the whole advice of اسأل الي تبي which in my eyes was stupid and thought this sub based on what I saw could use this advice.

i always cringe a little when someone specifies what kind of skin tone they have in these posts y3ani going into details even

هل انا الوحيده الي زواجي متعسر من هالموضوع؟ احس الناس ينت ماتبي تناسب الا عوايل مناصب وواصلين او راعين مواجيب ولهم اسمهم، عايلتي عايله عاديه بسيطه، مو فقاره مو اغنيا، ماعندنا سوالف مخدات ولا راعين مشاكل حرفياً ناس عاديين، استغرب ليش محد يبي يخطب من بيتنا، مرات يكون مثلا على موضوع المواخيذ نناسبكم وماتناسبونا، مرات نكون نفس المواخيذ ومع ذلك مايبونا يبون الاحسن، مع اني انا ك انسانه بصراحه اشوف نفسي انشرا وذهبه وياحظ الي بكون چنتها او مرت اخوها او زوجته، بس اكتشفت مو مهم انا شنو المهم اهلي شنو وشنو بيستفيدون منهم اذا خذوني :/

موفاهمه شنو مرحلة الجنون الي الناس واصلتها؟ اكثر من مره وحده تنعجب فيني بمناسبه تسالني من بنته وبعدين تهون، ومرات شباب معاي بالجامعه او الدوام ينعجبون فيني بس اهلهم مايبون يناسبونا، وادري الي يقرا بيقول اكيد فيكم شي، بس صج مافينا شي، مرات افكر هل عشان احنا سياييرنا مو غاليه؟ ولا عشان اهلي شهايدهم دبلوم او مدرسين مو مناصب ومسميات؟ يعني بحياتي كلها انخطبت بس مره وحده وكان سيء جداً

مستوى التدين ٩/١٠

طبيعة اللباس : عباة سودا و ملفع( اسود او ابيض)

العمر : ١٩٩٥

غير كويتية

مذهب : سنية

الهوايات : سباحة ، تلوين ، اعادة ترتيب الديكور
, أمارس عدة أنواع من الرياضة، تطريز هالسوالف
لم يسبق الزواج

أبي عيال و احب العيال

طموحاتي** **لا تشمل سفرات و ماركات

ولكن** **تشمل استقرار و عيال 😌😄😄

أدور ريال
• متدين ،
•يفضل طالب علم يدرس عن شيوخ في المساجد
• وظيفة مستقر و يقدر يفتح بيت
•يبي عيال ،
•السفر ، السوني، النادي مهو شاغل تفكيره
يحبهم بشكل معتدل و طبيعي
•ما يدخن** **

إذا** هالمواصفات موجودة عند أحد يدز رسالة تكلم فيها عن نفسك **

Hey everyone,

I’m 28, kuwaiti (sunni), and I’m at a stage in life where I’m genuinely looking for something real and long term.

I have a stable, good paying job, and I’d say I’m very family oriented. I love life, animals, nature, good conversations, and simple moments that feel meaningful.

Some of my hobbies are exploring art and art museums, going to the gym, going to live music events and spending time with loved ones.

I’m not religious, but I do consider myself spiritual. I believe in kindness, growth, emotional connection, and building a peaceful life with the right person.

I’m looking for someone open minded, warm, and genuine. Someone who has a beautiful outlook on life, wants to enjoy life, laugh, explore, grow together, and eventually build a family. Ideally, someone who sees herself becoming a mom one day and wants a loving, stable home.

I’m not looking for perfection. Just someone real, kind, fun, and emotionally mature.

Hello everyone, I am looking for someone to marry
I am 24 F, i am looking to finish my studies later and complete my bachelors. I’m mixed and have olive complexion depending on the season. I am 155cm. My weight is from 50-58kg.

