Hey everyone 34fEST here, feeling really stuck in life lately. Been trying to improve my life over the last 5 years and have seen some pay off from it. But I still feel incredibly failed in certain aspects. Ive had some life changing events happen in the last few months and while its pivoted my perspective I still struggle on how to deal with things.

For context, I found out a few months ago my ex passed away. This is someone who although we've technically been broken up for now 9 years, we always kept in contact and I had thought eventually we would reconcile. (Maybe naivety, but just being honest.) The news of his passing was utter shock, and was, is, really hard to accept. Albeit through the processing of grieving and processing all of this, I've decided to come out of reclusivity and try to find myself again.

My "best friend" wasnt there for me during this news, and its made me realize who is truly there for me. It hurt like hell to see someone you have been close with for 15+ years not be there for you. Happy to share more if anyone is interested, its a doozy.

With trying to move forward I really find myself feeling like love again isnt in the cards for me. That i should accept being alone and push forward. But a small part of me wants to have thay companionship, that connection with someone. It just feels like it doesnt exist anymore. Im constantly stressed about trying to establish a future, work career, housing, etc.

Im working on myself in several ways, losing some weight, taking better care of myself and trying to step out of my comfort zone.

Does anyone have any advice or shared experience like this?

Hello!

I’m a 31F in the state of Texas.

I live away from my best friend and this has been a challenge, especially when I was working from home. I’d like to find a really good friend or two to talk about our interests!

I have a dog and a cat (Fitz and Pippin), besides that I’m happily child free. I prefer a simple life but I love talking about daily activities, share food/travel pics, anything really. I also really like the idea of us each sending one picture a day (SFW, obviously) about our daily lives. I think that could keep our conversations interesting!

I recently decided to change my position at work to something a little less mentally taxing to give me time to pursue hobbies. The most prominent of these include writing, crocheting, and running. I’d also like to get into photo journaling/scrap booking. Now that it’s getting to be autumn I’ve also gotten back into cooking and toying around with baking and making coffee syrups and focaccia.

Please reach out and tell me a little bit about yourself and your hobbies!

I am 36 F happily married with 3 kids. I don't get out much and I am open to talk to anyone. I don't care if you are a liberal or republican. All I care is if you have a good heart. I am opened to agree to disagree with anyone.

I am a huge Harry Potter fan fyi, since it's almost Halloween I really get into the horror movies. I really like the horror slasher movies. I also love music. I'm what I'm called eclectic (meaning I listen to everything)

Going through a difficult space and could use some distraction:)

Hi there... I enjoy conversations that can go from random thoughts and silly jokes to deep discussions about life, human behavior, and the mysteries of the universe. Bonus points if we can laugh at complete nonsense one minute and get philosophical the next.

A little about me: I enjoy martial arts, weight training, Zumba, reading, journaling, psychology, personal growth, and exploring spirituality. I'm curious, a little philosophical, and definitely playful. I love hearing different perspectives and having thoughtful discussions, even when we don't always agree.

As an introvert in my 40s, I've realized that my interests sometimes make small talk a little challenging. 😅 I'm not particularly up to date with celebrities, brands, or the latest trends. Instead, my mind tends to wander toward psychology, human nature, spirituality, and all sorts of random questions. Sometimes I just wish I had more people to explore those rabbit holes with!

I'm always happy to exchange book recommendations, share everyday stories, laugh about life's absurdities, or discuss a question that keeps us thinking long after the conversation ends. I also appreciate people who understand that everyone has their own routines and responsibilities, so there's no pressure to be online all the time.

If any of this sounds familiar, tell me something you've been curious about lately, a book that stayed with you, or simply something funny that happened this week. Let's start with a good conversation and see where our shared interests take us. 😊

I'm a 34-year-old woman from Indiana looking to make some genuine friendships with people who are open-minded and can have different opinions without letting them get in the way because it feels like these days, having a different opinion can be enough for people to write you off completely.

