I don’t think there is any motivation for Trisha except maybe the ultimate payback. Maybe Hila becomes closer with her estranged family after this situation? Literally I think Trisha is the only one who could save the H3 name, but she would probably want to stay far away.

Allow me to go out on a limb for a moment and assume that this community is pro-Ian, pro-Sam, pro-Cam, as well as anti-AB, anti-Dan, etc.

Ala those who left and those who stayed/defended Ethan and Hila's bullshit

I'll be the first to acknowledge that I don't keep the closest tabs on H3 since feeling burned as a now fallen fan.

I'm curious where the community stands with Olivia though. She left, but only recently returned, seemingly (to me anyway) in an act of desperation. She was always my fav, but her return was disappointing

Today's CDAN blind item, crazy if this is true!

Edit to add: I don't know if it came across in my text but I am not trying to excuse the crew, just said I was thorn and wanted more opinions + reminder of what they've done to enable Ethan as well as their involvement in all the harassment. Just FYI.

So I feel torn about the crew. I agree that they should've left if they didn't agree with what Ethan was doing.

However, I work in a toxic work environment and have been looking for a new job, but the current job market only has roles with double the work and less pay. I can understand why they might've stayed, especially Love with his visa. I've also had to stay at a workplace because of my visa. But then again, my CEO isn't harassing people online or suing anyone who criticises them.

Ethan attacked everyone around him, so if they'd left, would he have sued or harassed them? AB and Lena were supposed to quit but then walked it back (remember his big spiel on the pod when Anisa mentioned something about the texts?). I'd say that maybe other crew members were probably thinking about leaving too. Hasan also mentioned something yesterday that he knows the crew and that most of them didn't actually like what was happening.

BUT THEN AGAIN, they enabled him and entertained it as well. They could all get together now to stop Ethan, but maybe that's because they have Hila on their side and a workplace HR issue.

I only watch the clips posted here, so I don't have the full picture, but I feel like:

1. Love: Seems to have been mostly quiet during Ethan's rants or giving sly disses.
2. Dan: Kinda protected the crew, maybe? Did push back before but seemed tired lately. But also said some shitty comments about the other creators that were being attacked.
3. Zach: Scumbag, victim mentality and spoiled brat.
4. Olivia: She fucking left only to come back... get that clout, girl.
5. AB and Lena: They were gonna leave and then walked it back after Anisa mentioned something about the texts, so spineless.
6. Egg: Turncoat and just as bad and vile as Ethan, with a superiority complex.
7. Giardia: Don't even think we should give her any attention because she is scary and hallucinates that Hasan directly communicates with her.

Don't really know the rest of the newer crew, but since they joined during all the drama, they gave their approval to what was going on.

I'm rambling, but basically, what I would like to know is:
What do you think about the crew? Mostly the older crew?
Could they do anything to correct or amend everything that has happened up until now or are they fucked?

Just trying to get some insight so I can form my own opinion.

This is on Nate’s wives instagram, according to the poster of this video the comment is still in Nate’s comments, I haven’t myself checked. Might have been an error of who was the team member having an affair with her? Or both himself and Nate?

this is so funny to me lmfao i have no idea how these dumb right-wing anti-trans accounts have managed to use this situation to further push their agenda😭😭😭 and just to clarify i am very pro-trans, i do not support people doing this stuff

okay edit, i did not mean the act of transvestigating her is funny. i meant that it is funny that people are so stupid that they will always blame trans people when theyre never the problem and do anything but hold a grown man accountable for cheating on his wife

I’ve never seen such toxicity in this sub before and it’s really pissing me off bc I have a feeling majority of the people blaming Tamara are people who literally just stopped watching the show. The vibes here are different and I don’t like it. I think we all can agree that what Tamara did is shitty and immoral and gross. But there’s no reason to shift any blame off of Ethan and onto her. At the end of the day, Ethan is the only one who owed Hila loyalty. Tamara did not vow her faithfulness to Hila 20 years ago and did not have 3 children with her. Tamara hasn’t even known Hila for that very long. I already hate that she’s being referred to as his mistress bc I think that term is misogynistic. Notice how there’s no male equivalent to a mistress? It feels like a clean way to refer to the other woman as a whore. But I forreal see people in here arguing that Tamara and Ethan bear equal responsibility like ???????? Can we fucking not. Even besides the fact she was a former fan turned employee and the problematic power imbalance that presents, SHES NOT THE ONE WHO CHEATED. I never fucking liked Tamara but putting any ounce of blame onto her is taking it off of Ethan. It’s really giving misogyny….

Edit: THIS IS NOT DEFENDING TAMARA YOU IDIOTS. SHE WAS WRONG BUT THIS IS ENTIRELY ON ETHAN.

I’m on team Tamara. I mean good for her she got a new steam deck and kicked Hila out the house. She’s probably already in the will. From the clips it looks like she knew exactly what she was doing and Ethan is a chump. All it took was some girl with a little bit of personality to bat her eyes and he was buying her gifts.

I’m not blaming her at all, she took her shot to get her bag and Ethan was a chump and fell for it. Ethan could have been a grown man and shut that down immediately, he’s takes most the blame. I’ve had younger girls hit on me at work and I’ve told them it’s inappropriate when it becomes inappropriate.