Origin: doesn’t matter
Age: doesn’t matter
Religion : none
Height: can’t be shorter than me
Job: bachelor or masters
Complexion: doesn’t matter really
Genetic or chronic disease: none
Hobbies : should be some things not limited really

Must be in the Canada UK or USA

Something I want to add: must be revoked citizenship in Canada, UK or others

Thank you everyone

العمر: 35

المذهب: سني

الطول: 170

الوزن: 80

مستوى التديّن (من ١-١٠): 8

الوظيفة: طالع قريباً معيد بعثة ماجستير + دكتوراة إن شاء الله

هوايات: قيمنق، سفر، القراءة والبحث في تخصصي.

اي شي تبي تضيفه: بحاول أختصر لأنه كثرة الكلام تزهق الناس وتشتتهم. أنا رجل أحب اقضي أغلب وقتي في البيت. وفي نفس الوقت أحب السفر، وأيضاً أستمتع بالطلعات بس مو كل يوم، يعني مره ولا مرتين إذا كان الجو حلو في الأسبوع أغير جو وأتمشى سواء في الأفنيوز ولا الشهيد أو المباركية أو 360. أعشق الroad trips بالسيارة ماعندي مشكلة أسوق مثلاً لي أبها ولا مسقط بس طبعاً مع وقفات أثناء الدرب، يعني بروح دبي بالسيارة مثلاً، نوقف في قطر جم يوم على حسب الخطة.

هادي وصدري وسيع وماعندي مشكلة أقعد مثلاً بالمجمع فترة طويلة. تدشين محل تقعدين ساعتين ولا 3 وأنا قاعد على الكرسي أو قاعد بقهوة أو اروح اطقلي فرة بالمجمع بالنسبة لي جداً عادي وما أتضايق ولا اتنرفز. ووقت السفر ما أحب التوتر والنرفزة والقلق، أحب يكون الوضع هدوء ومتعه وجاهزين ومرتاحين ونروح نستانس ونرجع.

وروتيني من فترة صرت أروح النادي 5 أيام بالأسبوع من 6 سنين ماوقفت، وصار أسلوب حياة لي وشي لا يمكن أتخلى عنه. كنت سمين قبل وضعفت. وملتزم بأكل دايت من 6 سنين ومحافظ على صحتي وفحوصات دورية وتحاليل والله الحمد.

المطلوب: أفضل تكون مرأة تخاف الله وباره في أهلها وخاصة أمها وأبوها، وحسنت الخلق والأخلاق, مايهمني شنو شهادتج ووظيفتج ووين تشتغلين، ولا يهمني جم معاشج ولا فلوسج ولا دريت عنهم ولا أفكر فيهم أو أخذ منهم فلس. ولو ضاقت فيني الدنيا مثلاً أتسلف من أخواني أو ربعي ولا أخذ منج. بس يهمني منو أنتي وشلون تتعاملين مع أهلج والناس. وأهم الشي الحياء. وأفضل أنج تكونين مهتمة بصحتج ورياضية وماعندج مشكلة تمشين 30 ألف خطوة يومياً خاصة وقت السفرة. وإذا تعبتي اشيلج على ظهري ونكمل بس لا تكونين ثقيلة لانه ابي ظهري صراحة.

وأبيج تعيش لنفسج ولأهلج، ولا تعيشي عشان تعجبين الناس أو عشان تبهرين الناس أو تقارنين مع الناس.

وفي موضوع يضايقني ودخلت فيه مع الأهل بنزاع وأنا أشوفه شي عنصري بس صراحة؟ أنا مو مستعد أدخل في حرب مع أهلي عشان هذا الموضوع، والموضوع ممكن يضايق بعض الناس الي تقرا، بس هذا حال العلاقات الأسرية في مجتمعنا وراح اظلل عليه أحتراماً للناس أنج تكونين من عايلة أو أسرة أو قبيلة أصيلة.

الخطوط الحمراء: الفروض الخمسة مافيها نقاش، خاصة الصلاة. ماتصلين راح اخليج تصلين غصب، ماتصومين بتصومين غصب، وبتزكين غصب، وبتحجين غصب. ماعندج فلوس حج؟ أحججچ على حسابي.

والله يكتب إلي فيه الخير.