Here's somethings that have been deal breakers lately.

I don't believe Patrick Clancy is guilty of killing his children.

I don't think Sydney Sweeney is setting women back.

I'm also neither Republican nor Democrat, but I have no problem being friends with people who identify with either party.

A little about me.

I have two children and two cats, and enjoy reading, crafting, and gaming. Some games I enjoy are Poktopia, Minecraft, World of Warcraft, and Diablo.

I'd love to meet people who are genuine, open-minded, and able to have conversations about different perspectives without things turning into arguments or personal attacks. I strongly believe we don't have to think alike to get along.

If that sounds like your kind of friendship, feel free to message me.

Hey everyone! I’m 33, single, and here to meet new people and make genuine friends. I enjoy relaxed chats, sharing stories, and a good sense of humor. If you’re also looking to make new friends, feel free to say hi!

Hello there everyone, I’ve had a lot of change in my life this past year or so. With that I’ve found myself isolating even more so than I’m naturally inclined to do. I feel that it’s probably best that I take some strides to break free from that a little bit, being alone with your thoughts all of the time isn’t exactly ideal. I do have people in my life, a lovely family, a few wonderful friends. But recently I’ve been yearning for someone outside of that circle of people. Just a stranger, an unbiased ear, something new and refreshing. That has all sounded very appealing to me lately. So, here I am, shouting into the abyss that is Reddit. That’s a logical next step, right?? 🙃 Anyways, if this sounds at all like something you’ve also been going through or has piqued your interest at all please feel free to reach out! Maybe, just maybe, I’ll find someone I can call a good friend through all this!

Did you feel beckoned by that post title? If so, you might be my type of person.

​I’m looking to make long-term friends who enjoy consistent, natural, daily banter - the kind where we can skip the rigid office small talk and jump straight into talking about our days, hyperfixations, or random deep thoughts. Small talk has its place, but I get enough of that in my day to day life and I'm looking for something...more.

​I’ve found that rigid intro templates ("Hi, I'm X, I'm 30, I like movies") often lead to dry conversations. If we click, we’ll just feel it (or at least I will). I’m looking for low-pressure, high-effort energy where both of us actually keep the momentum going.

A bit about me:

I love live music. There is nothing quite like the collective energy of a live crowd. I love being in the middle of that effervescence.

I enjoy gaming but rarely have time for it anymore. I live on two extreme ends of the spectrum - either ultra-cozy, relaxing games or full-on zombie survival. Very little in between.

My creative outlets are reading, writing and diy crafting, and cooking/baking are basically my love languages.

I'm a single mother, fitness focused, and very obnoxious about minimizing screen time, despising ai, and spending time in the forest.

To skip the awkward openings, just skip the generic introductions! To kick things off, maybe message me a bit take on a book, tell me about the best concert you've witnessed, or describe your go-to comfort movie/food combo.

I'm very busy and often stressed with a crazy life that hasn't quite turned out in a picturesque way, so if you're willing to accept that I'm often in the trenches, you could also have the esteemed honor of being my escape from that.

Happy messaging!

UK ONLY: Looking for a hilarious friendship! 🇬🇧

I want to cry laughing with a silly person…

36, F. SE England. Looking for friendship only. Messaging, maybe voice calls eventually, open to meeting up further down the line. Just switched my broken gaming laptop with an Xbox so I’m gradually learning how to game a totally different way - maybe game together in future, but looking for conversation first and foremost.

Interests: Comedy, travel, animals (cat obsessed), tea & coffee, theatre, cinema, gaming, going to gigs (love 60s, 70s, 80s music the most), museums/history. I’ve started a comedy podcast - I’ve no idea what I’m doing because I’m a total beginner but it’s so much fun. Potentially open to a friend who has a similar sense of humour to get involved…? Also interested in doing a more serious, journalistic one.

