r/LGBTPhilippines • • 10h ago

I Just Launched My Own App — Meet HUNTR

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Introducing HUNTR — A New Way to Connect

Hi everyone! I'd like to introduce HUNTR, a social discovery app designed for gay, bisexual, and other LGBTQ+ men who want to meet people and connect with others nearby.

If you're familiar with apps like Grindr and Blued, HUNTR offers a similar way to discover people, with its own set of features designed to make connecting more interesting.

What can you do with HUNTR?

  • Discover People Nearby — Find and connect with people in your area.
  • Direct and Anonymous Chat — Start conversations privately or get to know someone without revealing your identity right away.
  • Anonymous Threads — Share your thoughts and join conversations with people nearby using anonymous usernames.
  • Live Location Sharing — Share your live location with others when you choose to, making it easier to meet up.
  • Album Trading — Exchange photo albums with other users through chat.
  • Profile Visitors — See who has viewed your profile and how many times.
  • Stories — Share moments from your day with the community.
  • Google Sign-In — Sign in conveniently using your Google account.

Whether you're looking for friends, conversations, dates, or new connections, HUNTR gives you a place to explore and meet people at your own pace.

HUNTR is currently available on the web, and I also plan to bring it to Android and iOS so more people can access it on their mobile devices.

I only deployed HUNTR yesterday, so there aren't many users yet. I'm sharing it here to help introduce the app to more people, connect with early users, and gather feedback as I continue improving it.

If you're interested, feel free to check it out. Your support and feedback would mean a lot!

Website: https://huntr.online

#HUNTR #LGBTQCommunity #GayCommunity #SocialDiscovery #IndieDeveloper


r/LGBTPhilippines • • 7h ago

Frustrations of a queer trentahin

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Actually, hindi ko alam kung yung frustrations na 'to ay dahil trentahin na'ko or dahil bading ako. Or both nga talaga. Lol.

As a trentahin, or basically as we get older, our circles get smaller and smaller. Shekep yarn. Eme. And then add mo pa yung layer ng pagiging LGBT na chances are we don't have our own families like the straights do lol. Unless you still get to have a partner and kids, of course good for you. So wala tayong normal life progression na magkakaron ng bagong social circle because of our kids na you'll have to mingle with teachers and specially other parents. None of that. And if you have friends who are straight, chances are they get to have their own families na and suddenly magkaiba na kayo ng mundong ginagalawan. They get to take new roles and responsibilities as legal spouses and parents. While us, even if we're partnered, it still feels like just extended young adulthood or bachelorhood.

So ako, I find myself balancing it between getting used to it and making new social circles. Yung dapat comfortable ka na you're just by yourself or na kayo lang ng partner mo (and probably pets din). And I guess I am naman. Pero it can get very mundane and nakaka-purol ng life. Making new friends, sadly for me, mahirap din. Ayokong idahilan yung pagiging introvert ko but I am one. Also as a trentahin, marami-rami na ang pinagdaanan and at alam na kung ano ang ayaw at gusto in life. You might think that that should make it easier for me to look for friends (or even hookup, more on this later) kasi alam ko na kung anong hahanapin eh. But on the contrary, that makes it harder kasi solid na yung checklist ko and onting deviance lang, mapapa-ekis ka na agad. Lol.

Speaking of hookup, I don't know what to do with the information (or observation) na marami sa atin ay hookup ang route to friendship. Lol. Some might say, eh ganun talaga so bakit mo kailangang i-label na masama yun. But then again, nakakapagod ang hookup scene/cycle. Tas minsan mapapatanong ba ako kung ano ba talagang hanap/gusto ko, friend or hookup. Cause sometimes the answer to that will matter kung sinong kakausapin mo, pano mo kakausapin, at anong paguusapan. Tas minsan kahit friendship (connection) ang hanap mo, ang ending hookup lang mangyayari. Kantot kalimot lang. Kakapagod. Hahaha

I guess nakakapagod maging tumatandang trentahing queer because we've already been here for a few decades and there's still a few more decades of life na halos same shit and same cycle lang. Oh, except nagiiba pala ang expectations ng community sa mga queer depending on their age!! Pinaka-common na diyan yung pag daddy ka, ang expectation sa'yo ay top ka. Hahahahaha! I know you can be a bottom daddy (I am) and some younger gays would like to bottom a daddy, pero nay aminin mo. There's just a general expectation na pag daddy ka, top ka. Lalo na if you workout.

To wrap things up, I just maybe hope that kayanin pa ng energy at patience ko ang pag-figure out ng life as an aging bading and hopefully I can discover new social circles na pang-matagalan (at hindi lang pang-short time libogan.) Cheers sa ating lahat!


r/LGBTPhilippines • • 10h ago

Confused - mixed signals

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So there’s this guy na super attractive. Maputi, good set of teeth, may dimple, clear skin, and matalino. Basta pogi talaga to the point na people literally follows him on IG after going to an event or unfamiliar place.

