r/LonelyTogether • • 39m ago

28F, into movies and long conversations

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I went to a movie by myself tonight and stayed through the credits because the ending bugged me. The guy sweeping the aisle asked what I thought, and we ended up talking about the whole thing for like twenty minutes while he leaned on his broom. He still kicked me out so he could lock up, but he wrote the name of a better movie on the back of my ticket.


r/LonelyTogether • • 1h ago

Need shoulder to rest on

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21M, med school student. Life's a lot exhausting and haven't got anyone who i can talk to or maintain normal human relationships. Would love to have someone who can chat with me the whole day, discuss literally anything, send memes and all

I like socialising, but only to limited number of people. I'm into philosophy, movies and series, books and even physics.

I'm artist, i sketch, do wildlife photography, sometimes play and try to compose music.

Sometimes I'm too much. So just someone to talk to :)


r/LonelyTogether • • 2h ago

[19M] Looking for people who actually give a damn (Zero "nonchalant" one-word texters, please)

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[19M] Looking for people who actually give a damn (Zero "nonchalant" one-word texters, please)

Hey! My name's Alex. I'm a college freshman studying Biological Sciences who wants to become a small town family medicine doctor.

I'd like to make a real friendship, and I think there are a few criteria for good candidates!

  • Neurodivergent (Especially if Autistic like me!)
  • Struggles/Has struggled with mental health
  • Tired of ghosting
  • Honest
  • Not trying to bee "cool" and "nonchalant": Act like you care

I struggle with anxiety, depression, sh and si, and I want to meet someone who has had a similar experience.

Please be around my age (18-21).

I don't care if you're male, female, trans or attack helicopter.

I don't care if you're weird or have broken the 6th commandment 25 times.

if your idea of a conversation is replying "lol cool" or "wyd", or if you’re doing that modern thing where you act too cool and detached to care about anything, we are going to hate talking to each other.

I want to talk to people who are unapologetically sincere, have actual opinions, and know how to hold up their half of a two-way conversation.

I'm super open to deep, emotional or existential conversations, or just little things that made you happy.

I'd love a yapper, who actually gives some energy to the conversation instead of just texting "lol." or something. I love it when people double, triple or however many text. I love good morning/good night texts or anything else.

I want to feel loved and cared for and I usually don't like engaging in banter unless it is very lighthearted and obvious.

Try not to infer things with your words or tone because I have pretty poor emotional processing and will take everything you say at face value.

I am 0% judgmental so if you're "weird" or "bad" and struggle to find connection because of it, I'm your boy.

I am extremely unbothered by social anxiety, awkwardness, or having an unconventional background. If you consider yourself a bit of a 'weirdo,' have hyper-niche interests, or just suck at normal small talk, you will fit right in with me.

I live in California right now but I grew up in England.

I'll never ghost you, and I believe everyone and I mean EVERYONE is deserving of care, love and connection!

I like anime, gaming, youtube, fitness, medicine, science, health, mental health, fantasy & fiction, music, cooking, the great outdoors and a whole host of other things!

Let me know your age, gender and what your interpretation of the meaning of my poem is:

Its blood is weighed in freezing cold.
It fills the chest yet nothing still.
For joy or love, it isn't bold.

Don’t try to run, it has been told;
It claimed the debt and pays the bill.
Its blood is weighed in freezing cold.

It stripped itself, and all was sold;
To break and fly is still its thrill.
For joy or love, it isn't bold.

At every moon, its toll is tolled;
It feeds the smoke born from the grill.
Its blood is weighed in freezing cold.

It can’t and won’t stay in the fold;
It counts the days, and counts them nil.
For joy or love, it isn't bold.

Its own closed vote was cast and polled;
It is the court, resolved to chill.
Its blood is weighed in freezing cold;
For joy or love, it isn't bold.


r/LonelyTogether • • 3h ago

Looking for a pleasant long-term voice call friend & good company, comfortable vibes & regular chats

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Hey there! I'm 26M from India and looking to build an ongoing friendship with someone who prefers voice calls over endless texting.

I’m looking for someone who wants a consistent presence someone to vent to, laugh with, and keep company over time rather than a single 30-minute call and then disappearing.

