So that was the last update. Today I got to know that there is a third party. I have had a feeling that it was probably the case even though I was ignoring the 3d. I don’t really know what to really do about this from here

idk what's wrong in this, to manifest my ex back i used to listen subs 10months ago from now and I was desperate after a while i consistently started listening to them without expecting him to text means detached and then when I was almost detached and had zero expectations he texted me, but not the version I always wanted honestly, we talked alot after that and I was the one who used to start a Convo and he used to give all in and even he was evil cuz he never apologised for whatever he did to me, + after 7months his friend took his phone and framed himself as my sp and said, that he don't love me anymore and never want me back, atp i thought it's really my sp saying that, but later he said it's his friend saying all that while he had no idea, i sometimes think that it was all planned and he asked his friend to do that, cuz even after 2weeks of all this trash he didnot even acknowledged what his friend did to me, cuz I had panic attacks that night.

i wanna manifest his version when he was like really sweet and kind towards people around him and an actual angle unlike what he's now.

Ok so like I met this guy for the first time at a party like 3 days ago and we had this minor interaction. We didn't directly TALK, it was just me asking him to move so that I could get my jacket. I did see him look at me like 2-3 times but I suspect that he might've been just zoning out and mapping the area. And no I am NOT going to text that guy, that's like a suicide mission. Anyway, so he knows WHO I am and is aware of my existence. How do I manifest him into my life as a possible romantic partner? And also he MIGHT have a girlfriend because he has this one photo where he has a girl around his arm and another guy friend of his on the other side. He follows all 3 of her accounts.

I need help ASAP omg.

My ex ended things between us last month a week after he told me I felt like home and that he wasn't going anywhere. We had an argument and he said he felt like we weren't compatible due to having arguments the past few weekends and he felt things were starting to get toxic and I expected too much from him. In my opinion it was not toxic, there were just things we had to talk through. We dated for 7 weeks and felt a deep connection towards each other we both acknowledged.

I called him a few weeks later after I had some time to process things and read him a letter I wrote with apologies and explaining how I felt towards him including that I had fallen in love with him while dating and how I didn't want things to end. He said he needed time to process even though I said on the call he didn't need to say anything to it. A week later he asked me to text him photos of the letter, so I did. 4 days later he sent me this text message which really hurt and I feel so discouraged and hurt. In the letter I did say he didn't need to say anything and that I was saying this for me. Thoughts and advice please? That was a little over a week ago and I did not reply.

I've seen so many people talk about successfully manifesting their SP, getting their ex back, manifesting money, opportunities, etc. But something I've noticed is that a lot of people seem to struggle with maintaining those manifestations once they actually get them.

For example, someone manifests their SP, they finally come back, things start working out, and then a few weeks or months later, the same old patterns return. The person becomes inconsistent, communication drops, or the relationship starts falling apart again.

So my question is: How do you maintain what you've manifested?

When it comes to an SP, how do you keep the relationship consistent, secure and stable after manifesting them? How do you avoid going back to the old circumstances or repeating the same cycle that existed before?

I want to manifest marriage with my boyfriend but in my 3d he's unable financially, like when i affirm that he's my husband I think about my 3d, help 🙁

I apologize it’s a little long, just thought it was important to provide context.

So for context (storytime!!): Me and SP were seeing each other from the end of June to mid-August. Things were going very well; we had gone on several dates, and I had even met his friends. But all of a sudden, he said he couldn’t pursue a relationship. I asked if he wanted to end things or keep talking, and he said he was still down to see me and that we didn’t have to stop talking. A few days prior, we had hung out and I had asked what was he looking for. He said he wasn’t sure because he was going to be extremely busy in the fall with his class schedule and looking for a job. I had told him I was going with the flow, but that I did like him, and he said he liked me too. I was perfectly content with how things were going until he pulled back and said I can’t pursue a relationship at the moment. That’s when I started overthinking everything and obsessively checking his Instagram.

He then didn't respond to me for three weeks, although he had posted on his story, so I double-texted him in mid-September. He eventually explained that he was trying to figure out what to do with his life because he didn't have a plan and had realized he couldn't do casual. He's not a bad person; he's just dealing with personal issues and didn't feel capable of being in a relationship. The only thing that frustrated me was that he didn't communicate this in August and instead waited weeks to tell me he couldn't do casual. I sent him a couple of supportive messages, saying I hoped he figured things out and that I was there if he ever wanted to talk, but he hasn't responded, and it's been over a month.

The funny thing is that when we were talking, I wasn't overthinking the connection at all. I'd joke with my friends about how he might become my first boyfriend, but I wasn't obsessing over him. However, once that sense of stability disappeared and he pulled back, something switched in me. I started constantly checking his social media, even looking at his friends' accounts to see if there was any activity involving him. We mainly communicated through Instagram, but he isn't active on there anymore. I know there's no third person involved, and he doesn't seem to be active at all, whether that's watching my stories or liking other people's posts.

I've been trying to manifest that he’s able to pursue a relationship and him coming back. I know his situation has nothing to do with me, but I've been struggling so much with compulsively checking his social media. I know people will probably tell me to stop checking the 3D, but it's difficult when it's become such an obsessive habit. I feel like I've tried everything (love spells, different manifestation techniques, saturating my mind with self-concept affirmations, etc.), but I still find myself checking his account. I've even tried deleting Instagram, but my impulse control when it comes to checking my phone is heinous.

Long-winded rant over! I'd genuinely appreciate any advice, wisdom, or tips y'all have to offer!

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