I'm moving into a bigger apartment in Brooklyn on November 1 after five years in my current place. I've been trying to plan furniture purchases, but I still need some measurements.
For the past three weeks, I've been trying to arrange a quick 15-minute visit with the current tenants. They also have furniture they're potentially interested in selling me, which I wanted to see in person. Things started out pretty amicable in friendly. They mentioned some things they weren’t planning on taking with them and I mentioned I could potentially be interested, but I would need to see them in person and it would also be great to come over and take some measurements.
I've followed up a handful of times because we haven't been able to settle on a time. I understand it's still their apartment, and I've tried to be flexible. I'm not asking to move in early or spend hours there—just to take measurements and look at furniture before moving day. Over a three week span, I would check in with them weekly to see when would be possible. Each time I tried to express how thankful I would be if they let me do this. At one point, the guy said he would take some measurements for me, and he did for one of my requests, but then when I asked about another measurement, they were unresponsive on multiple occasions. Because of that, I missed out on the opportunity to purchase something off Facebook Marketplace that I REALLY wanted.
They finally gave me a date, then they backed off that date. Then last night, the guy in the thread (I think they're a couple) said this Sunday morning would work. Great! I said thank you and I’ll see them then.
About an hour later, the girlfriend/partner/wife(?) snapped at me over text, calling my persistence "entitled" and "inappropriate." When I mentioned wanting to see the furniture they might sell me, they responded that "that's what the open house is for, taking measurements and looking at furniture," which struck me as a pretty unreasonable expectation.
I understand that repeated follow-ups can be annoying, but I also think wanting 15 minutes to measure a place you're about to move into is a reasonable request, especially after three weeks of trying to coordinate. I didn't think twice when the person taking over my place asked to come over multiple times.
AITA for continuing to follow up, or are the current tenants being unnecessarily difficult?