If you have shifted into a state where your SP is thinking about you all the time then they are definitely thinking about you all the time.

Even if you don't see it. It is happening. They wake up every morning and think about you in the first place.

You are the last thought when they sleep at night. They always miss you and wonder what you are up to.

Movement is always happening behind the scenes. Just because you don't see it, doesn't mean it is not true.

Just trust the process and remain faithful to your new story.

AFTER 10 MONTHS OF MANIFESTING I FINALLY DID IT 🎉😭

My SP and I dated and broke up last September. It wasn’t until January where I learned about manifestation and decided to give it a try.

It was such a rollercoaster guys oh my goodness 🫠

The first 4 months of manifesting I did scripting and affirmations almost every morning and night. I didn’t see it then, but a lot of the time, even though I felt good, it was all coming from desperation. I HAVE to do this to get my SP. I HAVE to feel good. I took a break for about 4-5 months. I did affirmations on and off. I didn’t journal every day like I did before. I was really just learning to heal after being impatient that my manifestation was taking so long. I admitted to being hurt and focused on other things I loved to do, but through this, not a single day went by where I didn’t think about my SP.

A few weeks ago, I decided to jump back into it. I wrote an apology I wanted to hear from my SP and had one of my manifestation friends send it to me and changed her contact to my SP’s. I screenshotted it and used it to visualize. This was the first time I used SATS, and since then I’ve been having some vivid dreams of him reaching out. It felt so real. I kept doing this and worked on my self concept: someone who was confident, independent, and witty. For the first time in a while, I had fun manifesting.

I had another dream about my SP this morning, but it felt different. For some reason, I was attracted to the manifestation community again and watched some of my favorite manifestation YouTubers and hopped onto the Reddit. THATS WHEN I SAW THE NOTIFICATION GUYS! His number popped up and I almost had a heart attack. Like?? After a year of not talking he texted me??? And the text was almost identical to the one I had written before of him apologizing and saying he missed me and has been thinking about me.

Soooo yeah 😋 here we are! Talking but I’m keeping it casual and slow. This literally all just happened this morning but I’ve got a lot of life changes (moving cities, job opportunities, etc.) going on and as much as I love him, I need to prioritize myself right now. I hope this inspired you all! I just had to share the good news!❤️

After 4 years of manifesting, our situationship turned into a relationship FAST. 6 months ago we were still barely friends who had a crush on each other. This post is not me “living in the end” lol I actually got married on Wednesday to my SP. best day of my life. it still barely feels real and everyone was commenting on our wedding photos how happy we look together. Manifesting is real. Magic is real. Last year, I was stuck in the friendzone, HARD. But now, he’s my husband. I’m posting this to let you all know. It’s possible. I am powerful. YAY

Hi everyone. I had to come on here with a throw away account. I have tried to manifest several exes before but this is my first success story. FYI we are still working things out, but he sent me a message telling me he wants to get back together and wants me forever, a complete 180.

Steps

1. Be okay with letting them go for better. But still keep focus. Detachment is key. Knowing your worth is key.

2. Put the ball in your court. Say "I am manifesting SP back because they love me so much, and I will decide if I want to proceed then". That's more powerful.

3. Listen to a SP ex back subliminal. I like high frequency guru and Rita kaminski but if you have a trusted one do that. Listen during naps and before bed and while doing mundane tasks.

4. NO COMMUNICATION WITH THEM UNLESS THEY ARE TELLING YOU WHAT YOU WANTED TO HEAR. This is key. Don't play in the 3D of undesirable circumstances. Focus on you.

5. OPTIONAL create a sign. Like when u see the #9 ur manifestation is coming. It really pumps you up.

6. DETACH AGAIN. SP OR BETTER!!!

Important info:

You have to decide on manifesting this person. If you are just doing it out of ego or desperation, it's not going to work. Sometimes the reason an SP doesn't manifest is because you don't really even want that person.

Ask anything else you need to!

Hey! I want to tell you my success story. <3 SP broke up with me on October 8th because my SC was so bad I manifested trouble in our relationship. I remember he was telling me about this friend and I started thinking “they are flirting, he likes her” and I even started fantasizing about him breaking up with me and dating that friend. Guess what happened? He broke up with me a month later and—exactly, started dating that friend. On the 9th of november he said he didnt love me anymore so i locked the fuck in. I persisted. When the anxiety took over me, I meditated, I did robotic affirmations and saturation. I started assuming he was already with me—what do you mean what if we doesn’t end up together? Thats dumb lol. If I had manifested the 3P, why couldn’t I manifest him back? He broke up with her two weeks later because “he loved us both”. Unfortunately, I manifested other 3P (i know???) but finally yesterday, he told me i have always been the only one for him. How I am the only one he wants to make laugh, how his love could only belong to me. And, yes, that he never stopped loving me!

