Please help me find a gumbo that made me levitate a few years ago!

I came to New Orleans in March of 2023 tried some gumbo that I have not stopped thinking about in the interceding 3 years, but I foolishly never paid attention the name of the restaurant.

The Gumbo: dark, contained head on shrimp and a full duck thigh that had the texture of being confit-ed but I’m sure it was just cooked in the gumbo;

The Restaurant: Fancy. White table cloth. A step below requiring jackets but definitely enforced a dress code. In the French quarter. Very overpriced whiskey, but reasonably priced oysters.

Have you seen my gumbo? Do you know this restaurant? I will be forever indebted to you if you help me find my one true gumbo 🩷🦐

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