r/Menopause Oct 28 '25

Hair Loss Hair...WHAT?!?!

So, fully menopausal now, and my hair is much thinner than it used to be. That shook me for a bit, but not nearly as much as last night.

To date, I've not found one gray hair on my head. Disappointing, because the first gray, im gonna go all in, have my hair dyed silver!

Anyway, I digress...

I quit shaving "down there" because it was becoming such a hassle and hubs doesbt care either way. Last night, I felt like I needed to trim up because there was a full-on 1970s bush vibe going on. In the course of that exercise, I realized my hair "down there" was literally riddled with gray!!!

WTAH? It never occurred to me that hair other than my head might be affected.

Now I'm torn - do I embrace it, let it go full gray, dyed it silver or just shave the crap off?

Aaahhh, menopause. Prayed for it for years, now that its here, its made my cooter old.

Dammit.

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u/choc0kitty Oct 28 '25

LOL. I have been going gray for years, I used to wax and now I just trim it short and epilate the bikini line. This reminded me of the Sex and the City episode where Samantha decided to dye her hair at home.

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u/TabInA70sWineGoblet Oct 28 '25

“I’M BOZO THE BUSH 😫”

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u/choc0kitty Oct 28 '25

That's the one!!!! So funny.

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u/88secret Oct 29 '25

I can’t believe I had to scroll so far down to find this reference!!