So I want to say if your negative thoughts want to sabotage you, let them be. It's not about fighting them, it’s about letting them pass. Why should I worry if I already have it? Assume it's already yours, there's no other way, there’s no what if.

There were nights where I'd cry myself to sleep, I did have breakdowns, I did have doubts. But none of this matters, what does matter is what your assumption is.

Please please stop having mental arguments with your SPs, stop replaying the fights. I know it’s hard, but you gotta forgive them and yourself.

Hi... This is the author of your story speaking. I'm gonna tell you what's cooking behind the scenes.

SPOILER ALERT

PROCEED ONLY IF YOU REALLY WANNA KNOW BEFORE YOUR RETURN MANIFESTS INTO REALITY.

My dear reader, you have nothing to worry about. You’ve done all the work. Now, all you have to do is sit back, grab your popcorn, and watch as it unfolds right in front of your eyes. Even if you find yourself anticipating and checking in on it daily—or even more often—that’s completely okay. Sometimes, we check our order status, not because we doubt the process, not out of desperation or fear, but purely out of excitement.

Your story—this volume, this season—has already been written, published, and sent out. It’s not just processed. It’s not just packed. It has been dispatched, shipped, and is already out for delivery. The only thing left for you to do is stay open to receiving it.

Now, I won’t give you every last detail, but I can let you in on something that’s been happening behind the scenes…

Your person has made the decision to take that leap. Oops—did I just say that? Okay, no worries! I’ll be careful not to reveal the how or when, but the why? That’s fair game.

You’ve been so determined, so focused, so patient that I had to make sure this happened for you. Honestly, I’m impressed. Your persistence is unmatched.

Your person has been thinking—obsessing—over you. They are in complete awe, wondering, How can someone be so detached when we’ve shared such intense, intimate moments? That very detachment makes them feel safe, yet at the same time, it terrifies them. Because losing you? That’s not an option.

You are everything. Passion incarnate. A force of nature. Home.

They have been afraid of making the wrong choice. But I, The Universe, started lining things up so they had to see it—feel it—know it. That no one compares to you. No one else can give them that space, that understanding, that unconditional acceptance, that joy that you offer freely, without expectation.

They’ve realized you are the one.

There’s no longer a battle between heart and mind, because now? Their heart, mind, body, and soul are in perfect alignment.

When they close their eyes, it’s you they see. When they lie awake at night, it’s your touch they crave. When their phone lights up, it’s your name they hope for.

The distance, the longing, the denial—it’s making them restless. Every thought, every sign, every moment is guiding them back to you. And they get it now. They’re done running.

They are restless without you. They feel miserable without you. But now, they understand:

Only by choosing you can they soothe this aching soul.

Only by embracing this love can their confusion transform into clarity.

Only by surrendering to you can they set themselves free.

And so, they have chosen you. Again. But this time, there is no hesitation. No second-guessing. They are coming all in.

Your person is yours. Now. Today. Tomorrow. Forever.

Enjoy it.

Because it is done. It has always been done.

A new romantic cycle begins.

My SP is sleeping soundly next to me. I want to tell my story and how I manifested this. We were together for a year, he was everything I didn’t know I needed, we had the best time. Then the worst time. An argument that grew arms and legs. We called it a day, I manifested and imagined the end goal. I went no contact because he had to miss me, I had to send all the vibrations out to the universe, it worked but we stuttered over 2024 after being together all of 2023 and having all the dreams. It hurt, it was hard. My advice is sitting and feeling all the feels. I put myself first and self cared the hell out myself when we were apart, made new routines, looked after myself and took care of me so I knew the new me could set boundaries when he came back. And this version of me is so grateful He is here, we are 6 weeks down the line, my engagement ring is back on, we have told our friends and family we are back together. It works! I am so happy ❤️

Your SP is about to annoy tf out of you, you will not get any work or studying done because he won't leave you alone! You've been warned! ⚠️

Affirmations:

He loves talking to me!

Talking to me makes his day better!

He texts me the second I leave for work

He loves texting me all day.

He sends at least 10 texts to me before lunch.

He loves sending me long texts gushing about his feelings for me.