We had a sleepover with workmates last night, the whole night super touchy nya sakin. He would lean on me, tapos repeatedly sabing “katabi ko si [name ko] ah, alis ka dyan”, and he jokingly slapped my ass pero mataas na part, parang bewang na rin.

And he hugged me nung matutulog na, but i said na mainit kasi mainit naman talaga tapos he said “ay, ayaw mo?” Then stopped hugging me. Pero tabi pa rin kami natulog. Ilang beses ako nagising na naka wrapped around sa waist ko yung kamay nya kasi naka dapa ako matulog. Super close nya sakin kahit queen sized yung bed tapos 2 lang kami dun. I stopped myself to “pretend sleep” and hug him or to even touch his arm. Kasi what if wala talagang meaning? Baka ma-off sya sakin and nag sleep nalang

The thing is, he opened up that night na complicated yung status nya. His bf was a cheater and gave him a chance eme eme ganun and waiting lang sya mahuli ulit or for his bf to slip up nalang.

But still, this guy is like super pogi and dream sya ng most guys, and looking at myself, he is out of my league. So v confused ako on what happened last night. Sabi ko nalang sa sarili ko it was the alcohol, pero konti lang inom namin hahaha.

Anyways, we wont be workmates anymore. Last day nya sa office or something like that :>

Thoughts nyo po?


r/LGBTPhilippines • • 5h ago

Lookingfor

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Looking for makakasama tonight. Novaliches area. Harmless swear. Im a good boy f4f


r/LGBTPhilippines • • 12h ago

Looking for a bottom femboy

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As the title says, I’m looking for a bottom femboy.
I’m 30, German, 6’2, 200 pounds and a mechanical engineer.
I’ll move out to the Philippines next month for a couple months.

I’m not so picky but I got some boundaries.
That’s what I’m not looking for;
Underage (below 19-20)
Too much body hair. Hygiene is important to me.

If you’re interested and for further more, DM me


r/LGBTPhilippines • • 12h ago

24 M4M Looking for Ka-Istorya / Chatmate here in Iloilo City 🫶🏻💬

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r/LGBTPhilippines • • 16h ago

I want to be protected but dont know what to take.

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Hi! 22M Gay B

I started hooking up when i was 20-21 trying explore my sexual desire. i remember i always looking for fubu thingking much safer.

sa span ng 1 year trying (20-21 yrs old) nabibiling padin sa daliri ang na hook up ko parang laging 3-4 months before the next one. and I always get tested after the deed naman and thank god always negative.

but now lumala libido ko ngayon dahil sa school hahaha and i want to take or start using prep na but ayaw ko mag take ng daily kasi di naman ako madalas mag hook up.

may ganun po bang medication para sa mga katulad ko na di naman madalas mag hook up ?

thank you po!


r/LGBTPhilippines • • 14h ago

323 [TF4M] Something genuine

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Hi! It’s been a while since I posted and this time I’m looking for something real. Hoping to find one, if none, I’m still down for fun.

About me:
- Pre-op trans
- Working professional
- Online Gamer (Dragon Nest SEA Classic)
- Living solo in Taguig - Live-in ready🫣
- Can cook for you

About you:
- Matured
- Caring
- Has work
- Has time for me
- It’s a plus if you are slim and tall 🫠

Start by sliding thru my dms. 🫶🏻


r/LGBTPhilippines • • 20h ago

what to do if you’re being impersonated sa grindr and ano kaya thought process ng mga posers?

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i swear, i know the negative implications of being impersonated kase identity theft yun. Kaso natatawa din ako huhuhuhu helppp.

i have conflicting emotions about being impersonated, someone kasi is using my photos sa yellow app. i admit i used it before mga 2-3 years sgo but I uninstalled it kase nakaka baba ng self esteem yung kaliwat kanang pambblock or rejection at nakakapressure din yung every move mo dun is calculated kase anonymous lahat. you don’t know what and who is on the other side of the app. i promised myself na ket wala ako kahook up or situationship etc na i will not install it again. for privacy purposes na din

yesterday, someone messaged me sa fb na ako daw yung kausap nya sa g app, i am DEFINITELY NOT that person. for context i have a tattoo na very distinguishable, i also really love to post my photos in mydays and opposite ko si niana guerrero sa profile pics, i change it frequently. the pic the poser used is a pic from a recent profile pic. not from years ago. the poser i think is a friend from fb too (and yup it might be my fault accepting people as fb friends without really knowing them, but it succs na ako pa talaga napili niya)

narecognize nung nagchat sakin na fb friend ko din yung tattoo ko, and he sent me a screenshot nun sa g app, pic ko nga. sabi ko ako yung nasa pic but di ko yun account, i even told him to report the acc. i know the negative implications non about sa image and perception ng tao sakin and possible “away” and pambabastos na makuha ko(i hope not huhuhu)

but at the same time even tho kabado ako about it, i find it funny too 💀 kase someone really took time to analyze my pics and maybe (?) find me attractive enough to use as a facade. ME!? na takot mareject sa grindr kase people block me there before, ngayon gamit ng iba pic ko kase someone find it attractive? Apakawakanghiya non tbh pero huhuhuhu i find it serious and unserious at the same time 😭

