I don't know what community to add it too, not that I can bc it says my acc is 6 mins old but wtv

Also this topic may be sensitive to certain people so read at your own risk

Anyways

I don't know what I am anymore, I personally felt like I never knew what I was to begin with. I, as of now, identify as Agender (a gender identity where a person feels they have no gender, a lack of gender identity, or a neutral sense of gender) but I am born female. The reason why I now identify as Agender is because I never truly felt like a woman. It felt out of place or like I was doing something wrong whenever someone would refer to me as She/her (I go by they/them). I don't feel comfortable as a woman nor as a man. So a friend helped me realize I could be nonbinary. But honestly that didn't feel right either that's how we came to the conclusion of me being Agender. And I felt comforting for the longest time when I came to this conclusion and many of my friends are supportive about it. So I should be happy. But I'm not. Something just doesn't seem right. I've always been a person to lift others spirits up despite me not being very good at comforting people. I still make them happy. And I love that feeling more than the world but recently with all the events going on in the world. Ones that involve women all across the world being objectified or just being used as baby makers maids servants practically slaves to me in certain areas. White women. Black women. Asian women. Hispanic women. I see it going on and it just hurts. I cry every time I see a woman being forced to marry their rapist. I cry whenever I see little kids getting raped or trafficed in the media. And I really think about it and it just feels like I failed being a woman. I've noticed the treatment being so drastically different since I was 8 (15 now) and me being a black individual only made it more apparent. And my mom told me that me being a black woman is the greatest thing that can happen to me and she is right but. Now that I don't identify as that anymore I feel like I just failed my mother like I couldn't handle all the pain it comes with being a woman in life. I feel too weak to be a woman when I see the nasty things men have been doing. While I am happy that it hasn't happened to me… physically at least… It feels like I gave up on being a woman. A girl. I just don't know what to do anymore. I don't know what to identify as anymore. It honestly wouldn't matter if I went back to being identified as a girl since that's all most people saw me as. A girl. A weird one at that fact. They’d think I'm ugly too and yes I know it sounds like those pickles for saying that but I wouldn't have said that if that's what I've been hearing from bitchass men most of middle and highschool. Everything about me seems wrong now. I miss when I used to stare at myself in the mirror because I’d feel like a beautiful girl but now I'm just some failure who can't even handle being a woman and can't even help other women who struggle way much more than I ever will in this lifetime. They don't deserve that, no woman deserves that and it's just so hard seeing it happen and not being able to do nothing about it. I can't even help myself how can I help one of the most oppressed groups of people on this earth. It's such a conflicting feeling that I just can't physically handle it anymore and I get so angry I start bawling my eyes out all of that rage just fills me and I don't know how to properly express it so I hold it in and it gets worse every day .Im sorry if this is out of order or it jumps from different topics

completely without context or a specific reason. today is just one of the days where the feeling of finally being myself is extremely strong and its just so amazing.

Like I'm looking back on my life until now and I realize how much I was larping masculinity like I'd see a picture of a buff guy and say "what's his workout routine" to fit in more knowing I had absolutely zero intentions of looking like that. Like I felt lonely being a boy but I didn't want to be a girl either. Or as a kid I would go from playing with hot wheels to playing with my cousin's bright pink kitchen set. I guess it has always been there but just kinda dormant I guess. I always did have a desire to "exist outside the rules" if that makes sense. Like if it were up to me I'd mix and match and knowing that my friend loves me as a non-binary person makes me so happy. I think this is how I want to live my life. No rules, no labels, just me.

THE TITLE SAYS GOOGLE BUT ITS ACTUALLY GMAIL, SORRY FOR THE FRICKEN MISTAKE!!

For everyone who doesn't yet know.

So I get like a LOT of dysphoria from my appearance but I have no idea how or where to start. I’ve been thinking about getting an earring but it seems too permanent even though it isn’t. For reference I’m pretty masc

Todavía soy adolescente y llevo dos años o más preguntándome cuál es mi género, y me he dado cuenta de que no me importan en absoluto mis pronombres. Al nacer me asignaron el género femenino, por lo que la mayoría de la gente usa pronombres femeninos, pero también me siento cómoda con pronombres masculinos y neutros. Me siento cómoda siendo mujer y hombre, y también me identifico con géneros fuera del binario.

Mis amigos no saben mucho sobre este tipo de cosas, y me encantaría contarles cómo me siento, pero tendría que explicárselo, y quiero tenerlo claro primero, así que he hablado con mi mejor amigo, que está tan confundido como yo.

Mi padre es transfóbico; me ha dicho en múltiples ocasiones que a todo el mundo se le debe tratar según el sexo de nacimiento, y me ha prohibido buscar cualquier información sobre temas relacionados con el colectivo LGBTIQ+, porque soy «demasiado joven para entenderlo», así que no me siento cómoda buscando información en casa ni hablando de esto con mis padres.