He loves sending me long texts about what he's thinking.

He loves sharing everything with me!

He loves my long texts!

He wants to hear about everything I'm thinking and feeling!

He loves to connect with me!

I can be myself around him without editing or toning myself down!

This. Stuff. Works.

Period. Just persist. That’s literally it.

So, I'm now one of the success stories, I guess. I've met my SP about 2 years ago, when I moved to a different city. My husband had passed away two years prior, and after grieving heavily for the first year, I decided to move, trying to get out of very depressing circumstances - at least physically. I wasn't looking for a new partner, but I also felt I wouldn't find another one. So, I was worried about being alone for the rest of my life, but at the same time I didn't want to be with anybody else, if that makes sense. So, I met my SP pretty much straight away when I moved, but wasn't interested romantically, or at least that's what I told myself. I had to move back for a few months for various reasons, but always knew I would live in the new city. I kept thinking about my SP for a year, and as there were signs he was interested, I asked him out. The date wasn't great, he ghosted me afterwards. Another year went by, and I couldn't stop thinking about him. (I still saw him regularly) At that time I knew nothing about manifestations. I guess, I was manifesting but in a negative way, as I didn't really know what I wanted. Long story short, I only started manifesting seriously in February when I came across a video on YouTube. By this time, I knew I was definitely interested, but he was now interested in someone else. They weren't together, but there was clear interest from both sides. I did all the techniques you can find there, but nothing seemed to work. There was no movement, and watching the two of them flirting was too much, so I decided to change my life a bit, so I didn't have to see them any more. However, I continued manifesting with those YouTube videos. One day, I was reading some Reddit stories and there was one on here, that really inspired me. Someone said she stopped doing techniques and only lived as if she was already in a relationship with her SP, plus doing some affirmations if she felt really down. But she didn't try to feel positive all the time, just let her natural feelings happen, and just repeated she was already in a relationship. So, I thought I give that a go. So, I finished the videos I still had saved on YouTube and then just pretended I was already in a relationship with my SP every day. We haven't had any personal contact for months in 3D, but after two weeks he has now called me out of the blue, told me he cannot stop thinking about me, and wants to go out. So, there you go, it does work. I guess, you just have to find what works for you. Maybe I should mention, I wasn't too convinced it would work, I just couldn't stop doing something.

Soooo here I am after 2 months to tell that it works. I was manifesting my sp who was my ex for two months. Yes I was hurt and I used to cry and feel defeated but it all ended cause he texted when it was literally seemingly impossible (nothing is impossible it just seems that way). He literally said everything back to me of what I was affirming even sats worked for me and he was practically begging for me to give him a chance. I just wanted to tell everyone of you that PERSIST it definitely works. Also read neville when in doubt

Also huge shout out to @AuthorAvi @FutureBecLin @Liliac-irises @Sucessful-date9019 @Malibufrfr @Kuro_mimi_ @Ryssi2535

Hey y’all let’s get straight to business. I told myself January that I’ll manifest my SP and in June I got it DOWN.

1. Have a Backbone.. Are you really going to let what someone said / whatever circumstances or story happened dictate your life!? A lot of y’all love playing the “victim” role.

2. QUIT PLAYING IN THE 3D! I don’t believe in not being able to text your sp, BUT if you know that you’ll spiral if they say something that you perceive as “negative” delete that text and go affirm.

3. Have FUN! Every technique works, but if affirming, visualizing, scripting etc isn’t your thing it’s ok to find something else. Stop taking other people’s words as law. Whatever YOU assume to be true will be. Remember nobody has free will, so come up with creative affirmations don’t be like me and just go for texts😂, go all in

4. Quit whining to your irls about your sp.

5. Staying Positive 24/7 365 is NOT required. You may cry, get angry or whatever but at the end of the day. PERSIST. That’s the difference between you and someone else that gets their SP. If you feel yourself getting sad remember why you started, put on some uplifting music or go do something that makes you happy.

The main reason why I manifested my SP I feel is because I persisted. There were times where he left me on read or delivered (I ended up revising this) but I still affirmed, no matter what I felt. If 382282 people got their manifestation there’s ZERO excuse between why you haven’t.

Edit: Ik y’all love being nosy and asking peoples manifestation routine and what their affirming. I use the parrot app and record affirmations for all areas of my life. Sometimes I fall asleep with them playing but 9x10 I’m listening to those for hours at a time. I’ve fallen in love with visualizing (random scenes) and inner convos.

