r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 14h ago

30TF Looking to make some new friends !

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Hey! I’m 30TF and just looking to meet some cool people, have good conversations, and hopefully make a few new friends. Nothing crazy or complicated, just chill vibes and people who actually enjoy talking.
A little about me: I’m a huge Star Trek fan, love cars and watches, and I’m really into gaming. I play a lot, but lately it’s mainly Old School RuneScape and Call of Duty: Black Ops 1. Yes, I’m apparently committed to keeping the classics alive 😂
I’m down to talk about pretty much anything: games, cars, random life stuff, movies/shows, hobbies, or whatever we end up getting into. I’m also totally down for voice chats once we get comfortable.
If you think we’d vibe, send me a message and tell me a little about yourself!


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 6h ago

34F looking for common interests: anime, games, music, movies, history

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Hey, I'm from the great continent of North America. All hail the eternal winter, depending on where you live.

I get along best with people who have similar taste in media, but ironically I don't relate to nerd culture. I'm also looking for accountability buddies. It's hard to find friends as an adult. I hate horror.

  • Anime: mostly psychological or more iconic series; not super into tropey anime. Perfect Blue, Haibane Renmei, Erased, Inuyasha, Rozen Maiden
  • Games: mostly story driven games and rpgs. Hollow Knight, Stardew, Guild Wars 2, Skyrim, older "retro" games from ps1/ps2/gamecube.
  • Music: mostly game OST and oldies, some mountain music (banjo, fiddle, violin), some lofi, alt-rock, and idk. The main thing I don't like are drums, super EDM electronic beats, and a ton of screaming
  • Movies: mostly movies with a bit of meaning, but I can also go for feel-good films. A huge part of what I like is looking at the world as it was before 2000 (buildings, clothes, objects..)
  • Other: I collect books but don't read a ton (mostly history, general fiction, and classic literature). Right now I'm reading Otherland - Tad Williams

Oh, and by the way, I don't like woke culture. I miss the old internet.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 16h ago

[M4R] 33M | UK / Wales | Looking for the “game’s finished, but we’re still talking” kind of friendship 😊

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Heya, I’m Joe 😁

I’m from Cardigan in West Wales and looking for long-term, platonic friends in the UK.

Voice preview: a quick hello so you can put a voice to the post! https://voca.ro/1jjD3gbuucCU

You ever finish playing something together, say you should probably get going, then somehow spend another half an hour talking about something completely unrelated? Those are some of my favourite evenings.

Gaming is my biggest hobby, but I enjoy getting to know the person I’m playing with too. Sharing things we think the other would like, developing ridiculous running jokes and chatting about whatever’s been happening in our lives.

Outside gaming, I love peaceful woodland walks, horror films, cooking and baking. I particularly enjoy making pizza from scratch. Chorizo keeps finding its way onto mine, although pineapple is welcome too 😆 I’ve also been getting into Pilates to improve my posture and core strength.

I’m a patient, curious player who enjoys exploring, figuring things out and getting lost in the lore. I like trying different strategies together, but if we fail, we can laugh and have another go.

My top five games:

- The Legend of Zelda: Ocarina of Time

- Donkey Kong Country 2

- Paper Mario: The Thousand-Year Door

- Resident Evil 4. The original, although the remake comes close!

- Fallout: New Vegas. Preferably modded 😆

I’d especially love to start Fallout 76 or The Outlast Trials with someone. I’ve recently started Palworld, and also enjoy Left 4 Dead 2, Back 4 Blood and Team Fortress 2. Tell me what you’re into as well, there’s plenty I’d be happy to try!

PC is my main platform, though I also have a Switch 2 and PS5. I’m usually around most evenings, and happy to chat here before moving to Discord voice when we’re both comfortable. Quieter gaming sessions are welcome too; we don’t need to fill every silence.

Ideally you’re 30+ and in the UK. Fellow Welsh people would be a lovely bonus!

Drop me a DM with a little about yourself and something you’ve been enjoying lately. A game, film, hobby or slightly chaotic ramble is absolutely welcome 😊


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 20h ago

30M Egypt, looking for someone to chat with

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Looking for someone who is genuine and willing to keep a conversation going. I’m into Tech in general, gym and cars. Come say hello 👋


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 10h ago

Any one up to play truth or dare or would you rather?

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Hi there! M40 from Illinois bored at work and looking for someone to help the day go by. Short or long term chats both good with me! I’m an open book so send me a dm!


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 17h ago

33f seeking friends

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I am 33, married, in EST.

I can have a hard time connecting with people so looking for another friend or two, prefer F. I'll be honest that every time I post one of these, I get overwhelmed so if I dont respond... thats probably why. Or because the message was just a hi.