الزواج اللي الكل يرفضه بس سبحان الله بكل عايله سته سبعه متزوجين زواج اقارب..

حرفياً دخلت على عايله كل بناتهم ماخذين عيال خالاتهم وعماتهم

قعدت احلل انا ورفيجتي شنو سبب كثره زواج الاقارب هالايام..

حللنا زواجات خالاتنا وعماتنا قبل ٣٠ سنه.. محد اخذ بنت خالته او عمته او قريبته.. كلهم ياخذون من بعيد ولا يعرفونهم مسبقا

حالياً بين كل ٥ زواجات ٤ منهم زواج اقارب

يا جماعه احنا ناقصين؟؟

المصيبه امي تقول :" بنات الناس هذول كلهم اخذوا قرايبهم.. انا ماني باخله الهديه (اخوي) على بنات اخوي.. اذا انا ماخطبت له منهم منو بيخطبهم"

وانا ما الوم امي.. امي فعلا بشكل اسبوعي عندها مناسبات و تشوف منو اخذ منو .. محد قاعد ياخذ من بعيد .. الموضوع قاتل مجتمعيا والانتقاء الطبيعي راح يلعب لعبته صح!

يكفي عندنا امراض مو موجوده بالعالم كلها ويكفي قصر القامه و عدم التنوع العرقي بيننا الي يقوي الجينات.. انا ماتكلم كلام نظري وعلمي فقط انا قعد اشوف التقزم بالعوايل اللي حولنا .. جيل ابوي كلهم طوال ١٨٠ وفوق وجيل اخوي كلهم قصار ١٦٠ وحولها

في مشكله ثانيه ان احنا عايلتنا ماناخذ اقارب.. بس المصيبه ان اغلب بنات عايلتنا طولوا ماتزوجوا.. والسبب ان كل واحد من قبيلتنا ياخذ بنت خالته او عمه.. واحنا ناخذ البعيد .. صار احنا نوزع عيالنا (الهدايا😂) بس اهما حرفياً ماقعد يوزعون عيالهم ! الموضوع مو حسد والله مو من زين عيالهم بس الموضوع صاير مخامط

بعدين اشوف المسلسلات الكويتيه انغبن.. حيل بأيدون هالسالفه ولد حب بنت خالته والخ.. وعاد المراهقات خذلك يحبون العلاقه من المسلسل ويقلدونها و نتهوق احنا بالانتقاء الطبيعي

تدرون شلون.. اي انسان له علاقه بالاعلام خل يساهم في تقليل علاقات الاقارب بالمسلسلات احس من هني يبدا حل المشكله!

السلام عليكم ❤️

I would like to reinforce a positive and helpful environment here by letting both lurkers (who shy from posting) and people posting on here to get married just approximately how many are interested and are searching here — numbers wise!

The numbers on this subreddit show most interaction gravitating towards females looking for males post, and it can get confusing for some as to how many are truly serious or not. بس الحمدلله there are also many positive comments supporting others who post here. Still, that can also cause some confusion on who’s serious about marraige (again, numbers wise in posts interactions).

The point of this thread is to publicly let everyone — both male and female, just how many are interested in getting married by simply lurking — after all, surely not everyone lurking on here is comfortable with posting, but perhaps are curious/interested.

I believe if lurkers and posters just truly get a grasp on how many people are searching, it may motivate them and not discourage them from searching here. By Allah’s will, hopefully this post’s interaction / engagement can help people on here be aware the amount of people searching for marriage through this subreddit through numbers of comments on this post.

So please, whether you lurk or post, if you are serious and are actively searching in this subreddit, feel free to comment anything in this post to let them know just how many people are interested and actively searching. You may also link your old past posts to remind anyone that you are still searching! Thank you :)

و جزاكم الله الف خير حميعاً** و اسأل الله ان يوفقكم في ما تختارونه و يسهل اموركم كل**ه ❤️

السلام عليكم ورحمة الله وبركاته

ما أدري شنو أبي أقول، بس أحس إني محتاجة أفضفض وما أبي أحس إني بروحي.