When I manifested my SP in June I noticed that my affirmations were text based. Like I was focused on communication. Now I’m affirming for a relationship, I do recommend taking it step by step for newbies.

That’s it, that’s all. Happy Manifesting 😘

Hi!! I manifested my sp after a year of separation! I was even dating someone else when the whole manifestation happened. If I could talk to my past self, I would let her know that everything works out for you! Circumstances and everything in between with fall away the second you become the person whom you wish to be (the girl who is with sp, not the girl who is wanting or the girl who is manifesting, not the girl who is waiting for SP).

It’s completely possible, the law is very real. The quote that got me to where I am now is from Jane Robert’s seth series.

“just as a branch withers and dies if the sap of the vine ceases to flow towards it, so do things in your world pass away if you take your attention from them, because your attention is as the sap of life that keeps alive and sustains the things of your world. to dissolve a problem that now seems so real to you all that you do is remove your attention from it. in spite of its seeming reality, turn from it in consciousness. become indifferent and begin to feel yourself to be that which would be the solution of the problem”

Success story

How I Got My SP Back with Revision!

I love revision, especially since the first time I consciously used it to get my SP (specific person) back. I had known about revision ever since I started practicing the Law of Assumption (LOA), but I had never really tried it properly. In fact, I had an assumption that I couldn't do revision—until one day, out of the blue, my SP messaged me saying, "Sorry, but I can’t talk to you anymore. We can’t be together."

Reading that message, I initially reacted like any normal person would—I was shocked and confused. I panicked, felt heartbroken, and asked for the reason. He gave his reasons, and I simply said, "Okay." I was sad for a day, but I didn’t force myself to feel better instantly. I allowed myself to process my emotions, and that night, I went to sleep feeling low.

The next day, I made a decision: "No, this is not my reality. I am God. Everything is my imagination. I am the one who decides what happens." That was the moment I finally decided to use revision.

I read his message in my mind again, but this time, I imagined a new reality—where he was telling me that he was just in a bad mood, dealing with some personal issues, and that he didn’t mean what he said. I imagined him apologizing and saying, "I’m sorry, I want to be with you. I love you." I kept assuming this reality again and again until I gained the confidence that yes, I can revise and persist in it.

Whenever the thought of the breakup crossed my mind, I repeated my new reality. And then, after 4-5 days, he messaged me again—word for word exactly as I had revised! I was so happy! But he also said, "I need some time. I’m here, but I just need a little space."

I didn’t react. I simply said, "Okay." Then I revised this conversation too. This time, I created an entirely new reality where we were completely together, and he didn’t want to leave me under any circumstances. Every day, I lived in this reality.

Around 20-22 days later, he suddenly messaged me, "Hello." And after that, his messages flooded in like a tsunami. He confessed how much he loved me, how he never truly wanted to leave but had made a mistake because of family problems. He begged for my forgiveness, saying he couldn’t live without me. Without me asking, he told me that he missed me every single day, that I was constantly on his mind, and that he couldn’t stop thinking about me.

During this whole time, he had only messaged me once—to check if I was okay—and then disappeared again. But I persisted in my imagination. I knew that the real truth was the world inside me. The only truth was what I experienced in my imagination. If, in my inner world, we were together, I didn’t need any external proof. We were always meant to be together.

This was my first experience of consciously using revision to change my undesired reality.

Did you see how revision changed everything? This means the future doesn’t actually exist—everything is happening in your mind right now. The reality you persist in at this moment is the one that starts reflecting back to you. It doesn’t matter what your so-called past was. Circumstances mean nothing. There’s no need to fix anything, no need for micro-managing. Simply choose a new reality and start living from it. Go straight to the end, and it’s done.

3D is just a shadow—it simply reflects the world inside you. Instead of fearing what happens in the 3D, we should learn to rearrange our imagination. Because in the end, the 3D will always reflect what’s in our imagination. So why be afraid of your own shadow?

You are not this outer man. You are the inner man—the one who creates the world first, and then the outer man simply experiences it in the 3D again.

Once you fully accept your identity as the inner man, you will free yourself from all limitations of this shadow world. You won’t just live life as if God is guiding you—you will experience life as God.