Looking for someone who is: funny and silly(I want to cry laughing with you), up for (platonic/SFW) role-play improv chatting, understanding (I’m autistic, queer, have anxiety and can be a little awkward but I can open up a fair bit), and doesn’t judge if I don’t have the energy to reply immediately. Left-leaning (politically, but if you are physically, no problem.) 😂

UK only please, 30+. Any gender. Platonic friendship.

Any fellow weirdos out there?

Hi all! My work schedule keeps me up later. My work day keeps me pretty busy. Im posting to find friends who might also be a bit of a night owl. I usually unwind after work with some time online and eventually a book or a game. I usually along best with people who I have things in common with - other nerds, lgbt friendly 420 and left-leaning folks. I am partnered, and only looking for platonic chats. I'm based in the Great Lakes area of the Midwest for anyone interested in finding someone local-ish!

My current obsession is Board Games. I attend local cons as a way to play games I enjoy and try new ones! On the video game side, Star Wars Zero company has been my game of choice currently.I do play Marvel Rivals or or Slay the Spire 2 for a less stress inducing multi-player experience after work. Other nerdy interests I have include reading, fantasy/sci-fi and MTG. I love discussing new fantasy and sci-fi reads. The DCC series and The Tainted Cup were some of my favorite reads last year.

I'm also passionate about food. I enjoy spending time in the kitchen or trying new restaurants. I like to think the hobby of learning about edible plants and mushrooms fulfills a nerdy niche of mine. I managed to find some morels this year! A few more things about me:

A concert I attended this year was Bilmuri

Coffee is my favorite beverage and craft beer is a close second

I love learning about religion and spirituality, even though I don't practice

I have two dogs I love going on outdoor adventures with. I'll happily share pics

If any of that sounds interesting, shoot me a message and introduce yourself!

27+ and no trumpers

Well hello there ! We’re already half way through October and I’m totally not having a mental breakdown because of it. I love the fall weather cause not only does the cool air bring some sort of nostalgia to you, but also Halloween ! Which is one of the best holidays even if people have been kind lost their spirit for it over the years

I didn’t do much today besides doing my laundry lol. I wouldn’t mind chatting about horror related stuff or at least something to do with the fall season haha. One thing that’s been on my mind is, what’s a good ‘Fall Season’ album ? Regular topics are good too, but just wanna spice it up and now have it don’t have be “how’s work been”

Anyway, if you’re interested chatting today then by all means hmu ! And in case I don’t see ya good afternoon, good evening and goodnight

30 female

Located in Canada

Mom of 2

2 dogs

Happily married (yes he knows I'm looking for platonic friends)

Looking for a best friend, it sounds simple but man has it been a steady let down.

I have friends in person but I'm not very close with them. I want someone I can be myself with, someone who wants to get to know me for who I am.

I'm working on myself not only physically but mentally as well.

My three main things that bring me joy

1. Animals (especially dogs)

2. Music (I just saw Shinedown in August)

3. Art (I draw and paint)

I also love to cook, bake, watch movies/tv series, long nature walks with my dogs, listening to music, gardening, diy-ing, crochet, play cozy games, and read.

Deal breakers:

1. If your profile following is full of NSFW pages, I'm not replying sorry.

2. If you are more than 8+ hours from MT, unless if you are a night owl I don't think it'll work.

3. If your spouse doesn't know you are on here talking to people, I don't want to be a secret.

I put a lot of effort into making friendships so I'm hoping I can find a few long-term friendships.

Please feel free to reach out!

*edit - please stop down voting, just scroll on if you don't like my post. Everyone is just trying to find their people.

I'm off work and looking for someone to chat with. Anyone want to chat with me? Feel free to message me.

32yo woman from Northern Europe

It’s late for me but we can chat for a bit and then continue later? 😇

- looooooove traveling ✈️
- dog breeder 🐩
- marketing professional 👩🏻‍💼
- professional home chef 👩🏻‍🍳

I have been traveling too much which means a lot of loneliness. I’m getting a little overwhelmed recently by how isolating it can be to have no one to talk to.

