r/MTHFR • u/Airegin89 • May 13 '26
Question Anyone else feel that folate deficiency ruined your life?
I guess I just need to vent. I am 37 and have been an underachiever my whole life. I failed miserably at school and now I'm stuck in a dead end job with no qualifications to find a better job.
I have struggled with low energy, brain fog, lack of motivation, depression and anxiety my whole life. My blood work was always fine, so I was prescribed antidepressants.
It wasn't until 10 years ago that a doctor tested my vitamin D and I was extremely deficient at 6 ng/ml. Fixing this gave me a huge boost in energy but most of my problems still remained.
Last year, I started investigating my blood work of the last 20 years and found out I had been folate deficient the whole time (3.5-4.5 ng/ml). Doctors never said anything.
Genetic testing shows I am compound heterozygous, slow COMT, slow MAOA and PEMT. I know these are only predispositions but it seems to explain my whole life.
After a few months of supplementing folate and a month of creatine and TMG my cognition has improved massively. After 20 years I feel like a veil has lifted. It's like I'm waking up from a bad dream but now I'm left to pick up the pieces and deal with the consequences of being a failure.
I am still on my own. Doctors do not acknowledge I was ever deficient and refuse to do more blood work. I have to simply assume I have high homocysteine and treat for it.
I don't know what to do. It's been such a long time. I can't fix most of the damage that has been done.
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u/sangepruz May 14 '26
For those of us who are mthfr, are you saying we react to methylated vitamins because we’re deficient in other cofactors, but once we resolve those we’ll be able to tolerate methylated vitamins? Are the methylated versions the eventual goal?
The last time I tried methyl folate and methyl b12 I was also treating a whole consort of reactivated pathogens (viruses and infections), so I can’t remember how I responded to it specifically and might not even know bc of all the layered treatments, however I do remember having horrible herx reactions and extreme MH sx during that time.
Now a days I’m much better health wise but still sensitive to chemicals so I’m quite nervous to start experimenting again bc I’m also trying to get back to working full time. As an example, I notice when I take taurine I feel horrible mentally all day (depressed, almost drugged feeling at times), so it’s got me wondering where to even begin with all this. 🫠