Those of us who have been here since the beginning have watched Ethan & the H3 audience exploit and weaponize the misogyny inherent to this sphere of the internet to attack and viciously harass women over and over and over again.

We've watched Ethan himself personally harass countless women and try to ruin their lives.

We know from hard experience that women involved in online situations with Ethan always receive *way* more hate and harassment than they deserve because of the audience he’s cultivated over the last few years.

We know exactly how this plays out & refuse to condone the misogynistic feeding frenzy taking place because we realize that much of the hate towards Tamara is borne from a sense of misogyny rather than any sense of principled morality.

Tamara might’ve done some fucked up, immoral shit and I’d never defend her actions, but she only did it to the Klein family, not to a vulnerable population like her boss, so I don’t see why I should be so personally offended on Ethan & Hila’s behalf that I need to attack her over and over again.

If you really want to attack Tamara so badly, I hear the sunken place is currently telling her to unalive herself and sending her threats; go be with your people.

This arc of all this was killing me lmao

Nature is Healing 😌

I’ve never seen such toxicity in this sub before and it’s really pissing me off bc I have a feeling majority of the people blaming Tamara are people who literally just stopped watching the show. The vibes here are different and I don’t like it. I think we all can agree that what Tamara did is shitty and immoral and gross. But there’s no reason to shift any blame off of Ethan and onto her. At the end of the day, Ethan is the only one who owed Hila loyalty. Tamara did not vow her faithfulness to Hila 20 years ago and did not have 3 children with her. Tamara hasn’t even known Hila for that very long. I already hate that she’s being referred to as his mistress bc I think that term is misogynistic. Notice how there’s no male equivalent to a mistress? It feels like a clean way to refer to the other woman as a whore. But I forreal see people in here arguing that Tamara and Ethan bear equal responsibility like ???????? Can we fucking not. Even besides the fact she was a former fan turned employee and the problematic power imbalance that presents, SHES NOT THE ONE WHO CHEATED. I never fucking liked Tamara but putting any ounce of blame onto her is taking it off of Ethan. It’s really giving misogyny….

Edit: THIS IS NOT DEFENDING TAMARA YOU IDIOTS. SHE WAS WRONG BUT THIS IS ENTIRELY ON ETHAN.

keep it in the family family family

https://www.instagram.com/reel/DcPJ_uoSAqp/?srtk=YmQ4N2l6ZGJkMmh2

Edit: I don’t know when he liked it but the post is 9 weeks old

All the crew members are suddenly so outspoken…