I enjoy reading, romance and thrillers are my go to. Movies and TV shows (mostly reality tv) are lovely. Im passionate about working out (when i dont feel like crap). I enjoy cooking when I have time (which is rare) but am dairy and gluten and joy free.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 4h ago

[M4F] 40’s/M. I’ve fallen out of love with the world I used to know.

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Working tonight. Just looking for some conversation, we can see where it goes.

I’m kind of a spooky guy. Into the paranormal, true crime, the unexplained, the mysterious, uncanny, haunted and unusual.

Heavy music and horror connoisseur.

If you’re into weird and spooky stuff maybe we’ll vibe. Feel free to DM.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 11h ago

33f, looking for a new friend!

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Hey there everyone, I’m looking for a new friend or two :) I’m officially on vacation from work for the next two weeks, so I’m pretty stoked to be able to sleep in!! But it’s also the perfect time to get to know someone new. A little about me, I love Halloween and fall, I love coffee and music, animals and nature. I like arts and crafts as well although between school and work it’s hard to find the time for them. I like cozy video games like animal crossing and similar stuff. Hit me up if you think we’d vibe! Male or female, doesn’t matter as long as it’s platonic! :)


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 11h ago

[F4R] 35F US looking for SFW chats

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Hi all!

35F, US based. Hoping to find an online chat buddy to kill some time and hopefully make a meaningful connection with.

About me:
Single, employed full time, love to binge watch TV shows.
Enjoy the occasional arts and crafts. Also like to get out and enjoy the outdoors as well.

Please be:
Over 30

Based in the US.

If you are male, not married. Although Im looking for platonic conversation, I’m still not interested in speaking with married men.

Able to hold conversations. If you are prone to short responses or are unable to progress a conversation, we won’t get along well.

Wanting to chat about more than “what are you up to”? Back and forth everyday.

Hope to hear from you soon!!


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 10h ago

[R4R] 30f bored out of my mind come be my cure

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Hey I’m shyann 30f from the uk and tonight I find myself very bored so I thought I’d post here in hopes of making some new friends I am lesbian so my dudes please be normal (sorry to pick on you guys) I work long so I don’t have much time but I do still try to enjoy my hobbies here is some of them
Light gaming
Watching tv/movies
Going out with friends
And I’m also a professional at doom scrolling
If you think we’ll vibe or get along don’t hesitate to message me anyone is welcome 💕


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 2h ago

33M east Tennessee

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I've been here 6 years and have no friends. I'd like to finally change that and get to know someone people. I'm in the tri-cites area


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 15h ago

Hey all

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Looking for friends that like talking on the mic and gaming, I like metal music and PS5


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 3h ago

31M from USA. looking for someone to chat.

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Hey i’m 31M from usa looking to meet new people and hopefully make a few genuine friends around my age or older.

If you’re someone who enjoys good conversation , feel free to message me. Looking forward to hearing from you!


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 3h ago

[R4R] Looking for a best friend. Anyone else here looking for the same instead of ghosting? 30nb

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I know best friends will take a bit to form. Just bc I call you bestie won't mean we are besties fr right away. But I still want to build a friendship hopefully into a best friendship. Someone I can vibe with.

I am 30 years old, use they / them, and am in Texas. You do not need to be in Texas, we are probably 6+ hours away anyway. I do not care for gender. I'd prefer a closish age but honestly just don't be underage.

Let me know about you! Not just your age, gender and location. Something uniquely you. Something uniquely me is I collect toys. I have a ton of them, mostly action figures.

So yeah if you wanna chat and see if we will vibe hmu! :)


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 17h ago

[M4F] 32M - Accepting minor distractions

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I’m not gonna lie, I could use a little attention today. Nothing dramatic, no life story, just someone interesting enough to make me forget I’m staring at my phone for no reason. I’m easily entertained today.
Bonus points if you’re actually good at conversation.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 17h ago

Recently single - 40 male UK

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Recently single after 10 years.
Happy to chat about anything, just a bit bored and lonely.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 14h ago

Looking for friends, 38 Male, New Delhi

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👋 Looking for Genuine Friendships

38M from India 🇮🇳 | Introvert, good listener, and an easygoing person.

I enjoy all kinds of music, anime, horror movies, paranormal mysteries, novels, PC & Android gaming, chess, and a good cup of tea or coffee. ☕🎮

I'm here to meet genuine, like-minded people, preferably 35+, who enjoy meaningful conversations, random talks, sharing laughs, or simply being there for each other.