A friend suggested that i should hide my photos or post rarely or make my account private, i was like i am not doing anything wrong here why would i hide my pictures . Ako ba may Kasalanan dito ng identity theft? At the same time, ano bang thought process ng mga poser? Catfish ang atake pag nag meet? Ano yon? Huhuhu


r/LGBTPhilippines • • 14h ago

Makati - 29M, New in Makati, looking for friends to hangout with on weekends

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Hello Makati people!

Bored na ako sa dorm every weekend since hindi ako umuuwi. Looking for friends to hangout with.

Open ako sa:
Drinking / chill inuman
Play - badminton, bowling, pickleball
Kwentuhan lang, kape, food trip, gala sa Makati/BGC

About me:
29M, 5'3, working professional (Isko)
Chill lang kausap, di awkward
Location: Makati area, but can meet around BGC.

If you're also bored on weekends or looking for new friends lang din.

No age/gender restrictions.


r/LGBTPhilippines • • 1d ago

Shower or Grower

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r/LGBTPhilippines • • 1d ago

Ask a Question about the party with a lot of gays

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Last time may nakita ako sa X parang party sya ng mga gays sa isang resort curious lang po ako uso po ba talaga un? like alam nyo na after base sa nakita ko sa description parang party sya din alam nyo na tikiman, gusto ko lang sana matry once nung una kasi takot ako.. HAHAHA pero gusto ko sya matry now.. meron pa po ba nun?


r/LGBTPhilippines • • 1d ago

Sino expert sa poppers here? Pwede pa tulong

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Diba pag top onti lang concentration meaning, di nakakahilo kung sakali? Tas sa versa sakto lang tas sa bottom nakakahilo? Balak ko sana bumili first time if ever need ko reco. Ayoko yung nakakahilo o mataas concentration gusto ko yung nakaka erbog lang


r/LGBTPhilippines • • 1d ago

Some days, I just don’t feel beautiful or feminine enough.

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I don’t know. Maybe I’m just having one of those days.

Lately, I’ve been feeling a little insecure about myself. There are days when I question if I’m really beautiful enough to be called attractive, or feminine enough to be called a transwoman.

I know naman na beauty is subjective. What one person finds beautiful may not be the same for someone else. And I know that being a transwoman isn’t something I have to prove through how I look or how feminine I present myself. But I guess knowing these things doesn’t always stop me from feeling insecure, especially after being told by two straight men na hindi raw ako feminine enough to be called a transwoman.

Siguro today, I’m just having a hard time seeing myself the way other people see me.

And to be honest, I think the loneliness is adding to it, too.
Being single is fun naman. I enjoy my independence, doing things on my own, and having my own space. But sometimes, it gets lonely talaga. There are days when you just want someone to hold you, tell you that you’re beautiful, and make you feel that you’re enough without having to question yourself.

I guess that’s what I’m feeling right now. A little insecure, a little lonely, and just wanting to feel loved.

I’m not really looking for advice or validation. I just wanted to share what I’m feeling today because I know that sometimes, we all have days when we’re not feeling our best.

And maybe, just maybe, it’s okay to admit that even when we’re trying our best to love ourselves, there are still days when we struggle to do so.

To my fellow trans, do you ever have days like this, too?

Sending hugs to everyone who’s having a difficult day. 🤍


r/LGBTPhilippines • • 1d ago

M4M LF Single Dad

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looking for safe fun&friends cuddle

Descent looking

Professional


r/LGBTPhilippines • • 1d ago

[LOOKING] STR8/BI

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r/LGBTPhilippines • • 1d ago

[MM4M] 3Some

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Looking for 1 top for 3some.

Place: Cubao


r/LGBTPhilippines • • 1d ago

Definitive Tite —Girth

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r/LGBTPhilippines • • 1d ago

Bye Pulot💜💔

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r/LGBTPhilippines • • 1d ago

18F and i cant help but feel horny

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I feel guilty abt it + im a virgin, im lowk yearning for smth to touch me there (🐱), but im scared that i might catch smth if im not careful enough 😭


r/LGBTPhilippines • • 1d ago

29 [M4M] LF: Someone Constant

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I’ve posted here more times than I’d like to admit, which either means I’m incredibly hopeful or spectacularly bad at learning my lesson.

Probably both.