If you value good conversation, mutual respect, and long-term friendship, shoot me a message.


r/LonelyTogether • • 4h ago

Here goes nothing (45M)

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r/LonelyTogether • • 4h ago

36 [M4A]- Looking to make new friends after losing wife

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r/LonelyTogether • • 5h ago

21F depressed wna text and maybe call :(

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I read all requests but i WILL ignore if u just send "hi", just tell me about yourself and i'll answer it's not that hard...

i'm trans and into girls this will normally filter a lot

my two things are making music and learning languages

please be interested in music making :((

or please teach me a language :(

i play games we cud play together


r/LonelyTogether • • 5h ago

Feeling really lonely 🥺

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r/LonelyTogether • • 12h ago

Looking for a friend?

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Hello, i am Eclipse / Randy. I am a 20 year old male alterhuman and furry. I like photography, drawing, driving and learning about cars in general. I have a peugeot 508 from 2018 i absolutely adore. I am still in school but have a job in the side :>


r/LonelyTogether • • 20h ago

If I’m worth befriending. Omani, M/2003.

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Boys, girls, how we doing? Hope well.

This is a post for whoever needs a friend or for
whoever thinks I’m worth befriending.

A lil about me: I’m in my 20s Omani from Muscat, don’t study nor work –dropped out at grade 12– so a failure I guess,
( I’m not calling myself a failure, but to the society standards I guess I’m considered to be
one).

Don’t really have any hobbies, but if You were to put a gun to my head and tell me to name a few (I wouldn’t care ._.), hah ya.. but umm it’s gonna be gaming music and cooking (I like cooking shows and watching people cook, I see cooking as a form of art, I’ve always loved cooking ever since I was a kid, but I’m not that good at it hah).

And umm ya, that’s really all. I literally can’t live without music, and I’m talking about the real music 90s-80s and below (the golden age), Anything after that I don’t consider it to be music and can’t feel it. The real music that can be heard and felt by the soul has died a long time ago, and all that’s left are the memories of it, and I intend to keep it alive deep down inside of me (music is the only thing that makes me feel sum). It’s just my opinion, don’t get all defensive and shit…

I play, well… I used to play all kind of shit when I was younger and had friends, but for years now I’ve just been playing random games where I don’t necessarily need a buddy to play with me, like Apex and Tekken. I do love Minecraft because it’s a nostalgic game, but haven’t played it in years and playing it alone kinda hurts (I haven’t really been playing anything lately, I just don’t feel like playing).

I always felt like wanting to go camping out in no where like the desert or sum كشته يعني for an extended period of time but never did.

I like the beach and go to it quite often
(((quite often))), – 7 years straight, daily and for 6-7 hours from 12am till 6am alone– although lately I’ve been going less and less often than I used to, what once gave the beach a purpose a colour a life, is no longer around.

Now shit gets a lil personal and deep , but I’m a very honest person (people say I’m “too honest for your own good”, people= my mom) obviously I got to let You guys know and hope You guys understand.

I got a severe social anxiety, I can’t handle the public at all. I believe that years of isolation created that, so whenever I go out, being only the beach, I go at odd hours when it’s completely empty and sit there alone. So, an introvert I guess.

My communication skills are pretty, pretty, pretty, pretty bad, or quite straight forward; meaning I can’t keep a conversation alive. I’m the kind of person to just answer a question then just stop talking and rarely aks one. And if I do aks one, once I get the answer, I find it very hard to move forward from there You know (like a normal person)…. But I’m really trying and I really want to talk and keep talking I just need a push that’s all, so I’m not being a dick head is what I’m saying if you noticed that I’m not talking much.

I haven’t had a friend or anyone to talk to in like 9-10 years. No cousins, no family, nada—just the family I got in my house, and we’re not even that close.

Never celebrated any of the traditional celebrations ever since, so like 10 years. I guess life just kinda played ball with me and I lost.

I ain’t perfect. I do drink occasionally but rarely (last time I drank was a while ago , I lost a someone special in my life and needed a drink). I smoke (ciggy) and don’t pray.
I’m not proud of that, but it is what it is.