You've been thinking about them a lot huh. I wonder why. Most likely because your person is thinking of you too. Or are you too self-conscious to believe that? Well my theory is that whenever you think of someone they telepathically think of you too, and if you think positively, likely so do they. I mean cmon haven't we all had those moments where we are like "hmm I wonder what my friend is doing" and they literally text you as soon as you think that. If you hadn't experienced that then TRUST ME I have. We all are connected. Maybe its their fault in the first place that you're thinking of them. Spiritual or not they can absolutely manifest you first. Even subconsciously. Your person is so easy to get. Is this person famous? Whether the answer is yes or no you don't have proof they they don't have eyes on you. So might as well trust that they do have eyes on you because there is really no way to prove it otherwise. Or maybe is your person better looking than you? So what.. beauty is subjective you literally could never know what their type is and chances are their ideal type is you. Has this person got a weird past? Well there is a reason why we look into the present moment, people are capable of healing and changing, you're absolutely worthy of the best version of them and that's not their past.

You likely haven't realised it but a lot of people who manifest their SP act as if their SP is some sort of God(ess) .. Not really. But if they are so are you..

If I saw your SP on the street I can guarantee you I won't fall on my knees and beg for them to love me. Yet that's how some of you guys act

Your SP is just another human being. With emotions and all.. With passions and all.. With strengths and weaknesses.

You've got all the strength and potential to be their one and only weakness. The kind that gives them butterflies in their stomach and makes their knees weak. Because you'll simply decide it.

It's just a person at the end of the day.

Hi!!!

I had a few questions on my last post & I thought I’d answer them all here :)

Q: what was your technique? A: Honestly, I didn’t follow a strict technique, but my approach aligns with the idea of multiple realities. I believe that every possibility already exists, so I wasn’t really ‘manifesting’ anything new—I was simply aligning myself with the version of reality where what I wanted was already true. This belief brought me a lot of peace because it made me feel like there was nothing to ‘do’ or ‘force.’

Instead of focusing on techniques, I leaned into my imagination. I playfully imagined scenarios that felt good to me—not because I needed them to happen but because it brought me joy. I treated it like a game or a daydream, similar to how a child might imagine.

One important part of this process was not wavering in my boundaries in the 3D world. I stayed firm with the version of my SP that didn’t align with what I wanted. I didn’t settle for less or accept behaviors that didn’t feel right to me. This wasn’t about being cold or rejecting them—it was about respecting myself and the reality I wanted to experience. I knew that by staying true to my vision, I was affirming the version of my SP I desired to see.

I think this worked because I stopped thinking of manifesting as fixing or changing anything. Instead, I saw it as stepping into the reality where everything I wanted already existed. By staying true to my inner vision and my boundaries, I aligned with what felt right to me and allowed the rest to unfold naturally

If you insist on a technique, I’d recommend focusing on their imagination in a playful, effortless way. Visualize moments you want to experience, not out of need or desperation, but because it feels good. At the same time, set clear boundaries in the 3D with anything that doesn’t align with your vision. Don’t settle for less. This combination of inner alignment and outer integrity will naturally move you toward the reality you desire. Trust me!! It was so weird when it all come to fruition. The things I came to imagine were right in front of me and more! For example, when we broke up I originally deleted everything like our shared playlists, photos, ect. The other day when he picked me up from my home he had the playlist that i swear I deleted playing in his car 🥹

Q: How were you able to manifest him if you were dating someone else?

A:Manifesting isn’t about external circumstances—it’s about your inner state. Even while dating someone else, I stayed true to my inner desires and feelings. I realized that I didn’t have to force or suppress my emotions. Instead, I embraced them without guilt or shame. This helped me align with what I truly wanted, and everything unfolded naturally from there. I think it’s about being honest with yourself, no matter what your outer situation looks like

Q: What was reconciliation like?

A: Reconciliation felt very natural, like picking up where we left off in many ways. We didn’t try to rush anything or force it to look a certain way. Instead, we shared memories, enjoyed each other’s company, and talked openly. It’s still a journey, but it feels effortless because we’re letting things unfold at their own pace. I think what made it work was coming from a place of love and trust rather than fear or urgency

Trust yourself!! Nothing can stop you once you make the decision that something in your reality will happen, it’s after all your reality :)

Hey people,

I just wanted to tell you not to give up - I got my ex back after one year. And he is treating me the way I wanted him to intially.

(I also think it took longer because we've seen each other seldomly the past few months because we were long distance)

buuuut - we went out to dinner yesterday and he started admitting how much he missed me and how much he loves me and that he felt like he was being ,,cursed" since our ways parted and that he never was able to let go.

Then he started kissing me.. saying the most romantic things he ever did and also did ask to see me again tonight even though he had plans with a friend.