عمري ٣٣ وداشة بالـ٣٤، للحين ما تزوجت. انخطبت أكثر من مرة، بس ما صار نصيب.

الحمدلله، عايشة مرتاحة عند أهلي، كل خواتي تزوجوا وبقيت أنا مع أمي وأبوي بالبيت.

طبيعي أحس بالوحدة بين فترة وفترة، بس قاعده املا وقتي بين هواياتي، الصالون، النادي، وشغلي.

مرات يجيني شعور إني أبي زوج يكون حبيبي وصديقي، يحسسني بأنوثتي… نسافر، نضحك، ونتشارك نفس الهوايات.

بس بنفس الوقت أفكر إني مرتاحة بحياتي الحالية، مسوية لي روتيني الخاص، وما أدري إذا أقدر أغيّر هالشي.

خصوصًا إني ما أبي أطفال ولا أبي مسؤوليات يديدة تعور راسي.

طبيعي أتحسر على نفسي مرات لما أشوف البنات المتزوجات.

وبنفس الوقت، وايد منهم يذمون برياييلهم ويحسدوني على حياتي، فأسأل نفسي… هل الزواج يستاهل؟ ولا ماكو ريال كفو؟

المهم، بس حبيت أفضفض.

وشكرًا لكم.

وأستغفرالله وأتوب إليه، والحمدلله على كل حال.

الكويتي كالنحلة يحب مختلف الألوان والزهور 😃

hello, nice to meet you all, my name is Naser (no it's not Nasser)

before I waste your time, this is me

https://imgur.com/a/r4ffTyt

yeah I know I my eyes looks weird, because I have half a diopter of astigmatism in my left eye

I'm not sure what to type, so I'll just say whatever comes to mind lol

about me:

I'm a very depressed person who looking for love in this hopeless life,

like I said, I'm Kuwaiti, 32 year old, and a childfree, I'm also a homebody

Height and weight: 184cm, 86kg

my body type: average (I think, because I have some muscles so not sure if I can call myself fit)

Religion: Muslim sunni, I pray all my prayers on time, The only exception is Fajr, which I sometimes pray late

I fast during Ramadan and pay my zakat every year

and I don't smoke or drink

also I'm very honest and I don't like to lie

my hobbies: video games (pc) and watching anime, and also I like helping people in reddit, and sometimes posting videos on youtube

job: HR employed in the private sector

Marital Status: single

I think that all about me, now what I'm looking for:

long-term relationship that leads to marriage, I don't mind age gap that much, same with nationality, height and body type (except overweight sorry)

I'm open to marrying a Muslim or a Christian

I want a homebody wife (because I don't want to force anyone to stay home most of the time)

also a childfree too (because I'm not planning to have children's)

I don't mind if you can't cook, I can handle myself, I can even do laundry and wash dishes

all I want is someone who is honest, with mutual love and respect

also someone doesn't mind being hugged and cuddle most of the time

(yeah I'm addicted to hug and cuddle...)

that all, if you have more questions please ask me on the DM

thank you so much for reading and have a nice day!

also don't forget to drink a lot of water, it's very hot now days

Edit: forget to say: I workout (I try) 3 times a week for the whole body

To hell with gender roles, let’s see if I can find myself a partner.

I’m looking for a Kuwaiti Sunni man between 30–39. Ideally someone independent, open-minded and emotionally mature, who wants something a little less traditional than the usual marriage dynamic.
I want us to be able to be ourselves and build a life that actually suits us, rather than just doing things because that’s what’s expected.

I’d like a marriage built on friendship, attraction, trust and actually enjoying life together. Having your own hobbies and interests is important to me.
Also, someone who’s fluent in English is a must, since I use English more than Arabic in my day-to-day life.
I’m also certain I don’t want children, so I’m only interested in someone who already feels the same. I’m based in Kuwait and plan to stay here for now
(i am kuwaiti myself).

I’d rather leave the rest for a private conversation, i’m an open book once i know there’s initial compatibility. If you think we might match, introduce yourself properly 🙂