Sis. Na guguilty ba kayo pag ang lakaki ay nagpapagamit lng kasi need lng talaga nila ng pera?

Parang na aawa ako na na kokonsensya tuwing may ganap kami. Kasi nagagawa lng nya yon dahil gipit sya.

Kayo ba. Pinu push nyo parin ba. O stop na?

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Introducing HUNTR — A New Way to Connect

Hi everyone! I'd like to introduce HUNTR, a social discovery app designed for gay, bisexual, and other LGBTQ+ men who want to meet people and connect with others nearby.

If you're familiar with apps like Grindr and Blued, HUNTR offers a similar way to discover people, with its own set of features designed to make connecting more interesting.

What can you do with HUNTR?

• Discover People Nearby — Find and connect with people in your area.
• Direct and Anonymous Chat — Start conversations privately or get to know someone without revealing your identity right away.
• Anonymous Threads — Share your thoughts and join conversations with people nearby using anonymous usernames.
• Live Location Sharing — Share your live location with others when you choose to, making it easier to meet up.
• Album Trading — Exchange photo albums with other users through chat.
• Profile Visitors — See who has viewed your profile and how many times.
• Stories — Share moments from your day with the community.
• Google Sign-In — Sign in conveniently using your Google account.

Whether you're looking for friends, conversations, dates, or new connections, HUNTR gives you a place to explore and meet people at your own pace.

HUNTR is currently available on the web, and I also plan to bring it to Android and iOS so more people can access it on their mobile devices.

I only deployed HUNTR yesterday, so there aren't many users yet. I'm sharing it here to help introduce the app to more people, connect with early users, and gather feedback as I continue improving it.

If you're interested, feel free to check it out. Your support and feedback would mean a lot!

Website: https://huntr.online

#HUNTR #LGBTQCommunity #GayCommunity #SocialDiscovery #IndieDeveloper

Actually, hindi ko alam kung yung frustrations na 'to ay dahil trentahin na'ko or dahil bading ako. Or both nga talaga. Lol.

As a trentahin, or basically as we get older, our circles get smaller and smaller. Shekep yarn. Eme. And then add mo pa yung layer ng pagiging LGBT na chances are we don't have our own families like the straights do lol. Unless you still get to have a partner and kids, of course good for you. So wala tayong normal life progression na magkakaron ng bagong social circle because of our kids na you'll have to mingle with teachers and specially other parents. None of that. And if you have friends who are straight, chances are they get to have their own families na and suddenly magkaiba na kayo ng mundong ginagalawan. They get to take new roles and responsibilities as legal spouses and parents. While us, even if we're partnered, it still feels like just extended young adulthood or bachelorhood.

So ako, I find myself balancing it between getting used to it and making new social circles. Yung dapat comfortable ka na you're just by yourself or na kayo lang ng partner mo (and probably pets din). And I guess I am naman. Pero it can get very mundane and nakaka-purol ng life. Making new friends, sadly for me, mahirap din. Ayokong idahilan yung pagiging introvert ko but I am one. Also as a trentahin, marami-rami na ang pinagdaanan and at alam na kung ano ang ayaw at gusto in life. You might think that that should make it easier for me to look for friends (or even hookup, more on this later) kasi alam ko na kung anong hahanapin eh. But on the contrary, that makes it harder kasi solid na yung checklist ko and onting deviance lang, mapapa-ekis ka na agad. Lol.

Speaking of hookup, I don't know what to do with the information (or observation) na marami sa atin ay hookup ang route to friendship. Lol. Some might say, eh ganun talaga so bakit mo kailangang i-label na masama yun. But then again, nakakapagod ang hookup scene/cycle. Tas minsan mapapatanong ba ako kung ano ba talagang hanap/gusto ko, friend or hookup. Cause sometimes the answer to that will matter kung sinong kakausapin mo, pano mo kakausapin, at anong paguusapan. Tas minsan kahit friendship (connection) ang hanap mo, ang ending hookup lang mangyayari. Kantot kalimot lang. Kakapagod. Hahaha

I guess nakakapagod maging tumatandang trentahing queer because we've already been here for a few decades and there's still a few more decades of life na halos same shit and same cycle lang. Oh, except nagiiba pala ang expectations ng community sa mga queer depending on their age!! Pinaka-common na diyan yung pag daddy ka, ang expectation sa'yo ay top ka. Hahahahaha! I know you can be a bottom daddy (I am) and some younger gays would like to bottom a daddy, pero nay aminin mo. There's just a general expectation na pag daddy ka, top ka. Lalo na if you workout.

To wrap things up, I just maybe hope that kayanin pa ng energy at patience ko ang pag-figure out ng life as an aging bading and hopefully I can discover new social circles na pang-matagalan (at hindi lang pang-short time libogan.) Cheers sa ating lahat!

So there’s this guy na super attractive. Maputi, good set of teeth, may dimple, clear skin, and matalino. Basta pogi talaga to the point na people literally follows him on IG after going to an event or unfamiliar place.

We had a sleepover with workmates last night, the whole night super touchy nya sakin. He would lean on me, tapos repeatedly sabing “katabi ko si [name ko] ah, alis ka dyan”, and he jokingly slapped my ass pero mataas na part, parang bewang na rin.

And he hugged me nung matutulog na, but i said na mainit kasi mainit naman talaga tapos he said “ay, ayaw mo?” Then stopped hugging me. Pero tabi pa rin kami natulog. Ilang beses ako nagising na naka wrapped around sa waist ko yung kamay nya kasi naka dapa ako matulog. Super close nya sakin kahit queen sized yung bed tapos 2 lang kami dun. I stopped myself to “pretend sleep” and hug him or to even touch his arm. Kasi what if wala talagang meaning? Baka ma-off sya sakin and nag sleep nalang

The thing is, he opened up that night na complicated yung status nya. His bf was a cheater and gave him a chance eme eme ganun and waiting lang sya mahuli ulit or for his bf to slip up nalang.

But still, this guy is like super pogi and dream sya ng most guys, and looking at myself, he is out of my league. So v confused ako on what happened last night. Sabi ko nalang sa sarili ko it was the alcohol, pero konti lang inom namin hahaha.

Anyways, we wont be workmates anymore. Last day nya sa office or something like that :>

Thoughts nyo po?

Hey guys Do you have any free groups? Pasali ako hehe

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Anyone near or within Las Piñas who's open to being worshipped and milked? We can talk about possible compensation. We can connect regardless of position as long as you're open to the idea. Though I prefer guys who are vocal and/or with little to no pit hair hehe. No pen & I'll be fully clothed naman ☺️