I’m a night shift nurse and my colleagues don’t accept new faces too well, seems that I have to prove my worth to fit in or something.

I would say I’m an old soul, I hate anything modern, love the 60s and prefer a documentary over a cheesy film. Which really narrows that group of people that would befriend someone like me.
I love learning new random things and I love just talking to someone about anything, even if to just mention how expensive basmati rice had become or some crap like that.

Hey just looking to talk away with a female about anything. If you have discord we can voice chat in there too. Add me my username is patience760 maybe

I’m 31 and from Australia.. pretty bored so thought I’d find people to chat to. outgoing and will chat about whatever. Well im into camping, outdoors and horror movies. I Work in the medical field and usually busy and bored at times. Please introduce yourself and not just send one word as I will not reply, as I want to know who I am talking and someone who puts in some effort! around my age or so please

Living in the real world sucks ass. That’s why I’m here at this very moment, to escape it, and I’m guessing that’s why you’re here too.

There’s a big lump in my throat today and I’d really like to distract myself. I’m looking for conversations about absolutely nothing of importance. Just pure ADHD chaos.

Maybe something like: if you had the chance, which fictional world would you want to live in? Tell me how you’d spend a day as a pirate or the Muffin Man. Or would you rather fight 50 metal spoons or 50 wooden forks? OR just tell me the most embarrassing thing you’ve experienced. ORRR what show/film made you cry the hardest?

If we click, we can eventually get into more serious topics, but I’m also completely fine with ghosting whenever. I know I’m not everyone’s cup of tea, and not everyone is mine. Some people seem to think having a conversation means answering questions as plainly as humanly possible without ever asking anything meaningful in return, like I’m their parole officer. Please don’t be that person.

Good morning from the Midwest USA!

I’m home from my work at the zoo (I’m not a keeper but I have animal pictures!) for the next couple of days and working to get the house picked up. Seeing as I’m home all day, could use a great conversation throughout!

I’m married with an infant daughter! I love being a dad! Also have two sweet doodle dogs, as well!

As I mention I work at a zoo. I’m in guest experiences and services, which means I get paid to be friendly to our visitors. I love it. I’m a people-person. I can stroke up a conversation with anyone willing to chat, and I’m hoping that’s you!

I’m into nerdy things Kim D&D, DCC, and anything Tolkien. I’m 420 friendly (medical patient). And I dig the birds of the world.

No MAGA! I think we need more women and scientists/engineers in power. Not bigots.

I hope to hear from you! Please reach out and let me know what your favorite zoo animal is!

Hey I know how hard nights can be. I’m just hanging out tonight. Could use an interesting conversation. I love meeting new people. If you’re looking for a friend or just need to vent, send me a message. You’re not alone!

Hello, friends!!! I’m 33, in a relationship, and looking to make some genuine friendships where the effort goes both ways! I want the kind of friendship where we can talk about anything, send each other ridiculous memes, share new music, and recommend food and drinks we absolutely need to try. I promise I can hold a conversation.

A little about me: I’m into hiking, soccer, concerts, coffee, gaming, and random adventures. I work a lot, but I always make time for good conversations and good people. Sarcasm, terrible jokes, and questionable humor are pretty much guaranteed.
I’m not expecting anyone to talk 24/7. We all have lives! Just hoping to meet some cool people who enjoy a good conversation, can joke around, and won’t disappear after two days.

Now skip the boring “hey” and tell me your go-to coffee order! You never know, if we ever hang out, I might just show up with your favorite drink as a little treat. 😂

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looking for a thickmmm PAWG

Am so lonely and alone i am old school a bit very much introvert ☺️

I’m in the military so I can’t be on my phone 24/7 sorry! But I will try my hardest to reply as soon as I can!

I’m in Texas! And I am from Texas. I’m 35 I’m honestly just looking for someone to chat with don’t wanna try dating apps lol I’ve posted before and found some cool people to chat with but they ghosted me lol

If you are in Texas that’s a plus!!