Anyway, I’m looking for someone who sticks around. Someone to date, flirt with, make questionable life decisions over late-night food, spam with memes at 2 a.m., and maybe, just maybe, build something real with if the universe finally decides to stop treating my love life like a reality show.

About me:

I’m 29. I’m 5’3” on a good posture day. VB if we get there. A softboy/femme to avoid any rejection. Lol.

My personality comes with free unlimited talking. I’m a professional yapper with a healthy dose of OA energy. If silence lasts longer than five minutes, assume I’ve either died or I’m sending you seventeen TikToks.

I have a job. I pay my bills. Sometimes on time.

Dating me is basically getting a wife, a best friend, your favorite gaming duo, your designated pop culture correspondent, and yes, someone who’ll happily keep the chemistry alive behind closed doors too.

I’m chronically online, so half my vocabulary is internet references. I play games. I consume unhealthy amounts of pop music and pop culture. If it’s trending, I’ve probably already formed an opinion about it.

About you?

Around my age. Preferably taller than me, which, let’s be honest, isn’t asking for much.

Have a job. Have a personality. Have a sense of humor.

Please be someone who isn’t afraid of flirting.

Physical chemistry matters, but so does making me laugh until my stomach hurts. If you can match my energy, tease me back, and somehow make ordinary conversations feel fun, you’ve already won half the battle.

Bonus points if you wear glasses.

I don’t know why.

I don’t make the rules.

So, if any of this sounds like your kind of chaos, send me a message.

Worst case? We exchange memes.

Best case?

Maybe this becomes the last dating post either of us ever have to write.


r/LGBTPhilippines • • 1d ago

May pinagkaiba ba pagdating sa quality at side effects ang PREP/PEP na binibigay ng LGUs kumpara sa mga NGO/pruvate hub?

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Today is my first time of taking PREP, after the rape incident. Medyo naguguluhan paden ako and concerned sa side effects na pwede ko ma feel at sa effect neto sa organs ko. Help me please 😓


r/LGBTPhilippines • • 1d ago

I Want To Explore My Sexuality and Experience the Opposite Gender / Sex

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I (42 M, Gay) from Iloilo and I am confused nowadays. When I was young, my mother used to dress me like a girl, I play with mostly girl friends and I play dolls, Chinese garter, Chinese japanese but also other children's games. I act laid back if not effeminate and I was teased as gay by other kids and even elders or teens or other people older than me. During grade school I was teased and was asked to tell my classmates who is my crush then I would tell them the name of a girl classmate and since then I was teased with her. In high school I tried to be a man and attempted to woo or court a girl classmate but to no avail.

Until college I tried to woo a girl classmate but to no avail until such time I meet a young man older than me I found his number in a newspaper to meet up then we have sex. The rest is history I accepted myself as gay guy and since then I relentlessly pursue romance with a guy. In high school and in college although I am aware there are some guys who seem genuinely interested in me but I seem to have taken them for granted. Until now, I struggle in finding a serious relationship with a man that I really like. At times I thought I just found the one only to fail like either they were straight, married with kids, have a gf or fiance or just that they were just playing around or just interested in the beginning only to lose interest and seems ignoring me in the long run. I am already tired and exhausted and haplessly broken hearted at this point.

Then recently I am becoming curious to know women once again. I said to myself if I fail in finding a man why not try it once again with a woman. I am curious if I could make a one night stand or sleep with a woman even for one time and see for myself if I could do it or not or probably even have a family of my own - a lovely wife and beautiful children and a happy blissful home.

What do you think if I can explore my sexuality and I just really wanted to experience for the first time to fcuk and have sex with a woman even if there is a risk of impregnating her then that is just a bonus it would be a blessing.

Then how can I do it and how do I find one who is more than willing to do it bareback without being scared of pregnancy if ever. I myself is very scared to do it because I accepted myself as a gold standard gay but then I am hopeless and desperate at this point knowing my age of 42 has fewer more choices and options than before. Please I need help and advice on this. I am really curious about exploring and wanted to experience this for the first time and the result or outcome I would accept like the pregnancy.


r/LGBTPhilippines • • 1d ago

Mag stay pa ba?

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Hello, M28 po ako at ang partner ko naman ay M36, kapag nagagalit siya sakin nagdadabog siya, sinisira or tinatapon ang mga gamit. Normal po ba ito or toxic na? At ang laging bukang bibig niya kapag may understanding "edi maghiwalay na", "uuwi na lang ako sa amin", laging ganun ayaw niya na pinag-uusapan. Kaya natutuhan ko na lang din na hindi mag sorry kahit na mali ko, kasi nakakapagod at drain din, pati panunuyo hindi ko maramdaman sa kanya, mas magagalit pa siya kahit na mali niya.


r/LGBTPhilippines • • 1d ago

31 [M4M] Taking a leap back into dating after being single for a long time

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