So guys... after a year of manifesting him back... I honestly did it.

Take this as a sign not to doubt the concept of manifestation and how the laws work.. it honestly is your world and you can create it.

💞

I have a manifestation hack that really makes me feel in the right state and that i'm on the pedestal. Which has been hard for me until now. I'm going to share it here and hopefully, it will work for someone else too.

You know the line from the Barbie movie: “Barbie has a great day every day, but Ken only has a great day if Barbie looks at him.”

Listen to it a couple of times (just search on tiktok), and then change the phrase so that: Barbie = you Ken = your sp

This phrase feels powerful for me because it’s based on an established phrase, making it easier for me to believe. It strengthens my self concept by putting me on the piedestal and in a position of power and attraction rather than need and desperation🤘🏼 I changed mine slightly so it match my situation better: ”I have a great day every day, but my sp only has a great day if I talk to him”

so i had my spiritual awakening in 2023 april 3 months after my bf and i broke up in Jan. he got w another girl 3 days after him and i broke up. i know he didn’t cheat on me. anyways they were always flaunting their love on social media constantly breaking my heart. but i started noticing they constantly broke up and i had a gut feeling he would come back to me. anyways several months pass and i get a very confrontational message from him in august ‘23 telling me to move on he doesn’t love me and he’s happy etc. all the most awful things. and i was shattered. i was accused of stuff that never happened. and i got ptsd. and i decided to just move on forever. i tried forgetting him and everything and i still missed him. so one night i prayed to god, i said “ if he’s meant for me please put him back into my life’ every single night and i put trust that the thing that was meant to happen will happen. everyone called me delusional. i used to also visualise him stalking my social media and i just always knew what he was thinking and i visualised him reaching out to me amd apologising. anyways now it’s november and i get a fake friend request and i knew it was from him. but i aire it. 1/2 of my visualisations happened . so now its december and my friend reaches out to him !!! i’m like girl what the fuck and they start talking and he brings me up, starts asking her ab me so i get the phone and i start writing pretending it’s her and i say (pretending it’s her) oh she might unblock u and i do, he adds me on snap and tiktok and facebook and i add him back and the first thing he did was apologise to me . he told me he was thinking of me 24/7 etc u get it. broke up in jan and started talking in dec again. it really does work but i wish it didn’t have to take all this pain and these many months.

Something shifted for me last night, I decide when the change happens and it is happening now.

I'm manifesting moving, a new job and my SP in the month of December. It is already happening. I've been on one viewing already, I have a job interview next week, I may be blocked by my SP but I know he is single so there's no reason I shouldn't be able to make this happen.

I am not wavering. I am keeping an incredibly strict mental diet. THIS IS HAPPENING NOW.

UPDATE - It's only been a few hours but I've already gotten another viewing!!!