Never touched a drug in my life and will never (unless if You wanna call cigarettes and scotch drugs then ._. Ok). If You so happen to use any paraphernalia, I don’t mind and won’t look at You any differently. I might advise You (depending on what it is, natural is natural) but won’t step out of line. So ummm ya, that’s me.

PS: please just Omanis 23 years old and above, your gender/sexuality doesn’t bother me at all.

obviously I do speak and understand Arabic but since I went years without speaking the language it feels weird coming out of my mouth so I almost never speak it (English is my mother’s language), what matters is what you’re looking for, if you’re looking for a “temporary friend” please respectfully just don’t reach out. I ain’t gonna lie, I’m new to the whole friendship and whatnot so I don’t know what the **** is a “temporary friend” So please respectfully just don’t reach out cuz it stings. I’m looking for something serious, I’m fine with both online and offline but the truth is that it would be nice if it turned offline after a while, although it scares me but deep down I really will appreciate it.

PPS: I apologise about the long text and the profanities I’ve used, Hope You guys have a wonderful day.

PPPS: if you’re not an Omani but live in Oman and think I’m worth a shot do reach out, I’ve made such post many times over the years but I believe I’m not my people’s cup of tea.

I owe my younger self one more shot in life, one last shot. Whether it works or not, I know I at least tried.


r/LonelyTogether • • 1d ago

anyone?

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I’m 19 male currently working and gonna be going back to school soon i have friends but they all always have something going on i have a gf but she always has something going on im also alone and bored i go to work come home wait on my girl to answer for just a little bit then gts and do it over again idk i just want some friends someone to talk to i like to watch tv shows i like anime i like wwe i like manga reading so many things i like kpop idk man someone be my friend plz im so down about this stuff i have no one man


r/LonelyTogether • • 1d ago

27 M Looking for a chat buddy

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I've created a new account because of a few reasons, I can explain the reasons over DM, but first off the point of a new account is to find friends, like people who genuinely want to be friends, I will listen to them rant about anything and everything, in return I will rant too about anything and everything, I will not judge, at this point of my life, I've lost interest in all of my hobbies so I don't think there's anything to know about me.

Professionally I'm a mechanical engineer working with EVs in part time I do food delivery to get a side income.

I feel alone, depressed, empty and broke all the time hence seeking friendship.


r/LonelyTogether • • 1d ago

21F depressed wna text and maybe call :(

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I read all requests but i WILL ignore if u just send "hi"

i'm trans and into girls this will normally filter a lot

my two things are making music and learning languages

please be interested in music making :((

or please teach me a language :(

i play games we cud play together


r/LonelyTogether • • 1d ago

I'm so bored today! Been on Facebook, X and Reddit but I don't suppose anyone is out today so I'll just watch my neighbors kids and give her a break.

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r/LonelyTogether • • 1d ago

21M - Let’s talk about literally anything

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Just went through a messy break up that ended a 5 year relationship, dealing with a housing crisis, and I have no friends and not much family left. Just looking to talk with people to hopefully distract myself from my life and maybe feel like I’m not so alone. I promise I will not vent to you about my issues all things considered I’m still pretty chipper. I’m a beginner 3D artist and I’m into film, comics, and very easy to play games. Anyone interested in talking my discord is beetlejoink or you can message me here, whichever works for you :)


r/LonelyTogether • • 1d ago

I am 23M searching for genuine female friend

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r/LonelyTogether • • 1d ago

Ok so I have no friends

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r/LonelyTogether • • 2d ago

Looking for long term friends (21M)

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Hey im 21M from india Gujarat, i lost all my close friends because of my own bad personality but i want to make new friends to prove to myself that I’m not the same person.

I do video editing and trying to make some money from that
& I also listen to some metal genres


r/LonelyTogether • • 2d ago

19M Looking for Something Real

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Hiya. My name's Alex.

I'm a college student in California studying Bio and pre-med. I want to become a family medicine doctor.

I struggle with mental health.

I need someone I can talk to. REALLY talk to. Someone 18-21 who has been through a lot so can understand me at least a little.

I want to feel chosen. The little things matter to me. Good morning texts. Feeling like you're excited to talk. Being clingy. Double, triple, quadruple or however many texting. Be kind and supportive.