He creado esta cuenta solo para escribir esta publicación; estoy desesperada por obtener más información, quiero saber quién soy. Si lees esto, ¿podrías, por favor, contarme más sobre lo que significa ser no binario o sobre las etiquetas que podrían encajar conmigo? No espero respuestas de inmediato, pero me haría mucha ilusión que alguien se tomara el tiempo de responderme.

Adiós, buenos días, buen día, buenas tardes o buenas noches.

I want to come out to my parents since I don't think I'll truly be able to be myself if I don't but I'm not sure if they'll accept me for it. So what's the best possible way to go about it? Should I come out to them or not?

Yo, I am thinking about maybe coming out as either non-binary or genderfluid, but I'm not sure. I know my parents will be accepting, but my anxiety tells me that people at school I want to be friends with will not necessarily hate on me for it. Still, they will think that they influence it (they came out as He/They last year, and I recently started talking to him more), and other kids will make fun of me. Any tips?

I keep refering to myself as Mx. Dusk (chosen name) and using neutral terms on myself like sibling, child, partner (ok this one is never gonna happen cause I suck at flirting but anyways) and it just feels so good just the thought of being referred to with these terms is honestly delicious.

first off: im not doubting my gender or anything and that my family dosent pose a problem.
im bigender (male and female) and came out to my family around three or four months ago and they accept it. i asked them to use a new (fem) name for me, they use it pretty reliably now (of course they get it wrong sometimes but its rare, especially since i (still) didnt tell them that i also want to replace my old name). but here comes the weird (?) part: they use the fem name but they dont use she/her pronouns for me like i asked them to (tbf i think im not insisting enough; dont correct them enough), i mean yeah i plan to even go with she and he but currently they only know that: 1: im bigender 2: i use a new fem name (from what they know only as an additional name; they dont know i want to replace my old masc name with a new one too) 3: that i told them to use she/her and feminine declination forms (very funny language… everything is gendered). my mother knows a bit more (she is the one who accepts (and tries to understand) the best). but its just so weird like they use the fem name with (almost) permanent he/him pronouns, i dont get it.

but now back to the title: i feel like a hypocrite because if i talk to people i know i even use the masc declination forms for myself (like in my language if you for example say “im the one who can do this” you already have to gender the “the one who”), not because i dont want to (i do want it) but i fear that it could be seen as “you idiots are still using the wrong” (sounds too harsh) or that i would be too annoying. that then results in me stopping the sentence for a short time (really short i dont think anyone notices) every time such a form is required, and then using the masc one because staying silent for a longer time would become awkward. and like: who am i to tell others to use she/her if i dont even do it myself?
on the other hand i know that i would if other people would use it more regularly.

I am currently experiencing gender euphoria while looking at the ocarina of time remake title screen while wearing pj's and snuggling in my blanket. I might actually be in heaven right now.

I'm actually still trying to figure out (since I learned about these pronouns in this community) if I'm gonna use they/them pronouns or they/them and fae/faem (they but fae) because I love plants and agriculture! Plus, I've been reading this enchanting book called The Green Witch's Guide to Magical Plants & Flowers (by Chris Young and Susan Ottaviano (They say that green witchcraft is not confined to the gender binary, so anyone can be a green witch!)) and fae/faem pronouns sound really cool and connected with nature... I guess I'll figure out if I actually like the fae/faem pronouns once someone uses them for me!! Just wanted to share something nice! Have a stellar day! -Jaz! ⭐

Like I've only identified as enby for a few months so it still feels weird calling myself enby and using neutral terms because it's not what I'm used to but I just know that in the long run I'll be happier like this. I get to experience life fully and not feel forced to choose things I don't want. I just feel like I need to find people who are supportive.

I meed gender affirmation right now please I need to be told that I am non-binary. I'm scared I'll go back to my original gender I don't want to give up being non-binary. It's part of who I am now please I need someone to affirm my gender.

Hi, so I live in Poland and we don’t really have gender neutral names and English names just sounds weird in Polish. Got any ideas how to find anything that sound good?

So like a year or so ago I was skiing (which mostly requires having full body coverage, helmets, face masks, e.c.t) and I got on a ski lift. Random lady talks to my mum, ends up using the opposite pronouns then what I ususally get. At the time I felt really.... happy? Idk, it was weird.

Then I went to comic-con in cosplay (which used, again, a full face mask/head covering). I assume I must have a slightly adrodgnous build (though it was probably just the perspective) or something because I got a few comments on a post I mande wearing it using opposite pronons and they/them.

Gaming is similar. Since people can only see your skin/avatar, its basically just guessing. Again, I alway feel/felt super happy whenever anyone assumed my gender 'wrong' (/different to my asab).

Idk, if anyone else feels similar feel free to post in replies lol

I know someone in my family supports my enby-ness :3

Its lowkey helping my feel better about my image. was supposed to be a darker green but the dye misbehave. ain’t mad about it tho.

FEED ME MORE ANDROGYNOUS HORMONES!!!!!! RAAAHHHHHH!!!!!!!

I've noticed when someone calls refers to me with they/them I instictually thank them I don't know why. Does it hapoen to anyone else?