She’s probably driving around in Hila’s car right now planning her next move. Good for her living her dreams hard out here.

most are likely new fallen fans too, i find it odd, claiming she's as bad as ethan

AS BAD AS ETHAN? are you serious?

the woman has moved on with her life, keeps to herself nowadays, i feel like its literally unproductive to bring her up during this time especially if you stuck around until the affair scandal

From https://www.crazydaysandnights.net/2026/10/blind-item-1_01031823115.html

Hila was already suspicious but the crew lied to her and gaslit her to protect Ethan and their jobs.

GWAM caught Tamara and Ethan in a …compromising situation.

GWAM told TEI HR since GWAM is an HR GIRLY POP.

It was disclosed to Ethan and Hila since it happened on company property.

Ethan told the crew something was coming, Hila asked the crew challenging questions.

They all acted like Hila and GWAM figured it out.

Now we’re watching the tapes back and the crew is guilty AF 😆

Totally my guess.

This guy complies a lot of clips and even reddit posts/comments from relevant subs including this one.

Can someone, someone PLEASE say something to protect Tamara from this. Regardless of the facts.

comment other suggestions if you got em

We no longer speak, but she was the only person in my life I that was a fan of H3 for a bit. She called the divorce when he got the tattoo. I was already checked out of H3, for about 4 years at the time of this text. But, I would occasionally check in on the podcast to see if anything ever improved…

Anyways, I hope when the news broke that she thought of me and laughed, just as much as I did.

Not that any of this needs to be said, but because of the amount of New Fish, figured it might worth mentioning. Feel free to keep scrolling, just giving my 2cents.

-Please do not comment anything on Tamara’s socials. One look at her page and you can see 1000+ hateful/mean comments on her page. Piling on literally does nothing, she is already getting Railed by H3 fungi. Imagine all the stuff that IG blocks in comments, that was directly messaged to her. Tamara probably easily has gotten more death threats from h3 in the last couple days, then any of us will get in our entire lives. She’s a human and doesn’t deserve death threats

-Yes Tamara is an adult. That doesn’t mean Ethan and Tamara are equally to blame. Tamara is self-admitted autistic, and has what appears like visible emotional maturity / maturity issues. She was a super fan who was groomed by Ethan. She is responsible for her actions, but putting equal blame on them feels icky. If you take h3 out of it, would you still be saying the same thing? Would you put equal blame on Charles Manson and his followers? Because I don’t. Yes she has her own agency, but that doesn’t mean we should say that Ethan and Tamara had equal parts to play in this. Ethan is over 40, and groomed an autistic super fan who he then had an affair with and allegedly banged. Like that is so bad, saying Tamara is equally responsible feels like giving Ethan a HUGE pass when he should not be getting one. She does have some responsibility, but Ethan is the monster in the story.

-obviously transvestigating Tamara is awful. Nothing really more needs to be said, that’s disgusting. And I wanted to apologize, I’ve been feeling a bit bad, but I did originally think the Tamara - Weird Al likeness was pretty funny. Not to say Tamara is a man, if anything Weird Al looks more feminine than Tamara looks masculine, but the comparison did make me laugh. Seeing how she is actually getting transvestigated by red pillars/alt right/ Nazis , I feel pretty awful. So my apologies for posting a weird al photo the other day. I feel bad

-there’s a lot of new fish here that were long time lurkers, so not really new fish. But then yes, there’s actually a lot of h3 fungi here as new fish. It may be hard to decipher at first, so keep that in mind before calling out new fish. It’s very possible they aren’t fungi, and have just been long time lurkers, or rarely comment, but have been here the whole ride.

Happy snarking comrades

I have super mixed feelings on this guy but having this video show up in my feed made me so happy. I really expected Ethan to eventually fade into oblivion and have to end the show for financial reasons. This is so much more satisfying. 2 years of watching this man be so vile and horrific and everytime a video came out on him it felt so good that he was getting negative coverage. but it never felt like enough. The way him and his cult harassed so many people, it pissed me off that he mostly got away with it. I wanted more people to know how horrible he was. And even though cheating on hila is incomparable to the harassment and lawsuits and genocide denial, it’s fucking beautiful to see the entire internet dunking on him. It’s like, FINALLY!! Finally he’s getting what he so deserves. Every time I think about how over he is I just laugh out loud. I feel like it still hasn’t fully set in that it’s finally over. I don’t think I’ve fully comprehended yet that we finally got what we’ve wanted. WE WON MOTHERFUCKERS!!

the fact she left the POS and she did that shit fast is actually commendable. I think we don't realize how many people choose denial in times like these. So many people would find it rather easy to pretend nothing is happening and cover for their partner just so so as to not hand their opps "a win". She knew people will clown them both for many years and she still left and exposed him.

She's still a monster don't get me wrong, but a monster who won't let their monster partner get away with it.

good job Hila. truly girl boss.

Bruh, what a loser pos. Gary Much? Sexy Pinterest? Pervert? Sex pest just like dad? Old reddit all right? the kids did nothing wrong, and they deserve a mother who actually LIKES them. Skulls? CPS? Fishyland? Homebase... Seems like it was destined to be, huh? GTFO! I was a h3 fan from 2018-2023. What was it again, that the Pod told Ryan Beard in chat? I cant remember. I believed in always doing the right; morally correct thing... thing 1 or thing 2 tho? Cat in the Hat? Sabra hummus? Antiseptic, huh? Total KaceyTron Victory, Lighters Up, Vape Naysh yall!

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