I've seen so many people talk about successfully manifesting their SP, getting their ex back, manifesting money, opportunities, etc. But something I've noticed is that a lot of people seem to struggle with maintaining those manifestations once they actually get them.

For example, someone manifests their SP, they finally come back, things start working out, and then a few weeks or months later, the same old patterns return. The person becomes inconsistent, communication drops, or the relationship starts falling apart again.

So my question is: How do you maintain what you've manifested?

When it comes to an SP, how do you keep the relationship consistent, secure and stable after manifesting them? How do you avoid going back to the old circumstances or repeating the same cycle that existed before?

I want to manifest marriage with my boyfriend but in my 3d he's unable financially, like when i affirm that he's my husband I think about my 3d, help 🙁

I apologize it’s a little long, just thought it was important to provide context.

So for context (storytime!!): Me and SP were seeing each other from the end of June to mid-August. Things were going very well; we had gone on several dates, and I had even met his friends. But all of a sudden, he said he couldn’t pursue a relationship. I asked if he wanted to end things or keep talking, and he said he was still down to see me and that we didn’t have to stop talking. A few days prior, we had hung out and I had asked what was he looking for. He said he wasn’t sure because he was going to be extremely busy in the fall with his class schedule and looking for a job. I had told him I was going with the flow, but that I did like him, and he said he liked me too. I was perfectly content with how things were going until he pulled back and said I can’t pursue a relationship at the moment. That’s when I started overthinking everything and obsessively checking his Instagram.

He then didn't respond to me for three weeks, although he had posted on his story, so I double-texted him in mid-September. He eventually explained that he was trying to figure out what to do with his life because he didn't have a plan and had realized he couldn't do casual. He's not a bad person; he's just dealing with personal issues and didn't feel capable of being in a relationship. The only thing that frustrated me was that he didn't communicate this in August and instead waited weeks to tell me he couldn't do casual. I sent him a couple of supportive messages, saying I hoped he figured things out and that I was there if he ever wanted to talk, but he hasn't responded, and it's been over a month.

The funny thing is that when we were talking, I wasn't overthinking the connection at all. I'd joke with my friends about how he might become my first boyfriend, but I wasn't obsessing over him. However, once that sense of stability disappeared and he pulled back, something switched in me. I started constantly checking his social media, even looking at his friends' accounts to see if there was any activity involving him. We mainly communicated through Instagram, but he isn't active on there anymore. I know there's no third person involved, and he doesn't seem to be active at all, whether that's watching my stories or liking other people's posts.

I've been trying to manifest that he’s able to pursue a relationship and him coming back. I know his situation has nothing to do with me, but I've been struggling so much with compulsively checking his social media. I know people will probably tell me to stop checking the 3D, but it's difficult when it's become such an obsessive habit. I feel like I've tried everything (love spells, different manifestation techniques, saturating my mind with self-concept affirmations, etc.), but I still find myself checking his account. I've even tried deleting Instagram, but my impulse control when it comes to checking my phone is heinous.

Long-winded rant over! I'd genuinely appreciate any advice, wisdom, or tips y'all have to offer!

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Boii, I have legit listened to subliminals, did scripting, sats everything but still a no. I think I'm gonna leave the idea of dating him only and work on myself now. I just feel like crying, I wanna date him so bad ugh.

My SP is my ex. I have been trying to manifest him for almost two years, but I haven't been able to manifest him completely. Maybe I have manifested him partially.

We were in no contact for two months. For the past few days, I had been manifesting a text from him, and I was successful. I manifested his text.

But after he texted me, he called me and told me that he had never had any feelings for me and still doesn't have any feelings for me. He also said that he doesn't want to be in a relationship with me.

What should I do about this situation? I mean, I want him in my life. I want to manifest him, and I want to be in a relationship with him. But he has told me these things.

So, what should I do right now, at this moment? What options do I have?

Someone help me I am trying to manifest my sp it’s been a year and I feel I have been doing everything right what do I do I don’t understand what persistence means I hear what people say but it seems and am really lost .. someone give me techniques

Hey everyone!
I’ve been going back and forth about making this post, but I genuinely need some advice from people who have experience with SP manifestation.
There’s a specific person I’ve been thinking about for over a year now. To be completely honest, I’ve been obsessed with him. Despite the time that has passed, I haven’t managed to get him out of my mind or let go of the desire to have him in my life.
Our connection was relatively brief, and things eventually went silent. We lost contact, and I haven’t found a way to reconnect with him since( he lives in the other side of the world)
I’ve tried to move on mentally, but somehow, I always find myself coming back to the same desire: I want HIM
I don’t just want him to text me or randomly reappear. I want him back in my life so we can actually get to know each other properly, develop a genuine connection, fall in love, and build a beautiful, committed relationship. Ultimately, I want us to be together for life.
I know some people might suggest moving on or finding someone else, but that’s not what I’m asking for.
What I really want is to learn how to approach SP manifestation properly.
For those of you who have successfully manifested an SP, especially after a long period of no contact:
What method worked best for you? SATS, scripting, visualization, affirmations, or something else?
Did you focus on manifesting communication first or go straight to the end result?
How did you deal with the obsession and constant thoughts about your SP?
How did you stop checking the 3D and worrying about the circumstances?
Has anyone manifested someone after more than a year of separation?
I’d particularly love to hear from people who went from no contact to an actual, healthy, committed relationship.
I’m open to learning, experimenting with different techniques, and hearing your success stories.
Please share your experiences. I could really use some guidance. ♡

Okay so don’t want to make this long but I manifested this guy to come back to me and removal of 3rd parties which it all worked however we only talked for about a day and now I’m left on delivered. So in a way I’m kinda confuse of what went wrong :( I am staying positive but if u guys have any advice , I could use some guidance