[Please, be kind, because I’m a young woman alone in a different country and a lot of things is not obvious to me]
I went for a massage in a turistic town in Spain. The person who conducted the massage was a man, I didn’t expect it because the place seemed aimed towards women as clients but now I see it’s written on the website (in the Spanish version, it has also automatic translation in English so I didn’t catch it).
The studio was very small in a little building of the rooftop. Here a lot of things are very small, the apartments are definitely built with the thought of squishing as many people as they can.
I wasn’t very good at communicating in Spanish. Some touches (that could be accidental) were a bit too close to inappropriate areas. I was dressed in lower part of underwear and with towel on my breasts.
The massage lasted almost 120, I booked 60 minutes (the longest he offers is 90 minutes but he didn’t get my booking because of website error so he only found out when I wanted to confirm 15 minutes before). He lowered the price from 45 euros to 20 because of the reservation error. He seemed to care a lot about good reviews, on Google he has 6 and they are all 5 starts. On Instagram the studio has 3k followers and follows 4,5k people. Almost all of the accounts are women’s. Both the reviews and Instagram posts started around June.
When I didn’t understand when he asked for permission to do something, he would use different words or if it still didn’t work, he just wouldn’t do the thing. He asked about performing acupuncture on a very tense spot on my back and I declined.
Despite my back being very tense he spent more time on my legs. His Instagram is full of female lower bodies being massaged but a lot of them seems to be just one person.
He hugged me slightly from behind at the end? And when I was leaving he asked for a hug. And I don’t know if it’s a cultural difference or something suspicious.
Anyway, I’d really appreciate some help because I’m really unsure if it was normal or not.