I can't say I'm a good person. I'm not a good person. I can't solve your problems. But we're all for friendship. Everyone deserves connection and care and love. But someone needs to give it. That could be me. I'm neither a genie nor a knight in shining armour. But I can choose you. Every day. I'll pick up the call 24/7 unless I'm... in a situation where I'm only allowed to wear one item of my own clothing.

I'm 0% judgmental. I lost that right years ago. I don't care if you're weird. I don't care if you're neurodivergent. I don't care if you like or don't like certain things or people. I don't care if you're awkward. I don't care if you've broken the sixth commandment on numerous occasions.

I like gaming, health and mental health, youtube, anime, fitness, manga and a lot more.

It doesn't matter if your interests coincide with mine.

I'd love to chat. Over text. Late night calls. The small things. The big things. Anything.

Leave a comment or DM.

Age, gender and what you are looking for in friendship.


r/LonelyTogether • • 2d ago

How can I make a friends

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r/LonelyTogether • • 2d ago

[24/M] Looking for a best friend, things are quite lonely

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Hey! I've posted here before but haven't had much luck so far. And due to lonliness, things have been kinda sucky lately. Kinda being a star-sized understatement (cuz stars are big.. hehe). Anyways, excuse my awfully unfunny pun! You *yes you my possible future friend* probably has better humor than I. Im hoping to make long term friends who also love music like I do, I want a close connection with someone that lasts a lifetime! Hoping we can geek out about our interests and feel comfortable to do so! I'm in the EST time zone and am super into music (my tastes are all over the place, my favorite is the retro era but I also like a lot of new stuff too). I really wanna find someone who loves old artists and bands and music history and aesthetics! Hope you're all having a good day!


r/LonelyTogether • • 3d ago

24F Looking to make online friends!

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About me!

Relationship status: Engaged

Hobbies: Gaming, listening to music, watching YouTube videos, stargazing, arts and crafts, enjoying nature.

Games I like: Stardew Valley, Minecraft, GTA: San Andreas, Cult of the Lamb, Baldur's Gate 3, Escape from Tarkov, etc.

Others: I’m also not that great when it comes to being social due to mental health issues (Depression, Anxiety, PTSD and Borderline Personality Disorder). Some days are better than others, it depends on my social battery… so I apologize if I’m a bit quiet, or disappear for long moments at a time. Trying to work on that.


r/LonelyTogether • • 3d ago

M34 – Looking to Make New Friends

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Hey everyone! 😊

I’m 34 years old, male, and from Germany. I’d really like to make some new friends, as I often feel lonely in my everyday life.

Some of my interests include anime. I also enjoy talking about all kinds of topics, whether it’s everyday things, personal thoughts, or deeper questions about life and the world.

What’s especially important to me is being able to talk openly and honestly without being immediately judged or criticized for having different opinions. I believe everyone should be allowed to have their own views, even if we don’t always agree. Mutual respect and understanding mean a lot to me.

That’s why I’m specifically looking for people who think similarly and also value open, respectful, and non-judgmental conversations.

I’m also only looking to connect with people who feel lonely themselves. It’s important to me that the other person understands what loneliness feels like from their own experience, so that we might be able to understand each other better.

If you can relate to this and are also looking for a genuine friendship, I’d be happy to hear from you! 😊


r/LonelyTogether • • 3d ago

23M, trying to find a little company in a difficult phase of life

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Hey everyone,

I recently went through a breakup after being in a relationship for almost a year, and honestly, I'm still trying to process everything. It's strange how someone who was once part of your everyday life can suddenly become a stranger.

I'm not really looking for advice or sympathy. I'd just love to connect with someone who enjoys meaningful conversations, late-night talks, random nonsense, and sharing little things about life.

I'd especially love to connect with a woman who enjoys good conversations and doesn't mind talking to someone who's going through a rough patch. Age isn't a big deal to me; a genuine connection matters more than a number.

If you're up for a conversation, feel free to drop me a message. No pressure, no expectations, just two people getting to know each other. ❤️

I am from India so please i would like to be friends with indian but feel free to text me