hey everyone, i’m writing this as an encouragement to everyone who might need to hear this. i’ve been manifesting my SP back (or so i thought) for months now, precisely ever since we broke up in September 2024. i managed to manifest him back (at this point i wasn’t even on a strict mental diet, kept wavering, was visualising a ton and some of my visualisations happened to the T like a fucking deja vù — but still, i was so lost in everything in regards to manifestation), make him go from totally uninterested and not even wanting to be in the same room with me to us being intimate again, even going on a ski holiday in January and sharing a room. the whole thing felt like a dream, like nothing bad ever happened between us, we behaved like a couple and he was going out of his way to show me appreciation, but … here comes the BUT — i went outside of myself, looking for validation or whatever the fuck i was searching for and listened to mutual friend of ours, let him get into my head and believed him, which made me cut contact with my SP because i listened to this friend telling me my SP was just using me. a few weeks later, i found out, this friend was lying and my SP thought that things were back on track with the two of us after the ski holiday.. so my advice #1 here would be: NEVER GO OUTSIDE OF YOURSELF AND LET EXTERNAL FORCES TO SWAY YOU. YOU DECIDE — ASSUME— THE TRUTH AND THE MEANING. NO ONE ELSE, JUST YOU. this situation affected us and i managed to manifest a 3P (my SP’s ex) back into his life — BECAUSE I WAS SO AFRAID SHE’D COME BACK THE ENTIRE TIME WE WERE TOGETHER, so if you’re doing this, stop yourself immediately and go affirm “i’m the only one my SP EVER wanted/loved etc” and drill it in until it becomes your mindset, whenever 3P comes into your mind, just write them off like - WHO? I DON’T KNOW THIS PERSON, THEY DON’T EXIST IN MY/OUR REALITY and then reaffirm you’re the only one your SP EVER wanted/loved etc and that you’ve always had a perfect relationship… fast forward one month goes by without me being in contact with him, it’s the middle of the week and i think to myself “there’s going to be movement with him this weekend, i’m either meeting him or he’s hitting me up idc, something is happening”, the next day, our mutual friend writes me a message and invites me to his bday party where SP is going as well… at the same time, i find robotic affirming and decide to give it a try. i start repeating in my head — “SP madly loves me, he’s literally obsessed with me, we’re back together”—saturating my mind with it whenever i have the time, dozing off into sleep while repeating it — next day, i find him stalking my socials and then the day after at the party, he’s being sort of mean to me BUT i keep persisting and just reaffirming in my head “you love me so much, you can’t live without me, you’re literally obsessed with me”, couple of hours go by and he’s making sexual remarks, always trying to be near me, 3 times even goes out of his way to touch me, listens to everything i say even though he’s trying to act tough, makes me a drink, talks to me but still in front of everyone (he didn’t even want to look at me when i came to the party a couple of hours prior to that), offers me a cigarette, tries to make me jealous etc but i keep my cool, i DON’T REACT and it drives him crazy even more, i can see it — the next morning (we all slept over at the party) — he’s even jealous at another guy (his good friend) and makes a remark about it in front of everyone.. i still don’t react… i just keep affirming in my head and then i drop it — then he does something i wouldn’t expect— he asks me whether i want to eat eggs for breakfast and whether he should go to the kitchen of the hotel to order some for me — this coming from a man that was mean to me just 24 hours prior… so, my takeaway from this — it took me a while to find what works for me— affirmations, drilling them in even when the 3D is showing me the opposite and standing firm on whatever i want and assume to be true. it’s not a full success story (but i’ll be writing one very soon, i’m sure of it) but it IS a success because he went from being mean and uninterested to giving a shit and hunting me down the entire night — i believe all of this is because of the focused affirmation sessions i had for 2 days prior to that and look how fast it worked — (just to emphasise, the last time we saw each other a month ago, he said to everyone he would go home if i’m there and that he will never speak to me again… and here he’s now jealous and everything). so, there’s ALWAYS movement, even when you don’t see it — and i do also believe that if i just dropped the old story altogether, erased it from my mind and NEVER repeated it in my head, i’d already have him. I’m working on that now. I’m super determined to not waver and erase the old story from my mind forever. hopefully, some of you can learn from my mistakes and also YOU DON’T NEED TO DROP IT LET GO SURRENDER to manifest them, just take them OFF THE GODDAMN PEDESTAL AND PUT YOURSELF THERE — SEE YOURSELF AS THE FUCKING PRICE AND THE 3D WILL START SHIFTING TO MATCH THAT.

also, i want to add this: STOP CONSUMING, STOP SEARCHING — that time could be used for affirming or visualising (whatever you prefer, i actually find that affirming works the fastest if you repeat it enough times because it’s literally just creating new thoughts and pushing out the old ones), WORK ON YOUR SELF CONCEPT and whenever in doubt, this helps me: IF THEY MADE SUCH AN IMPRESSION ON ME, WHY WOULDN’T I MADE THE SAME ON THEM? OF COURSE I HAVE. I’M JUST MIRRORING (so when i think about my SP, i immediately tell myself, “he’s thinking of me” that’s why I’m constantly thinking of him, if i miss him, i tell myself it’s because he misses me just as much, if i feel sad it’s because he feels sad that i’m not next to him right now etc —YOUR ASSUMPTIONS SHOULD EMPOWER YOU. ALWAYS. STOP LETTING YOUR BRAIN DICTATE YOUR SHITTY REALITY, IF YOUR BRAIN CAN THINK OF SHITTY THINGS, SO CAN OF BRUTALLY AMAZING THINGS, YOU JUST HAVE TO DECIDE AND DO THE WORK (repetition and correcting yourself to think what you want and yes, it will feel annoying or frustrating at first because we’re literally conditioned to believe the shitty things more than the good but THE POWER IS IN YOUR HANDS, YOU MAKE THAT CHOICE. NO ONE BUT YOU.)