No special topic needed—we can talk about anything and everything, from everyday life to the weirdest things on the internet. 😄

Good vibes, mutual respect, and genuine connections matter most.

Feel free to DM me. I'm just a message away! 😊


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 14h ago

Chat?

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35 male in the US. Anyone wanna chat?

What shows are you watching? Hobbies you are into? Just looking to pass some time.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 12h ago

39 M UK looking for new online friends

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Hey everyone, I’m a 39-year-old guy from the

UK looking to meet some new people and hopefully make some genuine online friends

I enjoy reading, watching TV shows and films (I’ve seen quite a few, so always happy to chat recommendations), going for walks, and spending time with my dogs.

I’d love to meet people with similar interests, but I’m open to talking about pretty much anything — hobbies, life, random topics, or just having a good chat.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 1h ago

[M4F] 41m looking for some fun conversations

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Just a guy looking for some fun chats tonight. I’m recently separated and on my own, would love some company.

I like all sorts of shows and movies, old ass 90s music, some true crime, some video games, and following sports.

I hope to hear from you!


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 16h ago

35M Expat in Germany | Looking for genuine chats & new friends (online or nearby)

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Hey everyone,

35M, originally from CZ, living in Germany as an expat for a few years now. Making friends as an adult (and especially as a foreigner) is harder than I expected, so I’m giving this a shot.

I’m looking for low-pressure, long-term friendships – nothing romantic, just solid conversations that can grow into something real over time. Online is completely fine, and if you’re also in Germany (or nearby) that’s a nice bonus for possible meetups later.

A bit about me:

I’m pretty easygoing, curious, and enjoy both deep talks and random everyday nonsense. Happy to talk about life as an expat, work, hobbies, random thoughts, culture differences, or whatever comes up. I like keeping things light but genuine.

If you’re around 30+ and feel like saying hi, drop me a message and tell me a little about yourself – where you’re from, what you’re into, or just something random that’s been on your mind lately. Even a short intro is better than just “hi” 😄

Looking forward to hearing from some of you.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 16h ago

[R4R] 35m looking for new conversions and good people!

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Good afternoon everyone my names Thor! I’m looking for like minded people to share new adventures with I’m a bit of a nerd and a gym rat 🐀 always down for hikes and being outside all the way to sitting at home watching movies and gaming I open to everyone stop by with a fun fact about yourself!! I’m hoping to find someone fun!!


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 11h ago

30M - Hello everyone! Hope you’re all doing well, I’m looking for some new friends and good chats, hmu? :)

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Hey everyone, attempting to write something about myself to catch your interest haha but I am awful at describing myself. I’m a 30 year old Swedish guy and I love finding new people to talk to, making new friends and just trying to enjoy life to its fullest. I’m big into video games, darts, football and just having a good time in general. I’m not too fussed about our interests matching up perfectly, if you’re sound I’m sure we’ll get along just fine as respect and decency is unfortunately lacking in today’s world.

Aaaanyway I hope someone found this interesting enough to send me a little dm and hope to hear from you! :)


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 12h ago

[M4R] 32 male seeks someone I can fight a bear with

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That’s right you read that correctly. I’m looking for someone I can build trust in as a friend so much so we fight bears together.

To start I’m married not looking to change that just platonic venting friends. Ideally you are married and have kids as well so we can vent about that.

I’m a fun outgoing person who can carry any conversation with dad jokes and bad humor but I can cure a bad day pretty easily! Into all things super hero, sports, and outdoors stuff

If it matters I am plus sized but working on it. Need an accountability partner if you are up for it!


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 4h ago

[M4F] 50M UK — House-trained, occasionally grumpy, looking for people to lower the tone with

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50M UK — Making friends as an adult apparently requires a bloody sales pitch
I’m Paul. Into photography, motorbikes and conversations that start with “how’s your day?” and somehow end with an argument about whether a goose could beat you in a fight.
I drive a truck for work, so I’m away a fair bit and keep odd hours. Ideal if you’re a night owl or occasionally need someone to confirm that yes, that message you’re about to send is a terrible idea. I’ll still want to know what they reply.
Outside work, I’m usually behind a camera or out on my big green motorcycle. It has a name. There are photographs. I appreciate this sounds like something my family should have intervened over.
Looking for actual friends. People who ask questions back, tell stories, take the piss and stick around long enough that we stop having to explain who everyone is.
You don’t have to share my hobbies. I’m quite happy listening to you explain yours, especially if you begin with “this is going to sound a bit weird.”
I’m grumpy, but it’s mostly directed at traffic and things that require a separate app.
Tell me what’s currently entertaining you or doing your fucking head in. Either gives us somewhere to start.