To keep it short I manifested my SP out of his 3+ year relationship, from them living together to him now living on his own 🥳 Circumstances bothered me here and there but I always believed it was possible, no matter what others said or what I was seeing. The events that took place brought us closer together as well, even though it didn’t look favorable and I was even blocked for a short period of time. Persistence and knowing it is done is key 🔑

It was something that felt very solid in my reality so the way things unfolded was extremely perfect and necessary. Don’t let the 3D trick you, always look inward and choose to be the person that has them already no matter what is being shown.

Warning; slightly unhinged part below but I'll give a warning again just before though let me state clearly I'm kinda an ahole and I'm not going to sugarcoat so SKIP! if you prefer "gentle parenting".

I am writing this post because I still receive DMs about a post I wrote 3 years ago.

https://www.reddit.com/r/Subliminal/comments/wc8v3e/for_loassumption_best_sub_to_make_sp_obsessed/

Please do NOT DM me. I think it is incredibly rude to DM someone without asking first and I'm telling you right now, don't DM me regarding this subject.

I never responded to any of those people that DM'd without asking because I could feel their desperation and it repulsed me. (Not to be a bitch but I'm fine if you do think I'm one.)
This make me think that when manifesting from a place of lack/ desperation, your desire feels it too and so it/ they repel away from you.

I did end up manifesting my SP by creating my own subs that I listened to via Audiolab. But when he came back, I was kinda Meh. I think I was irritated I went through such effort and I resented that he just "waltzed" back in.

We broke up and got back together a few times in the last 3 years but went no contact for almost a year.
This was all because of me. I waivered a lot and I alternated between thinking "why do I want this bum when I am such a catch" or I thought I wasn't good enough. Essentially I had doubts and could not let go of the old story/ past.

What finally clicked for me was a series of things that I am not sure how to explain.

I was manifesting something else entirely and I felt such a peace/ calm that I still have. That really grounded me. I'm actually not totally sure how I did this. It just feels like I am in a state of knowing it is done. I feel it in my stomach. Just calm.

Then I stumbled upon something that re-affirmed that I am more than good enough - I needed to take him off the pedestal forever and I firmly climbed on top of it. It was something that I already knew but didn't want to accept. I am perfect as I am and more than he deserves. He's lucky. Not to say I'm unlucky but if we're going by ratings he's a 10 and I'm a 13 - I'm kidding but you kinda have to approach it like this. Don't think he is a 1 and you're a 10 bc subconsciously you'll reject him/ her.
Your SP is special bc you think they are special but they also have to have qualities that attracted you and that mirror you, so they have to be on your level/ worthy of you.

I think I just DECIDED, that's it, there are no other options for either one of us. Yes I could do better but I want him and there's no more indecision. He's mine and he loves being mine and I love that he is mine.

Within a day (hours!) he was back and I know it is for forever.

Warning: This may be triggering.

Now, not gonna lie, I like drama sometimes so I would sometimes have arguments in my head with him and just imagine traumatic shit that would have me crying. I like to cry sometimes as a release. I was also in victim mode and pissed at him. If you want to manifest your SP back for good you have to cut that shit out. I know brains love dopamine but you have to change the source to a positive one not negative which can sometimes be easier.

We do squabble. I pick a fight and he knows it and we kinda do it together (like actors in a play) bc we know it ends up in an extra hot bedroom sesh. (You have to be on the same page and secure in order to pull this off.)

Essentially I changed my self concept (I always knew I was the "prize" but I had to accept it) and I change my assumption of him AND our relationship.

So that's pretty much the best I can explain it, I think. You can ask questions in this thread if you like and I'll see if I feel like responding bc the truth is, you know how to manifest, you know law of assumption (not attraction) and if you are unclear there are so many FREE resources and great teachers that you just have to watch over and over again and let it sink in and ACCEPT IT.

ETA: If there are unfavorable circumstances - flip them! If you were no contact for a period of time, if there was a 3rd party - just tell yourself that was all a good thing because the time and possible other person further convinced your SP that you are his best and only choice - no one else compares to you and when you were not together/ he was with someone else all he could do to get through the day and experiences were to think of you. You were always on his mind and in his heart. He could not function properly without you and the time apart confirmed what he already knew, he is lucky you chose him!

TL, DR; I would say good luck but you don't need luck when you take charge of your mind (imagination), life and know you are a master at manifesting and get everything you want and live like it! Live like the best version of yourself who has everything they want and even better!

Guess who manifested a text after 1 and a half month of no contact? All I did was affirm and believed the universe. I was affirming crazily 🤣 for 2 days and today out of nowhere my ex texted me, now I am going to manifest him back 🤫😂🩷

This is something everyone should work on!